Peace and Parenting: How to Parent without Punishments

Ever wonder if letting your kids fail could actually be the best thing for them? Today, we're diving into the counterintuitive but transformative idea that failure is not only okay but necessary. Join me as I explore why allowing our children to stumble, make mistakes, and experience the natural consequences of their actions in a safe and supportive environment is a cornerstone of connected parenting.I’ll share practical ways to shift from overprotective habits to fostering independence and learn how to hold space for your children's emotions without rushing in to fix everything. This episode is a must-listen for parents ready to embrace a new approach that empowers their kids to grow into capable, confident individuals.In this EpisodeWhy letting children fail helps them growCreating a safe space for failureHow to avoid overprotection and emotional shieldingEmbracing failure for deeper learningUnderstanding failures in interpersonal relationshipsThe balance between intervention and natural consequences🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Why is understanding a child’s developmental stage crucial for effective parenting? Today, I am thrilled to welcome Dr. Joel Warsh, an integrative pediatrician passionate about children's health and well-being. Dr. Warsh shares his frustration with children's over-medication and his journey towards integrative medicine, blending the best of Western and alternative practices. We delve into his new book, "Parenting at Your Child’s Pace," which focuses on de-stressing parents and promoting health from the earliest stages of childhood.Together, we’ll explore the societal pressures to create 'superhuman' children and the resulting parental stress. Dr. Warsh emphasizes the importance of balance, connection, and trusting our instincts as parents. He shares insights on managing common parenting worries, from growth charts to developmental milestones, reminding us that each child is unique and that most concerns are normal.In this EpisodeAn integrative pediatrician's approach to balanced parentingStress and its impact on parentingThe importance of developmental milestone understandingNavigating societal pressures on perfect parentingBalancing discipline: boundaries vs. permissivenessRethinking medication as a last resort🔗 Follow Dr. Joel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drjoelgator/🔗 Get his book Parenting at Your Child's Pace: https://parentingatyourchildspace.com/🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Is compliance really the goal in parenting neurodivergent kids? Have you ever wondered if there's a better way to connect with your neurodivergent child beyond the conventional methods of rewards and punishments? Today, I reflect on the profound impact of connection in parenting, especially for children with ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent conditions.Many believe these kids need strict compliance through rewards and punishments due to their executive functioning challenges. But I challenge that notion. What if the secret to truly supporting our children lies in the strength of our connection with them? I've worked with wonderful families with neurodivergent kids, and I believe that traditional methods might not be the best approach and that connection can foster genuine growth and understanding.In this EpisodeConnection over compliance for neurodivergent kidsTraditional methods vs. connection-based parentingThe challenges with rewards and punishment systemsSuccess stories of connection-focused parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I sit down with Shelly Robinson, the inspiring founder of Raising Yourself. Shelly shares her transformative experience with reparenting herself and offers powerful insights into inner child work, conscious parenting, and breaking the cycle of punitive approaches.We delve into the concept of “mom rage” and explore the underlying fears and insecurities that often ignite our outbursts. Shelly’s candid storytelling, including a poignant moment with her young son, will strike a chord with many parents who grapple with similar challenges. This episode isn't just about enhancing your child’s behavior, but also about our own healing and creating a nurturing environment where both parent and child can flourish.In this EpisodeThe importance of connection over punishmentUsing play as a parenting toolAddressing “mom rage” with empathy and understandingHow to handle parental dysregulation effectivelyHow to collaborate with children to solve conflictsSelf-compassion in overcoming parenting challenges🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever been stung by your child's words? Have you felt the sting of "I hate you" or "shut up" from those you love most? It's a moment that cuts deep, triggering a whirlwind of emotions and questions about our parenting. But what if I told you it's not about us?Today, I explore the reasons behind hurtful moments, how children react, and how we can respond with grace and empathy. I’ll share some practical tips on supporting our children's emotions without disregarding our own and why punishment is not the solution. It's all about understanding, connection, and allowing our children to express their feelings without judgment. Ultimately, it's not just about how they communicate with us but how we choose to respond that truly makes a difference.In this EpisodeUnderstanding children's emotional outburstsHow to shift focus from personal to empathetic responsesThe importance of holding space for children's feelingsExploring the impact of punishment on communicationRecognizing the role of your environment in behaviorEmbracing grace and compassion in parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today, I’m joined by guest Mariah, one of our vibrant Peace of Parenting community members. Mariah shares her journey of discovering a new approach to parenting that prioritizes understanding over obedience. From navigating challenges with her strong-willed son to embracing playful corrections, Mariah offers insights that resonate with every parent striving for deeper connections with their children.We delve into the layers of traditional disciplinary methods, shedding light on the pitfalls of shame and the power of empathy. This episode is packed with practical insights and actionable strategies that you can immediately apply to nurture stronger bonds with your children.In this Episode:How playfulness fosters deeper parent-child connectionsShifting from correction to empathy-based disciplineChallenges with strong-willed children and playful solutionsThe importance of avoiding shame in parentingPrioritizing understanding over blind obedienceCultivating trust, respect, and resilience in children🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Many people often compare connective parenting to gentle parenting, but in reality, they are very different. Today, I want to clarify the misconceptions surrounding gentle parenting and explain how connective parenting encourages children to learn and grow on their own terms. Through empathy, understanding, and a lot of support, connective parenting empowers both parents and kids to navigate life's challenges with resilience and grace. It allows children to fail, stumble, and learn from their experiences.In this Episode:Connective parenting vs. gentle parentingEmbracing failure as a pathway to growthA grounded approach fosters resilience in childrenEmpathy and support are foundational parenting toolsNavigating boundaries with empathy and understandingAllowing children autonomy while providing guidance🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

How can parents cultivate a healthy balance between responsiveness and setting boundaries? Today, I’m joined by Eli Harwood from Attachment Nerd. Eli's expertise in attachment theory sheds light on the complexities of parenting in today's world. Eli and I delve into the essence of secure attachment, exploring its profound impact on children and parents alike.Today, we’ll explore the various attachment styles, from avoidant to resistant and even disorganized, and dissect how our childhood experiences influence our parenting styles. Eli will share her four strategies for transforming your parenting journey: show up, listen up, light up, and make up.In this Episode:Attachment parenting styles and their impactWhat is secure attachment: trust, regulation, and supportParenting challenges: emotions, boundaries, and repairRecognizing and addressing inherited attachment patternsStrategies: Show up, listen, light up, make upAim for 30% synchronicity in interactionsImportance of ongoing research and learning🔗 Find out more about Eli and Attachment Nerd here: https://attachmentnerd.com/🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever felt like you were losing the bond with your child? Or struggle to navigate their strong will without resorting to traditional methods of discipline. Today, I want to share my personal experiences with my daughter Esme, whose unwavering spirit challenged me to rethink my approach to parenting.Parenting my daughter has been a challenging journey. Her strong will and refusal to conform led to moments of frustration and doubt. However, I have witnessed a remarkable transformation in my relationship with Esme by adopting connection-based parenting. By shifting my focus to nurturing our bond, I have created an environment of understanding and empathy in which she has thrived.In this Episode:The challenges of parenting a strong-willed childTransitioning from traditional to connection-based parentingThe impact of connection on parent-child relationshipsHow to navigate defiance and maintain empathyThe importance of nurturing individuality and autonomy🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you worried about the kind of friends your child spends their time with? Do you fear that these bad influences might lead them astray? Join me as I sit down with Anna, a fellow parent who shares her concerns about her children's friendships during their tween years. We discuss practical strategies for empowering our children to trust their instincts, navigate peer pressure, and set healthy boundaries. Let's explore how we can help our children stand up for themselves and make better choices in their friendships.In this Episode:Parenting from fear vs. connectionEmbracing empathy in guiding children's choicesFostering open communication and understandingNavigating peer pressure with resilienceCultivating deeper family connections through support🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Ever felt caught in the crossfire of sibling battles, unsure how to step in without taking sides? As parents, we yearn for peaceful homes where our children thrive together. But when it comes to resolving conflicts between siblings, finding the balance between intervention and neutrality can feel like navigating a minefield.Today, I delve into the transformative power of neutral intervention in sibling conflicts. I’ll explore practical strategies for defusing tension and fostering understanding between siblings without inadvertently fueling the fire.In this Episode:How neutral intervention fosters understanding and harmonyEmpathy empowers children in conflict resolutionReframe your approach to conflict resolutionCreate a harmonious sibling dynamic rooted in empathyHow to guide children to express themselves authentically🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

How do you navigate traditional parenting methods when they don't align with your child's temperament? Today, I sit with some of my longtime clients, Danielle and Neal, who discuss their parenting journey with their highly sensitive and strong-willed son, Jack. They tried traditional discipline methods such as timeouts and taking toys away, but these did not work for Jack. As a result, Danielle and Neal sought alternative approaches and eventually discovered Peace and Parenting.Danielle and Neal share the significant role that working on their childhood issues played in their journey. They also discuss which techniques worked for them, the impact of setting limits without punishments, and the importance of understanding your child and parenting style.In this Episode:Challenges and Traditional Parenting FailsDiscovering a New Approach to ParentingThe Impact of Coaching on Parenting and Personal GrowthThe Evolution of Parenting: From Struggles to SuccessReflections on Parenting Techniques and Setting Limits🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you spending your time parenting, or is parenting spending your time? Today on Peace and Parenting, I delve into Pam Leo's profound wisdom, exploring the intricate balance between meeting our children's emotional needs and managing their behaviors.Drawing from my own personal experiences, I share the transformative power of filling our children's cups with love. From navigating sibling rivalry to taming the spirited soul, we explore how investing in connection yields dividends of resilience and harmony in the years to come.In this Episode:Pam Leo's wisdom on parenting prioritiesConnective parenting vs. traditional methodsInvesting time in connection reaps long-term benefitsNavigating challenges with empathy and playTools and resources for embracing connective parenting🔗 Join my Connected Parent Mastermind designed for parents who want to strengthen their connection with their children, experience more love, and reduce frustration.🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you ever mortified in public when your child’s voice rockets through the mall? Today, we unpack the nuances of communication, tantrums, and the genuine distress many parents face.It's a scene familiar to many—a peaceful outing shattered by a sudden outburst from a toddler. Cherry, a mom from my Instagram followers, joins me in sharing her dilemma of dealing with her son's screams in public. This opens a world of parenting concerns centered around societal norms and effective communication. Together, we explore the delicate art of understanding your child's unique signals. I guide her through the thorny paths of public judgment, childhood expression, and the profound power of connection over correction.In this Episode:Responding to a toddler's screams with playThe stigma around public outbursts in childrenReflecting on parental reactions to yellingUsing affection to address behavioral issuesHow to use playful interaction as a parenting tool🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When we punish and discipline our children, are we truly teaching them respect, or are we inadvertently instilling fear? We have been conditioned to believe that respect is synonymous with obedience. But is that really what respect is all about? Today, I want to challenge this conventional thinking and urge you to reconsider your parenting approach. From my own experience as a parent, I have realized that respect cannot be forced upon our children. It is something that is earned through genuine connection, kindness, and empathy. While punishments and rewards may seem effective in the short term, they do not necessarily foster respect. Join me as we explore the complexities of respect in parenting and discover how nurturing genuine connections can lead to organic respect from our children.In this Episode:• Rethinking respect beyond obedience and fear• Earning respect through genuine connection and empathy• How punishments and rewards hinder organic respect• How mutual respect fosters healthier parent-child relationships• Nurturing respect: The keys to peaceful parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Could your pursuit of a "perfectly" behaved child be disrupting the peace in your home? This episode will unravel the intricate dance between setting boundaries and forging bonds of connection.As parents, we tend to focus on controlling our children's behavior and enforcing consequences when they make mistakes. However, what really matters is creating an environment where our children feel safe to make mistakes without fear. By showing empathy toward our children's behavior, we can establish a foundation of trust that is unbreakable. Today, I have invited Shauna, one of my Instagram followers, to share how loosening the reins of strict parenting has allowed her to build more authentic relationships with her children. We will discuss how to set boundaries without resorting to punishment, but rather through the warmth of connection. You will learn how to turn homework time into a fun activity and how to handle difficult school transitions with compassion. These methods have the potential to transform challenges into opportunities for growth.🔗 Check out my FREE Guide to Play🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are we unwittingly damaging our children by repeating the mistakes of our own upbringing? Today, I'm diving into a question that plagues many of us: Are we ruining our kids? This thought can grip us in moments of frustration and self-doubt. But let me tell you something: You're not alone, and you're definitely not ruining your kids.As parents, we're often held to impossible standards, haunted by our own childhood traumas, and bombarded with societal pressure to be flawless. But here's the truth: It's okay to make mistakes. In fact, it's human. I've been there—I've yelled, lost my cool, and felt like I'm failing. But here's the thing: It's not about being perfect. It's about being willing to grow and change.In this Episode:Embracing imperfection is essential for growthBreaking the cycle of generational traumaCultivating self-compassion in parentingRecognizing the impact of unresolved issuesSeeking help is a courageous step🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Parenting can be challenging, especially in a world that often values achievement and busyness over connection. Have you ever found yourself caught up in the trap of prioritizing tasks over building stronger bonds with your children? It's a common struggle. Today, I have a heartfelt conversation with Erica, a mother who shared her deeply personal experience of transitioning into motherhood through adoption. Her journey highlights the pressures of perfectionism and the impact of her own dysregulation, which many of us can relate to.We talk about the transformative power of prioritizing connection over control and how it has positively impacted Erica's relationship with her daughter. From embracing vulnerability to dealing with guilt and shame, Erica shares her story with honesty and openness and shares the steps she took to create a nurturing and loving environment for her family. I hope her story resonates with you and helps you on your own parenting journey.In this Episode:The challenges of transitioning into motherhoodPressure to be a "perfect" parentThe impact of personal struggles on parentingOvercoming guilt and self-judgment in parenting🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Imagine cutting your kids' chaotic bedtime routine in half and witnessing your relationship thrive in the process. That's exactly what unfolded for Karla and her husband. Struggling to manage the nightly wind-down of their three lively children, they discovered that the secret wasn't in a more rigid schedule but in fostering a deeper bond. Today, I am touched to share Karla's story of transformation.We unravel how switching up bedtime duties and dedicating special time led to stunning improvements in cooperation and the soul of their family life. This episode isn't just about the strategies that work; it's a testament to the power of empathy, patience, and the ongoing commitment to learning that parenting requires.In this Episode:The struggles of traditional schoolingImportance of validating children's feelingsImpact of generational trauma on parentingNavigating the balance between empathy and worryExploring alternatives to conventional education🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Imagine cutting your kids' chaotic bedtime routine in half and witnessing your relationship thrive in the process. That's exactly what unfolded for Karla and her husband. Struggling to manage the nightly wind-down of their three lively children, they discovered that the secret wasn't in a more rigid schedule but in fostering a deeper bond. Today, I am touched to share Karla's story of transformation.We unravel how switching up bedtime duties and dedicating special time led to stunning improvements in cooperation and the soul of their family life. This episode isn't just about the strategies that work; it's a testament to the power of empathy, patience, and the ongoing commitment to learning that parenting requires.In this Episode:Strengthening family bonds through bedtime routinesSwitching off parental duties builds connectionsIntegrating "special time" enhances child cooperationAvoiding punishment fosters emotional healthContinuous parenting education promotes improvement🔗 Interested in our 1:1 Coaching? Book a Discovery Call with one of our team now💌 Enjoy today’s episode? Please share it with a fellow parent or leave a rating and a review.📖 Check out my book UNPUNISHED!Follow Peace and Parenting:Instagram: @peaceandparentingFacebook: @peaceandparentinglaPeace and Parenting Facebook GroupWant to join The Yelling Cure Event: https://peaceandparentingla.com/the-yelling-cureOur Sponsors:* Check out Done and use my code PODCAST for a great deal: www.donefirst.com* Check out Happy Mammoth and use my code PEACE for a great deal: happymammoth.com* Redeem your welcome offer at https://byheart.com/podcast and use code PEACE for a limited time.Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy