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Author: James Barr and Dan Hudson

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In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges our differences. No matter who you are, or what you're into, gay's and nongay's can & should be friends.


'Highly Recommended' Guardian


'One of the most fundamentally kind and funny podcasts in Britain' RadioTimes


'A hilarious take on love, friendship and sex' TimeOut


An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Find us on Insta, TikTok, Twitter and Facebook @gaynongay

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James and Dan share a deep conversation with Elliot Page and Dominic Savage, makers of the new film 'Close To You'. Sam (Elliot Page) has a chance encounter with an old friend (Hillary Baack) on his way home to a dreaded family reunion that forces him to confront long-buried feelings. They explore the creative process behind creating this film and the importance of trans masc representation in cinema. This interview was part of the BFI Flare: London LBTQIA+ Film Festival. You can find more info about the festival and other great art pieces via their website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What would you do if you had to have tea with someone's mum on the first date? James and Dan are back and in this episode they explore whether online LGBTQ+ inclusivity posts actually do more harm than good... as well as responding to more of your pressing dilemmas! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Barbie needed The Gays

Barbie needed The Gays

2024-03-1318:03

Happy Ken Day! ... But where were the gays in Barbieland?  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Crystal Hefner sheds light on her time at the infamous Playboy Mansion, from the glamour of the mansion to the shadows of manipulation, abuse and control. James and Dan discuss Hugh Hefner's legacy and the dark underbelly of the Playboy empire. From the pressures of maintaining physical perfection to the emotional and financial exploitation. Crystal shares her conflicting feelings about her relationship with Hefner and her eventual realisation of the toxic dynamics at play. Crystal's journey highlights the importance of self-respect and empowerment in breaking free from abusive situations. Follow our instagram and TikTok to view this episode, search 'GayNonGay'. Grab a copy of Crystal Hefner's book Only Say Good Things here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Do you find yourself attractive? Would you put your honey where your mouth is and literally taste your own penis? James and Dan are back with a chat about self-image, arousal, and how to navigate intimacy in modern relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Is the "girlfriend effect" real? Do straight men suddenly get their act together because of their girlfriends? Plus James wants to know if it's okay to filter your pics before sliding into someone's DMs?  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Crazy Celeb Rumours

Crazy Celeb Rumours

2024-02-1516:55

James and Dan dive into the absurdity of rumors about Prince's alleged rib removal and an MP's peculiar habit. Plus what is docking? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
It's finally happened. What does Jamie Dornan think of Dan moonlighting as a Jamie Dornan look alike? Jamie Dornan makes a surprise appearance to settle the score on Dan's Jamie Dornan lookalike status. Plus our listener shares his struggles with being mistaken for gay and wonders if there's something he's missing about himself. Get in touch with us via our DMs, follow @gaynongay on your socials or email us@gaynongay.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
James and Dan are back and we're answering your questions. Today, a straight man in his thirties, finds himself grappling with unexpected emotions for his friend who's about to tie the knot. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
James and Dan sit down with acclaimed filmmaker Andrew Haigh to dive deep into his latest film, "All of Us Strangers." The movie explores the complexities of love, loneliness, and the queer experience, taking viewers on a journey through time and emotion. Andrew shares his insights into the creative process, discussing the challenges of revisiting his childhood home for the film's setting and the cathartic experience it brought. As the conversation unfolds, the hosts touch on the unique ways queer individuals experience time, the nuanced portrayal of queer characters by queer actors, and the delicate balance between reality and fiction in storytelling. The hosts also explore the film's ending without giving away spoilers, delving into the profound themes of love, loss, and the ever-evolving nature of relationships. With humor and candidness, the episode touches on the impact of queer cinema, the importance of representation, and Andrew's journey as a filmmaker navigating the intersections of personal and universal experiences. From memes about the film's enigmatic ending to challenging straight audiences with intimate gay scenes, the conversation covers it all. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Join James and Dan for a trip through some of their favourite interviews from 2023.  Highlights include our chat with Eva Echo after she sued the NHS over waiting times for trans patients, a lively debate with gay Tory Councillor Andrew Boff, our emotional conversation with the Real Jill Nalder from It’s A Sin, a chilling conversation about chemsex murders with Patrick Strudwick and legendary DJ Fat Tony opening up about his struggles with sex addiction. A Gay And A Nongay will return in 2024! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Live at Cheerful Earful Festival Part 2. James Barr and Dan Hudson are joined by legendary DJ Fat Tony for an in-depth conversation about addiction, recovery and how he finally found happiness. We also hear about Tony & Stavros wedding plans, and how their special day will be dedicated to the entire LGBTQ+ community. DJ Fat Tony interview starts at 01.35. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
In the first of two episodes recorded live at Cheerful Earful Festival in November, James Barr and Dan Hudson are joined by LGBTQ+ educator & YouTuber Jamie Raines - who gained a huge online following by sharing his personal transition with the internet. But first, Things Dan Cannot Say returns, and Dan thinks gays ‘should admit that RuPaul’s Drag Race is over’ 😱. Alyship REVOKED. Come back next week for Part 2, featuring an inspirational interview with DJ Fat Tony. Jamie Raines interview starts at 10:30. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
The Aces

The Aces

2023-12-1312:08

James and Dan are joined by Cristal and Alisa from The Aces. We’re going to talk about the new album, growing up in the Mormon Church and why they decided to leave - how amazing their shows in Utah have been and the positive effect they have on queer youth around the world. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Re-release: Our big gay show with Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson and Vanessa Feltz. In light of the sad death of Sophie Anderson, this week there's another chance to hear our Big Gay Show. This episode was recorded live at the Underbelly Festival in September 2021 with very special guests Sophie Anderson, Vanesa Feltz and Felicity Ward. Episode Timings 04:14 - Things Dan Can't Say 09:13 - Felicity Ward Interview 19:04 - Sophie Anderson Interview 31:00 - Vanessa Feltz joins Sophie Anderson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Why do people feel the need to announce that they're in a relationship? Is it arrogant? James has had it with people telling him they have a boyfriend. Dan thinks it's pretty normal. Let us know your thoughts 😂 find us on your socials by searching gaynongay. Kisses x Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Is the Conservative Party welcome in LGBTQ+ spaces? Dan and James discuss a recent twitter/X spat where some members of the Tory Party were allegedly physically thrown out of gay bar in Manchester. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Today we welcome Jayne Ozanne. Jayne is a former member of the UK government's LGBT advisory panel but sensationally quit 2 years ago because of ministers creating a 'hostile environment for LGBTQ+ people'. Jayne discusses the tories continuous lack of action on their much ‘promised’ conversion therapy ban. At the time of release there is still confusion as to whether it will be included in the King's Speech on 7th November 2023. Jayne also exposes a potential queerness at the heart of the Vatican and we dig deep on what it means to be Unashamedly Gay and Unashamedly Christian. We discuss why she resigned from the governments advisory LGBT+ panel, her own experiences undergoing conversion therapy and whether the Pope might endorse gay people. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
James and Dan are joined by Conservative politician Andrew Boff - who was ejected from the party conference after heckling the Home Secretary Suella Braverman. Why did he do it? Should Suella resign for inciting hate speech against LGBTQ+ people? And can the Tory party really claim to be 'safe' for LGBTQ+ people? Join us for our next recording live in London with our special guests DJ Fat Tony & Jamie Raines in conversation. Get tickets now, scroll to the bottom of the page https://www.designmynight.com/london/pubs/balham/the-bedford/cheerful-earful-podcast-festival-day-3?t=tickets Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
James and Dan discuss transphobia in their respective worlds, as deathcore band Thy Art is Murder sack their transphobic singer - and 90s band Eternal split into two over the trans debate. Listen again to our episode with Louise! Watch the video about XL Bully dog owners Get tickets to our upcoming live show at Cheerful Earful Festival in London on November 2nd with our guest DJ Fat Tony! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Comments (7)

Maleena Crumley xx

in your recent episode "Barbie needs the gays" James said "there's no gays in the Barbie movie" I'm not hating I love your podcasts but there is a lesbian Barbie in the beginning!!! ❤

Mar 27th
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Ryan Bulmer

Because it's not crooked.

Jun 25th
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aznar666

What an unbearable nut job James is. He’ll just attack you until you admit he’s right. Poor Dan.

Aug 31st
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MrH2O

Worthwhile and entertaining! These guys are glorious. I wish they had live shows in America.

Mar 10th
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Anna Rose James

So.many. (painfully loud, Radio 1 style) ads I unsubscribed. Couldn't deal with the constant interruptions. Shame, because the content itself is pretty good!

Aug 28th
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Mollie Tustian

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Dec 8th
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Mollie Tustian

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Dec 8th
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