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The Narcissists' Code
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Welcome to my podcast. I am Lee Hammock a self aware narcissist and I'm known as Mental Healness all over social media. I have NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and I've been dealing with this personality disorder for as long as I can remember. I have been in psychotherapy for the last 4 years and Therapy has helped me to figure out exactly why I do what I do and it has allowed me to get to this point where I can offer you the perspective inside the head of a person battling this personality disorder. You might get triggered, but you'll get validated. @mentalhealness everywhere
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This video provides honest insights, exploring the psychology behind how narcissists truly feel about themselves. Understanding narcissism and the potential red flags can be a crucial part of abuse recovery and healing from emotional abuse after leaving a toxic relationship. Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Having a mental illness can truly weigh heavy on you. You feel like you're not in control of your life and circumstances so it's easy to get down on yourself. But right now you are in control of everything... it seems bleak but you got this. Dont suffer in silence.
Tune into these Live Interviews With A Diagnosed NarcissistWebsite- www.mentalhealness.netI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Narcissism is so prevalent in today's society. I'm taking a deep dive into Disney characters that I see that may be on the spectrum of NPD. Today's episode is about Hans from the Movie FROZEN. Hans lovebombed, gaslit and manipulated Ana to all ends.
If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
Today’s PODCAST only episode is about making the narcissist EARN your information. Speed is the weapon of the narcissist so take it slow and make them earn it. Also! Everyone doesn’t deserve a second chance. Tune in for more. All my links — https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
Welcome to the first PODCAST only version of the Narcissists’ Code. Today’s episode goes over my current TikTok “drama” and how consistent change is the only acceptable apology. Check out all my links here — https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
Welcome to my Channel. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of this series is to point out people that could be narcissists. I'm not calling them narcissists though, I'm just going on the assumption that they are and providing perspective as to why they could be doing what they do. Today's episode is about guru Derrick Jaxn. Derrick was recently exposed for not practicing what he preaches and alledgely cheating on his wife. I go over his actions and my perspective on the entire situation. You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mental_healness. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the LINKTREE up top for direct links. Thank you
Join the community of Mental Healers https://mentalhealness.net/What do you do when a narcissist suddenly disappears or ghosts you? In this video, Lee Hammock (the Self-Aware Narcissist) explains why narcissists vanish without warning, what it really means when they go “Casper,” and how you should respond when they try to come back.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
So, do narcissists know what they're doing? Lee is back, diving into the psychology of narcissism and whether they have any self awareness regarding their behavior in relationships. This video tackles the signs of narcissism and the impact of emotional abuse on those around them, especially in toxic relationships.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
How do you know if you’ve truly defeated a narcissist—or if they’re finally done with you for good? In this video, Lee Hammock (the Self-Aware Narcissist) explains the signs a narcissist has been defeated, why some disappear completely while others keep reaching out, and how to protect yourself from being pulled back in.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Being with a narcissist is never free—it comes with a heavy price. In this video, Lee Hammock (Self-Aware Narcissist) breaks down the true cost of toxic relationships. From wasted time and lost youth to broken health, damaged friendships, and strained family ties, narcissistic abuse drains every part of your life.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
What happens to a narcissist at the end? Lee Hammock, a self-aware narcissist, discusses the death of a narcissist and potential narcissist consequences. This video explores the psychology behind the need for attention and the impact of narcissistic abuse and emotional abuse on their lives.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
What is it called when a narcissist won’t stop reaching out, breaking no contact, or finding ways to pop back into your life? It’s called hoovering—and in this video, Lee Hammock (Self-Aware Narcissist) explains exactly what hoovering is, why narcissists do it, and how it keeps you stuck in the cycle of abuse.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
What happens to children when you leave a narcissist or when a narcissist leaves you? In this video, Lee Hammock (Self-Aware Narcissist) breaks down how kids are affected by toxic relationships, co-parenting with narcissists, and growing up in an abusive household.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
What happens if you want to stay with a narcissist—or even go back to one? In this video, Lee Hammock (Self-Aware Narcissist) explains what it really means to remain in a toxic relationship and why radical acceptance is the only way forward.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
What happens when you open up to a narcissist about your past? In this video, Lee Hammock (A Self-Aware Narcissist) reveals how narcissists weaponize your secrets, trauma, and vulnerabilities against you. At first, they may act empathetic—but later, those same stories are thrown back in your face during arguments, blame-shifting, or emotional abuse.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Do narcissists ever feel bad for what they’ve done—or regret hurting you? In this video, Lee Hammock (the Self-Aware Narcissist) breaks down whether narcissists actually feel guilt, remorse, or shame for their actions. From mental gymnastics and blame-shifting to why most narcissists can’t sit in shame, you’ll get an inside look at the truth behind their behavior.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Can a narcissist ever truly love you or is it all love bombing, control, and ownership disguised as affection? In this video, let's break down one of the most asked questions across TikTok, Instagram, YouTube, and Facebook: Do narcissists actually love their partners, their kids, or anyone at all? From the early stages of love bombing to the painful devaluation phase, let's explain how narcissists often confuse love with control, possession, or physical acts. I’ll also share why many narcissists believe giving gifts, staying in the relationship, or even marrying you proves love while ignoring true emotional connection and empathy.More resources and join the group coaching community at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Do narcissists ever think about you after the discard or the end of the relationship? Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Exposing a narcissist is the greatest power against them. SHould you ever expose the narcissist? What will they do? What happens when you do expose them or tell your story? Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
'Back That Ass Up' 🤣🤣...
Hi Lee. Your podcast is fascinating and has been really valuable to me on my own journey in dealing with a narcissist. I wanted to ask you what your thoughts are on telling a narcissist they are a narcissist? How does a narcissist realise (if at all) that they are one and seek help as you have done?
freaking hilarious 💩
So...you are a narcissist. Wow!!!! Im learning. I attract these people..mlol
thank you so much!! although hard to hear the truth, you do a fabulous job!
This is exactly what happened to me and the way you explain it seems so "silly" but on the receiving end, it's devastating. But, lesson learned by keeping those kinds of details off of social media.
LOL!!! OMG I'm Dying!