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Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle - The Stylish Bride

Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle - The Stylish Bride
Author: Julie Sabatino
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Welcome to the podcast of Julie Sabatino, the original wedding fashion stylist and founder of The Stylish Bride®.
On this show, Julie and D. Mercado present invaluable insight on the process of getting Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle! Each episode features Julie’s parceled advice and perspective for every detail of wedding weekend fashion, to ensure brides feel empowered and prepared to walk down the aisle.
On this show, Julie and D. Mercado present invaluable insight on the process of getting Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle! Each episode features Julie’s parceled advice and perspective for every detail of wedding weekend fashion, to ensure brides feel empowered and prepared to walk down the aisle.
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It’s hard to believe Christmas is just around the corner, and 2024 is nearly over! As the year winds down, Julie and Dee reflect on what they accomplished, what brought them joy, and what they want to carry forward into 2025. Reflecting on Growth and Creativity2024 has been a year of significant personal and professional growth, with Julie redefining her creative goals and Dee pushing her creative boundaries and thinking beyond the traditional approach.Lessons LearnedJulie learned that perseverance and self-trust are essential to promote her work and break through all the industry noise. Dee discovered that she has endless creativity, especially when collaborating with clients and industry peers.Embracing OpportunitiesThis year, Julie became more confident as she learned to accept compliments and believe in her abilities. Dee was excited to take on some unique projects, like a hand-painted wedding dress, which sparked her creativity by allowing her to explore new dimensions of her craft.Building Meaningful ConnectionsDee focused on creating genuine industry relationships beyond surface-level interactions, and Julie continued to connect with her audience while staying authentic in her work.Looking Ahead to 2025Both Julie and Dee are optimistic about 2025. Julie aims to continue growing her creative endeavors, while Dee plans to establish a permanent base for her work and leave a lasting impact in her field.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Winter is in full swing now, bringing winter weddings and all the seasonal charm. So today, we are focusing on winter bridesmaid fashion, outerwear, and ways to accessorize and elevate the look.While a stunning dress sets the stage, the accessories and finishing touches can make it unforgettable. If you are preparing for a winter wedding, join us as we explore how those finishing touches can take your bridesmaid outfits to the next level!Considerations for Bridesmaid Dresses in Cold WeatherWhen selecting bridesmaid dresses for winter weddings, the most important factors are the location, vibe, and overall wedding theme. Also, ensure the bridesmaid dresses are warm enough, as winter weddings can be unexpectedly cold.Fabrics MatterChoosing the correct fabric is crucial for winter weddings. Lighter fabrics like silk or satin can leave bridesmaids shivering. So opt for heavier materials like crepe or velvet to ensure warmth and comfort while maintaining style so your bridesmaids won’t be distracted by the cold.Solid Colors and Coordinated DressesThe trend of bridesmaids choosing their dresses is fading, as it can create mismatched results. Most brides now prefer coordinated color schemes and styles. Solid colors and deeper shades are replacing the bold patterns that used to be popular in recent years. Simple, elegant colors like deep green or peacock blue are timeless and flattering for most body types.Color Palettes for Winter WeddingsWhen selecting a color palette for winter bridesmaids, consider the setting and vibe of the wedding. Colors like deep green work well for many winter events, while shades of maroon or burgundy are also popular. The key is to match the color to the formality and location of the wedding, ensuring it fits with the overall aesthetic.Outerwear TrendsOuterwear is a fun and practical addition to winter weddings. Adding stylish jackets, wraps, or boleros adds visual interest and keeps the bridesmaids warm. Cashmere wraps, faux fur stoles, or lightweight jackets are great options to provide warmth without overwhelming the look. They can also serve as keepsakes, making them a thoughtful gift for bridesmaids.Selecting the Perfect Winter Bridesmaid DressFor winter weddings, think beyond brands and focus on color, fit, and material. You can use tools like ShopStyle to filter by price and style. Always consider the return policies when buying online, as colors often look different in person, and remember to focus on practicality to ensure the dresses are comfortable and appropriate for the weather conditions.Final AdviceWinter weddings offer an opportunity to do something unique with bridesmaid fashion, so don’t be afraid to step outside the box. Whether sticking to traditional options or experimenting with bold styles, always ensure the bridesmaids feel and look fantastic. Prioritize warmth and comfort, and don’t worry too much about the specifics of the brand. What matters most is finding a dress that fits the budget and the wedding’s aesthetic.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Have you been invited to a wedding this winter?Putting a look together for a winter wedding can be challenging- especially finding something to wear that falls outside of the usual winter comfort zone or the go-to classic black. Join us for inspiration on what to wear so you can feel confident, look amazing, and stay comfortable as a winter wedding guest!Balancing Warmth and StyleWhen planning a winter wedding outfit, consider both comfort and elegance. The key is balancing warmth with style and understanding the venue, as different venues require different styles. Dress Code AwarenessDon’t assume all winter weddings call for the same look. Check the dress code to ensure you dress appropriately for the venue, as each wedding has its vibe, and dress codes can vary. Outerwear EssentialsChic coats are essential for cold-weather weddings. A formal evening coat is ideal as it is warm and looks elegant. Down coats, while warm, may not fit the formality required, so opt for sophisticated materials on the outside and warmth on the inside.Seasonal Colors and TexturesWinter offers a chance to explore rich colors and luxurious textures. Jewel tones like burgundy, aubergine, and olive green bring depth and sophistication to winter attire, while velvet and cashmere add warmth. If you gravitate toward black, experiment with textured or metallic elements for added visual interest and elegance.Accessories for Elevating StyleAccessorizing adds a personalized touch to any outfit. Consider gloves, a standout bag, or statement jewelry to elevate a classic look. Evening gloves, especially in luxurious materials like kidskin, lend elegance and warmth to an ensemble, and adding sparkle through jewelry or a pop of color in shoes can enhance even a simple black outfit.Practical Tips for Staying WarmLayering is the key to staying warm at winter weddings. Layering a cashmere sweater or scarf over your dress can provide warmth on the way to the event, while easy-to-remove layers keep you comfortable once indoors. You can also combine practicality with chic by bringing warm boots for outdoor settings and heels for the reception.Experimenting with Light ColorsWearing lighter colors rather than traditional dark shades in winter can make a refreshing statement. Try light lavender or blue for a striking look. That unexpected choice can stand out beautifully while providing the warmth and coverage required for the season.TrendsCurrent winter fashion trends can help you choose something stylish to wear. Velvet, feathers, sequins, and monochromatic looks are all inthis winter, bringing elegance and flair. Boho chic is best left out for weddings, while timeless choices like leopard print and chocolate brown can look stylish and refined.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
We are celebrating 20 years of the Stylish Bride today! Join us as we mark this momentous milestone in today's special episode by looking back on the best moments, untold stories, and the lessons we learned over the past two decades, with Julie answering twenty questions from our listeners and industry friends, one for each of the twenty years.Inspiration Behind The Stylish BrideJulie struggled to find her wedding dress in 2001. That challenge planted the seed for her to start The Stylish Bride, as she recognized that brides need non-biased advice and resources.What The Stylish Bride Means to JulieJulie feels deeply tied to her work and is proud of how it has shaped her life and career. After 20 years, The Stylish Bride has become a core part of her identity. Expectations vs. Reality in BusinessIf JULIE could go back in time, she would change her expectations. She initially believed her idea would lead to instant success, even though she knew businesses generally take years to become profitable.Changes in the Bridal IndustryThe bridal industry evolved since Julie started The Stylish Bride in 2001 when no one even knew what a stylist was. Julie credits shows like The Rachel Zoe Project for bringing the role of a stylist into the mainstream. The rise of social media also dramatically changed how the industry operates.Lessons Learned the Hard WayManaging emotions through tough times has been a big lesson for Julie. Over the last 20 years, she has learned to stay even-tempered throughout all the highs and lows of running a business. Staying Motivated and InspiredJulie stays motivated by constantly creating new ideas, solving problems, and maintaining long-standing relationships with clients and designers. She loves the excitement and creativity her work requires.Wedding Day WisdomJulie wishes she had designated someone other than her mom to bustle her wedding dress. That was unavailable at the time but has since become standard. Looking back, she sees that as an essential service for brides.Bridal TrendsJulie loves the elegance of the Watteau train, while she secretly wishes the tiara trend would fade, despite having worn one herself. She was not a fan of the colored belt trend 15 years ago.Dress Styles That Always ImpressJulie has found that an A-line gown with a long, lean silhouette never fails to make brides feel amazing. It is a timeless favorite as it flatters women of all shapes and sizes.Handling Bridal EmergenciesOne of her most memorable bridal emergencies involved a bridesmaid spilling olive oil on her dress right before the wedding. With persistence and the correct stain wipes, Julie saved the day.Memorable Moments in the IndustryJulie cherishes the times she gets to travel with teams, creating iconic photos with talented photographers. Those experiences created a sense of camaraderie and many lasting memories.Proudest AchievementHer proudest achievement is hiring and mentoring her team, particularly Dee, who has been a vital part of her business. Julie views her role as a mentor as one of the most fulfilling aspects of her career.A Dress Named in Her HonorJulie worked with a bride to redesign an Oscar de la Renta dress, transforming it into something the bride loved. The designers loved the new creation so much that they added it to their collection, naming the dress after Julie.First Feature in PrintHer first magazine feature in Elegant Bride in 2005 was a turning point that made Julie realize that her business could be a sustainable
We are delighted to welcome Shayna, the editorial and social media manager for Over the Moon, as our guest. Shayna joins us today to dive into the New York Bridal Fashion Week, one of the most exciting times of the year that is just around the corner!Starting in the Bridal IndustryShayna began her career in the bridal industry in 2019 through an internship at Over the Moon. While finishing her degree at The New School, she cold-emailed Alex, the brand founder, offering to work for free in exchange for the experience. That initiative led to her full-time role, where she now manages weddings, blogs, Instagram, and overall social media presence for the company.Wedding Industry DynamicsShayna enjoys the wedding industry for its blend of pressure and personal storytelling. She is fascinated by how societal pressure influences couples' decisions and the image they project. She also loves hearing their stories and how they infuse personal details into their weddings.Bridal Fashion Week and TrendsBridal Fashion Week is held twice annually and sets the tone for bridal trends. Shayna has seen how social media speeds up the spread of trends, with new collections influencing weddings through 2025. Her team prepares for Bridal Fashion Week meticulously, scheduling content and attending shows that reflect the interests of their followers. Bridal Market InsightsShayna advises brides following Fashion Week to understand the timeline of the bridal industry. She explains that the collections shown during Fashion Week are typically for the following year, so brides should track trunk shows and stockists to access new collections. Instagram is also an excellent resource for following bridal accounts and seeing real brides wearing the latest trends.Wedding Trends to WatchShayna feels we have seen too many bows, so she will not mind them going out of style. She loves Watteau trains, and pearl detailing has always been her favorite choice. Advice for 2025 BridesShayna advises brides planning for 2025 to stay true to their style. She recommends testing new trends in everyday life to see if they work, ensuring that their wedding outfits highlight their true selves rather than trying to meet societal expectations.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on InstagramOver the Moon
Even though getting married again is more common than you might think, most wedding advice tends to focus on first-time brides.So, today, we explore ways to find the ideal dress for your next walk down the aisle, regardless of how many times you may have done it before.Join us for tips and guidance for finding the perfect dress for your next big day.Dressing for RemarriageWith nearly half of all marriages ending in divorce, the chance of walking down the aisle again is high. However, there is little guidance for brides not getting married for the first time.Wearing White for a Second WeddingWhether or not to wear white again is a personal choice for the bride. Even though white is more traditional for first marriages, there are no hard and fast rules. The freedom of choice increases with a second wedding but could lead to decision fatigue. So, focus on whatever makes you feel best, whether traditional white or something bold and unique.Wedding Dress vs. Ready-to-WearMany second-time brides opt for ready-to-wear outfits instead of traditional wedding dresses. Age and personal style play a role, with younger brides sometimes leaning more towards classic bridal gowns, while older brides might prefer something that feels more authentic to them, like a colorful, stylish, ready-to-wear dress. The key is finding something that resonates with your particular style and the atmosphere of your celebration.Exploring Non-Traditional ColorsWearing colors other than white is a growing trend, especially for second marriages. Historically, brides wore their best dress, often in colors like black, which was once considered luxurious. Today, however, brides can choose colors or bold patterns that reflect their personality and style while maintaining a sense of bridal elegance.To Veil or Not to Veil?Wearing a veil for a second wedding is entirely optional. While some brides may still enjoy the tradition of a veil, others prefer alternative accessories like a sheer cape or a chic fascinator. It is all about what feels authentic and complements your look.Alternatives to VeilsFor those who don’t want a traditional veil, capes, fascinators, or birdcage veils can add a touch of drama and elegance. Those alternatives allow brides the flair and flexibility to have a bridal moment without following conventional trends.Favorite Second-Wedding LooksSecond weddings often allow for more creativity and personal expression. Brides have rocked everything from a stunning, colorful Oscar de la Renta gown at a Brooklyn disco-themed wedding to elegant, understated dresses that could feature on the red carpet. The focus has shifted from tradition to whatever feels comfortable for the bride and suits the mood of the occasion.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Is someone you know getting married this fall?With September weddings starting to happen almost as regularly as those in June, this is the perfect time for us to explore ways for you to turn heads as a wedding guest this season. Join us for some stylish tips!September WeddingsWith September quickly becoming the new June for weddings, it is the perfect time to dress to impress as a guest this fall.Fall Fashion TrendsThis fall is about embracing rich, moody styles, like dark florals that bring a touch of elegance, making a statement with bold reds, and using classic black and white combinations that never go out of style. Velvet is perfect for adding a luxury feel to your outfit, and animal prints that are more exciting than ever are back to bring a fun edge to your look. Quiet LuxuryThe quiet luxury trend of this fall focuses on timeless, high-quality pieces that speak for themselves without the need for flashy logos. Quiet luxury is more about how well something fits and feels than the brand name, making it an understated way to express yourself fashionably.Fall Fashion LoveMany people prefer fall and winter fashion more than summer outfits, and this fall, you get to bring out your more polished and sophisticated side. So, consider boots, dark colors, and a more structured look. Fall Wedding Guest RulesDressing for fall weddings is all about putting in the effort to bring your A-game. Show respect for the couple by skipping the white and not wearing anything too revealing. Instead, create a classy look that fits the season, venue, and dress code. Layering and Fabric PicksFall weather can be unpredictable, so layering is the answer. Rich fabrics and colors are perfect for the season, and you can complete your look with the right accessories to nail the fall vibe. Whether attending a wedding or updating your fall wardrobe, embrace this fall season confidently. Always remember that a well-chosen outfit can make any occasion feel special. Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Have you ever considered breaking away from the classic white bridal gown? Today, we are discussing the non-traditional wedding dress, a trend that has been gaining more and more attention lately. So, if you are a bride looking to stand out, this discussion is just for you!Defining Non-Traditional Wedding DressesA non-traditional wedding dress can be anything that is not from a wedding dress designer or dresses made by bridal designers that are not white. Historically, brides wore their best dresses, which were not necessarily white, and a shift is happening back to this mindset.The Appeal of Non-Traditional DressesNon-traditional dresses can be more budget-friendly, allowing brides more freedom to expresstheir personalities uniquely. Vintage dresses are growing in popularity due to their versatility and accessibility and the influence of social media trends.Acceptable Colors for Wedding DressesColors other than white, such as blush, silver, prints, and florals, are becoming more popular lately. Choosing a different color can make a bold statement that reflects the bride's personality.Choosing the Right ColorThe wedding dress color can influence the entire color palette of the wedding, making it a crucial decision. Brides should start with a shade that flatters their complexion while considering the wedding setting and overall vibe. Accessories to Elevate the Non-Traditional LookBrides can elevate a non-traditional wedding look with accessories that blend modern elements with timeless bridal touches. A well-chosen veil can instantly bring a bridal essence to any outfit. Gloves are making a stylish comeback. They add alayer of sophistication and a nod to classic bridal fashion. Statement jewelrycan also enhance the overall look, bridging the gap between unconventional attire and the traditional bridal aesthetic.Practical ChallengesWhen brides choose to wear a non-traditional dress, it can be overwhelming as there are so many different options. When they opt for a non-traditional outfit, brides must be prepared for differing opinions from family and friends and stay confident in their choices.Handling OpinionsThe bride's opinion is the most important, especially if she pays for the dress. However, if someone else is financing the dress, the bride should consider their preferences. Crowdfunding could offer a different yet practical solution for making the dream dress affordable.Personal FavoritesJulie loves the idea of a sleek, modern jumpsuit paired with classic accessories like a veil and gloves to create a unique bridal feel. Dee is drawn to colored gowns that break away from the classic white, especially when paired with bold, statement jewelry to make the look truly stand out.Advice for Finding a Non-Traditional DressUnderstand yourself and what makes you feel great. Explore what resonates with you while avoiding choices that might lead to regret. Find a dress that speaks to you, ensuring you feel confident and beautiful.ConclusionConsider non-traditional wedding dresses to reflect your true self. Explore unique options, stay confident in your choices, and use accessories to create a bridal look that is uniquely yours.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Today, we explore a trend that has recently been causing a lot of excitement in the wedding fashion world.Long-sleeved wedding gowns are making big waves among brides everywhere lately. From traditional lace to sleek contemporary looks, long-sleeved wedding dresses are a perfect mix of sophisticated elegance and charm, suitable for any season. Stay tuned to discover why long-sleeved wedding gowns are a timeless choice for any bride.Embracing Long-Sleeved Wedding GownsLong-sleeved wedding gowns are a big hit in the wedding fashion world. If you are considering this style, it is worth noting that these gowns offer a classic elegance that is making a comeback lately. Historically, long-sleeved dresses have always been a staple in bridal fashion, with timeless inspirations like Grace Kelly leading the way. Their renewed popularity is influenced by modern celebrities, bringing this sophisticated style back into the spotlight.Celebrity Influence on Bridal FashionRecent celebrity weddings, like Olivia Culpo’s custom Dolce and Gabbana long-sleeved dress, highlight how this style makes waves. The key is to focus on what makes you feel beautiful and comfortable. Remember, it is your wedding day, so prioritize your preferences and block out external noise. Celebrity styles can inspire, but your choice should always reflect your taste.Choosing Accessories for Long SleevesWhen selecting accessories and veils to complement long-sleeved gowns, consider the type of sleeve you will wear. Heavier, opaque fabrics may require different accessory choices than sheer or embroidered styles. For example, sheer long sleeves, like those seen on Paris Hilton, offer a lighter, more versatile look that can influence how you choose your veil and other accessories.Balancing Trends with Your StyleAlways align trends with your style. Before committing to a long-sleeved gown, try on different styles to see what resonates with you. Consider the weather and venue, and ensure the dress fits comfortably throughout your wedding day. Versatile options, like detachable sleeves or overlays, can allow you to adapt your look for comfort and weather conditions.Comfort and VersatilityIf you are worried about comfort or temperature, consider gowns with versatile elements like removable layers or accessories that can change your look. For instance, a lace overlay or a bolero can add long sleeves you can remove for a different appearance. That allows you to manage your style and comfort effectively throughout your wedding day.Staying True to YourselfPrioritize your comfort and personal style when choosing a long-sleeved gown. Consider how your everyday wardrobe preferences might influence your choice. Remember that adding fabric can sometimes create a bulkier look, so ensure the gown enhances your confidence. Remember, if you have any doubts, it is okay to explore other options to find what truly feels right for you.Practical Advice for Long SleevesIf you are unsure about long sleeves, consider more versatile options, like sheer fabrics or detachable components. This way, you can adapt to different conditions while maintaining your desired look. Always remember to have a plan for comfort and style, and make sure your final choice makes you feel stunning and confident on your special day.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
We are delighted to welcome Christine Lindebak as our special guest today! Christine is an American designer and fashion industry veteran who has worked for Emilio Pucci, Mulberry, and Alexis Bittar. She is the visionary designer behind Sewing in the City and the founder of Lindy Lindy, a brand whose premier collection redefines bridal fashion, featuring exquisite robes and two-piece loungewear sets crafted from vintage linens sourced in Spain. Not only are her creations breathtakingly beautiful, but they are also sustainable. Join us for the insights and inspirations she shares with us today.Passion for Vintage LinensChristine's passion for vintage linens began during her childhood visits to antique stores with her mother. She developed a deep appreciation for the intricate embroidery and craftsmanship found in those timeless pieces, sparking her interest in embroidery techniques from a young age. Her love for vintage linens grew as she honed her skills as an embroiderer and designer, eventually leading her to explore their potential in creating unique bridal pieces.Embroidery Mastery and Restoration ChallengesDiscussing her expertise in restoring vintage linens and handling challenges like stains and tears, Christine highlights the delicate balance required between preserving the history of each piece of linen and incorporating creative solutions into her designs. She also shares how beautifully crafted hand embroidery adds charm to each piece she designs.Design Process and PersonalizationChristine elaborates on her design process, emphasizing her approach of letting the linens inspire the creation of new pieces. She blends traditional designs with modern adaptations, creating bridalwear exuding timeless elegance. She also explains how she adds personalized monograms or integrates vintage elements into her bespoke wedding attire for a touch of nostalgia.Slow Fashion Advocacy and Sustainable BridalwearChristine advocates for slow fashion and sustainable bridalwear. She shares her vision of creating meaningful garments that brides can cherish beyond their wedding day, focusing on natural fibers and eco-friendly practices.Empowering Local Seamstresses and CollaborationReflecting on her collaboration with sewers in Valencia, Spain, Christine highlights the empowering dynamic of women supporting women in her business. She shares stories of working closely with skilled artisans, learning from their expertise, fostering a sense of community within her brand, and how she loves seeing their collaborative efforts come to life in beautifully crafted bridal pieces.Innovative Ventures and Bridal FashionChristine discusses her entrepreneurial journey, explaining how it began with her first business, Sewing in the City, culminating in her current venture with Lindy Lindy. Teaching and Empowering OthersChristine is passionate about teaching and empowering others through her online sewing classes and tutorials. That prompted her to create a global community of sewing enthusiasts. Collaborations Between Designers, Artisans, and Local CommunitiesCollaborations between designers, artisans, and local communities foster a sense of connection and empowerment. Christine integrates vintage linens and hand embroidery to add a timeless charm to her bridal collections, promising a future where tradition meets innovation. With a growing emphasis on sustainability and conscious consumerism, the bridal fashion industry is poised for transformative growth, offering brides choices that reflect their values, style, and stories.Links and Resources:The Stylish Bridea...
Today, we have a special episode dedicated to all our listeners who sent questions about the best-selling book Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle: Becoming a Stylish Bride. In this episode, we dive into many things, from expert advice on crafting your perfect wedding fashion story to the fascinating journey of how Julie wrote her book. We even get into what the future holds for Julie and her team. Stay tuned. This episode is one you will not want to miss!Extracting 20 Years of ExperienceFor Julie, writing the book involved keeping notes, scrapbooking, and leveraging her vast experience. Her idea for the book began years ago, early in her career, when a publisher approached her. Over time, she accumulated knowledge and insights that built upon each other, which she meticulously documented and applied to her work.Rewarding Moments and BreakthroughsJulie found the writing process personally rewarding, especially with the help of a colleague who refined her ideas. Overcoming her doubts and struggles with writing, she loved seeing the book completed and successful. Every chapter felt like a breakthrough for her entire team.Completing the BookHer project manager advised Julie that the book would never feel fully completed. That guidance helped her finally submit the manuscript despite her perfectionistic tendencies. She felt relieved and satisfied after completing and releasing the book.Setting the Book ApartThe book provides a comprehensive, in-depth guide from a unique perspective beyond most articles and posts. The Psychological Aspects of Choosing a Wedding DressHer extensive experience in the wedding fashion industry has given Julie a unique perspective on the psychological aspects of choosing a wedding dress. In her years of working closely with brides, she observed the emotional and mental processes that women go through when making wedding decisions, as selecting a wedding dress is not just about the dress itself but also how it makes the bride feel, reflecting her personality and dreams. Her book covers the impact of those psychological nuances, offering insights regarding shopping habits, decision-making styles, and body image perceptions. The Perfect Gift for BridesThe book is often gifted to newly engaged brides as it is an excellent resource for wedding planning. The book could get passed down, making it an enduring gift.Future ProjectsJulie has plans to create a course for brides, expanding on the content with more personalized guidance. This course will help brides requiring more interaction and detailed advice without opting for virtual styling services.Impact on Brides and the Wedding IndustryJulie hopes her book will promote inclusivity in the wedding industry, addressing issues like sizing and representation. She aspires for the industry to consider the psychological impact of their practices on brides, advocating for a more supportive and diverse approach. Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Did you know there is no inherent reason to avoid wearing red to weddings? Red is a bold and beautiful color. However, there are several things to consider when wearing it to weddings. So, in this episode, we dive into the most suitable ways to wear red appropriately and tastefully when going to a wedding.Wearing Red to a WeddingWhen considering wearing something red to a wedding, it is essential to keep a few guidelines in mind to ensure it will be appropriate for the event. Cultural SensitivityYou may need to avoid wearing red to a wedding if it may conflict with cultural norms. So, before choosing to wear red to a wedding, especially one where your cultural traditions may differ, it is crucial to research and understand the significance of red within that culture. (For example, in the Chinese culture, red is traditionally reserved for the bride.) Respect the Preferences of the CoupleAlways consider the preferences of the couple getting married. If you are unsure about wearing red, it is always best to reach out and inquire first. Some couples may welcome bold fashion choices, while others may prefer guests to adhere to a more traditional dress code to maintain the atmosphere of the wedding.Dress AppropriatenessOpt for a red dress that aligns with the formality and style of the wedding. Avoid overly revealing or casual attire. Choose well-tailored, sophisticated outfits in quality fabrics to maintain elegance and ensure that your attire complements rather than distracts from the wedding celebration.Incorporating Red as an AccentIf you love red but are hesitant about wearing it prominently, consider incorporating it as an accent. Accessories like a red belt, shoes, or jewelry can add a pop of color without dominating your outfit. Combining red with other colors, like pink, can create a balanced and festive look suitable for a wedding.Seasonal ConsiderationsConsider the season and setting of the wedding when choosing your red attire. Deeper shades like burgundy are ideal for fall and winter weddings, while lighter fabrics, like linen, can make red more appropriate for summer events. Adjusting the hue and fabric of your outfit can help ensure it harmonizes with the wedding theme.Confidence and ConsiderationAbove all, wear your chosen outfit with confidence and consideration for the couple and the occasion. If you are doubtful about your attire drawing too much attention or getting perceived inappropriately, it is best to err on the side of caution. Always aim to celebrate the couple while feeling comfortable and stylish in whatever you choose to wear.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Happy belated Father's Day to all the dads out there! We are focusing on wedding fashion for fathers today. Instead of having our usual Q&A with Julie, we're bringing back a past episode where Julie had a fantastic conversation with Michael Andrews, an expert in gentlemen's formal wear, tuxedos, and fabulous suit fabrics. Michael founded Michael Andrews Bespoke in 2006 to help professionals always look their best. In this episode, we revisit the insightful questions Julie asked Michael a few years back. Their discussion remains a valuable resource for styling all the men in your life, as Julie referenced in Chapter 13 of her book Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle. Join us for all the tips and tricks you need to ensure that the fathers in your wedding party look their absolute best on the big day!What an incredible episode this was! We hope it helps anyone navigating wedding fashion for fathers. For more information on grooms and groomsmen, tuxedos, and formal wear, check out Chapter 13 of Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle, now available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.As always, if you have any follow-up questions, send us an email or a DM on Instagram. See you next time!Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Today, we are thrilled to explore the process behind Julie’s new book, Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle: Becoming a Stylish Bride, which has already achieved Amazon Best Seller status.Join us as we dive into the inspiration, challenges, and insights behind Julie's journey toward creating this essential guide for brides-to-be. Excitement About the Book ReleaseJulie and Dee are super-excited about the release of Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle: Becoming a Stylish Bride. Julie finds it quite surreal to finally have the book come to fruition after many years of anticipation and hard work.Overwhelming supportJulie is thrilled and humbled by the overwhelming support and pre-orders, which have surpassed all her expectations. Writing Process and Origin of the IdeaA publisher approached Julie several years ago to write a book, but the project did not get going. Then, about three years ago, as her business grew and she gained more knowledge, the idea of writing the book resurfaced, and Julie felt a strong desire to share her expertise and help as many women as possible.Encouragement and Making it HappenJulie's decision to start writing the book solidified during her morning walks with her husband, who encouraged her to take action. His support pushed her to keep going, so she began to write earnestly.Overcoming Her Writing ChallengesInitially, Julie struggled with self-doubt, unsure if anyone would be interested in her work. Her writing process was further complicated by her dyslexia, making spelling and editing particularly difficult. She also had to balance her desire to provide practical, actionable advice with the anxiety of ensuring her words could not get misconstrued. Addressing various body types and sizes in the bridal industry added another layer of difficulty, requiring her to be inclusive and considerate of different experiences. Despite those obstacles, Julie wanted to create a resource to empower and support brides, so she eventually employed a ghostwriter to help her complete the book.Including Diverse PerspectivesInclusivity was a key consideration for Julie, who revised the book to address the unique challenges petite women and other body types tend to face. Feedback from colleagues and her commitment to diversity ensured the book catered to all brides.The Timeline and Practical ToolsJulie wanted to ensure her book was actionable and practical, so she included a detailed timeline for fashion-related wedding preparations. She also created resource guides and a fillable timeline on her website to help brides plan effectively.Encouragement for BridesThe core message in the book is that brides are perfect as they are. Julie reminds brides that their partners chose them for who they are and that the wedding is about their love rather than achieving a particular look or standard.Giveaway AnnouncementJulie is launching an exciting giveaway on Instagram on June 5th, where listeners can win a signed copy of her book, an emergency care kit, and many other exciting goodies.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
We are less than one week away from the official launch of Julie’s bestselling book, Dressed, Styled, and Down the Aisle, and today, she will share her favorite tips from the book. Completing the book has been a long yet fulfilling journey, and Julie cannot wait to share all the knowledge she has gathered over the years. Join us for Julie’s top tips!Julie’s Top TipJulie believes that feeling confident in what you are wearing and how you look will shine through in all your pictures and help you have a great time without being bogged down by insecurity.Understanding Your Shopping StyleYou need to know what type of shopper you are because understanding your shopping preferences will simplify the planning for your wedding dress shopping experience.Scheduling AppointmentsJulie recommends scheduling at least three wedding dress appointments on the first day. The first appointment is for getting your feet wet and trying different shapes. By the third appointment, you start understanding what you like. She also recommends taking a lunch break to stay energized and refreshed.Decision-Making StyleUnderstanding your decision-making style is crucial. All women make their decisions differently, and some may need more time to process all the information. Communicating your style to your consultant will ensure a smoother experience. Julie advises against making your final decision on the same day and suggests sleeping on it instead.Preparing for Dress FittingsBe prepared to try on dresses that do not fit perfectly. Most stores carry sample sizes that may not match your size, so you may need to use your imagination to visualize the final look. Being able to visualize changes is essential for avoiding frustration in those situations.Buying for Your Current BodyJulie advises brides to buy a dress to fit the body they have today. While losing weight or changing your body is a personal choice, buying a dress expecting those changes can add unnecessary stress. Even though most dresses can get altered, it is essential to love the dress as it is when you first see it.Utilizing ResourcesOur Dream Wedding Dress Quiz is there to help brides discover the perfect silhouette and style tailored to their preferences. Unlike traditional quizzes that make assumptions based on body type alone, our quiz focuses on what you love to accentuate to ensure you feel confident and beautiful on your special day. Knowing Your TimelineJulie highlights the importance of following a structured but flexible timeline that includes scheduling fittings and buying dresses for bridesmaids and moms to ensure everything aligns and nothing gets overlooked.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe StylishBride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
June is just around the corner. So, this week, we are sharing our top tips and tricks to ensure our June brides have everything covered.Join us for our tried and true hints and strategies to ensure you stay ahead of the game as you prepare for your special day. We will also provide practical strategies for staying comfortable during weddings in the summer months.Protecting Against the Heat It is essential to prioritize sunscreen as part of your wedding preparations if your wedding is in a sunny location or a warmer climate. Harley recommends using a high-SPF sunscreen and reapplying it throughout the day. Staying Cool and ComfortableJulie and Harley suggest using rechargeable mini fans and parasols to create shade and provide relief from the heat. You can even incorporate those items into the wedding decor to enhance the overall aesthetic while ensuring your guests stay comfortable. Lightweight FabricsHarley advises brides to choose lightweight and breathable fabrics for their wedding attire, allowing for better airflow and comfort throughout the day.Managing Sweatiness Bridegrooms should have backup shirts and use sweat-absorbing powder to stay dry and comfortable. Julie highlights the importance of choosing moisture-wicking fabrics for groomsmen to reduce the likelihood of visible sweat stains. Dealing with Foot Swelling Wear comfortable shoes with cushioned insoles to minimize foot fatigue and swelling. Julie recommends taking regular breaks to elevate your feet and reduce swelling. Compression socks or foot rollers will also alleviate discomfort and improve circulation, especially for those prone to foot swelling.Controlling Veils in Windy Conditions Julie and Harley recommend using veil weights or discreetly securing veils with hidden pins to prevent them from flying off in the wind. You can also opt for a shorter veil or secure your veil to your hair for added stability in windy conditions. Practice your veil management techniques during dress fittings to ensure a seamless experience on the wedding day. Harley advises brides to Guest Comfort in Hot WeatherJulie and Harley suggest providing guests with handheld fans, refreshing beverages, and shaded seating areas to enhance their overall experience in hot outdoor ceremonies. Couples should consider the timing of outdoor ceremonies to avoid the peak heat hours and provide relief from intense sunlight. You can even include cooling elements like personalized water bottles or mini fans as wedding favors for guests attending warm-weather weddings.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
We are thrilled to welcome a truly special guest today! In celebration of Mother's Day, Julie is super excited to have her mom joining her for a fun episode, where they explore a range of topics close to their hearts, from comparing their wedding experiences to sharing valuable advice on mother-daughter relationships.We extend a huge thank you to Julie's mom for gracing us with her delightful presence today!Wedding Planning Overview and Ceremony DetailsJulie and her mom reflect on the evolution of wedding planning from the 70s to modern times, discussing the shift toward more elaborate arrangements, hiring professionals, and the increasing significance of wedding details. Julie reminisces about her late afternoon wedding ceremony, highlighting its simplicity when compared with the elaborate receptions of today, and she and her mom discuss how much wedding ceremonies and receptions have changed over the decades.Wedding Dress Journey ChallengesJulie shares the challenges she faced during her wedding dress shopping experience in New York City, mentioning the difficulty she had finding the perfect dress without the convenience of online resources and the overwhelming choices in the bridal boutiques of today.Groom's Outfit IndividualityJulie's mom found a unique morning suit outfit in a magazine for her husband. She emphasizes the individuality and personal touch his outfit brought to the wedding.Bouquet and Veil SymbolismThe bouquet and veil are symbolic in wedding traditions. The bridal bouquet symbolizes fertility, new beginnings, and the blossoming of love. Each flower chosen may carry its symbolism, like roses for love, lilies for purity, or lavender for devotion. Beyond its aesthetic appeal, the bouquet also serves as a fragrant reminder of the bride's style and the joyful atmosphere of the wedding day. The veil symbolizes modesty, purity, and the unveiling of the bride as she begins a new chapter in her life. It also signifies how the bride transitions from a single woman to a married one as she uncovers her face to reveal her commitment and love for her partner. The bouquet and veil add layers of tradition, beauty, and meaning to the wedding ceremony, making them cherished elements of bridal attire. Going Away Outfit TraditionThe tradition of a going away outfit dates back to when newlywed couples would leave their wedding reception and head off on their honeymoon immediately afterward. The going away outfit was typically a stylish and comfortable ensemble for the bride, often different from her wedding gown. It symbolized the transition from the formalities of the wedding ceremony to the relaxed and intimate moments of the honeymoon. While this tradition has evolved, many couples may choose to delay their honeymoon or forego a separate outfit. The idea of a going away outfit remains a charming nod to the romantic customs of the past.The Evolution of the Bridesmaid Dress Over the years, bridesmaid dresses have evolved significantly in style, color, and design. From traditional floor-length gowns in pastel hues to modern and versatile options like mix-and-match styles or jumpsuits, bridesmaid attire has become more diverse and personalized. There has also been a shift toward sustainable and eco-friendly fabrics, focusing more on comfort and reusability. Today, brides have a wide range of choices, allowing them to create cohesive yet unique looks for their bridal party to fit the wedding theme.Mother of the Bride Dress The dress for the mother of the bride should strike a balance between elegance, comfort, and suitability for the wedding theme. It may include color coordination with the bridal party, flattering silhouettes that...
Today, in honor of Mother’s Day, we are diving into wedding fashion for mothers.To help you overcome any confusion, we will cover everything related to etiquette, clarifying where to begin, explaining how to create a cohesive look, and looking at everything in between. Join us for expert tips and guidance on choosing the perfect mother-of-the-bride dress while avoiding overshadowing the bride.Challenges for Mothers When Shopping for Wedding LooksMothers often encounter several challenges when shopping for their wedding looks. These include the need to look spectacular yet understated while coordinating with the overall vibe and color scheme and adapting to changes in their bodies postmenopause. Those factors can make it challenging to find a dress that makes them feel fantastic while being appropriate.The Mother's Dress Julie and Dee find it rewarding to help mothers feel amazing in their chosen outfits, considering the attention and honor bestowed upon them as the event hostess. Personal Experience with Finding a Mother's DressDee shares an anecdote about helping her mom find a dress for her sister's wedding. Despite initial miscommunications about color preferences, they ultimately succeeded in finding a dress that made her mom feel beautiful and comfortable. Etiquette and Rules for Mothers When ShoppingTraditionally, the bride's mother should shop for her dress before the mother of the groom buys her dress. However, that can vary. Mothers should not wear white, ivory, or anything similar to avoid overshadowing the bride. Communication is crucial to ensure everyone is on the same page regarding expectations and involvement in the dress selection. Some brides may want to see and approve the dress before their mother makes her final choice, while others may be more hands-off.Tips for Choosing the Perfect DressJulie and Dee share valuable tips for choosing the perfect mother-of-the-bride dress. These include not ruling out strapless dresses, considering internal dress support, deciding on a train and bustle, choosing comfortable shoes, and communicating openly about dress changes. These tips will ensure a flawless and comfortable fit.Addressing Specific ChallengesJulie advises mothers who struggle to find a dress that looks mature without being matronly to highlight their best features and opt for simplicity and sophistication in their dress choice. A Sneak Peek into Our Next EpisodeIn the next episode, Julie will have her mom on the podcast to discuss her experience of finding a dress for Julie’s wedding. We will also offer further insights into selecting a dress for the mother of the bride.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Today, for the last episode of our bridesmaid series, we are exploring ways to accessorize your bridesmaids and extend the same option to the rest of the bridal party.Join us for our insightful and imaginative ideas and expert tips for accessorizing your wedding.Starting Point: Thinking About AccessoriesWhen starting to consider accessorizing, it is essential to specify what you want your bridesmaids to wear. That helps maintain uniformity and avoid a mismatched look. When you choose particular jewelry types or colors, having guidelines will ensure a cohesive appearance, especially for photos and the ceremony.Creative Ideas Beyond JewelryAccessories also extend beyond jewelry. So consider personalized gifts that can be both sentimental and coordinated. From gloves to belts with unique details, there are various ways to add personal touches to the bridesmaids' attire while keeping the overall look cohesive.Getting Creative with AccessoriesBeyond traditional accessories, there are many creative avenues to explore. It may be a good idea to consider incorporating unique pieces like headbands, hair accessories, or even gloves for an adventurous touch. These elements can elevate the bridesmaids' look and add a distinct flair to the wedding ensemble.Shoe Choices and PersonalizationShoes are another area where creativity can shine. While opting for comfortable shoes is essential, adding personalized touches like shoe clips or bows can enhance the look without compromising comfort. It is a subtle yet effective way to personalize the attire of each bridesmaid.Handbags as Functional AccessoriesHandbags may seem minor, but they can add a finishing touch to the bridesmaids' outfits. They not only serve a functional purpose but also contribute to the overall fashion narrative of the wedding. Personalized or themed handbags can be memorable gifts that bridesmaids can use beyond the wedding day.Cold Weather ConsiderationsFor weddings in colder months, consider accessories like pashminas, stoles, or wraps to keep bridesmaids warm and comfortable. Planning for potential weather changes will ensure everyone remains comfortable and looks their best throughout the day.Attention to Details: Nails, Hair, and MakeupDetails like nail polish colors, hairstyles, and makeup are essential considerations. Providing guidelines helps bridesmaids coordinate their looks effectively, ensuring harmony with the overall theme and the bride's vision.Preparing for Questions and GuidanceAnticipate questions from bridesmaids and be prepared to guide them. Establishing clear guidelines and expectations helps create a seamless and enjoyable experience for everyone involved. Remember, bridesmaids want to make the bride happy. So, they are usually receptive to guidelines.Closing Thoughts and Openness to QuestionsAfter considering various aspects of wedding accessorizing, ensure that the entire look of the bridal party is cohesive and reflects the overall theme of the wedding. Stay open to questions and feedback, and remember that communication is the key to a harmonious wedding party ensemble. Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram
Today, we are diving into ways to create a mix-and-match bridesmaid's dress concept harmoniously, without the stress. If you have been contemplating this approach for your wedding, we have you covered!Join us for expert guidance and helpful tips and tricks to make the whole process as smooth as possible.Understanding the Mix-and-Match TrendThe mix-and-match bridesmaid dress concept involves giving bridesmaids the freedom to choose their dresses within a specified color or concept, focusing on ready-to-wear dresses. This concept has gained popularity recently because brides want their friends to feel comfortable and stylish, moving away from the traditional uniform look to create a visually appealing and fashion-forward ensemble.Challenges and Fun of Mix-and-MatchWhile the trend can be enjoyable when executed correctly, it also presents challenges as it takes time and requires patience and dedication. Many brides embrace this concept due to social media exposure and the possibility of bridesmaids reusing their dresses, especially if they align with their personal style preferences.Selecting Dresses and Maintaining CohesionChoosing dresses for bridesmaids involves balancing various factors, like colors, fabrics, styles, and lengths. Keeping the differences between the dresses to a minimum of three factors helps maintain cohesion and ensures that the overall look remains unified. Additional considerations include aligning all the skirt shapes and sizes to avoid a disjointed appearance.Color Selection and Online vs. In-PersonSelecting colors can be tricky due to variations in shades between online and in-person views. So, for that reason, it is crucial to be there in person to see how all the colors look to avoid mismatching shades. It may be helpful to incorporate a mix of solid and printed dresses, as that could add depth to the overall look while maintaining cohesion.Accessorizing for a Unified LookAccessories like jewelry, clutches, and shoes play a significant role in tying the bridesmaid ensemble together and creating a cohesive look. Choosing complementary accessories is always helpful as they can enhance the overall appearance of the dresses. Additionally, opting for accessories that reflect the wedding theme or colors can add a touch of elegance. Ensuring that each bridesmaid has suitable accessories can contribute to a polished and unified appearance, enhancing the overall aesthetic of the bridal party.Final Tips for SuccessSetting clear parameters, choosing stores with good return policies, and keeping detailed records of all the dress choices are essential for a smooth process. Exploring different designers and e-commerce websites can offer more options and better logistics. Despite the challenges, the mix-and-match trend is likely here to stay, offering brides and bridesmaids a stylish and personalized approach to wedding attire.Links and Resources:The Stylish BrideThe Stylish Bride Resource LibraryThe Stylish Bride on Instagram