The Gaslight Effect Podcast

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern is honored to be joined by two extraordinary individuals whose resilience and courage have transformed their experiences into beacons of hope. Sarah Edmondson, a Canadian actress known for her roles in CBS's "Salvation" and numerous Hallmark Channel and Lifetime films, embarked on a journey of self-discovery when she encountered NXIVM, a personal development company led by Keith Raniere, promising the keys to unlocking human potential. Alongside her husband and former college athlete, Anthony "Nippy" Ames, Sarah delved deep into NXIVM's teachings. Rising through the ranks, they both became integral figures within the organization, with Anthony drawn to its goals program and Sarah operating her own center in Vancouver. However, their seemingly idyllic journey took a dark turn when they uncovered the truth behind NXIVM's facade. With courage and determination, Sarah blew the whistle on the organization's gaslighting and abusive practices, while Anthony wasted no time in helping burn its carefully constructed public image to the ground. In 2019, Sarah published Scarred: The True Story of How I Escaped NXIVM, the Cult that Bound My Life, with Kristine Gasbarre. In this tell-all memoir, she shares her story from the moment she takes her first seminar to her harrowing fight to get out. Sarah and Anthony's  full story as whistleblowers is featured in The Vow, the critically acclaimed HBO documentary series on NXIVM.  Also be sure to check out Sarah's powerful TED Talk about How To Spot A Cult.  Now, as hosts of the enlightening podcast "A Little Bit Culty," Sarah and Anthony continue to shine a light on the healing process, engaging with experts and fellow survivors to navigate the complexities of recovery and resilience. Join Robin as she delves into the depths of gaslighting and coercion with Sarah Edmondson and Anthony "Nippy" Ames, and explores how they emerged with newfound understanding and empowerment.  To read the full transcript of this episode, head over to robinstern.com. Don't forget to subscribe to The Gaslight Effect Podcast on your favorite podcast platform, and be sure to leave us a review to let us know what you think. Until next time, remember: healing is a journey, and you don't have to walk it alone. Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

A QUICK WARNING: This episode contains discussions of traumatic events, violence, child abuse, sexual abuse, suicidal thoughts, anxiety, depression, and graphic language. Listener discretion is advised. On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the extraordinary journey of Jessica Willis Fisher—a tale of survival, resilience, and the relentless pursuit of truth. Jessica's story unfolds with the haunting echoes of a tumultuous childhood, where the enigmatic philosophies of her controlling father cast a long shadow over her early years. From dreams of being surrounded by books to fantasies of becoming an author, Jessica's aspirations were stifled by the suffocating grip of manipulation and gaslighting. In her gripping memoir, "Unspeakable: Surviving My Childhood and Finding My Voice," Jessica offers a searing account of a life shaped by silence, secrecy, and the insidious tactics of gaslighting. Through the chaos of her upbringing, she grappled with doubts about her own reality—wondering if other girls faced the same forbidden truths, if other mothers feared their husbands, if other daddies invaded their daughters' bedrooms at night. Despite the darkness that threatened to consume her, Jessica found solace in music—a refuge where her voice could break free from the chains of manipulation and reclaim its truth. As she resurfaced with her debut solo album, "Brand New Day," Jessica embraced her voice with a newfound sense of purpose and passion. Each note became a declaration of independence, each melody a testament to the strength found in vulnerability. Join us as we delve deeper into Jessica's story, exploring the themes of survival, empowerment, the transformative power of art, the impact of gaslighting on her journey and the resilience that led her to reclaim her voice. To read the full transcript of this episode, head over to robinstern.com. Don't forget to subscribe to The Gaslight Effect Podcast on your favorite podcast platform, and be sure to leave us a review to let us know what you think. Until next time, remember: healing is a journey, and you don't have to walk it alone. Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.  

A QUICK WARNING: This episode contains discussions of traumatic events, violence, child abuse, sexual abuse, suicidal thoughts and suicide attempts, anxiety, depression, and graphic language. Listener discretion is advised. Welcome to the Gaslight Effect Podcast, where we explore stories of courage, healing, and transformation. On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern has the privilege of speaking with Lucas Mack, a visionary leader who guides men on a pilgrimage of self-discovery and healing. Lucas Mack's retreats offer a sacred space for men to embark on a journey inward—a journey to slay the pain of their past and reclaim their freedom. Surrounded by fellow seekers, participants confront their inner dragons, speak their truth, and embark on a path of healing that transcends the confines of their past traumas. And now, Lucas has released his latest eBook, "Healing Our Soul to Find Our Light," a profound guide for those seeking to break free from the shadows of their past and step into the light of their true selves. Lucas Mack's work is deeply rooted in his own journey of overcoming gaslighting and reclaiming his truth. Once a million-dollar business owner with a painful secret, Lucas is now liberated and changing lives as a coach, speaker, and healing catalyst. If you met Lucas, you'd never know that he's a survivor of pretty horrific childhood abuse and trauma. On the outside, he appeared to have it all—a supportive wife, adorable children, a successful track record, an outgoing personality, the dream house, the big smile. But beneath the surface of that perfect picture, Lucas was severely depressed, anxious, and, at one point, suicidal. It wasn’t until 2016 that Lucas understood why. A conversation with his abuser triggered a flood of traumatic memories from his childhood, forcing him to confront his past and seek healing. Through therapy, medication, and ultimately, an emotional intelligence seminar where he bravely shared his deepest truth with others, Lucas found the courage to confront his demons head-on. Join Robin as she delves into Lucas Mack's remarkable journey of transformation and resilience, shedding light on the insidious nature of gaslighting and the power of reclaiming one's truth. Lucas's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of courage, compassion, and confronting gaslighting. To read the full transcript of this episode, head over to robinstern.com. Don't forget to subscribe to The Gaslight Effect Podcast on your favorite podcast platform, and be sure to leave us a review to let us know what you think. Until next time, remember: healing is a journey, and you don't have to walk it alone. Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

IS social media toxic for women and girls?  On this episode, Dr. Kara Alaimo, author of "Over the Influence: Why Social Media is Toxic for Women and Girls - And How We Can Take It Back," hashes it out with Dr. Robin Stern. Kara is a communication professor at Fairleigh Dickinson, where she created the university’s programs in social media, and has been writing for CNN Opinion about the social impact of social media and issues affecting women and girls since 2016. Kara's latest release, "Over the Influence: Why Social Media is Toxic for Women and Girls - And How We Can Take It Back," is a timely and essential exploration of the impact of social media on women and girls, and highlights the need for meanigful conversations about gaslighting's pervasive influence in the digital age. In exploring her new book release, Robin and Kara delve deep into the multifaceted ways social media shapes women's lives, from relationships and parenting to mental well-being. Dr. Alaimo illuminates how these platforms often perpetuate sexism and misogyny, targeting women with disparities in followership, fake news, and harmful content. Despite these challenges, Kara empowers women with practical strategies to navigate the digital landscape. From managing daughters' social media usage to leveraging platforms for career advancement, Kara equips us with tools to reclaim control and protect ourselves from online threats. "Over the Influence" serves as a rallying cry for women to challenge sexism, advocate for change, and foster inclusivity in the digital sphere. Join us as we embark on a transformative journey with Kara Alaimo, unraveling the complexities of social media and reclaiming our power in the digital age. You can read the full transcript of this episode and listen to other episodes, at robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the transformative journey of Emily Paulson - a beacon of courage, resilience, and authenticity in the realm of wellness and empowerment. Emily Paulson's remarkable journey, chronicled in her books "Highlight Real: Finding Honesty & Recovery Beyond the Filtered Life" and "Hey, Hun: Sales, Sisterhood, Supremacy, and the Other Lies Behind Multilevel Marketing," offers profound insights into the complexities of addiction recovery, motherhood, and the insidious nature of gaslighting. In discussing her book "Highlight Real" with Robin, Emily talks about fearlessly confronting the shadows of addiction and gaslighting, sharing her personal odyssey of overcoming alcohol addiction and embracing sobriety. Through raw honesty and vulnerability, she shines a light on the manipulative tactics that seek to distort our reality and erode our sense of self-worth. But Emily's exploration extends beyond addiction recovery. She also discusses with Robin her reason for writing her book "Hey, Hun," in which she exposes the hidden truths behind the glossy facade of multilevel marketing schemes, unraveling the gaslighting tactics that prey on vulnerability and perpetuate harmful ideologies. Her incisive analysis challenges conventional narratives, prompting readers and listeners to question the pervasive 'Hey, Hun' messages flooding our inboxes. Moreover, Emily is the driving force behind the "Sober Mom Squad" - a sanctuary where motherhood intersects with sobriety, and connections flourish. This Squad, comprised of moms navigating the delicate balance of motherhood and sobriety, provides a lifeline of understanding and support. Through shared stories and unwavering solidarity, the Sober Mom Squad creates pockets of community in the midst of solitude. Join Robin and Emily as they explore the transformative power of vulnerability, resilience, and connection. Through her courageous journey, Emily invites us to reclaim our truth, embrace our imperfections, and walk boldly along the path to self-discovery and empowerment. You can read the full transcript of this episode and listen to other episodes, at robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern has a conversation with Dr. Craig Dowden, a renowned psychologist, executive coach, and author who specializes in unraveling the complexities of gaslighting and its impact on individuals and organizations. For over 25 years, Craig has been fascinated by the links between positive psychology and the practice of leadership excellence, so much so that he pursued his PhD in Psychology and Business. His personal mission is to bridge the gap between what science knows and what leaders do. Craig is passionate about teaching and coaching. Previously, he was a Professor at Carleton University in Ottawa, Canada where he was twice nominated for the Capital Educators Award. Today, he serves as an executive coach to leaders in the private, public, and not-for-profit sectors while supporting EMBA and AMBA students at the Richard Ivey School of Business. Dr. Craig Dowden brings a wealth of expertise to our conversation, drawing from his extensive research and clinical experience in psychology and leadership development. As the author of insightful books like "Do Good to Lead Well: The Science and Practice of Positive Leadership" and "A Time To Lead", Craig sheds light on the intersection of leadership, emotional intelligence, and organizational effectiveness. Join us as we dive deep into the nuances of gaslighting, unpacking its psychological mechanisms and offering empowering insights for reclaiming personal agency and fostering healthier relationships.  Link to Craig's Podcast - Do Good To Lead Well Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern engages in a candid conversation with Tracey O'Connell MD, integrative health coach and seasoned medical professional, as they unravel the complexities of gaslighting within the healthcare industry. Having spent decades navigating the intricate web of medical practice, Tracey opens up about the often unspoken reality of gaslighting experienced by health professionals themselves. From subtle dismissals by peers to the pressure from superiors to prioritize profitability over patient well-being, she shines a light on the pervasive nature of gaslighting within the medical community. Drawing from her diverse background in conventional medicine and holistic health practices, Tracey shares personal anecdotes and meaningful insights into the detrimental effects of gaslighting on healthcare practitioners. She explores the underlying power dynamics and systemic pressures that contribute to a culture of silence and conformity within medical institutions. But amidst the challenges, Tracey offers hope. She provides practical strategies and tools for healthcare professionals to reclaim their voice, and integrity in their practice.  Tracey invites us to envision a future where empathy, transparency, and mutual respect reign supreme. It's a call to action for all stakeholders to come together and co-create a healthcare environment that nurtures the well-being of both patients and providers alike. Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.  

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern dives into the world of emotional intelligence and gaslighting with psychologist and acclaimed author, Daniel Goleman. Daniel Goleman has left an indelible mark in psychology with his groundbreaking work on emotional intelligence. As an accomplished author, his insights have not only enriched our understanding of the human psyche. Daniel's work has also paved the way for transformative conversations that are foundational for transforming lives - from personal to professional.  Many may know Daniel as the Father of Emotional Intelligence, as his 1995 book Emotional Intelligence served to launch the field.    Daniel's new book, Optimal reveals practical methods for using our inner resources to more readily enter an optimal state of high performance and satisfaction while avoiding burnout. During their conversation, Robin and Daniel focus on the pressing topic of gaslighting, a subtle  form of psychological manipulation. They unravel the layers of gaslighting, delving into its tactics, consequences, and the pivotal role emotional intelligence plays in recognizing and countering this destructive behavior. As an author who has explored the depths of human emotions, Daniel Goleman brings a unique perspective to the discussion that goes beyond the surface, exploring the nuances of gaslighting and its impact on our well-being.  You can read the full transcript of this episode and listen to other episodes, at robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.    

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern interviews Hannah Husain, an eighteen year old student researching gaslighting interactions in relationships - particularly in teenagers. Hannah's first encounter with gaslighting occured when her friend had wanted to go to a concert, and was unintentionally gaslighted by her mom into not going.  Robin and Hannah discuss how, even if parents are not intentionally meaning to gaslight, the effect on their children can be long lasting.  Robin points out how in some cases wanting someone to feel better by having them believe your reality rather than their own, perpetuates a feeling that others know better than them, thus undermining that person's confidence.  Hannah and Robin talk about how social media can influence decisions like what you should eat, and how you should exercise. It is important to have relationships and sources of information offline to keep you grounded. They also examine the role of influencers on social media and the importance of the words these influencers use on their social media posts - and how these words can lead to unintentional (or not) gaslighting.  Developing strong friendships and family relationships will help affirm that you can trust your own thoughts and feelings, and validate your reality.  To read the full transcript of this episode and to hear other episodes, head over to robinstern.com, and be sure to leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.  

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern shares a conversation with Dr. Arghavan Salles that is both crucial and empowering. Dr. Salles wears many hats—she's a skilled surgeon, a passionate advocate for diversity and inclusion, and an expert in confronting gaslighting in medicine. Dr. Arghavan Salles gained global attention not just for her expertise but for her remarkable courage and resilience during the spring of 2020. As the COVID-19 pandemic wreaked havoc in New York City, Dr. Salles, based in California, felt the call to action. Using her vacation time, she traveled to the epicenter of the crisis, joining the frontlines in the intensive care unit. That experience was transformative. Dr. Salles found herself facing a relentless adversary, treating patients in conditions she had never encountered before. The challenges were unprecedented—overwhelmed healthcare systems, scarce personal protective equipment, and healthcare professionals redeployed to specialties outside their expertise. Yet, even in the midst of this crisis, Dr. Salles chose to speak up, sharing her experiences on social media, in national outlets, and on television. Robin and Arghavan also discuss the often-overlooked issue of gaslighting in the medical profession. Dr. Salles brings her expertise to the forefront as they explore the personal impact gaslighting has had on Dr. Salles' own career as well as other individuals within the medical field and explores strategies to recognize and combat this pervasive issue. Join us as we delve into a conversation that not only exposes the challenges faced by healthcare professionals on the frontlines of a global pandemic but also addresses the importance of fostering a culture of inclusivity, respect, and open communication within the medical community. You can read the full transcript of this episode and listen to other episodes, at robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.  

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dakota Adams, son of Stewart Rhodes, the founder and leader of the Oath Keepers organization. Dakota opens up about a life that was not only entangled with the controversial Oath Keepers but also shadowed by the dark clouds of gaslighting and abuse. Gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation that seeks to make victims doubt their reality, is a theme woven into the fabric of Dakota's narrative. He recounts the harrowing escape from an environment marked by violence and chaos, where he and his siblings' perceptions were constantly manipulated. Dakota reveals the intricate layers of his father's personality, from the early days of criticism against political figures to a surprising evolution that ultimately led to Stewart Rhodes' involvement in the infamous events at the U.S. Capitol on January 6, 2021. But it's not just a story of political activism; it's a story of survival. Dakota shares the devastating effects of gaslighting on a family, detailing the struggles of breaking free from a cycle of manipulation, fear, and isolation. Join Robin and Dakota as they unravel the complexities of Dakota's life, a life shaped by an organization founded on principles that devolved into chaos. This episode will take you beyond the headlines, providing a closer look at the impact of gaslighting on individuals, families, and communities. You can read the full transcript of this episode and listen to other episodes over at robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern guides us through the captivating and deeply personal journey of Dr. Kerry McAvoy - a story marked by heartbreak, betrayal, and the insidious effects of gaslighting. As a devoted mother, wife, and psychologist, Kerry's life took an unexpected turn after the loss of her first husband. Her second marriage seemed perfect until an unknown woman's text shattered the illusion. The words, "I’ve been dating your husband," plunged Kerry into a world of shock, entrapment, and conflicting emotions. Kerry is the author of Love You More, a gripping account of surviving sophisticated psychological manipulation, a tale both deeply personal and incredibly practical, offering hope, guidance, and encouragement to those battling emotional abuse, inspiring you to break free and reclaim your life. Join Robin as she unravels the layers of Kerry's story, focusing on the pervasive influence of gaslighting. Despite the turmoil, Kerry didn't immediately walk away. Instead, she found herself in a two-year struggle, attempting to salvage a relationship marred by manipulation and deceit. The insidious nature of gaslighting, the constant questioning of one's reality, and the emotional turmoil are the threads woven into Kerry's narrative. Dr. Robin Stern and Dr. Kerry McAvoy navigate this exploration, shedding light on the complexities of gaslighting and its profound impact on relationships. This episode is an examination of resilience, self-discovery, and the journey to reclaim one's truth.  You can read the full transcript of this episode and listen to other episodes over at robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.

On this episode, the intricate realms of gaslighting, human behavior and emotional intelligence intersect, as Dr. Robin Stern talks with her colleague and good friend, Dr. Marc Brackett.  Dr. Brackett is the Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and author of "Permission to Feel."  On this episode, Dr. Stern and Dr. Brackett unravel the subtle dynamics of gaslighting, a pervasive issue affecting relationships, workplaces, and self-perception. Dr. Brackett, with a wealth of expertise, illuminates the profound connection between emotional intelligence and gaslighting. Gaslighting, fundamentally rooted in the manipulation of emotions, finds itself at the intersection of emotional intelligence. Dr. Brackett's insights go beyond defining gaslighting; they explore the pivotal role emotional intelligence plays in both perpetuating and countering this intricate form of manipulation. Robin and Marc discuss insights into the significance of recognizing and validating emotions, which is one of the foundational aspects of emotional intelligence. Dr. Brackett shares strategic approaches for harnessing emotional intelligence to fortify against gaslighting tactics and nurture resilient, healthier relationships. This episode promises to be an invaluable compass for navigating the nuanced waters of emotions and relationships. To read the full transcript of this episode and to listen to other episodes, head over to robinstern.com, and please be sure to leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.  

On this episode Dr. Robin Stern talks with attorney Evan D. Schein, a seasoned attorney and partner at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein LLP. Evan brings a wealth of experience in family law to the conversation. If you're curious about the legal nuances of relationships and the complexities of prenuptial agreements, this is the episode for you. As a divorce lawyer in New York City, Evan has been lucky to meet fascinating people and work with top experts in fields like finance, trust and estates, real estate, sports, entertainment, psychology, and more.  He has helped clients find post-divorce happiness and build successful financial lives, advocated to protect children and fought for the rights of victims of domestic violence. He has learned more than a few things about family, money, and the law, things that every spouse or parent in America should know. Robin and Evan explore the fascinating intersection of gaslighting and prenuptial agreements. Evan's extensive expertise helps guide listeners through the delicate balance of law and psychology, shedding light on how gaslighting dynamics can influence the creation and understanding of prenups. Whether you're contemplating a prenuptial agreement, navigating the challenges of a relationship, or just intrigued by the legal side of love, this episode promises to be both eye-opening and thought-provoking. To read the full transcript of this episode and to listen to other episodes, head over to robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer:  The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.  

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Amanda Knox - a woman who, at a young age, found herself entangled in the complexities of the Italian legal system, her name echoed around the globe.  Robin and Amanda  illuminate the darker corners of her story, focusing on the glaring presence of gaslighting. Amanda Knox is an exoneree, journalist, public speaker, and author of the New York Times best-selling memoir, Waiting to Be Heard. Between 2007 and 2015, she spent nearly four years in an Italian prison and eight years on trial for a murder she didn’t commit. She has since become an advocate for criminal justice reform and media ethics. She sits on the board of the Frederick Douglass Project for Justice, and serves as an Innocence Network Ambassador. Amanda's journey began when she was studying abroad in Perugia, Italy. The unimaginable happened when her roommate, Meredith Kercher, was tragically murdered. What followed was a legal saga that painted Amanda as a suspect in the eyes of the media and the public. Amanda recounts the relentless gaslighting she endured - from the distorted narratives in the media to the courtroom theatrics. She describes how doubt was meticulously planted, manipulating perceptions and leaving a lasting impact on Amanda's life. This episode isn't just about one woman's struggle; it's a mirror reflecting the broader implications of gaslighting on individuals facing high-stakes situations. Amanda Knox brings a unique lens to this conversation, having lived through the crucible of a relentless media storm. We hope you enjoy this unfiltered conversation, as Amanda and Robin navigate the chilling realities of gaslighting, the quest for justice, and the toll it takes on those thrust into the spotlight. For the full transcript of this episode and to listen to other episodes, head over to robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast! Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.    

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Brian Dretke and Dr. Debra Rosenzweig.  Brian Dretke is a legal professional with a rich history of service and dedication. Hailing from a background in law enforcement, Brian's journey took a turn into the legal arena, where he became a stalwart advocate for those who have experienced medical malpractice. His insights into the legal intricacies of medical negligence bring a unique perspective to this episode's conversation. Joining Brian is Dr. Debra Rosenzweig, a psychotherapist whose dedication to mindfulness and psychology has illuminated the path toward healing for many. Dr. Rosenzweig brings to our conversation a wealth of experience in working with clients who have faced the challenges of medical gaslighting—a subtle yet profound form of manipulation within the healthcare system. Today, we dive into the heart of the matter—Brian's legal expertise in the realm of medical malpractice and Dr. Rosenzweig's nuanced understanding of the psychological impact of medical gaslighting. Together, they unravel the complexities, signs, and consequences of these issues that affect countless lives. Brian sheds light on the legal aspects, discussing the hurdles faced by those seeking justice in cases of medical malpractice. Dr. Rosenzweig shares her experiences in supporting individuals who have felt dismissed or invalidated in their healthcare journey, exploring the psychological toll of medical gaslighting. To read the full transcript of this episode and to listen to ther episodes, head over to robinstern.com, and be sure to leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast! Dr. Robin Stern's Social Media Links: Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/drrobinstern/ Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dr.robinstern/ Twitter (X) - https://twitter.com/RobinSStern LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/robin-stern-220b403a   Diclaimer: The views and opinions expressed on The Gaslight Effect Podcast do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.    

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern delves into a story that unearths the chilling depths of gaslighting, the indomitable strength of the human spirit, and the power of inspiration. Robin's guest, Collier Landry, has navigated a path marked by the most unthinkable circumstances.  Collier's story is a harrowing tale of a murder that rocked his world and the insidious web of gaslighting that ensnared him.  Collier is the central figure in the documentary "A Murder In Mansfield," produced by Collier and directed by Barbara Kopple.  The film centers around the murder of Noreen Boyle, Collier Landry's mother, which took place in Mansfield Ohio in 1989.  At the time Collier was a young boy who had been a witness to his mother's murder, and his testimony played a crucial role in the trial of his father, Dr. John Boyle, who was accused and ultimately convicted of the crime.  Robin and Collier unravel the layers of his story, his unwavering courage in the face of manipulation, and the profound inspiration he offers to all who have faced the darkness of gaslighting.  His resilience is a testament to the human capacity for healing and growth, even in the wake of the most haunting challenges.  Be prepared to be both moved and empowered by this transformative episode with Collier Landry.  His story shines a light on the courage it takes to confront the demons of manipulation and emerge as an inspiration to others.  To read the full transcript of this episode and to listen to other episodes of The Gaslight Effect Podcast, head over to robinstern.com, and please remember to leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!  Links: https://www.tiktok.com/@collierlandry https://www.instagram.com/collierlandry/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCYIJGxnTPGxaKRZc-Gq63iA https://www.facebook.com/collierlandry

On this special 9/11 episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. George Bonanno.   Dr. Bonanno is a Professor of Clinical Psychology at Columbia University's Teachers College and internationally recognized for his pioneering research on human resilience in the face of loss and potential trauma. He is recognized by the Web of Science as among the top one percent most cited scientists in the world, and has been honored with lifetime achievement awards by both the Association for Psychological Science and the International Positive Psychology Association. He has devoted his career to understanding how people cope with loss, trauma, and adversity.   In addition to the books, The End of Trauma and The Other Side of Sadness, Dr. Bonanno has published hundreds of peer-reviewed scientific articles, many appearing in leading journals such as Nature, JAMA, American Psychologist, and the Annual Review of Psychology.    Dr. Robin Stern also wrote a book titled Project Rebirth: Survival and The Strength of The Human Spirit From 9/11 Survivors.  Her book follows people dedicated to rebuilding, both physically and emotionally. Spirituality, resilience, and hope are at the center of their stories. On this episode, Robin and Dr. Bonanno delve into a pivotal moment in modern history—the tragic events of September 11th, 2001. It's a day etched into the collective memory of our nation and the world. Dr. Bonanno's research has shed light on how individuals and communities coped with the immense grief and trauma that followed that fateful day. Dr. Stern and Dr. Bonanno explore the human capacity for resilience, the intricate process of grief, and the profound lessons learned from the aftermath of 9/11. Dr. Bonanno's work challenges conventional wisdom about grief and offers hope and understanding to those who have experienced loss, both on that day and in other difficult circumstances. Join Robin as she discusses this journey of discovery, compassion, and healing with Dr. George Bonanno. Let's explore the resilience of the human spirit in the face of unimaginable loss. To read the full transcript of this episode and to listen to other episodes, head over to robinstern.com, and please leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast! 

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Dr. Grant Brenner.   Dr. Brenner is the principal and co-founder of Neighborhood Psychiatry, an NYC-based group practice. He is the author and co-editor of Creating Spiritual and Psychological Resilience as well as co-author of Irrelationship: How We Use Dysfunctional Relationships to Hide from Intimacy, Relationship Sanity: Creating and Maintaining Healthy Relationships and Making Your Crazy Work For You: From Trauma and Isolation to Self-Acceptance and Love. Dr Grant Brenner is a board certified physician-psychiatrist, an entrepreneur, author, teacher, speaker and not-for-profit board member. He has been featured on a variety of top ranked psychology resources and media as a thought leader and contributor.  Dr. Brenner and Dr. Stern shine a light on the shadowy corners of gaslighting—a psychological manipulation tactic that distorts reality and undermines our sense of self. Dr. Brenner's unique perspective reveals the psychological mechanisms at play, helping us recognize and navigate these subtle and damaging dynamics. On this episode, we explore the intersection of emotional intelligence and gaslighting, offering practical insights on how to bolster resilience, maintain mental clarity, and regain control over one's narrative. Dr. Brenner's expertise in both mind-body medicine and the intricate workings of manipulation equips us with tools to identify, counter, and heal from gaslighting experiences. Whether you're seeking to understand the deep connections between mind and body or yearning to unmask the shadows of gaslighting, this conversation with Dr. Grant Brenner is a must listen.  To read the full transcript of this episode and to listen to other episodes, head over to robinstern.com, and please be sure to leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast!     

On this episode, Dr. Robin Stern talks with Erika Sánchez.   From Erika's website: "Erika L. Sánchez is the daughter of Mexican immigrants. Her debut poetry collection, Lessons on Expulsion, was published by Graywolf in July 2017, and was a finalist for the PEN America Open Book Award. Her debut young adult novel, I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter, published in October 2017 by Knopf Books for Young Readers, was a New York Times bestseller, a National Book Awards finalist, and Tomás Rivera Award winner. Time has recognized it as one of the best YA novels of all time. It is now is being made into a film directed by America Ferrera. I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter has also been adapted to the theater at Steppenwolf Theater in Chicago and Seattle Rep Theater. Most recently Sánchez published a critically acclaimed memoir-in-essays titled Crying in the Bathroom with Viking Books. It won the Chicago Review of Books Nonfiction award in 2022. Sánchez was a Fulbright Scholar, a 2015 Ruth Lilly and Dorothy Sargent fellow from the Poetry Foundation, a 2017-2019 Princeton Arts Fellow, a 2018 recipient of the 21st Century Award from the Chicago Public Library Foundation, and a 2019 recipient of the National Endowment for the Arts Fellowship." Known for her powerful writing and courageous voice, Erika, along with Robin, sheds light on the signs, effects, and strategies to combat gaslighting, drawing from her own experiences and observations. Robin and Erika discuss the struggles Erika went through to realize her dream of becoming a writer.  Erika is proud to be a role model for other women of color, through her determination to achieve her goal of becoming a full-time writer as well using the platform she has gained through the awards and notoriety she has received.  Erika points out that gaslighting is often used as a tactic against women of color, and they must fight against being told a narrative that they know in their hearts is untrue. Erika Sánchez's candid wisdom and unwavering dedication to shedding light on important issues promise to make this episode an empowering and transformative experience. To read the full transcript of this episode and to listen to other episodes, head over to robinstern.com, and please be sure to leave a rating and review wherever you listen to this podcast.  Thank you!