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Welcome to the Mental Healness Podcast, hosted by yours truly, Lee Hammock. If you're new here I have NPD (Narcissistic Personality Disorder) and I've been in therapy for the last 8 years learning how to deal with it and live a better life. From the start I've offered you the rare POV of a diagnosed narcissist but NOW I'm switching it up a little bit. I'm interviewing others that are dealing with their own mental health journeys and those that have dealt with toxic relationship dynamics as well. I'm still sharing my POV just sharing others as well. Collabs ✉ partnerships@mentalhealness.net
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This video provides honest insights, exploring the psychology behind how narcissists truly feel about themselves. Understanding narcissism and the potential red flags can be a crucial part of abuse recovery and healing from emotional abuse after leaving a toxic relationship. Contact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
2Having a mental illness can truly weigh heavy on you. You feel like you're not in control of your life and circumstances so it's easy to get down on yourself. But right now you are in control of everything... it seems bleak but you got this. Dont suffer in silence.
What happens when a narcissist’s world finally catches up to them? In this episode of The Mental Healness Podcast, we go deep into the mechanics of a narcissistic collapse—the intense emotional and behavioral crisis triggered by a blow to a narcissist's sense of superiority.Unlike a typical breakdown, a collapse is a desperate attempt to protect a fragile ego that has been exposed. We explore why this state often looks like severe depression or explosive rage, and how it differs from genuine remorse or self-reflection.Key topics discussed:The psychological 'mortification' of being exposed.How overt vs. covert narcissists handle a collapse differently.Why they often engage in self-destructive or vindictive behaviors during this time.Setting boundaries during the 'extinction burst'.Whether you are witnessing a collapse or trying to heal from the aftermath, this episode provides the clarity you need to stay grounded.Stay Aware. Stay Healed.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss
What is the difference between a narcissistic partner and a cult leader? As it turns out, almost nothing. In this powerful episode, Lee Hammock (Self-Aware Narcissist) sits down with Peter Young, a survivor of a tiny but destructive religious cult led by a man known as "Uncle Robert."Peter’s story is a chilling look at how high-control groups use "The Cult of One" tactics to destroy marriages, alienate children, and turn a person’s life inside out. For 28 years, Peter was trapped in a cycle of psychological isolation and spiritual abuse that cost him everything—including his relationship with his five children. Now, he’s sharing the "unmasking" moment when he finally saw the truth. Whether you are recovering from a group cult or a "one-on-one" cult (a toxic marriage), Peter’s journey from brainwashing to freedom is a masterclass in reclaiming your mind.In this episode, we discuss:The "Uncle Robert" Playbook: How one person can dismantle an entire family.The Slow Brainwash: Why smart, capable people fall for high-control tactics.Narcissistic Parallels: Comparing cult leadership to the "Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse."The Cost of Control: Dealing with the alienation of children and the loss of 28 years.Breaking the Spell: How Peter finally opened his eyes and escaped.About Our Guest:Peter Young is the author of the Amazon best-selling memoir, "Stop The Tall Man, Save The Tiger." He now speaks out about the dangers of small, destructive religious groups and helps survivors find their way back to reality.Connect with Peter:🌐 Website: www.authorpeteryoung.com📸 Instagram: @peterbyoungResources & Support from Lee:📔 Courses/Groups :[https://courses.mentalhealness.net]📞 Book a 1-on-1: [www.mentalhealness.net]
What does it take to finally walk away after YEARS of manipulation and abus3? In this powerful episode, Lee Hammock (Self-Aware Narcissist) sits down with Louella to discuss her harrowing and inspiring journey of surviving a long-term narcissistic relationship.Louella shares the raw truth about the "slow erode" of self-esteem, the confusion of the trauma bond, and the specific moment she realized that the person she loved was never going to change. This isn't just a story of survival; it’s a roadmap for anyone currently feeling trapped in a toxic cycle.In this interview, we dive into:The Long Game: How narcissistic manipulation evolves over the span of many years.The Turning Point: The specific "red flag" that finally broke the spell for Louella.Generational Trauma: How our pasts can sometimes lead us into the arms of a narcissist.Life After the Exit: The reality of healing, helping, and finding peace after the discard.As a self-aware narcissist, Lee provides feedback on the tactics used against Louella, offering a unique "inside look" at why her ex acted the way he did—and why her decision to leave was the ultimate power move.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net Healing Support Group: https://mentalhealness.thinkific.com/products/communities/thementalhealers1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://mentalhealness1on1perspective.as.me/schedule/ec588030Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesss
In this episode of the Mental Healness Podcast, Lee Hammock interviews Dr. Sharon Niv, a cognitive psychologist and co-founder of Joyous PBC, about the transformative potential of low-dose ketamine therapy. They discuss the differences between psycholytic and psychedelic states, the therapeutic benefits of ketamine for anxiety and depression, and the importance of creating a safe space for emotional exploration. Dr. Niv emphasizes the need for accessibility in mental health care and the potential for ketamine to help individuals break through emotional barriers and achieve greater self-awareness and resilience.Sharon Niv, Ph.D. is a cognitive psychologist exploring how contemplative and therapeutic methods can reshape mental wellness. Her work spans mindfulness, cognitive science, and the psychology of consciousness, with a special focus on how altered or expanded states of mind can promote emotional growth and resilience.In 2022, Sharon co-founded Joyous PBC, a public benefit company dedicated to making mental health care more affordable and accessible through low-dose, or psycholytic, approaches to ketamine treatment. At Joyous, she leads clinical research, designs digital therapeutics optimized for the psycholytic state, and developed Joyous for Therapists—a free training and collaboration program helping clinicians integrate these methods safely into their practice.Sharon is passionate about bringing new insight to the conversation on mental health: how lighter-touch, more personalized approaches to psychoactive medicine can unlock self-understanding, compassion, and long-term healing. She hopes to share with your audience how cognitive mechanisms of psycholytic and psychedelic medicine can inform a new era of personalized, evidence-based mental wellness.You Can Find Dr. Niv here:https://joyous.team/therapy sharonniv.substack.comhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/sharon-niv/Want to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions
Leah Marone is a psychotherapist, Yale Clinical Instructor, and corporate mental wellness consultant with over 20 years of experience. A former Division 1 athlete, she specializes in high-achievers struggling with imposter syndrome, perfectionism, and performance anxiety. Leah has conducted over 20,000 therapy sessions and contributed to Psychology Today, Newsweek, and The Atlantic. This Episode Will Change You Life as she shares how She works with organizations on burnout prevention, boundary setting, and emotional intelligence. A sought-after speaker, Leah has presented her Support, Don’t Solve framework to leaders nationwide. Her new book, Serial Fixer, exploring the hidden patterns of over-functioning and how to break free.You Can Find Leah here:https://www.instagram.com/leahmaronelcsw/https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahmaronelcsw/https://linktr.ee/leahmaronelcswWant to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions
Say Hi To Natalie. She Survived Narcissistic abuse and lived to tell the tale. She joins Episode 1 of Season 3 Of The Mental Healness Podcast to Share Her Journey of escaping a narcissistic relationship and how she finally made peace with the betrayal. You Can Find Natalie at @noisycricket00 On all platforms. Want to be on the podcast? https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-FormCheck out my courses "Understanding the 7 Stages of a Narcissistic Relationship" and "Finding Your W.H.Y!" at https://mentalhealness.netContact Me - https://link.me/mentalhealnessI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ
Tune into these Live Interviews With A Diagnosed NarcissistWebsite- www.mentalhealness.netI'm Lee & I've been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ). I've been in therapy since 2017 & It has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. My platform is dedicated to giving you the WHYs behind the things that Narcissists do. I'm not here to diagnose ANYONE or to tell you to leave your relationship. I'm just trying to give you the information to make your own informed decisions1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealnessRemember, It's not your fault - https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ Podcast Guest Form - https://tinyurl.com/Mental-Healness-Podcast-Form
Narcissism is so prevalent in today's society. I'm taking a deep dive into Disney characters that I see that may be on the spectrum of NPD. Today's episode is about Hans from the Movie FROZEN. Hans lovebombed, gaslit and manipulated Ana to all ends.
If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The *buse victims get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.
1 on 1's and all my links - https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mentalhealnesss. For more detailed videos find me on www.wisio.com search mental healness. Click the BEACON up top for direct links. Thank you
Today’s PODCAST only episode is about making the narcissist EARN your information. Speed is the weapon of the narcissist so take it slow and make them earn it. Also! Everyone doesn’t deserve a second chance. Tune in for more. All my links — https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
Welcome to the first PODCAST only version of the Narcissists’ Code. Today’s episode goes over my current TikTok “drama” and how consistent change is the only acceptable apology. Check out all my links here — https://beacons.page/mentalhealness
Welcome to my Channel. If this is your first video, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything. The point of this series is to point out people that could be narcissists. I'm not calling them narcissists though, I'm just going on the assumption that they are and providing perspective as to why they could be doing what they do. Today's episode is about guru Derrick Jaxn. Derrick was recently exposed for not practicing what he preaches and alledgely cheating on his wife. I go over his actions and my perspective on the entire situation. You can find me on Tiktok at MentalHealness & Instagram at Mental_healness. For more detailed videos find me on WISIO dot com, search mental healness. Click the LINKTREE up top for direct links. Thank you
What happens when a narcissist can no longer rely on their looks, their money, or their status to control people? As a self-aware narcissist, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) explains the shift from "Grandiosity" to "Bitterness.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟
"You’re too sensitive." "I never said that." "You're lucky to have me." 🚩Most of you heard these words and felt like they were a report card on your value. You felt small. You felt like you had to change to be "enough."As a self-aware narcissist, I’m pulling back the curtain on the Internal Playbook. In this Live session, I’m translating your trauma in real-time. I’m going to show you that these insults weren't descriptions of you—they were confessions of my own shame, insecurity, and fear of abandonment.In this Live Q&A, we are covering:✅ Real-Time Translation: Drop the insults you heard in the chat, and I'll tell you what was happening in the narcissist's head.✅ The "Mirror Effect": Why we dump our "Internal Trash" on the person we claim to love.✅ Breaking the "Trash Can" Cycle: How to stop carrying their shame so you can start your own healing.✅ NPD vs. BPD Projection: Why the "translations" are different for each disorder.If you're tired of being the dumpster for someone else's self-hatred, this stream is for you. Stop apologizing for a version of yourself that I manufactured.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟
Why do narcissists ignore your boundaries? Because they don't respect feelings—they respect consequences. In this video, Lee Hammock (@mentalhealness) provides a raw, self-aware look at what actually goes on inside a narcissist's head when someone sets a boundary.Most people make the mistake of explaining their "why," which only gives the narcissist more leverage. Learn the 3 specific shifts you need to make to stop being an "easy target" and start being "high cost."Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟
Why a Narcissist's Treatment of You is Actually a Confession 🪞ConfessionHave you ever wondered why someone who "loved" you could treat you so poorly? In this video, self-aware narcissist Lee Hammock breaks down the psychology of Projection.Most people believe that the narcissist’s behavior is a reaction to something they did wrong. The truth is much darker: How a narcissist treats you is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves.We explore the "Mirror Effect," why insults are actually admissions of insecurity, and how to stop being the "trash can" for a narcissist's internal shame. Once you understand that their behavior is a map of their own self-hatred, you can stop taking it personally and start healing.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟
"I wish I would have known." 🥀If you’re feeling the weight of the years you "lost" to a toxic relationship, you aren't alone. Regret is often the final trauma bond that keeps you tied to a narcissist long after the relationship is over.As a self-aware narcissist, I see these patterns from the other side. I know how the confusion was manufactured and why you feel like you should have "seen it sooner." Today, I’m breaking down the Top 5 Regrets I hear from survivors every single day—and more importantly, I’m showing you why they aren't your fault.All My Links (Coaching, Courses, Merch): https://link.me/mentalhealnessIn this video, we discuss:Regret #1: Why ignoring the "Crazy Ex" was part of the plan.Regret #2: The high cost of ignoring your "Gut Feeling."Regret #3: Staying "One Year Too Long" (The Potential Trap).Regret #4: Sacrificing your support system for someone who didn't value you.Regret #5: The "Fixer" Mentality: Why your love wasn't a cure.Stop apologizing to your past and start reclaiming your future. 🧱🌱Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟
Why 75% of Marriages That Start as Affairs End in Divorce. Does an affair ever actually lead to a "happily ever after"? The data says probably not. In this video, self-aware narcissist Lee Hammock breaks down the grim statistics of relationships that start through betrayal.While it may feel like "destiny" in the beginning, the transition from a secret affair to a legal marriage is a psychological minefield. We discuss why only 3-7% of affair partners ever marry, why the divorce rate for these unions is a staggering 75%, and the "Trust Deficit" that poisons the relationship from day one.Key Topics Covered:The "Unreality" Bubble: Why affairs die in the real world.The "Once a Cheater" stigma and internal suspicion.The lack of social support and family isolation.Why a "Soulmate" born in a lie can't handle the truth.Stop living in the fantasy and start looking at the facts. Stay Aware. Stay Healed.Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟
"Was it all a lie? Did I ever actually matter?" In one of his most requested deep-dives, Lee Hammock answers the question that keeps every survivor awake at night. Discover the difference between being "loved" and being "useful," and learn how a narcissist’s lack of object constancy allows them to discard you without a second thought. This is the closure you’ve been looking for.Key Topics:Why you mattered as a "Tool," not a "Person"The science of Object Constancy in NarcissismWhy they don’t mourn the relationship like you doReady to find your own closure? Hit Follow and join our community of survivors. 🧠✨Connect with Lee:My Courses: https://courses.mentalhealness.net 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: https://link.me/mentalhealnessAll My Link: https://beacons.page/mentalhealness Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal. 🌟
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Hi Lee. Your podcast is fascinating and has been really valuable to me on my own journey in dealing with a narcissist. I wanted to ask you what your thoughts are on telling a narcissist they are a narcissist? How does a narcissist realise (if at all) that they are one and seek help as you have done?
freaking hilarious 💩
So...you are a narcissist. Wow!!!! Im learning. I attract these people..mlol
thank you so much!! although hard to hear the truth, you do a fabulous job!
This is exactly what happened to me and the way you explain it seems so "silly" but on the receiving end, it's devastating. But, lesson learned by keeping those kinds of details off of social media.
LOL!!! OMG I'm Dying!