The Christian Working Woman

True, it’s a bit of a teaser to declare that Christians are like pumpkins, but since pumpkins are everywhere around us at this time of year, I thought it would be fun to show how our Christian life is sometimes like a pumpkin!   First of all, we’re like pumpkins because God picks us from the patch, brings us in, and washes all the dirt off us.    For those of us who have been born from above, our salvation began when God picked us out of the patch. Jesus said in John 15:16: You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last…. And Paul reminds us in Ephesians 1:4: For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight….    I never cease to be amazed at this truth, that God chose me. He picked me out of the dirty pumpkin patch of life and brought me into the fold of his care, made me his child, and called me by name.     But you know, a pumpkin is of little use until you get it cleaned up. I don’t know if you’ve ever picked a pumpkin or seen one right out of the pumpkin patch, but they are really dirty. They lie on the ground for many days and collect all kinds of dirt and mud, so when you bring them in, the first thing you have to do is get them cleaned up.    And that’s the first thing God does for us when he chooses us from the dirty patch we were in. We read in 1 Corinthians 6:11: And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.    And again in Titus 3:4-5: But when the kindness and love of God our Savior appeared, he saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit….    We come from different pumpkin patches, with different kinds of dirt on us, but all of us had to be cleaned up by Jesus, didn’t we? Think of what you were before Jesus brought you in from the patch. Think of where you would be without him.    It is true that we never want to dwell on our past and live in regret. What God has forgiven and we have forsaken should no longer keep us in bondage. But it is also true that we need to remember where we were before Christ brought us in from our pumpkin patch. A. W. Tozer has written:    “The only sure defense against self-righteousness is to cultivate a quiet state of continual penitence. A sweet but sobering memory of our past guilt and a knowledge of our present imperfections are not incompatible with the joy of the Lord; and they are of inestimable aid in resisting the enemy.”1    Remember your pumpkin patch today—the place you were before Christ picked you up and brought you in. Remember, and give thanks that he has redeemed you from that life and given you new life and hope for a bright future.    Because we’ve been given new life in Christ, our demeanor and attitudes should be joyful, don’t you think? That can be a challenge when your life has been turned upside down. You may be in a place you don’t particularly want to be in, a job you’re not crazy about, dealing with people you’re not fond of. But you have a wonderful opportunity, right in that spot, to be a witness for Jesus simply by being a joyful, positive person. After all, you’ve been saved from the pumpkin patch, and you have every reason to rejoice. So, today, wherever God has you now planted, make a commitment to rejoice all day long as you remember that you’ve been rescued from the pumpkin patch and made new in Christ.    Secondly, we’re like pumpkins because God cuts off the top and scoops out all the yucky stuff.     The Christian life begins when you become a new creation in Christ, as you confess your sins and place your trust in Jesus. At the moment Jesus picked you out of the patch and cleaned you up, you began the process of being transformed into the likeness of Jesus. This is a process that continues throughout all our earthly days. Sometimes the process can be painful, as we are confronted with the mess on the inside of us, the yucky stuff that is clogging us up.    Just as there are lots of seeds inside a pumpkin that must be removed, so in our hearts there are many seeds that need to be cleaned out. Paul wrote to the Colossians: You used to walk in these ways, in the life you once lived. But now you must also rid yourselves of all such things as these: anger, rage, malice, slander, and filthy language from your lips (Colossians 3:7-8).   And again he wrote: Therefore, since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God (2 Corinthians 7:1).    What seeds are still clogging inside of you, contaminating your body and spirit? Years ago, I wrote this verse from 2 Corinthians in my prayer journal and prayed that God would help me clean up whatever contaminates my body and spirit. And God has faithfully pointed out many of those seeds to me and given the grace and power to start cleaning them out.    Paul named some of these seeds that have to be cleaned out: Anger and rage must be scooped out of your heart. You know, when you allow anger to remain, it will quickly turn into bitterness, which is a deadly heart contamination. It will ruin your spirit and your physical body.    Malice and slander are seeds we cannot afford to keep around. Regardless of how others treat you, you must not allow malice to reside in your heart toward them. It sours on you quickly and makes you miserable.     Scooping out the yucky stuff may not be pleasant, but it produces the peaceable fruit of righteousness, and that is very worthwhile and wonderful.    One popular thing to do with pumpkins at this harvest time is to make jack-o-lanterns. After scooping out all the yucky stuff from inside, we carve a smiling face and put a candle inside to light it up. And that process is similar to how God changes us when we allow him to clean out all the yucky stuff inside.    He carves a new smiling face and puts his light inside of us to shine for all the world to see.  One of my favorite passages is Psalm 40:2-3: He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand.  He put a new song in my mouth, a hymn of praise to our God. With a new song to sing and a smile on your face, you truly become a light in your world, as Jesus intended when he said: You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden (Matthew 5:14).    Proverbs 15:13 says: A happy heart makes the face cheerful, but heartache crushes the spirit. And again, in verse 30: Light in a messenger’s eyes brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones.   Do you carry a cheerful look and a happy face into your world each day? I’m not talking about a phony smile or pretending everything is right. I am talking about allowing God’s light inside to shine through you regardless of the circumstances. Anyone can look cheerful when everything is going right, but when life is tough, that’s when the smiling face really makes a difference.    Did you know when you smile, endorphins release inside you, and this can actually change the way you feel. So, sometimes the smile comes first, and joy comes later. It’s a very good discipline to just remember to smile more and let the light of Christ shine through you.    So, how are Christians like pumpkins?   First, God picks us from the patches of life, brings us into his family, and cleans us up.  Then he digs inside of us and scoops out all the yucky stuff that clogs us up.  He gets rid of the seeds of anger and rage and malice—and all those other things which have kept us in bondage far too long.  Then he puts a new look on our face, a new song in our heart, and puts his light inside us to shine through us for all the world to see. This simple presentation can be very effective for children or adults. Just get a pumpkin and as you clean it up and scoop it out and put a smiling face on it with a candle inside, you can explain how in the same way God does this for us who have become his children through faith in Jesus Christ.     I have found that any kind of visual presentation increases the effectiveness of a message considerably. We remember what we see far longer than what we hear. So, if you can use this idea, then please do so.     We have also designed cards with the pumpkin message, and we’re glad to send that to you as well. You can use these cards to teach a great lesson, especially during this season when we’re all making something out of pumpkins. You can download these cards here. Anything we can do to help people understand the beauty of living life as a disciple of Jesus Christ—well, that’s what we want to do.  Sources: A. W. Tozer, Man: The Dwelling Place of God (Camp Hill, PA: Christian Publications, 1966), chap. 26, “Resisting the Enemy.” 

What kind of legacy are you leaving for the people closest to you? There’s another thing we need to be generous to give others—prayer. That takes time and so it’s being generous with your time. How often does someone ask you to pray for them? It’s pretty common in our Christian circles, isn’t it? We nod and assure them we’ll be praying, and then it’s lost in our crowded minds. We forget. I try not to promise to pray for someone unless I genuinely intend to pray for them, and that means I better write it down somewhere because my short-term memory is fading. Or if appropriate, sometimes I just take time right there and pray with them about their situation. Sitting still for long periods of time to pray just doesn’t come easily for me, maybe you, too. I’ve gotten better at praying with my eyes wide open, and as God brings people and situations to my mind, I just send up prayers all through the day. I rather think that’s what the Apostle Paul meant when he said we are to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17). It’s just a matter of being in a prayer-ready state all day long, so when you talk with someone about their problem, when you hear some bad news about people you know, when you read the headlines of people who are suffering all around the world, generously and immediately pray for them. You can stop what you’re doing and verbally pray; you can multi-task and pray while you’re sitting in a meeting, driving your car, washing dishes, whatever. Learning to pray with eyes wide open so you can pray without ceasing is one of the most generous gifts you can give someone. So, generously offer to pray for people and then be sure you do. Leaving a legacy of generosity will make a difference for those who come behind you. Generous with your money, your time, your encouragement, and your prayers. My mother’s eight grandchildren remember to this day, 20 years after her death, how Mamaw always prayed for each of them on a certain day every week, as she left them a legacy of a praying grandmother who was very generous with her prayers. What legacy do you want to leave for the people in your life?

How do we create a legacy that will make a difference? In today’s terminology, we might talk about your life’s gootprint—what kind of impact are you making in your world? All of us leave a legacy, whether we think about it or not. We create it by the way we live, the priorities of our lives, how we treat people, and how we love Jesus. One way you can improve your life’s legacy is by being the best encourager you can possibly be. Go into each day with the intent of finding someone to encourage. To encourage someone is to help them be courageous; to help them confidently face whatever they’re dealing with, to assure them that God is going to see them through. If you are very generous with your encouragement, you probably have no idea how many lives you touch with simple words of encouragement. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 and 14 remind us of this: Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing (11). And we urge you, brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the fainthearted, help the weak, be patient with them all (14). Recently I was talking with a friend who is in a new tough job of selling her services to large clients, and she was feeling very inadequate and a little frightened. But I just reminded her of all the experience and expertise she has accumulated through her very impressive career, and I gave her some courage to believe she can do this job. I reminded her how richly God has blessed her with unique abilities and expertise. At the end of our conversation, she was joyful and hopeful, and I realized again how often people just need some courage. They need someone to give them encouragement. It was a joy. Who do you know needs encouragement? Could you set up a time to talk with them and generously give them some courage? And then any time in your day as you deal with people, including your children, mate, or coworkers, look for opportunities to give them some courage—to generously give them your encouragement.

What will people say about you when you’re gone? What footprint will you leave behind? What impact are you having on your world? I mentioned leaving a legacy of generosity with your money. That’s super important because we all like our money, don’t we? And parting with it isn’t so easy. But that’s why giving it away to those who need it gives you that special blessing Jesus talked about. That you receive a bigger blessing by giving money away than you do by receiving it. And for sure, there is more than money we should give away. What about your time? Are you stingy with your time? Honestly, I must watch it because I seem to be very clock-oriented. I’ve often said that I can give away money quicker and easier than I give away time. But forming relationships, mentoring and discipling others takes time. You can’t be stingy about your time if you want to be effective. What I’m discovering is that when I agree to give time to someone else, when I know they need a listening ear and a loving heart, I end up being far more blessed than they are. You are more blessed when you give time to someone than the person you’re giving the time to. And for those of us who have lived more years than most of our friends—and I’m certainly in that category whether you realize it or not—you have wisdom and expertise to offer others who are younger. So, giving away some of your time to share your wisdom is such a blessing, and we need so many more people who intentionally do this—who are intentionally very generous with their time. It’s a wonderful gift you can give; you’ll be blessed when you do.

Often you hear politicians and others talk about their legacy. They want to have a place in the history books. But the legacy we should be concerned about as Christ-followers is not trying to make a name for ourselves. Rather, we should want to live a life that will inspire, encourage, and motivate others to live godly lives. We should genuinely long to hear Jesus say to us, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” In Acts 20:35 Paul reminded the Christians in Macedonia of what Jesus said about the importance of being generous. Paul wrote to them: In all things I have shown you that by working hard in this way we must help the weak and remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, “It is more blessed to give than to receive.” Do you really believe what Jesus said—that you will be more blessed by giving than you will be by getting stuff you want? I hope you have experienced this blessing Jesus talks about—the blessing of giving some of your money to others in need. Test and see if it’s not true, that when you give some of your money to someone who needs it, to your church or other people in ministries that have blessed you, you’ll have a real honest “joy jolt,” a burst of happiness when you give. I think you’ll find it is exhilarating. It’s just pure fun. 2 Corinthians 9:7: Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. And the Greek word for cheerful is the word from which we get “hilarious.” God loves a hilarious giver! Know anybody who legitimately needs some money right now? Wanna have some fun? Give them some money. You may not have lots to give, and it may even be sacrificial—like you decide not to buy those shoes you were looking at. But if you are a cheerful giver, you will receive back more than you give. Your “joy jolt” will be amazing.