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Opinionated & informative with a sprinkle of slightly toxic: Join Bridget Kelly & Mandii B for all things pop culture, music, and media through the minds of women.

  • Audio every Tuesday and Friday on your favorite DSP
  • Video every Wednesday and Saturday on YouTube

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Happy Tuesday nieces and nephews! This week your favorite auntie Mandii B joined by ½ of the Around The Way Curls Podcast and 1/3 or the Can’t Afford Therapy Podcast Antoinette and Host of Why Are You Single and Comedian/entrepreneur Reeezy for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations.The three talk about:Their Valentine’s Day and a proper Netflix and Chill movie/show selection (18:00) Antoinette getting an award at work and the duality of gratitude and yearning for something different (25:00) Chris Brown being “uninvited” to the NBA All-Star games and his public call out of Ruffles (37:00)Why Kelly Rowland’s reaction about the Today show was EXTREMELY APPROPRIATE and the media’s reaction to it (52:00)Fanni Willis didn’t do anything “illegal” however, attorneys for numerous defendants have sought to disqualify Willis and the Fulton DA’s office in part because of her romantic relationship with special prosecutor Nathan Wade(1:00:00)(1:13:00) Freshly Squeezed: New Music---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors: Curology: For a limited time you can get your first Curology skincare box for just $5–when you go to https://www.Curology.com/stti  NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com Etsy: A gifting moment is always around the corner. But whether it’s a birthday, an anniversary, a holiday, or even just a day to say “thank you”—Gift Mode on Etsy has you covered! Try Gift Mode on Https://www. Etsy.com now!Care/of: Taking your vitamins and being proactive about your health just got WAY easier, and packaged more intentionally/sustainably with Care/Of! For 50% off your first month's subscription with Care/of, go to https://TakeCareOf.com and use code stti50!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite auntie Bridget Kelly is joined for a special episode centered around love & marriage with hosts of For Better or Best Podcast, Charles & Shireen. ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors: Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/STTI , click ‘Enter Voucher’ in the top right corner and enter STTI for both the code AND password to get 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included - that’s $100 off and less than $7 per bottle! Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 50% off your first subscription order today PLUS 15% off and free shipping every subscription order after that! Go to https://prose.com/STTI! Curology: For a limited time you can get your first Curology skincare box for just $5–when you go to https://www.Curology.com/stti  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by author of “A Walk Into The Dark & Cold” Tu’shouney for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three cover topics like, the limitations of love language theory and the importance of factoring in trauma, the 5 types of relationships within a marriage, learning how to allow space while still being present, Being intentionally patient, and the importance of asking/answering the hard questions while dating AKA Dating Backwards!. Timestamps:(5:00) Learning how to compromise within a relationship: 1 partner wanting to celebrate a holiday that the other does not believe in {20:00) The misuse/overuse of the love language theory:Does not consider/factor in experiences with trauma Can be weaponized as a tallying metricWhole love vs. Love vs. attachments(30:00) Being HEALED isn’t REAL, you’re simply aware. Healing is an ongoing journey.(38:00) Theory: MOST Men don’t like women and women don’t like men(40:00) Why do men repel from “wholeness” (50:00) Being Honest about Dishonesty doesn’t make betrayal okay: KEVIN GATES CLIP (1:00:00) 5 types of relationships within a marriage for the full relationship to thrive: The one with yourselfFriendship with each otherRomantic relationship with each otherSexual relationships with each otherMartial relationship  (1:10:00) Dating backwards: within 1 conversation you can learn what it usually take 6 months to learn:List a few things you know that you need to work on List a few things that people have told you you need to work on (1:15:00) Anything that separates you from love, is self harm: extreme detachment, isolation, etc. (1:16:00) Freshly Squeezed:Same Mistake- Destin Conrad Ft. Alex Isley Easy- SamohtNo Evil - SiR ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show: Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/STTI , click ‘Enter Voucher’ in the top right corner and enter STTI for both the code AND password to get 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included - that’s $100 off and less than $7 per bottle! Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and get 50% off your first subscription order today PLUS 15% off and free shipping every subscription order after that! Go to https://prose.com/STTI! Curology: For a limited time you can get your first Curology skincare box for just $5–when you go to https://www.Curology.com/stti  See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Run Me My Money

Run Me My Money

2024-02-0901:20:25

Happy Friday Nieces & Nephews!Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about, (30:00) KeKe Palmer X Bobbi Keke Althoff interview and the difference between appreciation and appropriation, (38:00) Kanye’s inability to book arenas and the true meaning of “cancelation”, (44:00) Master P and Snoop Dogg Sue Walmart for hindering sales of their cereal, and so much more. Enjoy your Superbowl weekend and make sure to drive safely. Please don’t drink and drive!!  ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show: SMALLS: Give your cat food the quality food they deserve! For 50% off your first order, head to https://www.smalls.com/stti  and use code STTI NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
No Concept of Consequences

No Concept of Consequences

2024-02-0601:32:59

Happy Tuesday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations.The three talk about: (3:00) Involuntary secondhand smoke (7:00) Finalizing wedding plans (10:00) Ginger ale is now said to make illness worse // NY POST Vicks to “break a fever” Hot Toddy to cure coldsOnion/garlic in the sock(15:00) Post yourself at 21 years old trend & reflections about your 21 year old self (20:00) The Grammys: Snubs, finally, and what’s next ?(50:00) Universal Music Group removes their label artists’ songs from TikTok  (57:00) Tyrese wishes he was Latino (1:05:00) Shaq says a man should never open himself up to a woman(1:20:00) Things We Don’t Care About: Tattooing your partner’s name on your body. Despite what Rick Ross & Drake told ya’ll, it doesn't make it real!  (1:25:00) Freshly Squeezed:Ruin-  Usher, PheelzJT- Sideways---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show: SMALLS: Give your cat food the quality food they deserve! For 50% off your first order, head to https://www.smalls.com/stti  and use code STTI NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. Joining them on the couch this week is multi-media powerhouse, entrepreneur, and your future Stockton city councilman Jason Lee. The three talk about: (4:00) Evolution is a requirement if you’re a living being(8:00) Releasing the expectations that people have for you (11:00) Dreams that they had as kids that have/have not materialized (16:30) Honest Segment: Jason Lee is running for Mayor of Stockton, CA(18:00) Jason’s relationship with Stockton, CA (28:00) Jason explains why he thinks he’s suited for this position(44:34) Neighborhood talk, Spiritual Word, TSR, and Hollywood Unlock meet with the democratic administration(51:26) Jason Lee reads the emails to Stephanie Daily Smith to the administration & the response back (1:05:00) Stockton Unlocked: Ralph White & inhumane business practices(1:19:00) Florida looking to ban social media for kids under the age of 16  ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Tuesday nieces and nephews! One of your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly is joined on the couch this week with Cultural Curator Sioban and founder of LIT Brooklyn Dwil for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about: (5:00)Grown: Restaurants that they used to go to as kids (Golden Coral, etc.) (24:00) Honest: Rap Beef: How low is too low? (1:00:00) Slightly Toxic:Have you purposely or accidentally left something at a partner's house? How do you retrieve it?  If you’re trying to protect a friend from her abusive boyfriend and she ends up giving him your address, what do you do? (1:44:00) Freshly Squeezed: Rap Beef SongsRemy Ma- Shether (Nicki Minaj tweet) Takeover- JAY-ZHit Em Up - 2PAC The Story of Adidon- Pusha T ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show: Zoc Doc: Zocdoc is a FREE app and website where you can search and compare highly-rated, in-network doctors near you AND instantly book appointments with them online. Go to Zocdoc.com/STTI and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today.Factor: Forget frantic lunch preps and rushed dinners! Factor's 2-minute meals are your secret weapon in the new year. Fuel up fast with restaurant-quality meals—all delivered right to your door. Head to https://factormeals.com/stti50 and use code stti50 to get 50% off! SKIMS: If you are looking for a gift for your Valentine or for yourself - SKIMS just launched their best Valentine’s Shop ever https://skims.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
**This episode is sponsored by Better Help**Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are back for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. Joining them on the couch this week is TV personality Ashley Brittney Silva.The three talk about: (4:00) Bridget finding her wedding dress & wedding dress scammers(10:00) Our assumptions about being 30 vs. the reality of being in your 30’s(21:00) Being friends with women in a different stage of life then you (marriage, kids, etc) (31:00) Love & Marriage DC:Confessional room gangsters Relationships on/off screenMarketing for the showWhat to anticipate on new season (45:00) Restraining orders and familial boundaries (disclaimer:this section conversations about abuse) (1:00:00) Candance Owens’s comment about being a “homewrecker” (1:08:00) Freshly Squeezed:MANDII- Avant- Separated BRIDGET- Carl Thomas- I Wish ASHLEY- Boyz II Men- On bended knee—------------------Sponsors:Hello Fresh: Whether your resolution is to save money, eat better, or stress less, HelloFresh is here to help you do all three!  Go to https://HelloFresh.com/sttifree and use code sttifree for FREE breakfast for life! Better Help: If you’re thinking of starting therapy, give BetterHelp a try. "Visit BetterHelp.com/SEETHETHINGIS today to get 10% off your first month.”Embrace Pet Insurance: don't wait for the unexpected to happen— join the massive community of pet owners who trust Embrace Pet Insurance to protect their pet. Head to https://embracepetinsurance.com/stti and join the massive community of pet owners who trust Embrace Pet Insurance to protect their pets.  NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
This episode is sponsored to you by BetterHelpHappy Tuesday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined on the couch with media personality and podcaster Mr. Jay Hill for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about: (7:00) The difference between journalism Vs. social commentary (20:00) Pay inequality (28:00) Only Fans X Snoop Dogg(43:00) 'Brick lady' who shared video of her horrifically-swollen face after accusing a man of attacking her with a block for spurning his advances is branded a LIAR by cops: Raked in $40,000 on GoFundMe(54:00) Desantis endorses Trump(57:00) Slightly Toxic: Man who got 5 women pregnant at the same time hosts joint baby shower- all the ladies are happy (1:09:00) Freshly Squeezed: MANDII- NOTHING SWEETER- NAOMI SHARON  BRIDGET- HEART AIN’T EMPTY- BLXST  JAY HILL - MIRRORS/ DROWNING - MORNIN’ AFTA---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/6678m1b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors:Hello Fresh: Whether your resolution is to save money, eat better, or stress less, HelloFresh is here to help you do all three! Go to https://HelloFresh.com/sttifree and use code sttifree for FREE breakfast for life! Better Help: If you’re thinking of starting therapy, give BetterHelp a try. "Visit BetterHelp.com/SEETHETHINGIS today to get 10% off your first month.”Embrace Pet Insurance: don't wait for the unexpected to happen— join the massive community of pet owners who trust Embrace Pet Insurance to protect their pet. Head to https://embracepetinsurance.com/stti and join the massive community of pet owners who trust Embrace Pet Insurance to protect their pets.  NYX Cosmetics Concealer: Just twist it up, pop it on, blend with a brush or finger and then it’s done! It’s like waving a magic wand and having your skin perfected. Get your NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer and at https://nyxcosmetics.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Friday Nieces & Nephews, Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by ½ or the podcast “Around The Way Curls” , 1/3rd of the podcast,“Can’t Afford Therapy”., and (y)our favorite friends with benefits  Antoinette  for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three talk about: (3:00) Shows they’ve been watching lately (10:00) Apps/technology that they’d like to see in the future (25:40) Are award shows a good medium for comedians? What is tasteful comedy in a mixed crowd setting? (44:00) Vivica A. Fox’s response regarding Taraji P. Henson’s argument about pay inequality in the entertainment industry. (50:00) Antoinette explains why transparency is the enemy of exploitation(1:00:00) Would you feel some type of way if your friend accomplishes a major life goal and you find out on social media? (1:11:00) Freshly Squeezed music theme:  Songs created by couples (past & present) Mandii’s pick: What Would You Do - City High  Bridget’s pick: Body Party- Ciara Feat. Future Antoinette’s pick: Got ‘Til It’s Gone Feat. Q-tip & Joni Mitchell Outro Song: Two Wrong Feat. Claudette OrtizDon't forget to go comment on our instagram which song you would would select for our freshly squeezed segment this week- https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Tuesday Nieces & Nephews, Great news… your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are reunited for the first time in 2024! This episode they are also joined on the couch by one of (y)our favorite friends with benefits Antoinette for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. Since you all love Antoinette when she’s on the platform, make sure to go check her out on her weekly podcast “Around The Way Curls” or her Seasonal podcast “Can’t Afford Therapy”. (5:00) Bridget talks about her trip to Jamaica and gives updates about wedding planning (14:00) Antoinette expresses her initial reservations about traveling with Mandii and the surprises along the way (18:00) Mandii & Antoinette talk about their trip to Mexico(30:00) Why Coretta Scott King Was THAT GIRLLLL! (38:00) Most Def’s analysis of Drake’s Music: Commercial Vs. Conscious Music // https://x.com/artofdialogue_/status/1746224650609119627?s=46&t=HOv_FBl5-DsOFPoNoo7k-g(52:00) Claudine Gay resigns as Harvard President after the ridiculous, laughable, and foolish claims of “plagiarism” led by Harvard donor Bill Ackman. Bill Ackmen (billionaire hedge fund manager) and major donor at Harvard fought for Claudine’s resignation only to have it revealed that his own wife plagiarized taking full sentences & paragraphs from Wikipedia. She was a tenured professor at MIT. She didn’t cite Wikipedia because it was against school policy to use it as a source. She admitted she was wrong. Her husband went on a Twitter rant (5139 word tweet) protecting his wife questioning if one could even plagiarize wiki. He said it was unfair to raise questions about a dissertation written in 2009 even though Claudine Gay’s thesis was written in the 90’s (57:00) What precedent does the use of AI in a case similar to Claudine set for freedom of speech and censorship tactics in universities. (1:04:00) What is the price of truth/freedom? (1:05:00) Wiz Khalifa says anyone he dates has to be okay with his relationship with Amber Rose. The importance of healthy co-parentingSpeaking poorly or disrespectfully about an ex reveals more about yourself than your former partner (1:19:00) Freshly Squeezed Mandii pick- 21 Savage - Red Rum // https://music.apple.com/us/album/redrum/1724494274?i=1724494724 Bridget pick- Ariana Grande ; Yes, And? // https://music.apple.com/us/album/yes-and/1724584200?i=1724584201 Antoinette pick- Hallelujah Heaven- Jeymes Samuel // https://music.apple.com/us/album/hallelujah-heaven-feat-lil-wayne-buju-banton-shabba/1716811591?i=1716811604 ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Friday Nieces and Nephews! This week your favorite auntie Mandii B is joined by CEO of Idea To Launch Podcast Productions and Host of Pivot with Purpose Podcast , Carla Wilmaris, and co-host of My Expert Opinion , Co-founder/director of YKTV Magazine, Champ MEO. The 3 are here to bring you some grown honest and slightly toxic conversations to kick off your weekend. **Please listen to this episode with caution as it will contain language about assault, violence, and suicidal ideation.**(11:00) You Are What You Eat Documentary led Mandii & Carla to pay for a $1,000 dinner for 2(14:00) NYC’s obsession with juice bars & Tiger Bone to increase sexual stamina (20:50) What is the etiquette when you’re leaving a party? Is it rude to leave without saying goodbye? (24:00) Kat Williams tour tickets and the meaning behind touring with Tony Roberts(37:36) Good Morning Interview with Jonathan majors: The importance of differentiating the different types of abuse and the validity of them all (Leave Martin Luther King Jr. & President Obama out of this sir…) (41:00) Has Jonathan Majors positively contributed to the Black community? (49:00) Gypsy Rose: Should she be free after successfully planning the murder of her mother? Why is she celebrated? (1:00:00) The mental and physical health services in prison (or lack there of…) (1:01:00) Champ shares a story about “disobeying a direct order” from a CO while he was incarcerated and the unruly, disgusting, and violent repercussions  (1:13:40) - What does it mean to have a Hoe Collaboration? (1:19:40) The rebranding / reclaiming of the word “HOE”(1:23:00) Would you speak about speaking on your former relationships publicly (1:30:00) What is considered a low blow during an argument? (1:40:11) Freshly Squeezed: Mandii’s pick: Jericho- Iniko //  https://music.apple.com/us/album/jericho/1682564934?i=1682564938 Carla’s pick: Besto (Fruta Fresca) - Carlos Vivez// https://music.apple.com/us/album/beso-fruta-fresca-feat-carlos-vives/1720497353?i=1720497360 Champ’s Pick: Bukie Bando 917 Rackz  ------------------------------------------------------Idea To Launch Academy: If you're someone who wants to start a podcast but need help simplifying the process visit https://www.ideatolaunchpodcastproductions.com/ and use promo code: STTI for 50% OFF!!!------------------------------------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show:NYX: For an easy to apply concealer that lasts up to 12 hours buy NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer!SMALLS: Give your cat food the quality food they deserve! For 50% off your first order, head to https://www.smalls.com/stti and use code STTI See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey Nieces and Nephews!!! Today you’re getting a brand new episode hosted by your favorite auntie Mandii B joined by 1/3rd of the Friendzone Podcast @heyAssante along with host, journalist, and and EP @Dometi. For my true crime girlies (& fellas) make sure to check out True Life Crime S2 where Dometi Pongo reports on the mysterious circumstances surrounding the deaths of young people and searches for answers to the country's grimmest unsolved cases. This week the 3 talk about: (3:00) Dometi’s therapist ghosting him and the requirements you should have for a therapist (7:00) Some New Year's Resolutions the 3 are (or are not) setting(16:00) Assanté & Mandii’s first time skiing and how DIFFICULT it ACTUALLY IS (more Black people should try it) (20:00) Traveling necessities that you should always pack (23:00) How the music industry is shifting what charting looks like with the Tik Tok and Billboard collaboration. What impact will this have on the music industry?  (32:20) HONEST SEGMENT (32:36) Mandii issues an apology to Club Shay Shay,,, find out why!  (36:00) The three discuss, what responsibility does a  journalist have while conducting an interview? Is it important to fact check in the moment or follow up with questions that provide more context to the story, or is it appropriate to allow someone to come on a platform and tell their version of a story? (53:53) Fans can anticipate a Biopic about the rapper 21 Savage(1:00:00) Ari Lennox speaks out about going on tour with Rod Wave // Check out EP 134 Ari Lennox titles “How Big Is Your Boat” : https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/how-big-is-your-boat/id1534096260?i=1000579296293 (1:13:00) Florida News Segment: Rumors of 'shadow aliens' at Bayside Marketplace go viral after large fight among teens creates chaos - CBS Miami (1:07:00) Is it your fault if you take a bad business deal? The three talk about negotiating contractual terms and the cracks in the Hollywood Facade (1:23:00) Does respect diminish with the continued forgiveness? https://www.instagram.com/p/C0ttuM8CaV0/?igsh=bnBlbWs2cHJnMHg2(1:31:00) Man shares story of woman who didn't pay $20 to pick up food https://www.instagram.com/reel/C1ch52WgU7W/?igsh=M2J0OXRmZjg3a3U0(1:42:00) FRESHLY SQUEEZED Mandii’s Pick:  Home Alone- Bas Feat. J.Cole // https://music.apple.com/us/album/home-alone/1720257027?i=1720257368 Dometi’s Pick: Blick- Scarlet // https://music.apple.com/us/album/blick/1716439288?i=1716439291 Assanté’s Pick: UFHO- Flyana Boss // https://music.apple.com/us/album/ufho/1720267660?i=1720268076  ------------------------------------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119------------------------------------------------------Sponsors of the show:NYX: For an easy to apply concealer that lasts up to 12 hours buy NYX Cosmetics Pro Fix Stick Concealers at your favorite makeup retailer!SMALLS: Give your cat food the quality food they deserve! For 50% off your first order, head to https://www.smalls.com/stti  and use code STTISee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Friday and Happy New Year Nieces & Nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B had the blessing to sit with some AMAZING musical guests this year. The ladies recap their favorite musical interviews of 2023. If you’re a regular listener, the second listen is better than the first!!! If you’ve been trying to put your friends on this podcast for awhile, this is a good episode to refer them to! Bridget and Mandii are excited to return back to the regularly scheduled program starting Monday! EP 191: Victims & Villains Feat. Musiq Soulchild // https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000606769996 Why liking is better than loving someoneWhy contextual perspective when teaching someone how to love you Musiq Soulchild confesses that women have never created a safe space for himThe difficulties of identifying if something is LOVE or LIES Why silence and restraint shows more power than screaming and arguing Support Musiq’s album “Victims & Villains” : https://music.apple.com/us/album/victims-villains/1671613142 EP 209: ’Terms and Conditions' feat Mahalia // https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000616244387 The different accents in the UK and ways to identify themNavigating a toxic relationshipCreating boundaries and composing a 3 strike rule while dating Support Mahalia’s album “IRL” :https://music.apple.com/us/album/irl/1686520298 EP 211: Love or Lust Feat. Anik Khan // https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000617237744 Anik’s journey of dating as a member of the non-monogamous community The duality if feeling needed but also allowing freedom within a relationship Music theory and the rhythmic beat composition of certain countries Check out Kolkata Chai shop: https://kolkatachai.co/ EP 235: Lead With Transparency Feat. Durand Bernarr // https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000627172639 The different ages of your inner child, inner teenager, and inner elder. The importance of tapping into the inner teenager.Would you listen to warnings about your partner from an anonymous number about your partner? Non-monogamy and the emotional maturity required you to have COMPERSION which means “our wholehearted participation in the happiness of others.” Check out Durand’s Tiny Desk Performance: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=klL7nY1HzaY ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show:SKIMS: Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five-star reviews for a reason. SKIMS Bras are now available at https://skims.com - Plus, get free shipping on orders over seventy-five dollars! If you haven't yet, be sure to let them know we sent you! After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Tuesday nieces and nephewsWe can’t believe its about to be 2024!!! Where the actual F*** has time gone? Well, before we end this year, your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B reminisce on some of their favorite episodes with their friends with benefits from 2023. We highlight episodes with guests Jason Lee, Remy Ma & Tami Roman, Tracy G, and Shan Boodram.  (6:00) EP 169: Dubai Money Feat. Jason Lee// https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000594191088Relationship with the news cycleConstructing a lucrative/ business savvy deal and the benefit of naysayersLeaving a group to go independent The balance between journalism and “mess”Optics vs. reality (22:37) EP 184 Everybody Needs Somebody Feat. Remy Ma & Tami Roman: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000603114329Complex relationships with family Is marriage more beneficial for women now? Is the way you enter a relationship the way you have to remain while in it?(45:00) EP 251 Your Opinion is Not My Truth Feat. Tracy G:" https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000633563586Can you give constructive criticism without being labeled a hater? The separation between creating the art & selling the art Dopamine is a scammer(1:00:00) EP 234 Wide Not Deep Feat. Shan Boodram: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/see-the-thing-is/id1534096260?i=1000626780064Active friendships vs. ceremonial friendships and the importance of having genuine people in your life. The dangers of negative messaging disguised as “healing”Can an unsafe space become safe?Thank you for your support throughout the year! We appreciate you coming back to listen every week! Please share this episode with a friend (it’s also a good digital gift) lol. Join us over at Patreon for more exclusive content and townhalls where we talk/interact with our online community: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show:Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five-star reviews for a reason. SKIMS Bras are now available at https://skims.com - Plus, get free shipping on orders over seventy-five dollars! If you haven't yet, be sure to let them know we sent you! After you place your order, select "podcast" in the survey and select our show in the dropdown menu that follows.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Pop Psychology

Pop Psychology

2023-12-2254:51

Happy holidays nieces and nephewsYour favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B talk about “pop psychology” and how it has everyone on the internet in a chokehold over the words: love bombing, gaslighting, narcissism, etc. Spoiler alert, everyone you dislike isn't a narcissist (8:00). The two talk about:(10:00) the dangers to self-diagnosing without seeking professional guidance, the difference between grandiose arrogance and confidence (11:00) being indifferent vs having a lack of empathy(17:00) The dangers of over-indulgence / codependency (23:00) People who gift while centering THEIR desires for YOU(24:00) How to acknowledge your partner’s EFFORTS while also honoring your DESIRES (30:00) Conflict isn’t always abuse/gaslighting (32:00) Baiting someone into an argument (40:00) Everything doesn’t have to be “normalized” (45:00) Speaking like an HR memo isn’t self-awareness CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL: https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119 —---------—---------SPONSORS:ZOC DOC: Go to https://zocdoc.com/STTI and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours." NAKED WINES: Head to  https://NakedWines.com/STTI  click ‘ Enter Voucher ’ in the top right corner and enter  STTI  for both the code  AND  password to get 6 bottles of wine for  JUST  $39.99 with shipping included - that’s  $100 off  and less than  $7 per bottleSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Hey nieces and nephews! This week, your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are giving you access to an exclusive Patreon episode featuring y(our) favorite friends with benefits Antoinette for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. To hear more of Antoinette you can check her out on Around The Way Curls Podcast and Can't Afford Therapy Podcast.The three talk about how to identify burnout, ways to set a goal with a partner, how to release control, and find small defiances throughout the day as a coping mechanism. We'll be taking next week off so now is a great time to join our Patreon community for bonus/exclusive content. We’d love to hear from you about your mindset as we head into the new year!! VISIT https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod and select a tier today!—-----------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119 —-----------------------------SPONSORSZOC DOC: Go to zocdoc.com/STTI and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then find and book a top-rated doctor today. Many are available within 24 hours." NAKED WINES: Head to NakedWines.com/STTI , click ‘ Enter Voucher ’ in the top right corner and enter STTI for both the code AND password to get 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included - that’s $100 off and less than $7 per bottleSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Wednesday Nieces and Nephews!In this episode, your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B take a deeper look into 3 iconic black films to unpack the fire soundtracks, the portrayal of complicated relationship dynamics, and the sensationalized “fine” male characters. You can expect to hear:(8:00) The real meaning behind the song “Murder She Wrote” by Chaka Demus & Pilers(14:00) The toxic family dynamics in the movie Soulfood(17:00) The difference between jealousy and envy(25:00) Is it appropriate to accept a gift from an ex? Under what circumstances? (39:00) The seemingly romantic portrayal of the love story in the movie Love Jones (55:00) The role of the friend group when a friend has been publicly embarrassed (1:10:00) Dissecting the portrayal of sexual identity, romantic and platonic friendships in the movie Waiting To Exhale(1:23:00) How to financially protect yourself in a relationship AKA “PLAN B(1:27:00) The effects of a codependent relationship with your mother and the conscious or subconscious damage that it doesCONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM📱TIK TOK🗝PATREON🎥YOUTUBE 💻 WEBSITE🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL—----------------------------------------SPONSORS:SKIMS: Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five star reviews for a reason. The Cotton collection and more are available now at https://www.SKIMS.com  HELLO FRESH:With HelloFresh, you get farm-fresh, pre-portioned ingredients and seasonal recipes delivered right to your doorstep. Skip trips to the grocery store and count on HelloFresh to make home cooking easy, fun, AND affordable – that’s why it’s America’s #1 meal kit! Go to https://HelloFresh.com/sttifree and use code sttifree for FREE breakfast for life!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
When you talk sh*t, there will come a time where you have to back it up; and for your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B that time has arrived. The ladies sit with songwriter/artist  Pardison Fontaine  for some grown (15:00), honest (40:00), and some {not so) slightly toxic conversations(1:20:00) and break down some lyrics from his new album titled SEXT8PE.In this episode, you can expect to hear: (5:00) Growing up in New York and introduction to Cardi B& collaborating on music that ages well like “Bodak Yellow”  (15:00) Pardi’s song titled “Pay Ya Bills” and which bills he’s willing to pay(21:00) Lyric breakdown for Pardi’s new song “Complainin” and the things that Pardi complains about (25:00) Do women like to argue or are men silently antagonizing them with their “chill” demeanor (35:00) Can men and women be just friends? (48:00) What does “baggage” in a relationship look like? (58:00) The truth about the musical landscape for songwriters and working with A-list talent like Beyonce, Kanye, Cardi B, etc. (1:20:00) Thee Person lyric breakdown and the real reason Pardi responded to Meg The Stallions  single “Cobra”(1:32:00) Pardi talks about being “newly liberated” and his thoughts/new experiences with Polygamy CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM📱TIK TOK🗝PATREON🎥YOUTUBE 💻 WEBSITE🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL—----------------------------------------SPONSORS:SKIMS: Believe the hype - SKIMS has over 100,000 five star reviews for a reason. The Cotton collection and more are available now at https://www.SKIMS.com  HELLO FRESH:With HelloFresh, you get farm-fresh, pre-portioned ingredients and seasonal recipes delivered right to your doorstep. Skip trips to the grocery store and count on HelloFresh to make home cooking easy, fun, AND affordable – that’s why it’s America’s #1 meal kit! Go to https://HelloFresh.com/sttifree and use code sttifree for FREE breakfast for life!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Happy Tuesday nieces & nephews!This holiday week, your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by co-host of The Joe Budden Podcast Ish & (y)our favorite friends with benefits and 1/2 of the Around The Way Curls Podcast, Antoinette for a special Podluck 2023 wrap-up episode. In this episode the 4 highlights memorable pop culture, politics/news, & sports moments this year and end the podcast by making some predictions for next year. CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM📱TIK TOK🗝PATREON🎥YOUTUBE 💻 WEBSITE🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL—----------------—----------------—----------------—----------------—-------------SPONSORS: ETSY: New to Etsy? Use the code HOLIDAY10 for ten percent off your first purchase. That’s code HOLIDAY10. Maximum discount value of fifty dollars. Expires December 31st, 2023. https//:www.Etsy.com https://www.etsy.comODB: A SON UNIQUE - Host Khalik Allah takes us on a journey through the story of Old Dirty Bastard, aka Ason Unique, the magnetic secret weapon of the Wu-Tang Clan and hip hop hall of famer, exploring the beliefs, background and experience that shaped his unforgettable music. Listen to ODB: A Son Unique at https://novel.audio or wherever you get your podcasts.BETTER HELP: Find your bright spot this season, with BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/SEETHETHINGIS  today to get 10% off your first month. Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/STTI , click ‘ Enter Voucher ’ in the top right corner and enter STTI for both the code AND password to get 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included - that’s $100 off and less than $7 per bottle !See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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Petran “FoxDark” Templer

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Nov 19th
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Nov 19th
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soul power

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Nov 19th
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Nov 19th
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Nov 19th
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Nov 19th
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