The Other What

This episode of The Other What podcast offers a candid look at international travel, touching on themes of diversity, cultural exchange, and personal growth. Desiree's experiences challenge listeners to consider their own travel perspectives and the unexpected lessons that can be found in new places. Ready to hear more about Desiree's European adventure? Tune in to the full episode of The Other What podcast for all the details and insights! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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In this candid episode of The Other What, hosts Sharon Goh and Désirée Jamerson sit down with their special guest and friend, Erinn, to discuss the powerful and emotional journey of coming out in her forties. The conversation covers Erinn's upbringing in a deeply religious family and the realization of her true identity. Erinn shares vivid anecdotes, including an eye-opening trip to Philadelphia, a life-changing experience at a queer festival, and her initial steps in navigating the dating world as a newly out lesbian. The discussion touches on the complexities of divorce, the pressures of societal expectations, and the process of finding and embracing one's true self.Visit https://theotherwhat.com to learn more about the podcast and join the conversation. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode of "The Other What" podcast, Sharon Goh and Désirée Jamerson delve into various aspects of women's health, combining humor with informative discussion. Désirée shares her recent experience of undergoing a colonoscopy, breaking down the process step-by-step to demystify the procedure and alleviate common fears. She highlights the importance of preventative health measures and encourages listeners not to dread the preparation or the procedure itself, as her own experience was quite manageable and even positive. Sharon and Désirée exchange humorous anecdotes and honest reflections about their changing bodies, adding a light-hearted touch to the serious topic of health screenings.The conversation then shifts to the broader topic of aging and women's health, focusing on the transition into perimenopause. Both hosts candidly discuss the physical and emotional challenges that accompany this stage of life, such as weight gain, mood swings, and the societal pressure to maintain youth and beauty. Désirée shares her struggles with Hashimoto's disease, highlighting how its symptoms often overlap with those of perimenopause. The duo emphasizes the need for more open dialogue among women about these issues, advocating for a supportive community where women can share their experiences and combat feelings of shame or invisibility.Sharon and Désirée reflect on the societal stigma surrounding aging and the pressure on women to remain youthful. They discuss the lack of conversation around women's health, particularly in certain cultural contexts where discussing bodily changes is taboo. Sharon shares her personal challenges in discussing health issues with her parents, who were not open about such topics. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to break the silence around women’s health issues and to seek out supportive communities for sharing and learning. The hosts encourage women to embrace their experiences and support one another in navigating the complexities of aging.For more discussions on women's health and other important topics, visit our website at theotherwhat.com. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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Kicking Off Season 2: From the Closet and BeyondIn the premiere episode of season two, hosts Sharon and Désirée reflect on their experiences since season one, including significant life transitions such as new jobs and relationships, as well as divorce. They share humorous anecdotes and deep conversations about Valentine's Day, reconnecting with old friends, and embarking on a travel adventure to Savannah for St. Patrick's Day. The episode also covers Désirée's standout improv performance, a luxurious cruise trip with her friend Chris, and Sharon's exciting discovery of a new fashion sense. The hosts set the stage for an exciting season filled with personal growth, laughter, and engaging topics.Watch this episode on YouTube! 00:00 Welcome to Season Two!00:10 Transitioning and New Beginnings01:02 Catching Up After the Break02:43 Valentine's Day and Colonoscopy Adventures05:45 Fun February Activities12:55 Reconnecting with Old Friends15:19 Road Trip to Savannah for St. Patrick's Day25:56 Exploring Improv Classes27:08 Savannah Adventures and St. Patrick's Day33:18 Cruise Chronicles with Chris44:38 Sharon's New Wardrobe Journey49:17 Conclusion and Farewell Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color living in Atlanta, Georgia, introduce their podcast, “The Other What.”  They started the Other What podcast to share their stories and explore race, queerness, and growing up in the South. They discuss their friendship and how they bonded over their experiences growing up.Find us on our website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and follow us on social media: ⁠The Other What on Instagram⁠ ⁠The Other What on Facebook⁠ ⁠⁠The Other What on YouTube⁠⁠WE HAVE MERCH! Visit our website to see what we’ve got, and support our podcast!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theotherwhat/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sharon and Désirée reminisce about where they hung out in the 2000s: lesbian bars, gay bars, lesbian parties/pop ups.Mentioned in this Episode: "Nowhere to Party - The Decimation of Queer Spaces for Black Lesbians" - LGBQ Nation "Moby Dyke" Cruising: A queer documentary podcast DJ Vicki Powell on queer nightlife, a changing Atlanta, and the art of throwing a party ZAMI NOBLA - National Organization of Black Lesbians on Aging "21 Lesbian Bars Remain in America" - PBS Newshour DJ India DJ Mim A2Z Ladies At Play Atlanta Lesbian Bar Bombing in 1997 Atlanta Lesbian Bar Bombing in 1997 The Sports Bra Atlanta Black Pride WeekendSharon and Désirée, two queer women of color living in Atlanta, Georgia, introduce their podcast, “The Other What.”  They started the Other What podcast to share their stories and explore race, queerness, and growing up in the South. They discuss their friendship and how they bonded over their experiences growing up.Find us on our website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and follow us on social media: The Other What on Instagram The Other What on Facebook ⁠The Other What on YouTube⁠WE HAVE MERCH! Visit our website to see what we’ve got, and support our podcast!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theotherwhat/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, Désirée and Sharon discuss their dating lives by decade - from partying in their 20s to all-inclusive vacations in their 40s. tiktok.com/@ceewilldotcom "We're Atlanta Queers"Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color living in Atlanta, Georgia, introduce their podcast, “The Other What.”  They started the Other What podcast to share their stories and explore race, queerness, and growing up in the South. They discuss their friendship and how they bonded over their experiences growing up.Find us on our website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and follow us on social media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ The Other What on YouTubeWE HAVE MERCH! Visit our website to see what we’ve got, and support our podcast!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theotherwhat/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Désirée and Sharon reminisce on Atlanta 90's nightlife. They review the "Empire Strips Back" cabaret show wrapping up it's Atlanta run and talk about the Atlanta strip club culture, lesbians and race.Mentioned in this Episode Empire Strips Back: https://theempirestripsback.com/atlanta/ The Clermont Lounge: https://www.clermontlounge.net/ Blondie (of Clermont Lounge Fame): https://www.instagram.com/blondieclermont/ Lady Gaga On Clermont Lounge: https://creativeloafing.com/content-218675-Blondie-gives-Lady-Gaga-a-piece-of-her-mind-at-Clermont-Lounge Masquerade Club: https://www.masqueradeatlanta.com/ MJQ Concourse: https://www.mjqofficial.com/Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color living in Atlanta, Georgia, introduce their podcast, “The Other What.”  They started the Other What podcast to share their stories and explore race, queerness, and growing up in the South. They discuss their friendship and how they bonded over their experiences growing up.Find us on our website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and follow us on social media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC22kA20n-gLNoK6Pe4_5_QQWE HAVE MERCH! Visit our website to see what we’ve got, and support our podcast!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theotherwhat/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this episode, "What's Your Flavor?," Sharon and Désirée discuss why they date the people they date -- touching on race, their different upbringings and their personal values. They dive in to how their values have shifted over time.Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color living in Atlanta, Georgia, introduce their podcast, “The Other What.”  They started the Other What podcast to share their stories and explore race, queerness, and growing up in the South. They discuss their friendship and how they bonded over their experiences growing up.Find us on our website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠, and follow us on social media: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠⁠ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC22kA20n-gLNoK6Pe4_5_QQWE HAVE MERCH! Visit our website to see what we’ve got, and support our podcast!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theotherwhat/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From Furniture Building to Family Love: Exploring Parental InfluencesIn this heartfelt episode, hosts Sharon and Désirée dive deep into the ways their parents have influenced their perceptions of love and relationships. They share personal anecdotes, from Sharon's father's humorous grocery store encounter to Désirée's parents' affectionate marriage. The conversation touches on the contrasts between Eastern and Western concepts of love, the impact of generational trauma, and the importance of love languages in their lives.Sharon opens up about her parents' reserved expressions of love, rooted in Eastern traditions, while Désirée reflects on the open affection and confidence her parents instilled in her. Together, they explore how these differing backgrounds shaped their views on love, independence, and self-worth. The episode also delves into the significance of chosen families within the LGBTQ+ community and the role of food as an unspoken love language.Watch this episode on YouTube! 00:00 Sharon: I'm putting together an entertainment center and my body hurts01:12 How did our parents influence our ideas of love01:47 How did your parents meet and how your parents met07:20 Moving out is a very western concept. Why would you get your own place08:54 Sharon's parents have been married for 46 years14:13 From my perspective, being from an eastern asian culture, love is different19:19 I didn't grow up with a lot of that. Love was not kind words. Love is criticism20:47 This is the stuff that is really tough for me to talk about27:24 Gay people develop their own family outside of their born family29:43 The five love languages are discussed in Gary Chapman's book33:55 There is a 6th love language, which is food36:45 If you have any, um, comments or feedback, please let us knowMentioned in this EpisodeCulture Clash: Reconciling Asian collectivist values and Western individualistic values - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/minority-report/201905/culture-clashDifference between Eastern and Western Culture - https://thespanishgroup.org/blog/how-is-eastern-culture-different-from-western-cultureThe Myth of Rugged Individualism - https://www.ouropinionsarecorrect.com/shownotes/2019/7/27/episode-43-scientific-racism"What My Bone's Know" by Stephanie Foo - https://www.amazon.com/What-My-Bones-Know-Healing/dp/0593238109The 5 Love Languages - https://5lovelanguages.comFind us on our website at ⁠⁠⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠⁠⁠, and follow us on social media:⁠⁠⁠https://instagram.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠WE HAVE MERCH! Visit our website to see what we’ve got, and support our podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Coming Out Stories: Realizations, Firsts, and Family ReactionsIn this heartfelt episode of The Other What, Sharon and Désirée delve into the pivotal moments of their lives when they realized they were gay, recount their first queer experiences, and share the emotional journeys of coming out to their parents. Sharon recounts her high school days, navigating confusing crushes and the eventual realization of her sexuality, while Désirée reminisces about a transformative moment in 1992 sparked by a music video. The hosts provide a mix of humorous and touching anecdotes, making this episode a compelling listen for anyone interested in personal stories of identity and acceptance.00:00 Today on the other what podcast, we talk about coming out and queer experiences03:18 Sharon Moore says she first realized she was gay in 1992 music video07:39 Sharon talks about her first queer experience after college09:42 We're gonna talk a little bit about our first queer experiences14:16 Sharon's first experience with love happened in 1996 in Savannah, Georgia21:11 Just following her around the house, straightening up clothes. Straightening up the clothes21:45 Wrote about coming out to our parents and what that was like27:37 Barton came out to his parents in 1996; it didn't go well31:03 Sharon: I wonder if anybody has any great coming out stories32:58 The other what is hosted by Sharon Goh and Desiree JamersonMentioned in this EpisodeEn Vogue - "Giving Him Something He Can Feel" Music Video - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoaceIZxaaoCanton House Restaurant - 4825 Buford Hwy, Chamblee, Georgia - CantonHouseRestaurant.comBooks & Publications"Does Your Mama Know?" by Lisa Moore. An anthology of coming out stories from black lesbians. - https://search.worldcat.org/title/37424646"The SCUM Manifesto" by Valerie Solanas - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SCUM_ManifestoMovies"The Incredibly True Adventures of Two Girls in Love" (1995) - Directed by Maria Maggenti; Starring Laurel Holloman, Nicole Ari Parker, Maggie Moore. An adventurous love story between two young women of different social and economic backgrounds who find themselves going through all the typical struggles of a new romance. - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0113416/"A Luv Tale" (1999) - Directed by Sidra Smith; Starring Gina Ravera, Michele Lamar Richard, MC Lyte. The story of two women one Straight the other Gay, both ending long term loveless relationships. Together they find the love and respect they both deserve and long for. - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0188041/ and https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCtsuyxG8AM-5TCmrqYOizCw (Sidra Smith's YouTube Channel)"Saving Face" (2004) - Directed by Alice Wu; Starring Joan Chen, Michelle Krusiec, Lynn Chen. A gay Chinese-American and her traditionalist mother are reluctant to go public with secret loves that clash against cultural expectations. - https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0384504/Find us on our website at ⁠⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠⁠, and follow us on social media:⁠⁠https://instagram.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠⁠⁠https://facebook.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC22kA20n-gLNoK6Pe4_5_QQWE HAVE MERCH! Visit our website to see what we’ve got, and support our podcast! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Family Dynamics and Growing Up Queer in the SouthJoin hosts Sharon and Désirée as they dive into the complexities of family dynamics and growing up queer in the South. In this episode, they share personal stories about their upbringing, exploring how their families viewed queerness through the lens of religion and cultural backgrounds. Désirée opens up about her childhood in Savannah, Georgia, while Sharon discusses her experience as an only child of immigrant parents. They also touch on the impact of religious conversions in their families and the unique challenges they faced coming out. With humor and heartfelt moments, this episode offers a candid look at the intersection of family, culture, and identity.Watch this episode on YouTube! 00:00 Introduction00:45 Désirée's Childhood in Savannah02:30 Sharon's Experience as an Only Child05:20 Family Reactions to Queerness10:15 The Success Perm and Cultural Beauty Standards15:00 Religious Conversions: Christianity to Judaism22:10 Sharon's Family Conversion from Buddhism to Christianity30:00 Désirée's Journey in Synagogue35:45 Coming Out Stories45:00 The Impact of Religious Beliefs on Queer Identity55:00 Conclusion and Listener StoriesFrom the Episode:Girls in the Night - https://twitter.com/girlsinthenight"Success Perm" from Fresh Off the Boat - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lB2cOftvqSMThe Uncanny Counter (Netflix Series) - "Noodle shop employees by day and demon hunters by night, the Counters use special abilities to chase down malevolent spirits that prey on humans." https://www.netflix.com/title/81323551"For many years, I think 28 years now, we've had a St. Patrick's celebration. We call it the Shamrock Festival and Oyster Roast, which allows the LGBT community here in Savannah and in Coastal Georgia to gather and celebrate St. Patrick's Day," said Chairman of First City Network, Billy Wooten. - https://www.wtoc.com/story/28525445/shamrock-festival-and-oyster-roast/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Diving into Lesbian Labels: Exploring IdentityIn this engaging episode of The Other What, hosts Sharon and Désirée delve into the intricate world of lesbian labels. With a plethora of new terms emerging since they first came out, the duo embarks on a journey to understand and discuss the 27 types of lesbians listed on OnceUponAJrny.com. From "stud" to "chapstick lesbian," they explore how these labels resonate with their personal experiences and the broader LGBTQ+ community.Désirée shares her evolving identity from a super femme in the late ‘90s to her current comfort in a more masculine role. Sharon reflects on her own label as a "mask" lesbian and the peculiarities of the list, including the racial undertones in some labels. The hosts also humorously discuss terms like "doppelbanger," "hey, mama lesbian," and the fascinating concept of "stone butch."Join Sharon and Désirée as they navigate these labels with humor, insight, and a critical eye, questioning the necessity and impact of categorizing identities within the queer community.Visit our website for more episodes and updates!00:00 This is the second episode of the other what podcast01:22 From a lesbian label perspective, how do you label yourself07:03 This list is so weird. No offense, it's written by a white woman10:47 Doppelganger describes a couple who look alike14:17 Do your friends identify as versatile soft or chapstick lesbians16:36 Sharon: I had no idea all this stuff was out there21:06 Sharon Goh: I think power lesbians compliment each otherMentioned in this Episode27 Types of Lesbians - https://onceuponajrny.com/types-of-lesbians/https://www.lesliefeinberg.net/Find us on our website at ⁠https://theotherwhat.com/⁠, and follow us on social media:⁠https://instagram.com/theotherwhat⁠⁠https://facebook.com/theotherwhat⁠ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Welcome to The Other What Podcast: Episode 1In this inaugural episode, hosts Sharon and Désirée, two queer women of color from Atlanta, Georgia, introduce themselves and share their unique stories. They delve into their experiences growing up in the South, navigating race, queerness, and community. From hilarious anecdotes about mistaken identities to heartfelt reflections on their friendship, this episode sets the stage for a rich season of storytelling and exploration.Join Sharon and Désirée as they discuss how they met through a friendship app, their nostalgic memories of Atlanta's queer scene in the '90s and 2000s, and the importance of building community. They also touch on the complexities of racial identity and the challenges of constantly having to "come out" in various aspects of their lives.Visit our website for more episodes and content!instagram.com/theotherwhatyoutube.com/@theotherwhat Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

"The Other What" is a podcast that brings together two Atlanta-based queer women of color who are navigating the intersection of mid-life experience, divorce, singlehood, lesbian identity, building community, and living as multiple “others” in the heteronormative world.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/theotherwhat/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.