Claim OwnershipLetting Go & Letting In
Subscribed: 7Played: 1,381
Subscribe
℗ & © 2019 Letting Go & Letting In
Description
I set out in the early part of 2019 to capture the experience I was having every single day after deciding to go relentlessly after my vision. This required some very stark self-awareness and what I found was not always pleasant, but it was always worth it. I record 45 days of documentation during this time, and here you have Letting Go & Letting In, so be sure to listen in order, if you can! It wasn’t the first time I had left the beaten path to follow my heart, and I’m sure it won’t be the last, so this time I decided to document the challenges I was facing and the lessons I was learning along the way. What I found in reflection is that all transformations in our life, regardless of the content, the kind or type, bring about similar difficulties -- all of which every single one of us is 100% capable of walking through, with grace and ease and power, when we choose to. These 45 episodes cover 45 specific days during my transition and transformation. From coming out of the closet as gay over 10 years ago, being in lesbian relationships, marrying a woman, quitting my corporate 9-5 (that was really an 8-6) job, succeeding as an entrepreneur in real estate, building and leading a team, learning to coach others -- I had already chosen many times over the course of my life to “be me” and to bet on myself. But because real transformation is an ever-expanding, never-ending, and always-evolving, it can feel like we are always starting a new round of “Becoming.” This little snapshot serves as a reminder that you are fully capable of moving through any and everything that presents itself to you on the way toward your dreams. On the way toward you! The full series is available in its entirety June 17! To stay engaged, connected and keep transforming through practice, visit www.meghanfifelive.com & follow me on social @meghanfifelive
45 Episodes
Reverse
Every great thing in life has a starting point! But does it, really?? Can you pinpoint the singular moment that kickstarted everything? Probably not because everything is so intertwined, connected and contingent on everything else. One tiny movement could shift the entire experience!But, this is the beginning of the Letting Go & Letting In podcast series! I set up the whole thing for you in this first episode! The full series launches in its entirety June 17!----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
When you begin to recognize the things that aren’t working for you in your life anymore, you don’t have to stay there. Not for a decade. Not for a year. Not for a day! You are invited into a world where everything works! In this new world, you can’t get it wrong! But be forewarned! It’s like being strapped to a rocket ship, making its way through the ether! Plenty of turbulence. And with it: plenty of high flying views!In this episode I share about my decision to take flight and not turn back.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
Ever had a day one? New job? New relationship? Day one of being a mom or a dad? We all have plenty of “Day Ones” throughout our life, but they don’t just mark a new beginning - they mark an ending! And being able to just “be” with that ending for a moment is important.In this episode, I share about my day one of letting go of all the things that I felt like were keeping me safe in order to let in whatever was to come next.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
The choice to change happens before you start on the actual travel through the change! And once the travel begins, it can often feels scary, dark, confusing and like you may want to turn around and go back to the comfort of what was… But instead of turning around, you stay. Even if you move slowly, you stay: Present and ready for whatever comes in that next moment.In this episode, I was feeling all kinds of uncertainty on the surface but when I looked closer, I knew that there was nothing but love and power holding me.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
Light changes everything! Light is what controls what you see and perceive from any specific angle. So, as you choose to shine the light of your own awareness on things, you see what you want to see. It’s all contingent on how you choose to shine your light. In this episode, I was noticing how easy it was to focus on whatever I wanted to focus on. I could focus on the past, or the future. I could focus on the now. Whatever I wanted more of, I got more of!----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
We let go not in order to lose, but in order to gain. We let go not in order to pay a price and earn something, but in order to remove the blocks that were keeping us from allowing. We let go in order to rise!In this episode, I was grappling with the fact that my decision to let go wasn’t just letting go of external things but an internal state of identification with those things. And that what was left was me, and it was time for me to choose me for likely the first time ever.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
When you choose to live a life of action instead of attachment to an outcome, you open up entirely new possibilities for yourself! Things can get to be better than ever, now, instead of crossing your fingers hoping something works out some day!You train for whatever level of the game of life you want to train for; there are no requirements except that you choose and then show up for the work!In this episode, I fell in love with the work all over again.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
How life unfolds in the new paradigm is an “upside down, inside out” kind of way ...until it’s not! You realize everything you’ve ever experienced has simply been an out-picturing of your beliefs and you can change those anytime you choose. So, you go to work transforming the beliefs to transform your experience. The new paradigm experience you’re invited into? Love, Abundance, Wholeness, Completion, Unity.In this episode, I share about my own choice to continue shaking up my world and letting the new in.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
Any feelings of fear, sadness, loss -- even grief -- when moving into your new future are normal! This is all out of your comfort zone! The more easily you allow those things to be experienced, to be felt, the more easily they pass on and you get to keep moving!If you hold on, instead of letting go, they take up space inside of you meant for the new thing and keep you from experiencing the new thing all together!In this episode, I give my little self some grace to feel, so I don’t stay stuck.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
When you know what you want, when you’ve decided what it is you’re going to create, when you’ve made your decision, that is enough to get into action!You do not need (nor should you expect) your thoughts and feelings to back your decision. You must back your decision! But it’s not required for your thoughts & feelings to, especially at first. Expecting them to be along for the ride in the beginning will only leave you frustrated and disappointed. No need for that!In this episode, I explain how I kick started this transformation by simply making a choice. ----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
After you have chosen to move into your new future, expect all the feelings to be present! Some moments you’ll feel light & ready to go, others you may feel heavy and tired. The only way to get to the other side is to go through these feelings, whatever they may be. Resistance will inevitably take you back where you came from!In this episode, I share about what it was like to really let myself feel all the feelings while still staying in action.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
What you are seeking is seeking you. What you are trying to deliver is being delivered to you. The work is not to earn your way; it is to receive your way!In this episode, I’m realizing that I’ve never lacked support. Any indication of that was me simply not being aware of what was all around me.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
It takes time for the old to become new again, but not as much time as you think. So how long does it take?Well, as much time as you choose! The old can become new in as long as it takes you to snap your fingers, if you want it to! This is all about you defining what you want. Starting with yourself. At anytime, you can redefine yourself. You are not stuck with the way you’ve “always been.”In this episode, I talk about my name changes around my marriage and divorce. It was just an analogy for the change occurring inside!----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
One of the hardest things when you want to change is the thought, if you do, if you really do it, you may lose people. You may at least not keep their full approval -- you’ll be a different person! What if they don’t like the new you? What if they say they support you and then turn their back?Regardless, when you choose change, there is a very strong chance that you will step outside of the zone of comfort you believed you had protection and safety.It’s important to remember at this point: What is real and connected cannot be lost. What is true cannot be turned into a lie. What is all-consuming, like love, can have no opposite. You’re not actually letting go of anything other than the illusion of safety and comfort.In this episode, I share about another choice for change I made much earlier in my life when I came out of the closet while on a path to a career in Christian youth ministry. I had left the comforts of others approval before, and I knew I could do it again.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
Your life experiences are actually neutral. They neither confirm or deny any specific meaning. You get to decide what they mean. One event can serve as the reason to move forward or the reason to turn back. It’s totally up to you! I encourage you: Don’t turn back.In this episode, I share how I was on the receiving end of quite a bit of communication surrounding my decision to end my marriage and close my business, and how I chose to perceive them.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
Writing an ending does not always equal knowing exactly what your next beginning is going to look like. Sometimes you just know it’s the end of one thing, and that’s enough. At that point, you choose to fall into the bliss of nothingness, where your next creation will spring forth.In this episode, I share about my experience in the bliss of nothingness. (Don’t fret, we don’t stay there!)----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
It’s no one else’s job to see your future for you. You must create it! It’s no one else’s job to trust your future for you. You must practice that! And one other thing: It’s absolutely, totally, NOT required for things to be awful in order for you to create, and choose, something even better than ever before.In this episode, I talk about how the changes I was making weren’t because anything was bad. In fact, my life was great, if you compared it to most! But comparison isn’t what I’m into. I’m into living my best life, now. ----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
The fire inside to choose a new future for yourself may start out being sparked by something you do not want anymore! But it’s not enough to let it end there...Living in the “not” wanting only results in a vacuum effect of random things showing up in your reality -- more of what you do not want! The great news is, you get to start choosing what you want to put in your life. You get to exercise your creativity! And it always helps when you start asking better questions.In this episode, I talk about how I met someone who was on a similar journey as me, but her transition had been going on for three years because she wasn’t 100% sure what she wanted next. I realized in that moment that we just get to choose. Once we end a thing, it’s time to get creating!----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
It isn’t required to use the finite resource of time to explore whether or not something will work for you! You can actually use your words to explore it! With your words, you can become aware of possibilities and opportunities. With your words, you can decide. With your words you can create! There is no need to delay or wait for permission; the new world you are entering is one you are creating... with your words. In this episode, I share about my passion for words and writing and using that to create my future.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
Choosing to create change in your life and step into your new future can’t always be done casually. Oftentimes it means cutting off all other options than that one. It really takes you saying “no” to things when you’re on the journey to your YES.Yes, it can feel scary at times… especially if you’re making radical change! It may even feel like what you’re cutting off is your own limb! But when you know what it takes, and are committed to what it takes, you do what it takes.In this episode, I share about my choice to cut off the past even when it felt really uncomfortable.----Visit www.meghanfifelive.com to learn more about the ways you can plug in and connect for next-level transformations in your own life.&& of courseIG: @meghanfifeliveFB: @meghanfifeliveSee you there!
Comments
Download from Google Play
Download from App Store
United States