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Black Girls Heal helps women break out of cycles of unhealthy relationships with unavailable partners and feeling not enough by combining coaching, therapeutic support, and practical tools. Every episode, we will talk about intimacy, attachment, healing unresolved trauma, and growing in our self worth.
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Breakups are painful.But when you struggle with love addiction, trauma bonding, or unresolved childhood wounds, breakups can feel devastating, consuming, and nearly impossible to move through.In this episode, I break down how to navigate heartbreak when your nervous system is deeply activated and your attachment patterns are involved.This conversation is about compassion and not criticism. Awareness and not shame. And breaking generational patterns, not repeating them.If you relate to symptoms of love addiction, love avoidance, or love deprivation, download our free roadmap.Our Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodProfessional Certification: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/certificationOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Let's talk about how you can be both a love addict and love avoidant at the same time.Join me in the BGH Method to break the cycle of love addiction: Click here to joinOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Listen to this if you feel you lost time in your previous relationshipJoin me in the BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
Break the cycle with the BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena concludes her examination of how to put yourself first using the Loved Woman Checklist.Click here to download the checklistResources Mentioned:How to Pick Partners for Love Addicts by Shena LasheyThe BGH MethodPrivate Coaching OptionsOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena continues the How To Put Yourself First Series with the Loved Woman Checklist review, Part 3.Click here to download the checklistResources Mentioned:How to Pick Partners for Love Addicts by Shena LasheyThe BGH MethodPrivate Coaching OptionsOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, I continue into the next set of the foundational steps of learning how to truly put yourself first without guilt, fear, or feeling like you’re letting others down.Resources mentioned:The Loved Woman Checklist: https://blackgirlsheal.org/checklistThe BGH Method: https://blackgirlsheal.org/methodConnect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, I dive into the foundational steps of learning how to truly put yourself first without guilt, fear, or feeling like you’re letting others down.Resources mentioned:The Loved Woman Checklist: https://blackgirlsheal.org/checklistThe BGH Method: https://blackgirlsheal.org/methodConnect with us:Website: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
A short Merry Christmas message of gratitude to all members of the BGH listening family!Join me at in the BGH Members Club: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/clubLearn the BGH Method in the New Year: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, I review how childhood emotional neglect may show up for youngest daughters in childhood and how it manifests in adulthood.Resources mentioned:Heal the Ache of Childhood Emotional Neglect: https://blackgirlsheal.org/neglectEnter code HEAL20 for 20% offThe BGH Method: https://blackgirlsheal.org/methodOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, I review how childhood emotional neglect may show up for middle daughters in childhood and how it manifests in adulthood.Resources mentioned:Heal the Ache of Childhood Emotional Neglect:http://blackgirlsheal.org/neglectEnter code HEAL20 for 20% offThe BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, I review how childhood emotional neglect may show up for oldest daughters in childhood and how it manifests in adulthood.Resources mentioned:Heal the Ache of Childhood Emotional Neglect:http://blackgirlsheal.org/neglect Enter code HEAL20 for 20% offThe BGH Method: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/methodOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
For those who have felt they have given up much to take care of those in their family and it has become increasingingly overwhelming, this is for you.Click here to enroll in the BGH Method, our 90 day recovery accelator for love addicts and love avoidants to heal their relationships, unresolved trauma and improve their relationship with themselvesJoin the BGH Members Club to get access to worksheets, bonus lessons and more.Our Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena explores the three archetypes of love avoidants. She unpacks their unique strengths, their fatal flaws, and what healthy love looks like for each type.If you’ve ever felt trapped in the same relationship patterns or struggled to understand why love feels so intense yet painful, this episode will help you see yourself with compassion — and give you language to begin your healing journey.Click here to enroll in the BGH Method, our 90 day recovery accelator for love addicts and love avoidants to heal their relationships, unresolved trauma and improve their relationship with themselvesJoin the BGH Members Club to get access to worksheets, bonus lessons and more.Our Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena explores the four archetypes of love addicts. She unpacks their unique strengths, their fatal flaws, and what healthy love looks like for each type.If you’ve ever felt trapped in the same relationship patterns or struggled to understand why love feels so intense yet painful, this episode will help you see yourself with compassion — and give you language to begin your healing journey.Click here to enroll in the BGH Method, our 90 day recovery accelator for love addicts and love avoidants to heal their relationships, unresolved trauma and improve their relationship with themselvesJoin the BGH Members Club to get access to worksheets, bonus lessons and more.Our Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena talks about using hope as an act of resistance when everything is not okay around you.Click here to enroll in the BGH Method, our 90 day recovery accelator for love addicts and love avoidants to heal their relationships, unresolved trauma and improve their relationship with themselvesJoin the BGH Members Club to get access to worksheets, bonus lessons and more:Our Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena reviews 3 tips to help recovered love addicts and love avoidants foster deep love when you are with your person. The goal is to combat unhealthy patterns you may have brought into your loving relationship to keep the love and connection easy.Click here to enroll in the BGH Method, our 90 day recovery accelator for love addicts and love avoidants to heal their relationships, unresolved trauma and improve their relationship with themselvesJoin the BGH Members Club to get access to worksheets, bonus lessons and more:Our Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, I review what are the things that will make a woman who is in a relationship that is draining her finally leave and what are the things that may make her stay.Get this week's podcast episode worksheet in our BGH Members Club at http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/clubBreak this cycle and step out of this issue with the BGH Method, our 90 recovery program coming soon.CONNECT WITH US ELSEWHEREWebsite: Blackgirlsheal.orgInstagram: @BlackGirlsHealTikTok: @blackgirlshealFacebook: Black Girls HealOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Shena returns refreshed and ready to dive deep into an important and affirming topic: how to recognize when someone actually likes you—and why that clarity matters. She explains that while we often focus on red flags, it’s just as vital to know the green flags of emotional safety, care, and genuine interest. This episode is all about normalizing ease in love and helping women recognize partners who truly value and protect them.Get this episode's worksheet at in the BGH Member's Club: http://www.blackgirlsheal.org/membersOur Sponsors:* Check out Mint Mobile: https://mintmobile.com/BGHSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/black-girls-heal/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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i enjoy your show but the volume is loud for your intro, extremely low during your content and then loud advertisements.
So good, and applies to Father Wounds as well. Please do Father Wounds please lol
Yes for this can we discuss healing Father wounds too...
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omg I sooo needed to hear this session. today was my first time finding this podcast and I'm hooked already. my eyes welled up with water the whole time I was listening to you all because all that your speaking of is so me!!!! I can't wait to listen to more of your content...
TY TY This was a very helpful to hear that it is easy to take on other people trauma and narratives. Toast:)....To Happy and Healthy Boundaries and Dating. Namaste 🐬 Peace 💃Shalom 🐒
wow this was just for me in this moment. wish we could talk
I just listened to this. and it's so funny that I had a situation happen recently, and then listening to this, brought everything into perspective. It was extremely helpful, and my truth.
YAS!!!!!! This was so good!! Great info!!
Amazing podcast. Honest, compassionate, challenging and meets you right where you are.
I am new to this podcast and I'm so grateful I found it! this podcast is amazing... so thoughtful.... so wonderful.... so insightful.... thank you for helping this Black Girl Heal ❤️
The truth hurts, but it will help to grow, change and heal ourselves. Thanks for keeping it real.