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Sabrina is joined today by Dr. Ramani, a clinical psychologist, who describes narcissism as a maladaptive personality style rooted in low empathy, appearance focus, and a need for admiration, with insecurity and shame at its core. Children of narcissistic parents often experience guilt, anxiety, and low self-esteem. Sabrina speaks to her personal experiences with a narcissistic parent. Dr. Ramani dives into the nuanced topic of knowing when to walk away as an adult child which involves setting boundaries, understanding the individual’s journey, and prioritizing therapy. Co-parenting with a narcissist presents immense challenges, requiring prioritization of children's well-being and seeking professional support. Overall, the impact of narcissistic behavior on familial relationships and psychological well-being necessitates understanding, boundary setting, and therapeutic intervention. Get Dr. Ramani's book 'It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People' Snag Sabrina's 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Don't forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Get free shipping and 365 Day returns on Quince.com HERE! Get 15% off your entire Lume order HERE! Code is DOTHEWORK Get 15% off your subscription of Fatty15 HERE! Code- DOTHEWORK

Sabrina talks with guest Anna Przy about the mental health journey that led to her current ventures. Addressing mental health needs can be a complex process, and the journey is not always straightforward, which can make it unappealing to some. In their conversation, Sabrina and Anna discuss the transition from treating mental wellness as a taboo subject to being open to receiving help and sharing the wisdom behind accepting help. Both emphasize how shame around seeking help causes breakdown before realizing "I'm not okay." Anna shares how finding love and marriage not long after pursuing her mental health journey changed her perception of living life for herself, but also loving living her life with her husband. Accepting the possibility of growing apart from people during your mental health journey is crucial. It is a testament to becoming secure after healing. Prioritizing mental health enables setting boundaries to overcome setbacks like imposter syndrome, anxiety, and burnout from the expectation of constant productivity. Get Anna Przy's new book, “Keep It Up, Cutie! A Not-Quite Self-Help Book” Snag Sabrina's 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Don't forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Go 20% off your first order and free shipping with Chomps HERE! Get 10% off your first month of Betterhelp HERE! Get Zocdoc for FREE HERE!

Sabrina gets real about dating fatigue and common misconceptions during and after dating. Does it ever end after you get into a relationship? She breaks down the sources of exhaustion and how to counter it by focusing on what you can control about the dating experience. You can create a life around your dating experience and still feel the highs and lows of dating. It is essential to validate those emotions before re-evaluating the exhaustion. Your expectations of the dating experience need to change and include being practical about the pace of getting to know someone. Sabrina lays out what it means to go slow while dating and how it can help you make the most of the dating experience. Snag Sabrina's 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Don't forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Get 10% off your first month of Betterhelp HERE! Get $10 off and FREE shipping at Nutrofol HERE! Code is DOTHEWORK Get 15% off on your entire first order HERE! Code is DOTHEWORK

Sabrina and Lisa Bilyeu delve into the topic of navigating people-pleasing. Lisa's life experiences, which led to her business venture and her latest book, Radical Confidence, are a testament to the fact that finding the confidence to voice your needs and wants is a journey that can start at any point in life. It's not about waiting for confidence to come first, but about taking action despite the fear. Lisa's journey is a powerful reminder that the discovery of confidence often involves confronting failure and addressing the source of fear through action. Snag Sabrina's 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Don't forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Get your first Book of the Month for just $5 with code PETALS HERE! Get 15% off on your entire first order HERE! Code is DOTHEWORK Get 15% off your subscription of Fatty15 HERE! Code- DOTHEWORK

This week, Sabrina sits down with Matthew Hussey and the two delve deep into the complex world of love and relationships, share invaluable insights on the pitfalls of cherishing potential over reality in romantic pursuits. Sabrina opens up about the personal journey that led her to understand the futility of chasing after the unavailable, and discover how tough conversations became the pivotal tool for recognizing genuine reciprocity in her relationships. Our conversation navigates through the intriguing concept of "living in the blue" within text message exchanges, signifying the balance of effort in communication. Matthew bravely parallels chronic physical pain with the emotional toll of being single, leading to a candid discussion about the pursuit of happiness, whether alone or with a partner. Get Matthew's Book 'Love Life' here Snag Sabrinas 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Get free shipping on orders over $75 at Skims HERE! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select Do The Work in the dropdown menu that follows. Get 10% off your first month of Betterhelp HERE! Get 15% off Oneskin with code DOTHEWORK HERE!

How do you know you are ready for a relationship? Sabrina explores that difficult question because so much gets lost in the weeds for people. Being ready means accepting rejection in dating, but that's ok because you aren't for everyone. Once you delve into the layers that make you, you, it will be clear what you want and need in a partner. You can recognize that living a fulfilling life is with your partner and independent of your partner. The healing will pave the way to entering a secure relationship because of your self-security. Snag Sabrinas 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Get free shipping and 365 Day returns on Quince.com HERE! Get $10 off and FREE shipping at Nutrofol HERE! Code is DOTHEWORK Get Zocdoc for FREE HERE!

Sabrina explores the ins and outs of the healing journey with Masha, which revolves around nervous system regulation and self-trust development. Nervous system dysregulation goes hand in hand with how we view ourselves and our perception of reality. How can we validate our feelings despite dysregulation and our distorted perception of reality and decide on the best decision? Masha delves into how “trusting yourself” starts with trusting your emotions, holding space for processing your emotions, and then paving the way to decide. The decision may not be the best down the road (is there ever a definite and immediate way to know?), but as long as it honors what you were feeling at the moment and you accept the consequences down the road. Snag Sabrinas 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Want to work with Masha? Use code DOTHEWORK250 to get $250 off her Mind-Body Recalibration Formula course Please support our sponsors! Get free shipping on orders over $75 HERE! Select "podcast" in the survey and be sure to select Do The Work in the dropdown menu that follows. Get 15% off on your entire first order HERE! Code is DOTHEWORK Get your Lume starter kit $5 off HERE! Code is DOTHEWORK

Sabrina sits down with Mark Groves and his partner, Kylie McBeath, for a conversation on their dating journey, which leads them from breaking up to finding each other again years later. When they first parted ways, they were confronted with the logic behind why it had to end and what they each had to work on. After their closing ceremony, a collective decision to end the relationship with a series of questions and reflections, they each worked on addressing their codependencies and why their relationship was not serving them as individuals. Healing involved figuring out what Kylie began with sourcing from men or a relationship with Mark. They both reflect on the series of tools such as somatic therapy, financial competence, and creating a safe space for feeling a range of emotions as individuals and liberation that brought them back to one another. Snag Marks book HERE! Snag Sabrinas 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Get 15% off your subscription of Fatty15 HERE! Code- DOTHEWORK Save $10 on your first purchase of Storyworth HERE! Get 10% off your first month of Betterhelp HERE!

Sabrina and the tech guy sit down for a meaningful chat and Q&A session about their dating journey and experiences. We gain perspective on the dos and don'ts, responsibilities (e.g., who should pay for the date), the honeymoon phase, and boundaries. They delve into the recipe for compatibility, working past friction points, and creating a safe space for each other. They offer honest opinions on how to date securely. Snag Sabrinas 8 week course HERE! Get Ad free and 2 Bonus episodes a month HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Give online therapy a try and get 10% off a month with Betterhelp!  betterhelp.com/dtw Get ASPCA pet insurance HERE! Get 50% off Factor meals HERE!

On this weeks episode of Do the Work podcast, Sabrina opens up about her personal journey in the dating world, transitioning from repeatedly choosing toxic relationships to healthy ones. The first step is to recognize our own toxic behaviors, such as ignoring red flags. Ultimately, a healthy relationship requires two emotionally available and secure individuals. By practicing radical self-acceptance, we remain true to ourselves and are honest about our desires and what we bring to the relationship. Sabrina's current relationship has taught her that cultivating healthy communication and reflecting on past mistakes is crucial for contributing to a secure and healthy relationship. Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! Get 20% off your starter kit and FREE shipping with Thesis HERE! Code- DOTHEWORK Get 15% off Oneskin with code DOTHEWORK HERE! Get $10 off and FREE shipping at Nutrofol HERE! Code is DOTHEWORK

On this weeks episode of Do the Work, Sabrina and guest Quin Padilla discuss navigating life and love after divorce. Quin Padilla is a therapist and wellness coach specializing in nervous system regulation and trauma healing. She shares her experiences of dating, finding love, and marriage as a single mom after her divorce. As a single parent, it includes navigating taboos about dating too soon after your divorce, being transparent about being a single parent, and telling your date right away that you do or don’t want more children. It’s a lot, and we go over it ALL!  Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Please support our sponsors! Give online therapy a try and get 10% off a month with Betterhelp!  betterhelp.com/dtw Get ASPCA pet insurance HERE! Get $60 FREE gift today & 30% OFF your first order on Thrive Market HERE!

*TRIGGER WARNING! We do discuss eating disorders in this episode. On this weeks episode of Do the Work podcast, Sabrina is joined by her big sister Jaimie Bailey for a heart-to-heart talk on trauma and its manifestation in her relationship with food. Jaimie is a holistic nutritionist passionate about wellness and a healthy relationship with food and diet and she has her own indoor cycling studio in San Diego called Grindhouse Cycle.  Jaimie talks about how trauma initially manifested itself with her and her fixation on tiny details about herself. Her older brother's addictions began to influence her choices and her addiction to the high. Her household environment was hostile and lacked joy, so her feeling of joy was tied to substances. It also led to the avoidant attachment style because of coping alone and the lack of trust in others to protect her.  Jaimie shares her experiences with body shape changes in high school and while living in New York. She lost weight through healthy lifestyle changes, but her home environment led to her experiencing body dysmorphia. Jaimie realizes that her relationship with food has been influenced by her need to be numb and avoid addressing her unresolved inner child issues.  Her now partner, Ashton, supported her during her relapses of indulging in food over the years. Her discovery of a holistic nutrition program introduced a new way of looking at food as a source of anxiety. Jaimie reflects on how working with her clients is like turning pain into purpose, yet she sometimes feels like an imposter because of shame. The susceptibility to relapse is there; she had to figure out how to make peace with it all daily.  However, at the end of the day, her radical acceptance of her addictions helps her to be fully present for her clients. Her current approach to food is to consider all the factors that affect her relationship with it and whether each meal will provide her with the necessary energy. The first step in dealing with a problem like binge eating is understanding why it is happening. Once you have this understanding, you can decide to rise above it and prevent it from happening again.   Check out Grindhouse cycle in Encinitas CA and take Jaimies class HERE! Want to work with Jaimie? Insta and Stan Store ! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Please support our sponsors! Give online therapy a try and get 10% off a month with Betterhelp!  betterhelp.com/dtw Get free shipping and 365 Day returns on Quince.com HERE! Get 40% off your subscription of Earth Breeze HERE!

On this weeks episode of Do the Work podcast, Sabrina is joined by therapist Ken Reid to talk about avoidant attachment, how it shows up in dating ,understanding why Avoidants retreat and how their triggers manifest in relationships! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Please support our sponsors! Get $5 off your Magic Spoon variety pack HERE! Get 50% off Factor meals HERE! Join me on Open for 30 days free, head to withopen.com/DOTHEWORK

On this weeks episode of Do the Work podcast, Sabrina goes over compatibility VS the spark (and how chasing that is detrimental to your dating life) and the difference between the ‘ick’ and standards! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Please support our sponsors! Give online therapy a try and get 10% off a month with Betterhelp!  betterhelp.com/dtw Get Zocdoc for FREE HERE! Get 20% off your starter kit and FREE shipping with Thesis HERE! Code- DOTHEWORK

On this weeks episode of Do the Work, Sabrina is joined by Neuropsychotherapist Britt Frank! Sabrina and Britt chat about love and social media addiction, the addiction cycle and what happens in your brain during rejection! Snag Britts workbook HERE! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Get 15% off Oneskin with code DOTHEWORK HERE! Get ASPCA pet insurance HERE! Get $60 FREE gift today & 30% OFF your first order on Thrive Market HERE!

On this weeks episode of Do the work podcast, Sabrina is joined by Dr. Nicole Lepera to talk about Self healing, forgiveness, victimhood and how to hold yourself accountable! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Please support our sponsors! Give online therapy a try and get 10% off a month with Betterhelp!  betterhelp.com/dtw Get Zocdoc for FREE HERE! Get 3 extra months free on Express VPN HERE! Want to shop Softwear? Get 20% off your first order with code- DOTHEWORK

On this weeks episode of Do the work podcast, Sabrina goes over unrealistic vs reasonable expectations in dating and how to clearly communicate and navigate uncertainty! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! 

On this weeks episode of Do the Work, Sabrina is joined by flirt coach Benjamin Camras to chat about flirting dos and donts, how to approach people on the apps and in the wild, and how to build your confidence in dating! Want to work with Sabrina? HERE! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok!

On this weeks episode of Do the Work, Sabrina is joined by Masha Kay to chat about what it *actually* means to love yourself and to release shame and blame especially around Valentines Day! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Stay at the Foundry in Joshua Tree, Check them out on AIRBNB! Want to work with Sabrina? Click HERE

On this weeks episode of "do the work" Sabrina is joined by therapist Sarah Ann Lafluer to chat about inner child work, how to heal through abandonment/rejection and how unresolved childhood trauma seeps into every aspect of your dating life! Dont forget to follow Sabrina and Do the Work on instagram and Sabrina on Tik tok! Want to work with Sabrina? Click HERE