The EXTRAORDINARY Family Life Podcast

Do you ever feel so overwhelmed by a big goal that you back away and settle for “safe”?Here’s the truth: in order to succeed, you have to fail more. And you’ll have problems either way—so why not live an awesome life? In this episode, Rachel & Greg break down the mindset and method they’ve used for 23+ years to make bold decisions, face fear, and move forward even when it’s scary.You’ll learn how to:Flip fear from a stop sign into a signal you’re on the right pathUse the “exchange rate” test to decide if a dream is worth the priceShrink overwhelm with step-by-step moves (exposure in bite-sized reps)See how obstacles transform you into the person who can live your dreamAdopt the mantra: “I’ll either find a way—or I’ll make one.”Bottom line: your fears aren’t facts. When you face them strategically, the “impossible” becomes doable—and your life expands.Key Takeaways✅ Overwhelm means growth is near, not that you should quit.✅ Problems are guaranteed; choose the ones that lead to an extraordinary life.✅ Exposure beats avoidance: tiny reps dissolve massive fears.✅ Decide by “exchange rate”: is the cost (work/problems) worth the outcome?✅ Identity shift: obstacles forge the person who can hold the life you want.Chapters00:00 Embracing the Sun: A Controversial Perspective01:09 The Catalyst for Extraordinary Living02:26 Overcoming Overwhelm: The Decision to Act04:17 Facing Challenges: The Path to Growth06:10 The Irony of Fear: Choosing a Boring Life08:39 Transforming Fear into Opportunity11:18 Breaking Through Barriers: The Edge of Comfort13:45 Processing Fear: A Journey of Growth15:29 The Power of Facing Fears20:41 The Importance of Awareness in Overcoming Fear24:05 Living Beyond Limits: The Flea AnalogyMemorable Quotes🗣 “In order to succeed, you have to fail more.”🗣 “Either way you have problems—so why not live an awesome life?”🗣 “That ‘overwhelm’ is often the doorway—not a dead end.”🗣 “I’ll either find a way or I’ll make one.”🗣 “Obstacles transform you into the person who can live the dream.”🗣 “Why would anyone choose to live a boring life?”RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Do you have a long list of dreams—but no idea where to start?Parents often feel torn between wanting a meaningful, adventurous life…and the realities of raising kids, managing a home, and juggling responsibilities. How do you pick the right dream to pursue first—without sacrificing your marriage, health, or family?In today’s conversation, Greg and Rachel break down the exact five-step process they’ve used for 20+ years to chase bold, meaningful goals while raising seven kids, traveling to over 60 countries, homeschooling, and building a business.You’ll learn how to prioritize your dreams, avoid sacrifices that damage what matters most, and identify the “first step” that naturally unlocks momentum for every other goal.Whether you’re overwhelmed by possibilities or unsure how to start, this episode will help you get clarity, build confidence, and make meaningful progress toward the life you actually want—one small step at a time.Key Takeaways✅ Write every dream down — clarity comes from seeing your full list on paper.✅ Follow your intuition and repeated nudges — they’re often guideposts toward your best future.✅ Aim for alignment — choose the dream that makes the other dreams easier.✅ Consider urgency — some dreams (like traveling with kids) have a limited window.✅ Protect the core areas — never sacrifice marriage, parenting, health, or spirituality to chase a goal.✅ Morning routines fuel everything — they give you the energy, clarity, and stability to pursue big goals.✅ Forward motion reveals the path — obstacles show you where to start and what to fix first.✅ Dreams require identity growth — you become the person who can achieve the dream by pursuing it.MEMORABLE QUOTES🗣 “You don’t have to see the whole path—you just have to take the first step.”🗣 “Any meaningful dream requires you to grow into the person who can achieve it.”🗣 “You can’t pursue big goals while sacrificing your marriage, health, or kids.”🗣 “Write it all down. Clarity comes through the act of writing.”🗣 “If you step forward, the next step reveals itself.”🗣 “Some dreams won’t matter later—and some can’t wait.”Chapters00:00 Pursuing Big Dreams with Family01:29 The Importance of Prioritization05:39 Holistic Approach to Goals11:58 Writing Down Your Dreams16:53 Intuition and Signs in Goal Pursuit19:23 The Journey of Homesteading and Property Ownership19:53 Following Your Interests as a Guidepost22:04 The Importance of Genuine Interests24:27 Researching and Learning as a Pathway26:43 The Ready, Fire, Aim Approach28:39 Defining Success and Wealth29:54 Deciding Which Dream to PursueRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the 12-Week Habits Challenge for parents of kids 13+Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Greg’s NEW Formidable Family Man BOOK!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerFollow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠

Are you trying to set teen boundaries without your child calling you “controlling” or “the worst parent ever”?If you want your teen to live by high standards—around tech, food, friends, habits, and lifestyle—you can’t just make it your standard and enforce it. It has to become their standard. In this episode of the Extraordinary Family Life Podcast, Greg and Rachel break down exactly how they helped their own teens buy in so deeply that they now say things like, “I’m not putting that garbage in my body,” or “I don’t waste my life on that.”Instead of rules and power struggles, they show you how to prioritize relationship over rules, lean on unconditional love, and teach the laws that govern health, happiness, success, and addiction—so your kids see for themselves where certain choices lead. When teens understand the why behind your standards, they stop feeling controlled and start choosing those standards for themselves.You’ll also hear how the Dennings have intentionally made real life more compelling than video games or junk food—often inviting friends along for the ride—so the “different” lifestyle isn’t a punishment, it’s an upgrade.If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I hold the line without wrecking the relationship?” this conversation will give you a new framework: less control, more conviction—and a family standard that everyone owns.🎉 Enrollment is now open for our Winter 2026Habits for a Successful Life Online Class for Teens → Learn More HereKey Takeaways✅ It can’t be my standard; it has to become our standard as a family, or teens will always feel controlled.✅ Prioritizing the relationship over the rules makes high standards easier to hold and easier for teens to accept.✅ Unconditional love is the foundation, but standards and boundaries are still essential—just not weaponized.✅ Focus less on control and correction, and more on conviction, conversion, and clear “why’s” behind your standards.✅ Treat standards like universal laws (like gravity)—not arbitrary parent rules—so kids see cause and effect for themselves.Memorable Quotes🗣 “It can’t be my standard I enforce on my kids. It has to be our standard.”🗣 “If we don’t live the message, we suck as the messenger.”🗣 “The goal isn’t to make your child do what you want—it’s to help them want it for themselves.”🗣 “Tell me your habits and I’ll tell you your future.”🗣 “We’re not the creators of the rules—we’re the teachers of the laws that already exist.”Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Anecdotes00:38 Navigating Parenting Standards and Boundaries01:10 The Challenge of Standing Out as Parents02:53 Communicating Values and Standards to Teens04:46 The Importance of Ownership in Standards06:12 Understanding Consequences and Life Choices08:21 Living the Message: The Role of Parents11:02 The Balance of Unconditional Love and Standards17:21 The Complexity of Love: Unconditional vs Conditional18:41 Prioritizing Relationships Over Rules21:58 Conviction vs Control in Parenting26:25 Creating an Engaging Family Culture30:29 Choosing the Hard Path for Greater RewardsRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the 12-Week Habits Challenge for parents of kids 13+Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Greg’s NEW Formidable Family Man BOOK!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerFollow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Do your evenings disappear into chaos—feeding, cleaning, and collapsing into bed exhausted? Are you wondering how to stay calm and connected while parenting toddlers who seem to need you every second?In this episode, Greg & Rachel reveal the mindset and framework behind calm parenting toddlers—how to meet your child’s needs without losing yourself, gently transition from co-sleeping, and end night wakings without cry-it-out. You’ll learn why the 0–5 window shapes your child’s identity, confidence, and future emotional health—and how your calm presence now builds secure attachment and independence later.They also share why dads don’t babysit—they lead, and how fathers can bring energy, joy, and true relief to moms in the toddler trenches. You’ll leave with practical, doable shifts that make family life lighter, calmer, and far more fulfilling.🗝️ Key Takeaways✅ Calm parenting toddlers builds trust and independence. Meeting needs early reduces clinginess.✅ Co-sleeping transitions can be gentle and peaceful. Move step by step without trauma or tears.✅ Night weaning works best with connection. Stay near, soothe with presence, and stay patient.✅ Dads don’t babysit—dads lead. Real help means engagement and energy.✅ Self-care fuels capacity. Movement, nutrition, and recovery make calm possible.✅ Presence > perfection. Toddlers sense your energy more than your words.🕒 Chapters00:00 Embracing the Chaos of Parenthood01:08 The Importance of Mindset in Parenting03:20 Understanding Child Development and Needs05:40 The Long-Term Investment of Parenting08:07 Balancing Self-Care and Family Needs09:46 Creating a Secure Environment for Children10:47 Navigating Relationships and Priorities13:18 The Value of Minimalism in Parenting15:40 The Evolution of Parenting Practices17:38 Creating a Safe and Secure Environment for Children23:29 The Importance of Self-Care for Parents29:14 Building Strong Foundations for Future Relationships💬 Memorable Quotes🗣 “Dads don’t babysit—dads lead. Be the king of your kingdom.”🗣 “Attachment now creates freedom later.”🗣 “You can’t spoil a child under three—you can only secure them.”🗣 “Your calm nervous system is your child’s safety net.”The topics discussed in our episodes are intended for educational and entertainment purposes only. They should not be considered medical advice. Always consult a qualified professional for any medical concerns or questions.RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the 12-Week Habits Challenge for parents of kids 13+Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Greg’s NEW Formidable Family Man BOOK!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerFollow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Do your kids “catch” your stress—and you hate how quickly the mood at home drops?What if the fastest way to raise happy kids is to model authentic joy (not fake calm)—even while cleaning a messy kitchen?In this video, we unpack how parents set the emotional tone at home—and why your child has been watching you from birth to learn how to do life. You’ll learn how to raise your emotional baseline on purpose (water, breath, sunlight, movement), process triggers so you’re not pretending, and lead with real peace your kids can imitate. You can’t fake it—kids feel the truth—so let’s build the real thing.What you’ll learn:Modeling vs. masking: why kids imitate your state (and can’t be fooled)Story → state: how the meaning you give messes determines your moodMorning biochemistry reset: water, breath, sunlight, movement = instant upliftFrom nagging to leading: make chores joyful by choice, not drudgeryTriggers, then tools: journaling, breathwork, micro-meditations, and the “jukebox” swap (remove the old CD for good)Key Takeaways✅ Parents create the climate—kids grow the weather✅ Authentic calm beats performative patience (they can tell)✅ Biochemistry is leverage: hydrate, breathe, move, sunlight✅ Choose joy while you work—easier to recruit help✅ Process & replace triggers so old songs stop playingMemorable Quotes🗣 “The easiest way for our kids to feel joy is for parents to model it.”🗣 “We’re the adults. We have to be the adults.”🗣 “You can’t fake it. It has to really be there.”🗣 “Is it possible to have joy while I’m cleaning the mess? Yes.”🗣 “Happiness isn’t the reward at the end—it’s the way.”Chapters00:00 The Essence of Happiness in Family Life02:03 The Struggle Between Doing and Being03:09 Modeling Joy for Children03:47 The Role of Triggers in Parenting05:59 Choosing Emotions in Daily Life06:31 Finding Joy in Everyday Chores07:31 The Impact of Environment on Happiness09:47 Teaching Children Through Example11:09 Morning Routines: Setting the Tone for Positivity13:14 Processing Emotions: The Key to Emotional Freedom17:18 Authenticity in Parenting: The Importance of Genuine EmotionsRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the 12-Week Habits Challenge for parents of kids 13+Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Greg’s NEW Formidable Family Man BOOK!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerFollow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are your toddler’s meltdowns leaving you “touched out” and wondering how to stay calm? What if the fastest way to end tantrums is more connection—not more limits?In this video, we break down attachment parenting for toddlers—the practical, science-aligned way to reduce tantrums, boost cooperation, and rebuild calm (in you and your child). You’ll learn why kids imitate your emotions but can’t yet regulate them, how to be the adult in the room, and the exact strategies we used to go 16+ years without tantrums in our home.We’ll show you how to increase your capacity (food, sleep, recovery) so you’re not running on empty, plus simple co-regulation tools like cuddle-pauses, couch resets, and family calm breaks. Attachment isn’t coddling—it's how kids become secure and independent. When their emotional bucket is full, clinginess drops and behavior improves. Parenting isn’t convenient—but it can be effective.Key Takeaways✅ Attachment first makes every other parenting strategy work better✅ Capacity over boundaries: build yourself up so you can show up✅ Food & sleep are fuel for patience, presence, and self-control✅ Fill the bucket daily: secure kids act better and rebel less✅ Pause > push through: a 2-minute cuddle beats a 20-minute battleMemorable Quotes🗣 “We are the ones who have to be the adults.”🗣 “I don’t want it to be easy—I want it to be effective.”🗣 “Kids imitate without regulation—you must co-regulate.”🗣 “Parenting is never convenient—but it is transformational.”🗣 “Toddlers with full buckets don’t have tantrums.”Chapters00:00 Welcome & the “be the adult” principle02:04 Imitation without regulation (why kids escalate)06:15 Attachment disorders → behavior problems (and hope)10:22 Zero–Three: the critical window (and what if you missed it)13:40 Touched-out? Capacity, not limits17:18 Food & sleep: the fastest patience upgrade21:05 “Fill the bucket” method (quality + quantity time)26:30 Co-regulation: couch cuddle resets & calm breaks31:12 Rebuilding attachment with older kidsRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Join the 12-Week Habits Challenge for parents of kids 13+Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Greg’s NEW Formidable Family Man BOOK!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerFollow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Gather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are you using “attachment parenting” — or accidentally doing permissive parenting?In this eye-opening conversation, Greg & Rachel Denning break down what true attachment parenting is (and isn’t). They share the skills, mindsets, and tools that helped them eliminate tantrums for 16 years and prevent teen rebellion—without yelling, shaming, or rigid control.You’ll learn why parenting is a specific, learnable skill, how to build secure attachment from baby to teen, and where popular advice (cry-it-out, forced “holding time,” over-scheduling, letting kids lead everything) quietly damages trust. You’ll also get a clear blueprint for connection with boundaries so kids feel safe, seen, and guided—and you feel calm, confident, and effective.Bottom line: Attachment is earned, not forced. Respect your child’s free will, meet real needs (sleep, food, attention), co-regulate big emotions, and set firm, sensible boundaries. That’s the evergreen approach that works in every generation.Key Takeaways✅ Parenting is a skill—unrelated to how good you are at business, sports, or leadership.✅ Attachment ≠ permissive. It’s connection + boundaries and kind + firm.✅ Attachment is earned, not forced. No cry-it-out or “holding until defeat.”✅ Respect free will while providing age-appropriate structure and safety.✅ Co-regulation first (your calm is contagious), then teach self-regulation.✅ Meet basics (sleep, nutrition, attention) before behavior battles.✅ Measure success by long-term trust and adult outcomes—not short-term compliance.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Attachment Parenting00:43 Clarifying Misunderstandings in Parenting02:04 The Importance of Parenting Skills03:09 Defining Success in Parenting04:39 Understanding Attachment Parenting05:23 The Dangers of Misapplied Parenting Techniques06:56 The Impact of Adoption on Attachment08:25 The Consequences of Control in Parenting11:28 The Role of Freedom in Child Development13:48 The Misconception of Holding Time16:10 The Impact of Sleep Training on Children17:59 Respecting Free Will in Parenting20:39 The Concept of Holding Time24:22 Understanding Boundaries and Safety28:24 Preparing Children for Adulthood31:24 The Lifelong Mentor-Mentee Relationship33:01 Building a Legacy of Good ParentingMemorable Quotes🗣 “Parenting is a skill—and a very specific one you can learn.”🗣 “Attachment is earned, not forced.”🗣 “Be kind and firm: connection with boundaries.”🗣 “Children push to find the boundary—when they find it, they feel safe.”🗣 “Your calm co-regulates their storm.”RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Do you ever feel like you’re doing “all the right things” but not seeing real results?In this episode, Greg & Rachel Denning challenge the sacred cows of school, pharma, and religion—not to burn it all down, but to help you keep what serves your family and release what doesn’t. You’ll learn how to shift from transactional box-checking to transformational growth, so your kids develop inner authority, critical thinking, and personal responsibility.Big idea: You can honor helpful traditions and raise kids who can question wisely, choose higher standards, and own their outcomes—in education, health, spirituality, and life.What we cover:• Why outsourcing your child’s education, spirituality, or health stalls growth• How to “keep the good” in institutions while ditching deadweight rules• The path from conformity to character—raising autodidacts who learn for life• Practical habits that create palpable progress in mind, body, spirit, and family cultureKey Takeaways✅ Transactional → Transformational: Results > routines.✅ Inner Authority: Teach kids to think, not just comply.✅ Keep & Elevate: Honor useful rules; raise the standard at home.✅ Autodidact Mindset: Light the fire, don’t fill the bucket.✅ Measure Progress: If outcomes don’t improve, change the method.Chapters00:00 Challenging Sacred Cows02:32 The Importance of Questioning Traditions04:58 Individual Authority and Personal Growth07:22 Outsourcing Education and Spirituality10:29 Transformational vs. Transactional Experiences13:05 The Role of Institutions in Personal Development15:25 The Quest for Holistic Progress18:27 Facing Fears and Embracing Truth21:28 The Labyrinth of Personal Growth28:40 Facing Fears and Doubts29:32 The Nature of True Education30:51 The Challenge of Conformity32:22 Resisting Authority Thoughtfully33:41 The Importance of Imagination35:03 Faith at the Edge of the Abyss36:18 Questioning Conventional Wisdom38:01 Learning from Others' Experiences40:41 Walking the Labyrinth of Faith41:48 Understanding Meta Truths44:10 The Concept of the Fringe46:44 Navigating the Lower and Upper Fringe49:03 Living Beyond Conformity50:31 Transformational Living Beyond the BasicsMemorable Quotes🗣 “You can’t outsource growth—nobody can do your pushups for you.”🗣 “If there’s no palpable progress, the method must change.”🗣 “Keep what’s good in tradition—raise the standard on everything else.”🗣 “Education isn’t filling a bucket; it’s lighting a fire.”RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are you a driven mom who wants to be present—but you’re drowning in overwhelm and “control mode”?This conversation shows you how to get crystal-clear on your family vision, build secure attachment/connection, and set firm, kind boundaries so kids become self-directed—without you turning into the “mean, controlling parent.”In this candid episode, Greg and Rachel break down the yin–yang of parenting—high standards + healthy surrender—so you can lead your family without micromanaging. You’ll learn time-chunking, strategic disengagement, and simple charts & systems (starting with the morning routine) that create calm, predictable days. We also unpack why quality and quantity time (especially in key developmental years) is the foundation of trust, attachment, and influence.If you’ve ever thought, “I’ve tried everything,” this is your roadmap to clarity, consistency, and connection—without burnout.Key Takeaways✅ Vision first: You can’t hit a target you don’t have—define your family vision and align daily “micro-visions.”✅ Attachment over control: Connection creates cooperation; control breeds rebellion or resentment.✅ Quality and quantity time: Presence (especially ages 0–6, and up to 25) builds trust and influence.✅ Boundaries you honor: Time-chunking + strategic disengagement protect work and family time.✅ Systems over stress: Start with a morning routine chart; train, then let kids choose how within clear boundaries.✅ Lead without micromanaging: Be playful + firm on non-negotiables; give freedom on details.✅ The obstacle is the way: Overwhelm signals where to build skills and systems next.Memorable Quotes🗣 “You can’t hit a target you don’t have—or one you can’t see.”🗣 “Quality time isn’t enough—your kids need quality and quantity.”🗣 “Connection creates cooperation; control creates resentment.”🗣 “Set boundaries—and honor them. That’s how kids learn to trust you.”🗣 “The obstacle is the way. Skill up where you feel overwhelmed.”🗣 “Hold high standards; give freedom in the details.”Chapters00:00 Introduction to Extraordinary Family Life00:23 Vision and Clarity in Parenting04:13 Facing Obstacles in Family Life06:36 Quality vs. Quantity in Parenting08:56 Setting Boundaries as a Parent11:56 Strategic Time Management for Family Engagement13:00 Navigating Chaos with Calmness15:14 The Dangers of Control in Parenting18:30 The Irony of Control and Surrender19:58 Self-Awareness as a Catalyst for Change22:48 Learning Parenting as a Skill24:10 Balancing Control and Freedom26:25 Establishing Boundaries with Flexibility29:56 Teaching Independence through Routines34:20 Introduction to Extraordinary Family LifeRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are you tired of hearing about “gentle parenting” — but still want to raise kind, confident, and emotionally intelligent kids?In this powerful episode, Greg and Rachel Denning unpack The Truth About Gentle Parenting — what works, what backfires, and what extraordinary parents are using instead.They reveal how gentle parenting often gets misapplied as permissive parenting, leaving parents exhausted, burned out, and unsure how to hold boundaries without becoming authoritarian. The Dennings share a better, more effective approach — one that blends empathy and structure, kindness and firmness, compassion and clarity.They explain how to develop your parenting intuition, create emotional safety without losing authority, and respond to misbehavior without yelling, punishing, or shaming. You’ll learn how to raise respectful, resilient kids while staying calm, confident, and connected — even in the toughest parenting moments.Key Takeaways✅ True “gentle” parenting means connection with boundaries, not permissiveness.✅ Kids feel safest when parents are both kind and firm.✅ Respect doesn’t mean letting your child lead — it means guiding with love and clarity.✅ Emotional awareness + structure = long-term cooperation and trust.✅ You can’t pour from an empty cup — process your own triggers to parent authentically.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Extraordinary Parenting12:20 The Nuances of Gentle Parenting30:41 Pros and Cons of Gentle Parenting41:02 Navigating Disappointment in Parenting47:01 The Importance of Setting Expectations50:10 Balancing Empathy and Boundaries56:13 Authenticity in Parenting01:04:20 The Shift Towards Hybrid Parenting01:17:55 The Path to Effective ParentingMemorable Quotes🗣 “You can’t spoil a baby—but you can fail to build trust.”🗣 “Be kind but firm. Gentle doesn’t mean weak.”🗣 “Children will push to find the boundaries. When they find them, they feel safe.”🗣 “Emotions are contagious—if you’re calm, they’ll learn calm.”🗣 “Parenting isn’t about being perfect. It’s about having the tools and the intuition.”If you’re ready to stop oscillating between being too soft or too strict — and instead raise emotionally intelligent kids who respect and trust you — this episode will help you find the balance between empathy and authority that extraordinary parents master.RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Do you want your kids to love learning—and become independent, capable adults who can handle life?Most parents want extraordinary results but stick to ordinary systems. In this video, Greg & Rachel explain why comfortable, convenient methods don’t produce extraordinary results and why true education is lighting a fire, not filling a bucket. You’ll see how to expand beyond the home with worldschooling and real-world experiences, use modern tools for a world-class education, and reclaim both influence and joy in your family culture.Key Takeaways✅ Method determines outcome—change methods to change results.✅ Worldschooling turns lessons into experiences kids never forget.✅ Raise independent thinkers through self-directed learning.✅ Time with your kids = influence (quantity and quality).✅ Use AI/online platforms to access the best teachers on earth.✅ Save “academic rigor” for the right season—after love of learning ignites.Chapters00:00 Welcome to Extraordinary Family Life01:06 The Importance of Intentional Living02:32 Extraordinary Education Through World Schooling05:02 The Limitations of Public Schooling06:41 The Need for Self-Directed Learning08:04 Experiential Learning and Travel09:42 The Impact of Environment on Learning11:30 Navigating Social Experiences for Kids11:52 Conclusion and Final Thoughts15:41 The Transformative Power of Modern Education19:47 Leveraging Online Resources for Homeschooling22:12 Balancing Personal Time and Homeschooling25:16 Quality Time vs. Quantity Time in Education26:44 Redefining Social Skills Beyond School27:25 Overcoming Personal Limitations as a Parent28:06 Embracing the Journey of Homeschooling30:13 The Importance of Following Interests in LearningMemorable Quotes🗣 “Comfortable, convenient methods don’t produce extraordinary results.”🗣 “Education is not the filling of a bucket, but the lighting of a fire.”🗣 “If you want different results, change your method.”🗣 “You can’t outsource character or curiosity.”RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Does “launching” your teen mean kicking them out at 18?If your child only becomes capable when you separate, something’s broken. In this video, Greg & Rachel Denning expose why “move out at 18” is a modern psyop that weakens families and robs teens of real independence. You’ll learn how to build capability before 18—so your young adult is confident, competent, and contributing while still benefiting from mentorship, connection, and family legacy.Key Takeaways✅ Failure to launch is a parenting-skill problem, not an age problem.✅ By mid-teens, kids should be capable, confident, and contributing at home.✅ Comfort & convenience sabotage growth—skills and systems build it.✅ Teach life skills early: cooking, cleaning, finances, self-management.✅ Mentor through 16–25: support big decisions, deepen character, build skills.✅ Generational families win: keep wisdom, wealth, and warmth under one roof.✅ If independence only follows separation, change the method—not the goal.Chapters00:00 Epic Adventures and Homecomings03:02 Rethinking the 18-Year-Old Move-Out Myth06:06 The Impact of Cultural Norms on Independence08:43 Parenting Skills and the Failure to Launch11:54 The Role of Education in Young Adulthood14:41 Cultural Perspectives on Family Dynamics17:44 The Dangers of Social Media Influence20:31 Reframing Independence and Parenting Strategies27:42 Empowering Children with Life Skills34:52 The Importance of Parenting Techniques44:43 Building a Family Legacy and Financial StabilityMemorable Quotes🗣 “If your kids only become capable when you kick them out—you’ve already failed.”🗣 “Comfort and convenience don’t create capable kids.”🗣 “We’re unconsciously sabotaging our own success as parents.”🗣 “Change the method—not the goal.”Want help implementing this? Our Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method gives you the exact skills, systems, and scripts to end entitlement, grow contribution, and build a thriving, intergenerational family culture.RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are you torn between protecting your kids’ mental health and preparing them for real-world stress?Most parents feel this tension—and many swing too far toward pressure or protection. In this video, Greg & Rachel share a better path: don’t inflict pressure—be the anchor while your kids face it. You’ll learn how to build grit through trust, identity, and modeling, so challenge actually strengthens your bond instead of breaking it.What we cover:Identity over willpower: why saying “I’m not a smoker” beats “I’m trying to quit.”Anchor, don’t apply pressure: your job is safety + modeling, not manufactured hardship.Results don’t lie: how your life becomes the proof your kids can’t ignore.Trust first, then stretch: push to the “next rock,” then keep your promise and carry them.Adjust your strategy: when you “get punched in the face,” learn, adapt, iterate.Do hard things yourself: kids spot hypocrisy—lead from the front.Make discomfort enjoyable: turn tough conversations, workouts, and cold plunges into shared wins.Big Idea: Grit grows in connection. When kids know you’ll both challenge and carry them, they lean in, try again, and adopt a new identity that sustains lifelong habits.Key Takeaways✅ Be the anchor, not the pressure. Safety + example > force.✅ Model hard things. If you don’t, they won’t.✅ Identity drives habits. Become the family who does the hard, good things.✅ Keep promises. Stretch to the “next rock,” then carry—that’s how trust is built.✅ Iterate, don’t implode. When it’s not working, change your approach, not your ideals.Chapters00:00 New Beginnings and Reflections03:18 Goal Setting and Identity Transformation03:31 Preparing Kids for Life's Challenges05:02 The Balance of Comfort and Growth05:30 Building Resilience Through Experience08:44 Adapting to Life's Punches09:59 The Journey of Parenting and Education12:19 Embracing Failure in Business and Parenting13:59 The Importance of Adaptability and Learning17:21 Influence Through Results and Personal Example19:32 Living an Extraordinary Life as a Family22:34 Teaching Resilience Through Real-Life Challenges24:58 Iterative Learning and Effective Communication28:39 The Power of Persistence in ParentingMemorable Quotes🗣 “Be the anchor—don’t be the pressure.”🗣 “Results don’t lie. Pass the silent film test.”🗣 “Identity changes behavior more than willpower.”🗣 “Stretch, then carry. That’s how trust grows.”Want help implementing this at home? Our new parenting course gives you the step-by-step systems to build trust, invite buy-in, and raise resilient kids—without yelling, punishment, or power struggles. Join the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class here.RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are you afraid to give something up—even if you know it’s holding your family back?What if the “sacrifice” you’re resisting is the exact bridge to the life you actually want?In this powerful conversation, Greg and Rachel answer a listener’s question inspired by James Allen: “He who would attain highly must sacrifice greatly.” They share the real sacrifices they made to build an extraordinary family life—from walking away from comfort and conformity to investing tens of thousands into personal growth, ditching entertainment for education, and choosing experiences and character over stuff. You’ll learn how to overcome the fear of loss, handle others’ opinions, and trade short-term ease for long-term joy, health, and purpose.Big idea: It’s hard to call it a “sacrifice” when what you get back is better than what you gave up. Bottom line: The most important investment you’ll ever make is in yourself—and then in your spouse and kids.Key Takeaways:✅ Comfort is costly—trade it for purpose, health, and momentum.✅ Invest in yourself first, then your spouse and kids.✅ Entertainment steals growth; education multiplies it.✅ Ditch “peacock pageantry”—results beat credentials.✅ Own your outcomes—no blame, no excuses.✅ Failure ≠ final—it’s fertilizer for your future.Chapters00:00 Daily Sacrifices for a Better Life23:14 Intentional Living and Personal Responsibility28:39 The Rewards of Sacrifice31:27 EFL YouTube Outro Full Updated.mp4Memorable Quotes🗣 “It’s hard to call it a sacrifice when the return is better than what you gave up.”🗣 “Most people are entertaining themselves to death—and taking their families with them.”🗣 “Results are the only real qualification.”🗣 “Only little people get upset over little things.”🗣 “Failure is fertilizer—use it.”RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are your kids’ fights setting off your emotions—and the whole house?Most parents try to “fix” kids’ behavior to feel better. In this video, Greg & Rachel flip the script: change your emotional state first, and your family dynamics follow. You’ll learn how to stop masking (“trying to stay calm”) and start being emotionally authentic—so you model regulation your kids can actually imitate.We unpack practical tools to raise your family’s emotional thermostat—even on low-sleep, low-food days: breathing exercises, light movement, gratitude micro-meditations, future journaling, and morning routines that shift your biochemistry fast. You’ll discover why sleep and nutrition are foundational, how to process triggers and “memorized emotions,” and how to radiate steadiness kids naturally copy.Big idea: Nothing gets better until you do. When you upgrade your inner state, parenting gets easier, marriage gets warmer, and home feels safe again. This is how you cultivate a family culture of peace, courage, and joy—without pretending or suppressing.Try this today (1-minute reset): Stand tall, inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 6 (x6 rounds). Add one gratitude sentence and smile on purpose. Notice the shift—then go connect.Key Takeaways✅ Nothing gets better until you do — when you raise your state, your family follows.✅ Kids imitate without regulation — they copy your energy, good or bad.✅ Trying to “stay calm” is masking — practice authentic emotional expression.✅ Sleep & food drive mood — protect your physiology to parent better.✅ Quick resets work — breathing, movement, posture, and gratitude change your state fast.✅ Every family has an emotional thermostat — set yours higher on purpose.✅ Mentor, don’t micromanage — see misbehavior as a cry for help and coach skills.Memorable Quote:🗣️ “Nothing gets better until I do.”🗣️ “Kids imitate without regulation—set the state you want repeated.”🗣️ “Trying to be calm isn’t calm. Authentic peace is felt, not faked.”Chapters00:00 Navigating Emotional States in Parenting01:10 The Impact of Emotions on Family Dynamics02:28 Understanding Emotional Responses and Reactions03:54 The Role of Self-Care in Emotional Well-Being05:29 Practicing Emotional Authenticity06:51 Strategies for Changing Emotional States08:21 The Ripple Effect of Parental Emotions10:44 Emotional Literacy and Family Dynamics12:21 The Emotional Thermostat of the Family16:24 Understanding the Emotional Thermostat20:58 Practical Strategies for Emotional Regulation24:11 The Role of Parenting in Emotional Development27:37 Seeing Children's Behaviors as Cries for HelpRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Do you feel good in your own home?Does your family culture feel like a safe, joyful refuge—or more like constant conflict and stress?Most parents spend 90% of their time fixing problems instead of preventing them. But what if the secret to a thriving home is in the things you never do?In this video, Greg and Rachel Denning—parents of 7 and family coaches—reveal the small but powerful “never-do’s” that transformed their parenting and family culture. From eliminating sarcasm and insults, to saying no to video games, TV, and constant notifications, these intentional choices create a home environment where kids feel secure, confident, and deeply attached.They share why attachment—not punishment—prevents misbehavior, how harshness backfires, and why saying “no” to outside noise means saying “yes” to family connection.Raising kids is already hard enough. But by eliminating just a few destructive habits, you can dramatically reduce sibling rivalry, power struggles, and emotional distance in your home.👉 Tune in to discover the things we NEVER do as parents that helped us raise 7 happy, respectful, and resilient kids—and learn how you can create a family culture your children (and others!) love to be part of.Key Takeaways✅ Eliminating sarcasm & insults builds trust and confidence.✅ Harshness and yelling create distance instead of respect.✅ Strong attachment prevents misbehavior better than punishment.✅ No video games, TV, or junk food = more energy, focus, and peace.✅ Saying “no” to distractions means saying “yes” to family.Memorable Quotes🗣️ “If you don’t want to trade lives with someone, don’t take their advice.”🗣️ “We never say mean or hurtful things to our children—ever.”🗣️ “Harshness creates distance and fragility, which causes misbehavior.”🗣️ “Eliminate the baby dragons before they grow into monsters.”🗣️ “Other families send their kids to live with us because they love our family culture.”Chapters00:00 The Importance of Small Changes in Family Dynamics01:09 Creating a Positive Family Culture03:05 The Impact of Sarcasm and Teasing05:43 Building Strong Attachments Through Love07:30 The Dangers of Harsh Parenting10:19 The Role of Technology in Family Interactions16:21 Intentional Living and Productivity17:36 The Impact of Video Games on Success18:18 Media Consumption: Radio and TV19:45 The Power of Saying No21:03 Healthy Lifestyle Choices21:56 Communication and Emotional Authenticity23:32 Addressing Problems Early25:51 Creating a Positive Family CultureRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are you settling for a “make it work” marriage when you could build an extraordinary one?Most couples drift into survival mode—roommates, not lovers—because they’ve never seen an amazing marriage modeled… and no one taught them the skills. In this episode, Greg & Rachel Denning share how to raise your marriage standard, resolve conflict fast (the “anatomy of an argument”), and build a shared vision that turns everyday life into marital bliss—without pretending problems don’t exist.Big idea: If you’re not deliberately working on your marriage, you’re automatically working on your divorce.You’ll learn how to stop the same old fights, praise small efforts to reinforce positive change, schedule what matters (yes, intimacy!), and use the compound effect to transform your relationship. Whether things are tough or “fine,” these tools help you move from okay → incredible so your kids grow up with healthy models of love.What you’ll learnRaise the standard: Why “make it work” is too low a target—and how high expectations create more happiness.Anatomy of an argument: Resolve conflicts quickly (not fake fixes) and stop weaponizing old grievances.Shared vision: Practical steps to get on the same page even if personalities and goals differ.Reinforce progress: Praise small attempts (date night invites, thoughtful gestures) so they happen more often.Schedule what matters: How planning creates space for connection & intimacy—instead of constant friction.Compound effect: The habits you invest in today build your legacy tomorrow.Key Takeaways✅ If you aren’t intentionally improving your marriage, you’re unintentionally degrading it.✅ High standards produce higher joy and better outcomes.✅ Conflict ≠ contention—you can disagree respectfully and resolve fast.✅ Model love for your kids by prioritizing the relationship at home.✅ Small, consistent actions compound into an extraordinary marriage.Chapters00:00 The Importance of Marriage02:56 From Mediocre to Extraordinary05:53 Setting High Expectations for Marriage08:25 Conflict Resolution in Marriage11:51 Self-Sabotage in Relationships16:43 Creating Mental Space for Intimacy18:16 The Importance of Retreats for Couples18:49 Investing in Marriage: The Compounding Effect20:28 Breaking Generational Patterns in Relationships22:17 Creating a Shared Vision for the Future22:44 Raising the Standard in Marriage24:36 The Role of Coaching in Relationship Growth27:04 The Value of Investing in Your MarriageMemorable Quotes🗣 “If you’re not deliberately working on your marriage, you’re automatically working on your divorce.”🗣 “In marriage, we get what we tolerate—so raise the standard.”🗣 “Conflict isn’t fighting; it’s the path to real resolution.”🗣 “Praise small efforts. That’s how you get more of them.”🗣 “Extraordinary isn’t accidental—it’s intentional and consistent.”RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Is the “nuclear family” actually traditional—or even healthy—for your kids and marriage?In this conversation, Greg & Rachel challenge a BIG cultural myth: the nuclear family (mom + dad + kids, all on their own) isn’t historically normal—and it’s often unhealthy and lonely in today’s hyper-digital world. Instead, they unpack what families did for most of human history—intergenerational, community-based, “tribal” living—and how ordinary parents can start moving that direction without selling everything or going off-grid.You’ll learn how to question handed-down narratives, re-design work, school, and home life, and flip the ratio so your family spends more time together than apart—building skills, wealth, and resilience as a team.Highlights you'll hear:Why isolation (9–5 + separate schools + separate lives) isn’t “traditional”—it’s recent.How multigenerational & community living builds real support, mental health, and generational wealth.Simple first steps: shared meals, home projects, family business ideas, skill-building, and flexible work.The future of family in the age of AI: double down on what only humans do—connection, empathy, creativity.A practical reframe: “What would have to be true for us to live, learn, and work together more?”If you’re tired of doing family alone, this episode shows a realistic path toward tribe-style living—whether you’re in a city apartment, suburban neighborhood, or a budding homestead. You don’t need to move tomorrow; you just need to start asking better questions today.Key Takeaways✅ The nuclear family is modern, not “traditional.”✅ Community > isolation for happiness, mental health, and stability.✅ Shared work/learning = faster maturity, marketable skills, and generational wealth.✅ Design life on purpose: meals together, family projects, aligned work/school choices.✅ AI future = be more human: build in-person connection and a supportive tribe.Chapters00:00 Questioning Conventional Family Norms02:53 The Evolution of Family Structures05:48 The Importance of Community and Connection08:28 Exploring Unconventional Lifestyles11:23 Redefining Family Dynamics14:01 The Future of Family Life16:35 Creating a Supportive Family Environment19:48 Building Generational Wealth Together22:30 Embracing Change and New Possibilities25:12 Living Life on Your Own Terms28:18 The Role of Technology in Family Life31:06 Designing Your Ideal Family LifeMemorable Quotes🗣 “Question all the narratives—especially the ones that keep your family apart.”🗣 “The nuclear family isn’t ancient; community living is.”🗣 “Flip the ratio: more time together, less time apart.”🗣 “In an AI world, double down on what’s human—connection and creation.”RESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Do you feel like parenting is one constant power struggle?The truth is, your kids don’t need more control—they need more independence. In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning share their proven “fortress framework” for raising confident kids: strong family boundaries on the outside, with freedom to choose inside.This approach gives children the chance to practice decision-making, learn from natural consequences, and grow into responsible, respectful adults—without constant nagging, yelling, or punishments.👉 In this episode, you’ll discover:Why independence in children leads to long-term happiness and cooperation.The difference between authoritative vs. authoritarian parenting.How to meet physiological needs first (sleep, protein, stable blood sugar) to prevent meltdowns.Why teaching the “why” creates respect and lasting change.How to stop the tug-of-war and end daily battles around meals, bedtime, and routines.Bottom line: Parenting doesn’t have to be this hard. When you create freedom within boundaries, your kids naturally choose responsibility, respect, and joy.Key Takeaways✅ Control the environment, not the child—freedom thrives inside safe boundaries.✅ Independence in children grows through daily decision-making practice.✅ Natural consequences are better teachers than punishments.✅ Meet basic needs first—most misbehavior starts with hunger or fatigue.✅ Teach the why—understanding builds respect and self-control.✅ Stop tug-of-wars: kids resist less when you stop pushing.✅ Let kids make small mistakes early to avoid big mistakes later.✅ Respect is mutual: kids rise to the level of respect they’re given.✅ Authoritative parenting = firm rules, warm guidance, steady teaching.✅ The natural state of kids is happiness when independence is respected.Memorable Quotes🗣️ “Independence in children is built one choice at a time.”🗣️ “Control the fortress, not the child—that’s where growth happens.”🗣️ “Your child’s natural state is happiness—when needs are met and freedom is respected.”🗣️ “Natural consequences do the teaching better than punishments ever could.”Chapters00:00 Introduction to Parenting Challenges01:05 Understanding Nuances in Parenting03:02 The Importance of Control vs. Freedom06:23 Creating a Safe Environment for Independence08:16 Teaching Decision-Making Skills10:09 Learning Through Experience13:26 Respecting Autonomy in Parenting15:52 Understanding Authority in Parenting18:26 The Importance of Mutual Respect20:12 Identifying the Natural State of Children21:11 The Role of Environment in Child Well-being21:45 Creating a Fortress of Safety24:19 Rethinking Meal Times and Food Control25:51 The Impact of Control on Family DynamicsRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal

Are you exhausted from trying to do all the right things—but still feel like your family life isn’t extraordinary?You’re not alone. Many parents work tirelessly to manage schedules, teach principles, read parenting books, pray, practice gratitude, and still feel burnt out, disconnected, and frustrated.In this episode, Greg and Rachel Denning unpack a heartfelt question from a listener who has been “doing it all” since 2020—yet still feels stuck. Together, they reveal why doing more isn’t the solution and why misaligned priorities, half-hearted effort, and misplaced energy may be keeping you from the extraordinary life you crave.👉 You’ll learn:Why trying is not the same as doing (and why results don’t come from effort alone).The secret to shifting from dread and obligation to joy and fulfillment in daily family life.How to know when your priorities are out of alignment—even when you think you’re focused on the right things.Why gratitude, surrender, and modeling are the most powerful ways to influence your family.The “two-sided coin” of success: working hard while also letting go and allowing flow.This conversation will challenge you to stop tolerating mediocrity, celebrate your progress, and focus with intention on the things that truly matter most—your health, your marriage, your joy, and your family.✨ If you’ve been wondering, “Why am I still not living the extraordinary family life I want?”—this episode will give you clarity and courage to finally change.Key Takeaways✅  Trying ≠ Doing. Real change only comes when you follow through consistently.✅  Model first: your kids and spouse will follow your example more than your words.✅  Gratitude & surrender shift your energy and attract more of what you want.✅  Your priorities are the proof—if you dread “good” things, something’s off.✅  Success is holistic: you can’t win at work but lose at home and call it extraordinary.✅  Do less, but better—focus on the few things that bring real results and joy.Memorable Quotes🗣️ “The brain’s like a garden—it doesn’t care what you plant.”🗣️ “Trying isn’t doing. Results only come from doing.”🗣️ “If you want your kids to change, you must model the change first.”🗣️ “Your priorities are out of alignment if you dread the very things that should bring you joy.”🗣️ “Gratitude and letting go bring more of the good things you want into your life.”Chapters00:00 Introduction to Holistic Success03:38 The Struggle for Balance in Life06:31 The Importance of Prioritizing Relationships09:30 The Role of Modeling in Family Dynamics12:08 Navigating Challenges in Parenting15:09 The Complexity of Emotional Needs17:54 The Power of Gratitude and Positive Focus21:05 Recognizing Progress and Direction23:55 Celebrating Small Wins26:32 The Journey Towards Extraordinary Family Life41:32 Prioritizing Pleasure in Relationships46:54 The Importance of Personal Health and Ownership53:50 Leading by Example: The Power of Personal Change59:43 Finding Joy in the Journey01:06:40 The Balance of Doing and Allowing01:16:05 Clarity and Intuition in ActionRESOURCES:Let us help you in your extraordinary family life journey.How We Raised 7 Well-Adjusted Kids - Without Yelling, Tantrums, Punishments or Power Struggles (+ get THE CHECKLIST: Things We Do Every Day to Raise Well-Adjusted Kids)Rachel’s ⁠⁠Must-Read Booklist for Well-Read Moms⁠⁠Greg's ⁠⁠Recommended Reading List for Parents & Youth⁠⁠Follow us on Instagram: ⁠@worldschoolfamily⁠ or ⁠@greg.denning⁠Don’t miss out on the Extraordinary Parent Mentoring Method class!Get Rachel's ⁠⁠Family Systems & Charts⁠⁠Get Rachel’s Extraordinary Family Life PlannerJOIN GREG'S 90-DAY HEALTH & FITNESS CHALLENGE! Join the Formidable Family Man Masterclass and TribeGather with us at the ⁠World School Family (Beach & Farm) Resort⁠ in Portugal