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After 12+ years in the swinging lifestyle, we've learned what works, what doesn't, and what no one tells you before you start. We're Ed and Phoebe, and Swinger University is the podcast where we share ALL of it — the real talk, the awkward moments, the lessons, and the laughs.


165+ episodes covering everything from your first conversation about swinging to navigating clubs, cruises, resorts, jealousy, boundaries, and sexual health. Whether you're brand new or years into the lifestyle, we're the couple at the bar buying you a drink and giving you the honest advice you won't find anywhere else.


What You'll Learn:

  • What no one tells you about swinging (from couples who've actually lived it)
  • Communication and boundary strategies that actually work
  • Honest reviews of lifestyle cruises, resorts, clubs, and events
  • How to navigate jealousy, consent, and relationship dynamics
  • Practical advice for ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and open relationships


Featured guests include Toronto Unicorn, Strictly Anonymous, Dr. Tiffany K., Curious Girl's Diaries, and more.


Tap Follow and join thousands of couples exploring the lifestyle with confidence.


Connect with Us:
Spicy Extras & Community: https://www.patreon.com/SwingerUniversity
Website & Newsletter: https://SwingerUniversity.com
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Delayed Ejaculation in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Causes, Impact & Solutions

Delayed Ejaculation in Ethical Non-Monogamy: Causes, Impact & Solutions

2026-01-2830:08

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Premature ejaculation gets the commercials and the jokes. Delayed ejaculation? Crickets. Yet this condition affects millions of men and their partners—and it matters more than you think. In this episode, we're breaking the stigma around delayed ejaculation. We explore the medical causes (medications, injuries, conditions), the psychological factors (anxiety, performance pressure, relationship dynamics), the real...
Finding Your Voice: How to Set Boundaries in an Open Relationship

Finding Your Voice: How to Set Boundaries in an Open Relationship

2025-11-1946:09

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] When you finally find your voice in the lifestyle, everything changes. In this episode, Ed and Phoebe explore one of the most transformational shifts couples make in ethical non-monogamy: moving from "going along to keep the peace" to confidently advocating for what you actually want. If you've ever said yes when you really meant no, or felt like you were in the backseat of your own experience, this conversation...
Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?)

Dirty Vanillas Are Ruining Swinging (Or Are They?)

2025-11-0536:25

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] There's a real debate happening in the lifestyle community: Are "dirty vanillas" (people showing up to swinger events but not actually swinging) ruining the experience? Or is the real problem something we've completely misunderstood? In this episode, Ed and Phoebe dig into the data, share surprising stories, and challenge everything you thought you knew about who belongs in these spaces. By the end, you might se...
You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters)

You're Asking The WRONG Question About Sex Frequency (Here's What Actually Matters)

2025-10-1601:07:101

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] How often are you really supposed to be having sex? Spoiler alert: You've been asking the wrong question. Society pushes a "magic number" for sexual frequency that's causing more harm than good. The truth? There is no normal. We're diving deep into why the three-times-a-week standard is BS, how desire actually works in long-term relationships, and the one thing that matters more than counting sessions—quality an...
Why Can't You Stop Thinking About Last Weekend?

Why Can't You Stop Thinking About Last Weekend?

2025-10-0301:05:06

Send us a short message, but if you have questions: [email protected] Why does a piece of chocolate trigger the same brain chemical as meeting someone new at a swinger party? This episode reveals the surprising neuroscience behind New Relationship Energy, dopamine addiction, and why the swinging lifestyle can feel impossible to walk away from. Ed and Phoebe break down the science of pleasure—from that 55% dopamine spike you get from chocolate to the 1000% surge from harder substan...
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