Bossy Bruja Podcast

i just started reading ATOMIC HABITS by james clear and i am so happy i did. it reminded me that when i change how i see myself, i can easily change my habits and achieve my goals. the audiobook is available on spotify. xo

AFTER TWO YEARS OF BEING SINGLE, i want to go another 2 years. i've loved my time alone. the peace is remarkable; the money saved is staggering; the freedom is soul-refreshing; the deep state of rest and wellness - outstanding. my confidence and self-trust has been restored. i feel like myself. i've quit smoking. i've grown my teaching platform. i've read dozens of books. i've been writing again. i feel better. it took some time to get to a place replete with such PEACE, but it happened and i think it can happen for you too. i do not want you sitting around miserable because someone is mistreating you, especially if there is even the slightest possibility they are harboring the worst of thoughts toward you. i share my thoughts in this podcast, but only because i've been subjected to so many conversations regarding people's relationships lately. here is my advice.

June 3, 2023 at 11:58 PM CT was my last conversation with Honey of the Honey Jar - this is our unedited conversation. xoxo Happy birthday Honey xoxo

book recommendation WHAT TO SAY WHEN YOU TALK TO YOURSELF by DR. SHAM HELMSTETTER

I took the time to research the definition of imposter syndrome (which I'd never done before) and I realized why I often have a hard time understanding why such brilliant people suffer with this common inner conflict. (Hint: it's because on the outside you're most likely doing much better than you feel or think you are!) I break it down with the help of nifty pop psychology websites and writers. Let's discuss. Find me on instagram.com/bossybruja xoxo - thanks for listening!!

hello friends, so i recorded this podcast episode days ago and then i just sat with it. it feels a little more intimate and vulnerable than i like to share this dream, but in my app BRUJAS - my students and i are all studying dreams and sharing this dream offers a pretty cool opportunity for me to explain how the subconscious mind may be bringing things we've noticed in waking hours back up to us during sleep and dreams. also gives a little bit of insight into how i personally interpret my dreams. hint: first i write them down. thanks for listening - find me on instagram.com/bossybruja also download and subscribe to my teaching platform - BRUJAS app in the Google Play Store and  App Store. xoxo

In this episode, I begin by sharing a vision with you and then I share with you some of the protocols I've been doing lately to help myself through a time of grief. I end the episode by sharing with you some of the beliefs I have chosen which help me feel better overall. The big message I desire to share here is that regardless of what's happening currently, we retain our freedom and choices to focus on the positive things we are allowing into our lives now. Much love to you. Add me on Instagram and check out Adam Cox's podcast THE HYPNOTIST when you get the chance.

TRIGGER WARNINGS: In this episode, I mention a couple crimes I heard on true crime podcasts and one news story out of Miami. I mentioned domestic violence and abuse as well as murders without going too deeply into details. This podcast episode is about loving ourselves enough to leave relationships where we don't feel loved by our "partners." Or at the very least choosing peace before we find ourselves 60 YEARS OLD calling the phone of someone who isn't even interested in the man who is stringing us along. Have fun xoxo And find me on INSTAGRAM and YOUTUBE.

download + subscribe to my BRUJAS app in your  app store or Google play store. for clarity, here are my suggestions in no specific order: 1. ask yourself powerful questions rather than simply stating your struggles; for example, you might ask yourself, "when am i most consistent and motivated in my spiritual practice?" from there you can find ways to recreate some of those internal and external environmental factors that support your consistency. 2. is it possible that you don't have time for your practices because you're giving too much time and attention to things that do not require your direct involvement? are there ways that you can couple spiritual practices with things you're already doing? 3. your spiritual practice does not need to look the same as it has in the past. it also does not need to look like anybody else's practice. 4. you don't actually need to be constantly casting spells; some of the people you see online casting a lot of spells are casting spells for other people (because it's their job); they likely are not casting so many spells for themselves (this does not include maintenance work like spiritual baths and weekly prosperity burns). 5. ask yourself what your spiritual and majikal practice entails. it is more than casting spells. what are some other ways you practice tapping into spiritual wisdom and energy? 6. do not judge yourself, chances are you're doing better than you think. 7. figure out why you're practicing in the first place. when you start to recognize the benefits of a having a spiritual practice, chances are you will find it easier to lean into your practice. in other words, get clear within yourself about the spiritual benefits of your practice.

I hope you enjoy this episode and I hope that my suggestions and thoughts on supporting yourself are clear. I had some experiences with close relatives recently that, while they didn't come from a mean-spirited way, still let me reeling emotionally. It can be overwhelming and even seem impossible to be everything to everybody and I really feel that we should give up even trying. Instead, I think becoming masterful at taking excellent care of ourselves and choosing what is best for ourselves even if and when others cannot support or agree is best in the long run for our own health and the health of our relationships. Lovingly, bossy

Hello love! Thank you for taking the time to listen to this short episode of the Bossy Bruja Podcast. I hope you find some of the ideas I share here useful or worth considering. The idea as communication as a process of loving people gently and earnestly is on my heart tonight. My heart hurts for individuals who are estranged from loved ones due to issues around communication. It seems to me that when we have a conflict with someone and cannot properly communicate those issues (either because we don't know how or fear we will not be heard or are met with resistance) then the original problems are only compounded by the new problem of communication.  I feel confident that one of the best things we can do in relationships we desire to maintain (with people we love) is to either invite in an objective third-party we can both trust and respect, or to soften and be the first to listen to understand. My hope and prayer for us all is that we experience love that is safe, gentle, kind, and patient. And that we give this love to ourselves always.  Peace and blessings and good luck!  God bless.  -Bossy

As promised, here's the link to my YouTube video that documents some of the places where I spent time around my city as a Youth. Check it out here: https://youtu.be/fNdLgIN404w Find me on Instagram.com/bossybruja Thanks for taking the time to listen and share.  Peace and blessings.  Talk soon.

life is definitely teaching right now and i am paying attention even though it hurts sometimes. i hope that if any of your out there are experiencing grief, pain, or loss - you don't feel alone. i hope that you have people around you who see you, hear you, understand you, love you, keep you lifted in prayer, and pour into you. and i hope that you take excellent care of you. xoxo bossy

HERE IS THE LINK TO THE TRANSCRIPT FOR THIS EPISODE: TRANSCRIPT STOP LETTING THESE BITCHES HURT YOU. I got tired of feeling hurt by people, so I stopped making their choices my problem.  I started seeing rejection, separation, redirection, space, and delays as part of my Spirit Team’s work to guide me toward what is aligned and away from what is not.  I stopped letting people’s opinions be so damn important to me. Now, I don’t care who you are - I pick and choose which opinions matter.  I piped down with all the expectations. I have high standards for me, not for y’all.  I stopped telling people how to treat me and simply watched instead. Your choices will tell me everything I need to know. How a person moves naturally tells you a lot.  I started to understand that instead of using my time to win people over, I could simply use that same time and energy to connect with people who are already on the same type of time I’m on, period. Join me on IG @bossybruja

Welcome to Aquarius Season -- when the impossible becomes possible. I've had a come to Mother Mary moment and I wanted to tell you all about it. Tap in and then come play with me on twitter and instagram.

This whole episode is basically about how we should respect the Ancients + their indelible connection to Nature which we sorely need to reclaim and find again for ourselves.  With love,  Bossy

This episode of the podcast draws on an article from WOMEN AGAINST ABUSE.  I wanted to share this episode of the podcast while we are still in Human Trafficking Awareness Month. I wanted to specifically draw attention to different forms of abuse that may be occurring in personal/intimate relationships. If you're experiencing any of these, hopefully this podcast is enough to help you take stock of the experience with a sober mind and take safe appropriate action, or help someone in your community who may need support. I wish you well.  Here are some resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline. Hours: 24/7. Languages: English, Spanish and 200+ through interpretation service 800-799-7233

the episode from Abraham: GO HERE 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline http://www.betterhelp.com 

Blessings,  Welcome back to the bossy bruja podcast. I am grateful you are here. I just wanted to come share some reminders that you're FREE to choose thoughts that are pleasing, empowering, and useful to you! Enjoy. Join me on instagram @bossybruja

Here are the messages I share in this episode:  - Be careful who you are devoted to, you're too precious  - Be careful who you commit yourself to, especially when the commitment will be permanent  - Let people have their lessons; sometimes you have to leave people where they are + progress without certain people - Only pour from a full + overflowing cup - Just because you have it to give, doesn't mean you always should  - Loving Black men is not martyrdom - Surgically remove the limitations you have in your mind around love + other manifestations  - Once lines get crossed + someone demonstrates they're unwilling or unable to love you, it's time to reassess what you're pouring into that relationship  - Don't allow people to make their emergencies your problem; the only things that are urgent are the goals you've set for yourself  - Take your sweet time; take time to think about investments; don't act rashly or too quickly - You have time!  - Intentionally slow down with people who are trying to pressure you into any decision, especially where investments of time, resources or money are concerned  - Whatever you want to do, do it now -- there are only so many tomorrows. -Michael Landon (Take action, my love!!) - Don't commit yourself out of a pressure that someone else is applying to you - God will restore the years the locusts have eaten -Joel 2:25 Follow me on http://www.instagram.com/bossybruja + check out my conjure shop for oils + spiritual products + to book your reading with me. Here's the website: http://www.bossybruja.com  Peace + Blessings  Bossy