TheJayKelzPodcast

Some of the best decisions you’ll see, that you’ve ever made one day, were the ones when you had to fight against yourself to LET GO. Understand that the BEST doesn’t mean the EASIEST. It’s usually the opposite, which normally is what makes them the greatest, in the end. When you know dealing with her if you stay will hurt more than help, so you make the decision to leave, EVEN WHEN your heart is still with them. When you know you are in need of jumping out of your comfort zones but your FEELINGS are what keeps you bound, but you jump anyway.. THOSE are when you are at your best——— A L S O ! ——— Don’t underestimate the Power of a Right Decision. Many only concede and acquiesce what is convenient when it comes to choice making, because somehow we believe that what is right is always easy. Oh, no no. The BEST answers, can be the hardest to conjure up and decipher. Making the decision is one thing but carrying it out and standing on what you believe and trust to be right, is another. The RIGHT decision can hurt you. The RIGHT decision could purge some areas in you and around you, that you’ve even once promised never to let go of. The RIGHT decision leave you all by yourself, but the END RESULT of that decision you’ve made, is what makes it all worth the dealings. You live, for result. You learn, for the process. My Social Media: Facebook: James Kelley IG & Twitter: @MaturePrince Clubhouse & Snap: @Jaykelz101 *Dont own copyright to music* Let’s get acquainted!

Are you with that someone, and happy with them BECAUSE of them? Or because of how convenient they’ve made YOUR live? Whether it’s romantically or on a level of solely friendship, you have to come to a place where you’re able to tell yourself the TRUTH! What is your, W H Y with being with them? Where does your happiness and/or contentment lie? #SomethingToThinkAbout !

Hey Family! Jay here again just wanting to touch on how I feel and view relationships, (whether intimate or platonic), and the level of happiness we are in them AND EVEN if we are happy at all! We need to sometimes step back and reassess, simply WHY we are with who we are... It’s vital that you have mental checkpoints and check ins with those whom you invest yourself into and see where you both are! It’s how we can nip some things at the bud, before they blossom into something a lot more tedious and harder to manage, so HEAR ME OUT!!! My Social Media: Facebook: James Kelley IG & Twitter: @MaturePrince Clubhouse & Snap: @Jaykelz101 *I DO NOT OWN COPYRIGHT TO THIS MUSIC*

Family! Sisters! Brothers! — Yeah brothers lol Let’s have a talk man, cause I have the utmost respect for you and how you’re built, (however you’re built), and I just wanna express our LACK of expression amongst each other. We have to do a lot of work, to fix the damage that WE cause which we continue to allow our ego to control. VULNERABILITY isn’t a curse or demonic! We have to grow out of thinking a wolf stands well on their own; wolves succeed and dwell in packs and it’s not until we find the pack and other men who we can entrust with us, (the real us), that we will thrive.. I’ll stop here, but enjoy the episode!! 💪🏾💯

What’s up, family! *Flash back post*‼️. Guess what time it is... ⏰ it’s time, to GROW. Backbone! It’s time to stand tall, (even if that requires you to stand alone). God got you, so don’t you fret for toooo long! Some things you will ONLY find out, by going through a season, or a trial or dilemma, on your own. It does NOT MEAN that you will always be that, or that loneliness in your life is your portion NO, but it’s simply exercising your faith and stretching your spirit (wo)man out and mature! You got it!

AyeYooYouuu! What’s up family 👋🏾 I just wanted to touch and expound a bit on Potential and how it can, (and has been a TRAP 🪤) for so many of us! *Ladies Especially* There’s only so much we can do with it, as the one who sees it within someone else— I’m a stop here though! ☝🏾Take A Listen!!!

Hey Family! 👋🏾 Jay here back again, simply wanting to share my thoughts and express to you how we, (who lead or mentor or counsel), should NOT be one(s) who give you your final answer. We can suggest, we can weigh your options, we can let you know how we feel about a subject matter but ultimately it’s Y O U who has to make the final decision. You have to make the choice(s) that is best for what you believe is going to work out; in spite of our disgruntled face (lol) or our smiles. We can only steer you CLEAR of what we feel isn’t so savory, but only you can steer yourself toward what you desire the most.... right?! Let’s Talk About It!

Hey family! 👋🏾 Jay here just wanting to touch on how Sex can not be and should not be the answered to our problems in relationships. It may suppress the inevitable sure, but it doesn’t negate the giant elephant that we can only play around and dodge for so long.. We MUST learn and be willing to deal with what’s in front of us? And between us, outright before it ruins more than just a single day and/or night.. So Let’s Talk About It!

Wisdom! Is a beautiful woman and she can be innocent... until you two become acquainted. She will lead you where you need, and will hold you accountable when your wants don’t meet what your needs demand. She can have a sense of humor, yet smack you with the truth. She’s a rude girl, but she’s royal and wouldn’t want anything more, than to be by your very side...

Take a moment to acknowledge the person that you are. WHO, are YOU? Are you, YOU? Or are you, THEM? Don’t become indebted to yourself, because you spend everything you have, on everyone else... something to think about.

You’ll be amazed by how much you are passing by, that you could actually USE, to steer you in the right direction.. This soliloquy I’m about to share, all started from passing a man by, heading home... hope you enjoy.

This episode was inspired by anpost I've seen on social media, and the Question was directed to us as men: "FELLAS, what are a few of the MOST IMPORTANT things ladies need for you to want to settle with her.." And I was AMAZED at how bland and minimal we guys were with our answers! One, two words and that was it.. How do we expect our ladies to understand us, if we refuse to EXPOUND and ELABORATE how we truly feel and what we know that we need? I will never understand, and I decided to explain MY answer in this podcast; feel free to take a listen...

Hey this me in my car, (lol) with no real intro and just me feeling impressed to pour out on some things that I believe are relevant and what are necessary for ALL OF US to reflect on and to be honest with ourselves about! I hope this piece can be a blessing..

Happen to receive a lovely shoutout from a close friend of mine that just started her own podcast here on Anchor.fm! B.LaTrice!!! Support and please Follow her!!!

There’s more than just the finish! There’s the start and what transpires in-between that we overlook, but why??? We tend to miss so much, only seeing the goal! We MUST open our eyes to see MORE!

MY BIRTHDAY IS HERE! But also came the snow; so unfortunate, but what I’ve learned is that even though I was able to celebrate a new chapter arising, that I simply can’t take the next 364 days of my life for granted. Someone last night had intentions on being here this morning, and did not wake up.. Someone had plans to fulfill and meetings and weddings and a future to build and now won’t be able to make any of those things manifest.. so all I’m saying is, be GRATEFUL for where you happen to be, RIGHT NOW! Tomorrow is a mystery!

This is the perfect time to see who you’re running this Race for.. Are you trying to keep up with the history of your last name, or make a new lane in essence of your FIRST? Something to think about. Run YOUR Race. It’s only right and it’s fair. You can’t live for your family and you can’t live for love. You must live, and run for YOU. / Your first Name is who you are. Wear it well.

Just a quick piece on dealing with how WE ALL can use a little push.. and sometimes the only one we can get that from... is ourselves!

Calls in and shout outs In return from a couple friends of mine I’ve met on here Anchor! Dope people, and you know me, always having a Wandering mind thinking of fresh thoughts to share.. What we learn from life, and Calculated pressure.. hope you enjoy ❗️

We gotta get passed the “Oh you’re so sweet and oh so nice” phase and get to the understanding on someone and what position do they hold in our lives.. that’s what matters most; The pros are one thing, but can you live with their cons? THAT is what matters most.. #SomethingToThinkAbout