Turned On With Sue And John

Welcome to another sex ed lesson that nobody gave you in high school. Sex ed for grown ups with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and co-host John.Today we talk sperm. And testosterone. And why your body is, frankly, weird.Plus we introduce you to an incredible new app called Moanr™ with its creators, Kevin & Tracy Daly!Moanr™ is the first privacy-first relationship app designed for your total well being. From secure STI verification to tracking libido,fertility and more..You think you’re in control of your sex life… Meanwhile your body is running a chemical circus with hormones, swimmers, boy bits, girl bits and decisions you didn’t approve. On this episode you'll learn how sperm wars are affecting your sex life and how your body is turning your desire up and down. For your swinger friends (hi!) we look into the rise of soft swapping. If you're in the lifestyle, then you are well aware that it’s happening everywhere!We get to a number of your very hot, kinky confessions this week, and answer a question from one of our listeners who gets turned on in unusual locations and wonders why.For more on Moanr™ see www.moanr.appFor more on Club M4 Toronto see www.clubm4.comWe're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and on Fetlife.com @TurnedOnPodcast (plus connect with John on Fetlife @Megahurts) Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Men... We are about to change your life on today's podcast. You're welcome!Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John share the best tips you'll find anywhere on what you need to do in order to generate the response from her that you've been hoping for.It comes down to being engaged, invested and interesting. If she's interested, she'll give you all kinds of signs. And we reveal what to watch and listen for!Plus... We respond to a listener's question about BDSM. They want to know why people fantasize about it, but then panic when opportunities present themselves.Another listener finds themselves very drawn to vintage porn and wants Sue's opinion on why it's so captivating.For our swinger friends (hi!) Sue and John address the "I didn't expect THAT effect." Why 1,000 different people have 1,000 different ideas of what to expect in the lifestyle and what to do so you don't feel overwhelmed. Baby steps my friend. Our swinger segment is thanks to Club M4 in Mississauga Ontario (google Club M4 to find their website - currently offering $300 off your annual membership renewal!)Get Sue's newsletter and hear/watch past episodes at www.turnedonpodcast.comFollow us on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast or John on FL: MegahurtsYour questions to sue@sexwithsue.com or turnesonsuejohn@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's the St. Patrick's Day edition of Turned On With Sue And John... Today is all about getting lucky!Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie offers some of her best tips on what works to get you laid... Beginning with understanding the three little brain hormones that can make that happen!Plus sex, scent and subtle power - chemistry hacks that no one has taught you, until now!We also do a deep dive on Hotwifing after reading a new study that reveals 71/% of couples who have tried it, say that it improved their marriage! We examine some of the reasons why!And because it is St. Patrick's Day as we record this - we look at Ireland's sex history, and find out why redheads may be hornier! Our Naught-E-Mail box was full this week with questions about how an aging swinger can stay in their "banging form." Another person wants information on how to last longer, and John reveals that he sometimes can, but, at other times, can finish too fast. Sue walks us through some of the reasons why!A voice note this week from one of our regular listeners about what she's getting out of our conversations PLUS she wants to know how she (and you) can become Fuck Reporters for us! Oooh! Fun! And - Sue offers up a FREE 5 minute one on one call with you... Listen to find out more!Thanks to our friends at M4 Toronto (Google ClubM4 to find them online). You'll find us online at www.turnedonpodcast.com where you can contact us, send voice notes and subscribe to our weekly newsletter filled with freebies!And, as promised, here's a link to the Lucky Charms Sex Quiz: http://www-cs-students.stanford.edu/~dufour/HUMOR/LuckyCharms.html Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sue is just back from two weeks in Thailand, where the attitude about sex work is incredibly different from the norm.Today we discuss Fantasy, Money, and the World’s Oldest Transaction!First up - the thing nobody wants to admit about sex work, and why so many are attracted to it.The money conversation is part of today's episode... Including our belief that with world events and changes in employment opportunities, more and more people will be exploring sex as a career option. Sue calls it the "fantasy economy."Plus, the girlfriend experience and why it's so popular, along with stripping and burlesque - and so many other categories of sex work.As always, you, our listener, have filled our in-box with questions, and we are thrilled to answer them! Including someone wanting to know why people admit to affairs even though they may never get caught.Thanks for your Kinky Confessions this week as well... Get on your knees and we'll share them with you. And you can share yours on our website (link below.)Plus, stripping and burlesque and, on our So You're A Swinger segment - a story of a swinger club that only admits people who fit into a certain look. We call bullshit on that. And it's one more reason, on a long list of reasons, why we are thrilled to recommend Club M4 in Toronto - where EVERYONE is welcome and there is zero judgement. www.clubm4.comYour questions, show suggestions, kinky confessions, voice notes along with links to our Youtube channel and every episode of this podcast at www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's what people are desperate to talk about, but are too shy to talk about. Sex.And we talk about it here, on Turned On With Sue And John!Today, at the request of one of our listeners, we devote over an hour talking about the prostate. And we're joined by Caitlin V, host of HBO's GOOD SEX, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger: Science, Skills, and Secrets for the Best Sex of Your Life who has lost of insight to offer on the topic!Plus:- WHY YOUR BEST ORGASM ISN’T IN YOUR PENIS - THE MALE G-SPOT MYTH — AND WHAT’S ACTUALLY HAPPENING - ERECTIONS, EJACULATION, AND WHY MEN PANIC - PEGGING ISN’T ABOUT POWER — UNTIL IT IS And, the best and the worst of swingers club and why they work (and fail)... Brought to you by club M4 in Toronto!Caitlin's Book: www.harderbook.comCaitlin on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinVNew shows every Tuesday - available on all major podcast platforms, Youtube and at www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

You are about to get an incredible lesson on seduction!Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss seduction techniques that nobody has ever pulled you aside to teach you. Until right now!On this episode you'll hear seduction truths, and what swingers know about seduction... Often their seduction strategies work, but not always. We'll get into the rejection factor as well.Sue also introduces you to some of the most famous seducers in history!You know that guy who wore the top hat to the party, or who had the craziest Halloween costume? Did you notice that he got hit on by a lot of women? He planned that. He seduced them! Also today; why seduction is restraint. You always want to leave them wanting more. And Sue looks at the different things men and women often do in order to seduce people!Time to get Turned On With Sue And JohnOnline @ www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's actually why we chose to call our podcast TURNED ON. We knew we'd be having important and intimate conversations about everything that turns us on.In other words; arousal.Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive on the topic. Including why low libido is usually just lousy sex, and why good people end up having boring sex.Find out why you can't negotiate the things that excite you, but you can engineer them, and why talking about sex often makes things worse.On our "So You're A Swinger" segment, brought to you buy Club M4 Toronto (connect with them via the banner on our website) - We ask "are some people really not meant for monogamy?" And, you'll get to hear Sue's life changing intimacy truths!We have several questions from you, out listener to address as well! We LOVE those! sue@sexwithsue.com or via the contact information at www.turnedonpodcast.comAlso find us on Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It's the Domme (or Dom) show - where we do a deep dive in the dark and mysterious world of BDSM.Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive into everything from misconceptions about what goes on in the dungeon to defining the euphoria known as "sub space."More often than not, the sexiest thing a Dominant does has nothing to do with a whip. You'll discover why giving women the power means your sex life skyrockets and why female lead sex is sooo much hotter, and will make men want more.We also discuss what you need to do if you want to quit your shit job and pursue a career as a professional dominant!And, for our swinger friends, we answer a listener question about where to meet other swingers.This is a very hot conversation! We're glad you're getting Turned On with us. Now... Get... On... Your... Knees.Our thanks to Club M4 Toronto - connect with them through our website at www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Oooh this is an especially spicy conversation today! Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie and John talk about Taboos, and the sex you really want when no one is watching.What do we mean by that? The kinks we're too nervous to admit to anyone that we have. The things we secretly watch on porn sites. Seeking time with professional dominants and sex workers.Also this week, we are overloaded with kinky confessions from you, our listener! Our kinky confessional is your safe, anonymous space, to reveal those things you secretly desire or have pursued, but can't tell anyone, but are dying to! We read them here, and post them on our website for all to read! Doesn't it feel good to put it out there, somewhere?Oooh! You tickled our Turned On In Box again with questions and comments (thank you) and one person wants to know Sue's thoughts on the word "cuck" being used more and more in everyday conversation. Does that speak to ENM becoming more mainstream? And, where are swingers meeting other swingers? We share what works for us... What works for you? turnedonsuejohn@gmail.comPlus, we introduce you to Miss Bernadette - a Toronto based, mature disciplinarian who specializes in spanking and associated role play. Heads up, in a few episodes from now we're going to be speaking to some of the top professional Dominatrixes about their craft, and about what you need to do in order to earn time with Them!Our Youtube is back online after a community guidelines strike (oops) and, as always a HUGE shout out to our friends at Club M4 in Toronto and the KISS swingers who will be there this weekend for a masquerade party! Connect with M4 by clicking their logo on our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comAnd, if you're on Fetlife, follow us! @TurnedOnPodcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We absolutely love when YOU, our listener, determines what is discussed on this podcast!  Last week’s episode on the penis was inspired by a request from our audience, and this week, in response to many who wrote to us to ask if we’d talk about her parts as well, we are! This is the “Vag Show” from Turned On With Sue And John.Today Sue will cover everything from setting the record straight about the vagina being a system, not just a hole and about how no two vaginas are the same despite whatever ideas of “the perfect pussy” you get from magazines and other media.We’ll discuss why she likes touch and stillness more than thrusting, why your pelvic floor is not supposed to be tight, and how your vag remembers past sex.Also, we address a question from a listener whose partner wants him to play rough with her labia. He wants to know if that’s ok.  (Spoiler, YES IT IS!) And, for our swinger friends, we present the 15 etiquette rules for swinging - plus one more!  Our swinger segment presented by Club M4 in Toronto - The Premier Swingers Club in North America clubm4.comAnd finally, some fun as fuck feedback about food as sex toys! Click the play button now to get turned on with Sue and John! We’re online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and now on Fetlife “TurnedOnPodcast” Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s another, in a long list of things, that people really want to talk about, but are too shy to talk about.
Penis size.On this episode of Turned On With Sue And John, we’re talking about it! Including, what things actually work to increase length and girth.  There are some crazy things on the market and we’ll help you steer clear of some of them.Men deal with a lot of anxiety over the size of their manhood, and Sue is here to tell you that you can relax.  In fact, she will reveal that there is actually something that most women remember a LOT more than your size!There are problems with being too big as well, and we’ll address that as it pertains to traditional sex, plus oral and even anal sex.For our friends in the swinger lifestyle, we address the men at the resort who may have a big one, but is that enough to get them on everyone’s wish list? (Spoiler; no. It’s not.)And this week’s conversation also deals with the “bros” whose toxic masculinity is hurting them more than it’s helping them, and how they view their penis plays a role in this. Some bonus talk this week regarding men being called “Daddy” and other pet names, and John went to M4, a very well known adult lifestyle club in Toronto and he’ll share his thoughts on the experience with you today as well! Club M4: www.clubm4.comIG: clubm4.toronto It’s time to get turned on… With Sue And John!
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Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John… It’s sex ed for grown ups!
Every week we talk about the number one thing that everybody wants to talk about… Which is also the number one thing people feel uncomfortable talking about.  SEX! This week’s conversation centres around desire.  From desire at a swinger’s club to why 1 in 20 women want to hire an escort.  Plus we look at what’s involved for any man wanting to pursue that line of work.Plus - what IS desire? And, what specific things can you do when it fades?  Sue has some solutions for you!Bonus conversations this week include getting you caught up on some of the weird things about sex that popped up this week that you should know about, and we discuss your astrological symbol, and what it says about your kinks!  Chyrpe, a female-led dating app, analyzed data from nearly one million verified users to see whether zodiac signs aligned with specific sexual interests. We open the Turned On mail bag for listener letters and we have a voice mail from one listener who doesn’t think John should abandon Fetlife, which he has talked about doing.  In fact, Sue suggested that we start our own Fetlife page, which we have!  You can now friend us there at https://fetlife.com/TurnedOnPodcastAnd… John is off to visit Toronto’s famous M4 swinger’s club this weekend.  We’ll have a review on next week’s show!We’re online at www.turnedonpodcast.com where you’ll find past episodes, our voice notes feature, our Youtube channel and more! Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And JohnPS - as promised, here’s a link to the Vice article that reveals your kink according to your Zodiac sign: https://www.vice.com/en/article/every-zodiac-sign-has-a-kink-heres-yours/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

At the request of a listener, today's show is all about masturbation.Sue and John discuss how touching ourselves changed during the pandemic, and some new tricks now that, that's in the past.What to do when you're at the nude beach but you get excited... And secrets of the clit!We introduce you to milking machines and what role they play in self pleasure. Plus mutual masturbation - it's hot!And, as a bonus, we reveal this year's list of things people put inside themselves that lead to them having to make a trip to the ER, and we answer a question submitted to us looking for help on how to fulfill a fantasy of going down on her after you've cum inside her.Connect with our Youtube channel, hear past episodes, and more at www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

It’s time to get Turned On With Sue & John one last time in 2025!  But we’re back next week with our first conversation of 2026! On this episode, one of the top sex educators in the world, Sex With Sue’s, Sue McGarvie, looks back on some of the most important sex lessons you learned in the past 12 months… Things we learned as well! Including the top things we learned from books and sex tools we discovered and really liked! We review new insights into oral sex (drink your water!) and you’ll find out what Sue believes is some of the best sex and intimacy research done this past year. For our swinger friends - We look at Polyfidelity, and for those not in the lifestyle, we’ll bring you up to speed on what that term means. Also, some of the things we, and you, and others, got wrong in 2025 when it comes to sex and relationships, and Sue reveals the one word that kept coming up in sex review after sex review after sex review. Plus - therapy.  It’s coaching, and it’s not something to fear.  John and Sue open up about the importance of great friends, great partners, and the benefits of getting professional help especially when you are ready to open up about your desires and what you crave in the bedroom.  And, a listener’s kinky confession about some fun under the mistletoe this Christmas! Your questions for Sue at sue@sexwithsue.com
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As the Spice Girls said... Tell me what you want, what you really, really want. And that holds true in sex as well! Today we discuss why being subtle will lead to disappointment.Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie will explain why you need to be clear with your lover about your desires.John weighs in with the story of how many radio stations he's worked at painted a very different picture of what they believed the audience wanted, and what those who talked to the listener every day KNEW they really liked and wanted. The point being - if you don't express what you desire, you'll often be presented with things that don't satisfy you.We'll also discuss masculinity meltdowns and viral sex confessions. In fact, we received a voice note from a listener who has a kinky for shiny things and is looking for a partner who will embrace it! We offer some tips on the best places to find that kinky person. We also have an open conversation about why men should always be ok with having their butts played with!In this week's So You're A Swinger segment - getting caught in the act while on a cruise. The do's and don'ts on swinger cruises and on mainstream cruises.Sue will give you a preview of some of the sex tech she wants to discuss in the new year, and there are already some fantastic examples of incredible gadgets that help us get off and explore sex in ways we never could before!Sex In The News is back including the story of a German man whose gingerbread house, glory hole included, became the talk of the town!And we address sex and power. Why a lot of the visuals surrounding Christmas actually speak to our kinky selves!We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com - where you can send voice notes, subscribe to Sue's newsletters (with lots of free shit every week) and more! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week Sex With Sue helps you navigate sex during the darkest time of the year with her Winter Sex Survival Guide, including the importance of light, things you can do at home to boost your desire and, even why biology wants you to have sex right now.We'll discuss the Santa fetish, which so many people have - it's normal - and we'll tell you why it's a thing!And never mind the protocols at the office party, the greatest protocols are in place at the next party you'll attend at the swinger's club!Sue's XXXMas shopping guide offers up 6 more things you can get today that will rock your world, she also has 5 tips to ensure you have better sex this winter, and, find out why she knows that you should spend some time at a nude beach!It's Turned On With Sue And John online @ www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sex With Sue is back with another incredible conversation about... SEX!The thing people are most uncomfortable talking about is exactly what we talk about here on Turned On With Sue And John!This week it's all about desire and the secrets of seduction. We talk chemistry, and curiosity! Are you as straight as you tell yourself you are, or do we all keep that door open a little bit?In our So You're A Swinger Segment we talk about the danger most don't even consider when engaging in group play... Catching a cold when swinging in winter. Plus, Sue offers 5 tips that she says will absolutely get you laid!Sue also asks you this: What if the things that turn you on… aren’t supposed to make sense? And it's part 1 of our Naughty Gift Suggestions For Christmas! Part two is cumming on next week's show!Find Sue's latest book, The Suburban Hedonist on Amazon and be sure to subscribe to the newsletter for all kinds of bonus articles and other content! The link is at www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

These are the question you want answer to, but are too shy to ask! They are the things we talk about on Turned On With Sue And John. Yes, we talk about SEX!This week, Sue ("Sex With Sue") guides us on a wildly entertaining but informative conversation about our sex bits - our dicks and our clits!From how his parts and her parts work, to how they're similar and how they're different... Also the importance of having your naughty parts checked on a regular basis. Sexual health is a vital part of your overall health.Have you ever wondered just how drag queens "tuck" their junk? It's all about our anatomy and Sue walks us through how it works. We also do a deep dive into the vagina and explore the various parts and what they do, and how to get maximum pleasure from them!We also talk to a special guest this week, Myq Kaplan, a standup comedian who speaks openly about ethical non monogamy, which you can hear more of on his new Youtube special! More on Myq at https://myqkaplan.comPlus, you get a little preview of our naughty Christmas song.To subscribe to our newsletter with all kinds of free bonus content every week, to leave a review, or a voice note, find us at www.turnedonpodcast.comThanks for getting Turned On With Sue and John. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, Sex With Sue dives into the sexiest things you can do in bed!Did you know that you can project sexual energy? You can! And you do! But how to tune into that? We'll give you some tips, of course!Lesbians are a great resource for insight into the hottest things in sex, and we'll find out some of the things that community knows that you may not!We'll also discuss some of the conversations on Reddit about this topic! Sue also lets you in on what angles and positions people agree are actually really, really sexy!For our swinger friends (hi!) what to do when one partner wants to swing but the other is hyperventilatingAnd, as a bonus, Sue talks to 70 year old porn star Maestro Claudio! He's still going strong on screen and his story is fascinating!Plus, a kinky confession from someone being naughty at a football game and lots more!Kisses, kinks, and cuddles... We talk about the things you're often too shy to talk about!Time to get Turned On With Sue & John Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey! It's Sue And John!This week on Turned On, a conversation about porn... What it gets right, and where it misses the mark. And most importantly what you can learn from it that will make you the star of your own private show!Sexy can look sexy on camera, but it can look very different in reality, and not always in a good way. We offer some insight on how to make sure that you always look and feel hot at home!We also do a deep dive into some of the weirdest aspects of the adult industry, and let you in on how male porn stars last longer and stay hard! Sue shares some recent data that reveals why more women than men are turned on by aggressive sex, and we examine the huge change in the adult industry between Gen X and Gen Z. For the younger generation, the sex business is all business!The things you are too terrified to ask are the things we are all too happy to answer!It’s time to get turned on with Sue and John!Check out our new website with voice notes, hundreds of kinky confessions from our listeners and more! www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.