CockTales: Dirty Discussions

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we sit down with comedian Trey Moe for a conversation that’s equal parts chaotic and grown. From going through phones and finding out you’re not the only one, to standing firm on financial standards in relationships, Trey explains why he’s quick to say, “You do that again, I’m gone.” But is that emotional maturity… or just control in a cardigan? We also get into:• Open relationships and “roster” culture• Financial responsibility and relationship expectations• Why some women hear “comedian” and think “struggling artist”• Celibacy, discipline, and personal growth• Is it hard to date someone who actually holds you accountable?• Older women, social media posting, and modern dating dynamics Trey shares how growing up fast shaped the man he is today and why growth in relationships isn’t always soft and gentle. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable. Drop a comment below: Is “you do that again, I’m gone” a healthy boundary or a red flag?SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERSFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsSOAKING WET- Try Soaking Wet from VB Health by visiting soakingwet.com and using promo code COCKTALESFollow Our Guest! Trey Moe https://www.instagram.com/treymoe/Contact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comShow Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGeneral Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comJoin Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsCONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: https://forms.gle/czoa6u7wmmiYif7Z6Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

BEDUCATED: Kick off your journey by taking the Quiz! https://beducate.me/pd2608-cocktalesThis week we’re joined by producer and BET host Brian “B-Mac” McIntosh for an honest conversation about modern dating, boundaries, emotional growth, and what healthy relationships actually look like.We talk about how dating changes in your 30s, why moving too fast in relationships can create chaos, and how men and women often misunderstand each other when it comes to vulnerability and emotional needs. The conversation dives into casual dating vs commitment, love languages, communication, and the importance of boundaries in modern relationships.B-Mac opens up about fatherhood, co-parenting, career growth, and learning how to be emotionally available in a world where social media and public opinion never stop talking. We also discuss the pressure to share your life online, handling criticism, and the reality of building relationships while still healing.If you’ve ever struggled with situationships, dating boundaries, emotional attachment, or figuring out what healthy dating looks like, this episode is for you.In this episode we discuss: • Dating in your 30s vs your 20s • Boundaries in relationships • Casual dating vs commitment • Emotional maturity and vulnerability • Love languages and communication • Co-parenting and modern fatherhood • Healing while dating • Social media and relationshipsFollow Our Guest! Brian "B-Mac" McIntosh Instagram @_iambmacWatch For The Fellas! on Watch Here on YouTube or Find it One Bet+SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERSFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsERIKALUST Check out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off! http://erikalust.com/ BROOKLYN BEDDING: Go to brooklynbedding.com and use OUR promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else. BEDUCATED: Kick off your journey by taking the Quiz! https://beducate.me/pd2608-cocktalesFollow Our Guest! Brian "B-Mac" McIntosh https://www.instagram.com/_iambmac/Watch For The Fellas! on  @BETNetworks  https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJHDZGUl8Ilq6qOqxdBP84d7i012RIwFp&si=Puaspv6kCmZDphDNContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.com Cocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comShow Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGeneral Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comJoin Patreon! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeDONATE TO MEALS ON WHEELS ATLANTA- https://www.mowatl.org/donationsCONNECT WITH US Follow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker) Instagram: @kikisaidso TikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah Monroe Instagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions Podcast Instagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions? We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here: https://forms.gle/czoa6u7wmmiYif7Z6Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, we’re asking the real question: Who has shut-up money?!We kick things off with travel nostalgia and vacation dreams before running straight into the hilarious reality of adulthood. We dive into the chaos of planning family vacations, organizing group trips, setting budgets, and why everyone wants a luxury trip until it’s time to pay the deposit.In this episode, we talk about:• The stress of planning trips with friends and family• Budget conversations nobody wants to have• The difference between work travel vs real vacations• Why group chats can’t plan trips to save their lives• Dream destinations vs real-life responsibilitiesThen it’s time for Weird Sex, and this story is truly unforgettable. A shocking medical discovery sparks a conversation about embarrassment, health, and the wild things people do in relationships.We wrap things up with Valentine’s Day vibes, listener advice, and plenty of laughs along the way.Cocktail of the Week 🍸The Emotional IntelligenceSmoky, sweet, spicy, and perfectly balanced — just like the conversations.Ingredients• 2 oz mezcal• 2 oz pineapple juice• ¾ oz fresh lime juice• ½ oz agave syrup (adjust to taste)• Tajín for rim (optional)• Ice• Pineapple wedge or lime wheel for garnishDirectionsLightly rim a rocks glass with Tajín (optional).Add mezcal, pineapple juice, lime juice, and agave to a shaker with ice.Shake well until chilled.Strain over fresh ice in the prepared glass.Garnish with a pineapple wedge or lime wheel.Cheers 🥂SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERSFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsDRIVE BOOST  FROM VBHEALTHVisit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Chapters00:00:00 - Introduction and Cocktail Recipe00:00:49 - Reminiscing Past Experiences00:04:25 - Planning for Family Vacations00:13:51 - Weird Sex Segment00:15:17 - Bizarre Medical Story00:17:56 - Sponsor Message: BB Health00:20:26 - Valentine's Day and Relationships00:31:33 - Valentine's Day Survival Guide00:33:47 - TV Show Recommendations00:44:07 - Advice Segment: Long Distance Relationship00:46:57 - Long Distance Relationship Breakdown00:50:47 - Advice and ReflectionsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

February looks a little different this year… because we are letting men take the mic.To kick off our February Men’s Series, we are joined by actor, producer, veteran and content creator Mike Bless aka Michael Anthony. This conversation dives deep into dating, emotional healing, masculinity and the realities of modern relationships from a male perspective.We talk about how men process heartbreak, the role of honesty in dating, why communication looks different for men, and the idea that many men heal quietly instead of publicly. Mike opens up about accountability, emotional vulnerability, dating expectations and the importance of being honest about intentions early.Of course, we also get into power dynamics in relationships, monogamy vs honesty, the Atlanta dating scene, men wearing purses (yes, we went there), and why giving space in early dating might actually be healthy.This episode kicks off a full month of real conversations with men about love, growth, healing and relationships — and we are listening.Cocktail of the Week: The Leading ManIngredients2 oz bourbon 1 oz blood orange juice ½ oz simple or honey syrup 2 dashes Angostura bitters Orange peel garnishInstructionsAdd bourbon, blood orange juice, syrup and bitters to a mixing glass with ice.Stir for about 20–25 seconds until well chilled.Strain over a large ice cube in a rocks glass.Express the oils from an orange peel over the drink and drop it in.Sip, stare dramatically into the distance, and pretend you’re the main character.🥃🍊SPONSORED OFFERS FOR OUR LISTENERSFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode and other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsERIKALUSTCheck out ERIKALUST and use our promo code COCKTALES for 45% off!http://erikalust.com/SOAKING WET FROM VBHEALTHVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off! Contact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comShow Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Are you getting a good Relationship ROI, or are you just operating in chaos? This week, Kiki and Medinah discuss the importance of intentionality—from your wellness routine to your brunch dates. We’re diving into why separated checks at a bottomless mimosa brunch might actually be the ultimate green flag for clarity.In This Episode: The ladies discuss the transition from "brunch friends" to "real life" support and why Medinah appreciated a guy friend being 100% upfront about financial boundaries. We also get into the "weird sex" story of the week: a romantic shower that turned into an Olympic sport when the curtain rod gave up. Plus, Kiki talks about the struggle of people always "outsourcing" their work to her—from party planning to free makeup sessions.We also cover:Intentional Health: Why your "Relationship ROI" starts with your own rest and wellness.The "Ghost" Eyebrow Incident: Why you should always have a backup makeup artist.Advice: Navigating a friendship that went cold during a season of grief and new motherhood.This Week's Cocktail: The Calm but Curious MuleA refreshing, spicy mocktail (with an optional kick).Ingredients:Ginger BeerPear Juice or NectarFresh Lemon JuiceGarnish: Cinnamon stick or Star AniseInstructions:Fill a copper mug or rocks glass with ice.Add the pear juice and fresh lemon.Top with ginger beer.Garnish with a cinnamon stick or star anise and enjoy!Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALESfor 10% off Try Brello! Go to brellohealth.com and use code COCKTALESFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsFollow Us:Instagram: @cocktalespodcastInstagram: @kikisaidsoInstagram: @coffeebeandeanContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

What’s Your Superpower?In this episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah tap into reflection, purpose, and grown-woman clarity as they unpack the question: what’s your real superpower? From unexpected “God wink” moments to conversations about confidence, imposter syndrome, and walking into rooms knowing you belong, this episode is about recognizing your value without needing permission.The ladies open up about how their strengths show up in work, relationships, and community — and why sometimes it takes a stranger, a producer, or a quiet moment to remind you that you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be. They also talk about commitment in this season of life, learning how to say no without guilt, setting boundaries that actually protect your peace, and why burnout isn’t a badge of honor.In Weird Sex, the conversation turns to curiosity, threesomes, and ethical non-monogamy — breaking down how to talk about fantasies honestly, why curiosity doesn’t equal dissatisfaction, and how consent and communication make all the difference.As always, things take a turn into real life: fostering chaotic cats, stepping back from dating, learning new skills, choosing rest, and staying grounded when life feels overwhelming. If you’ve been questioning your path, feeling stuck, or wondering whether you’re doing enough, this episode is a reminder that your presence, your voice, and your energy matter more than you think.Sometimes your superpower isn’t loud — it’s just consistent.🍹 This Week’s Cocktail: The Soft Launch Spritz (Mocktail)A fresh, light mocktail perfect for Dry January — or spike it if you’re feeling spicy.Ingredients3 oz fresh grapefruit juice (use less if you’re not a grapefruit girl)Splash of fresh lime juice1 oz agave or honeySparkling waterFresh rosemary sprigHow to MakeShake the grapefruit juice, lime juice, and agave (or honey) with ice.Strain into a wine glass over ice, top with sparkling water, and garnish with a rosemary sprig.Before adding the rosemary, gently slap it between your palms to release the oils — pretty and aromatic.Check Out Erika Lust and use Promo code "COCKTALES" for a 45% discount erikalust.comGo to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!!For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

SPECIAL OFFER!Beducated is offering our listeners 50% off an annual membership when you click the link iand use code COCKTALES. https://beducate.me/pd2603-cocktalesLast week we kicked off our “Who Said That?” recap, and this week we’re back with Part 2 — more wild clips, iconic one-liners, and a few moments that reminded us why CockTales is funny and deep when it wants to be.This episode is a continuation of last week’s trip down memory lane, pulling standout moments from different years of the show. Some clips had us crying laughing, some had us side-eyeing ourselves, and others took a surprisingly thoughtful turn — because if we’re gonna reflect, we might as well do it honestly.We talk fashion eras (yes, the Martha Stewart linen phase still stands), dating boundaries, bad decisions we didn’t make, and the difference between being open-minded and being open to everything (spoiler: not the same).We also get into why “sex is a skill,” why everybody with a microphone is not a licensed expert, and why sometimes the real growth is knowing when to stop, sit still, and get yourself together. As always, there’s plenty of foolishness, a little ministry, and a lot of “did she really say that?” energy. If you haven’t listened to Part 1, go run that back first — then come join us here. 🍹Cocktail of the Episode French 75… But Make It TherapyYou’ll need:Sparkling wineVanilla vodkaSimple syrupBailey’s (or RumChata) foamLemon twistHow to make it:Shake Bailey’s with a small splash of simple syrup until frothy. Pour vanilla vodka into a flute, top with sparkling wine, gently spoon the foam on top, and garnish with a lemon twist. Do not rush the foam unless you want chaos in a glass. 🗣 Topics We Get Into:Recapping iconic CockTales quotes and moments from past yearsThe Martha Stewart / Ina Garten aesthetic debate (still unresolved)Dating boundaries, self-control, and learning when to say noWhy being open-minded doesn’t mean being open to everythingThe difference between licensed professionals and internet “experts”Taking breaks from dating without guiltWhy sex, intimacy, and communication are skills you can actually learnFree and low-cost resources people sleep on (libraries, schools, clinics, and more)Growth, reflection, and recognizing patterns in yourselfVB Health – Soaking Wet Make every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10% off 🎧 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you get your podcasts.📺 Watch the full episode on YouTube.💬 Tell us which quote took you OUTBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

It’s time to look back… and immediately ask ourselves, “Wait—who said that?!”In Part 1 of this two-part recap episode, Kiki and Medinah revisit some of the wildest, funniest, most unhinged moments from 2025 (with a few older classics sprinkled in), reacting to past clips in real time and reliving everything from comedian guests and dating rants to weird sex stories, hair debates, pop culture takes, and those signature CockTales side quests that somehow always lead back to food.This episode is pure commentary chaos:– Comedians we loved (and clips that still hold up… mostly)– Dating opinions that aged interestingly– Hair, weaves, man-weaves, and why honesty matters– Weird sex facts that somehow turn into social commentary– Pop culture deep dives (yes, including Game of Thrones)– Rants that start one place and end somewhere completely differentThink of this as a highlight reel with commentary, context, and a little “wow… we really said that” energy. And don’t worry — this is just Part 1. There’s plenty more where this came from.🎧 Listen, laugh, argue with us in your head, and let us know in the comments which clips took you OUT.🍸 Today’s Cocktail: The Velvet RevolutionSmooth, cozy, and perfect for a recap episode.Ingredients1.5 oz Baileys1 oz vanilla vodka or dark rum1 oz cold brew coffee or espresso (optional, but highly encouraged)IceNutmeg or cinnamon (for garnish)How to Make ItAdd Baileys, vodka or rum, and cold brew to a shaker filled with ice.Shake well until chilled and silky.Strain into a coupe or rocks glass.Sprinkle nutmeg or cinnamon on top and enjoy.Cheers to closing out 2025 and easing into 2026 — raspy voices, hot takes, and all. 🥂Visit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off Interested in being a guest?  Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links!For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

In this episode, Kiki and Medinah get into one of the hardest parts of adulthood: how to say uncomfortable things with love, tact, and intention. What starts as a casual conversation quickly turns into a deeper discussion about honesty, boundaries, emotional awareness, and why so many people avoid hard conversations altogether.From awkward truths like bad breath and body odor to deeper emotional feedback that can strain friendships and relationships, the ladies unpack why delivery matters just as much as truth. They talk about when honesty is helpful versus harmful, how personal experiences shape our ability to receive feedback, and why avoidance often feels easier than vulnerability.The episode also explores relationship expectations, emotional maturity, and a listener write-in that sparks a real conversation about compatibility, communication, and knowing when something just isn’t aligned. Along the way, Kiki reflects on personal growth, past embarrassment, family dynamics, and learning how to pause before reacting, especially when emotions are high.This is a funny, honest, and thought-provoking episode about growth, self-awareness, and learning how to communicate without tearing people down — or disappearing when things get uncomfortable.If you’ve ever struggled with telling the truth, hearing the truth, or figuring out how to say the hard thing without hurting someone, this episode is for you.Go to BrooklynBedding.com and use code COCKTALESPOD FOR 30% OFF SITEWIDE!!For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsContact Us!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

This week, we’re talking about vibes — the good ones, the delusional ones, and the ones men swear should replace actual communication. After mixing up our refreshing pH Balance Cocktail, we dig into Medina’s viral moment about dating communication and the wild comments from men who think asking, “What podcasts do you listen to?” is somehow “too much.”We also get into:• A listener’s essential-oil disaster (peppermint should NOT go everywhere)• Why communication is not “being nosy”• New men in elevators & unexpected meet-cutes• Cat-mama initiation tips from Black women with cats• Atlanta life updates, Friendsgiving stories & deconstructed pies• What dating looks like when you’re grown, busy, and intentional🍸 pH BALANCE COCKTAIL2 oz vodka1 oz fresh lemon juice0.75 oz honey syrup or simple syrupSplash of cranberry juice2–3 cucumber slicesClub soda to topGarnish: cucumber wheel or lemon twistHow to make it:Muddle the cucumber gently in a shaker. Add vodka, lemon juice, and honey. Shake. Strain over ice in a tall glass, add a splash of cranberry, top with club soda, and garnish. Announcements and promos are at the end — don’t miss them!FOLLOW US:@COCKTALESPOD@KIKISAIDSO@COFFEEBEANDEANFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsTry Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership  https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales  #BEDUCATED #getbeducatedIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Contact Us!Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Try Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership https://beducate.me/pd2549-cocktales #BEDUCATED #getbeducatedWe’re shaking up the holiday season with a cocktail that tastes like Christmas, cozy vibes, and just a little bit of sin. This week’s drink is the Naughty Nog Martini, a frothy eggnog latte moment that somehow led us straight into one of the wildest public emergency stories ever told on CockTales.🍸 Naughty Nog (Eggnog Latte Martini) RecipeIngredients:1–2 oz vanilla vodka1 oz eggnog1.5 oz cold brew or espresso0.5 oz simple syrup (optional if you like it sweeter)Dash of cinnamon or nutmegIceInstructions:Add everything to a shaker with ice. Shake hard until frothy, strain into a martini glass, and top with cinnamon or nutmeg. Sip slowly… because clearly, this drink has consequences.Once the cocktails hit, we dive into:✨ Holiday traditions and why cheesy Lifetime movies still eat every time✨ All Her Fault theories, plot twists, and why Kiki is ready to write and direct✨ Medina’s acting dreams and the monologue she’s already prepared✨ Theme night prep: Dirty Disney, North Pole After Dark, In Living Color, and Strip Club Night✨ Plane farts, airplane germs, and why those blankets are not your friends✨ A full-on stomach betrayal that led to a Ziploc bag, a frantic phone call, and an emergency Chick-fil-A pit stopWe also get into supporting partners with mental health struggles, TikTok conspiracy holes, dog-nap nightmares, Carry-On Only delusion, and why sometimes you just have to end the whole day and start over.This episode has holiday chaos, movie talk, outfit planning, questionable decisions, and a very public emergency that will absolutely have you hollering.Grab a Naughty Nog and press play — we warned you.FOLLOW US:@COCKTALESPOD@KIKISAIDSO@COFFEEBEANDEANFor all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsTry Beducated and use code COCKTALES for 50% off your annual membership  https://beducate.me/bg2549-cocktales  #BEDUCATED #getbeducatedIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter Contact Us!Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game Purchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

In this week’s episode, actress, writer, producer and professional on-screen villain Lindsay Diann pulls up for a raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation about being paper pregnant, navigating miscarriage, and stepping into baby joy after loss. She shares what it was really like inducing her missed miscarriage at home, how hormones had her feeling unhinged, and what partners should—and shouldn’t—do when you’re carrying that emotional load alone.We dive into the mental shift from “outside girl” to “intentional woman,” why friendships change when marriages and babies enter the chat, and how to be a better friend when someone in your circle goes through trauma. Lindsay also spills on playing the unhinged Leslie on “The Team”, the joy of being a villain, and what’s next for her production company, LA Elite Productions, including her upcoming films “Girls Night,” “The Perfect Proposal,” and “Curious.”And because every episode needs something in the glass, today’s drink is the Prego-Rita — a citrusy mocktail with a sparkling-wine upgrade for the girls who aren’t pregnant.🍹 Today’s Cocktail: The Prego-Rita (Mocktail + Cocktail) Base:2 oz fresh lime juice or alcohol-free margarita mix1 oz fresh orange juice1 oz agave syrupClub soda to topOptional: salt/Tajín rim + jalapeño slicesCocktail Add-On:2 oz sparkling wineDirections:Shake lime, orange, and agave over ice. Pour into a rimmed glass over fresh ice.Mocktail: top with club soda.Cocktail: add sparkling wine, then top with club soda.Garnish with jalapeño for a spicy kick.FOLLOW US:@COCKTALESPOD@KIKISAIDSO@COFFEEBEANDEANFOLLOW OUR GUEST:@SHESJUSTLINDSAYPromos BROOKLYN BEDDING:Go to www.brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.CELEBRATOR:Experience the difference oscillation makes. Get 20% off The Celebrator & free shipping today at 3rdPlanetProducts.com CODE COCKTALES20For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Visit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping! Contact Us!Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird *ex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.com Get Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.com Get Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroeInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Kiki and Medinah are back with a full life update you did not see coming. From Virgin Voyages cruise chaos (yes, sandstorms and lost cameras!) to pajama parties, new friendships, holiday stress, and family tea — the girls cover it all. Plus, a deep dive into the Celebrator device, gummy-induced zen, TikTok traps, new jobs, weddings, and why learning something new might be your new self-care hack. It’s unhinged, cozy, hilarious, and very CockTales.For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparterVisit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping!Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live.Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroePurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

We are back in the studio with Cocktales Chardonnay in our glasses and a lot on our hearts.This week Kiki and Medinah catch you up on everything from Hedonism in Jamaica after Hurricane Melissa to one of the wildest Weird Sex stories we have had in a minute. Kiki shares how the resort staff has been impacted, why she is turning her suitcase into a donation bin, and how you can help if you feel called to give. Medinah talks about Paradise & Vibe’s Traveler’s Resort family, the fundraiser in Jamaica and why natural disasters hit different when you know the people affected.We also get into robot taxis glitching in Atlanta, Kiki’s fever app mock trial experience where the audience decides who is guilty in an AI car accident, and Medinah’s grown woman announcements, including her holiday tablescaping class with her interior designer and a full wellness retreat in Istanbul, Turkey.A listener writes in about an ER trauma case where a woman comes in after being hit by a car, gets scanned head to toe, and the entire team discovers a plug sitting pretty on the CT. From toys to MRIs and lying about metal in your body, we take it there.Then the episode takes a tender turn. Medinah opens up about putting her dog Shai down, what led up to that heartbreaking vet visit, the costs, the process and the grief of coming home to an empty hallway, a leash in the car and a quiet house after more than a decade with her best friend. She reflects on a long season of letting go, trusting God, and learning healthier coping mechanisms than she had when she first got Chi.Kiki shares her own life updates too, including a Leo and Teyana Taylor film premiere, more thoughts on AI car trials, using the Fever app to find things to do, and why Atlanta actually has plenty of food and fun if you stop following only the “lit” IG spots. The ladies swap date recommendations like Midtown Social’s R&B Bingo, Cirque du Soleil, museums, sushi classes and even ballroom dancing.They close with some real talk about how podcasts and creator work are actually funded, why your subscription, reviews and shares really matter, and how you can support CockTales without going broke in this economy. Plus, Medinah invites listeners to join her for a Meals on Wheels Atlanta volunteer day and reminds anyone struggling that there are resources and community waiting.If you have ever loved a pet like a family member, felt stuck in grief, or just needed a reminder that you can cry and still get cute for a date and a concert, this episode is for you.Interested in being a guest?  Please contact addie@cocktalespod.com and include your information, what makes you an interesting guest, and any relavant links!For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsVisit 3rdplanetproducts.com CODE COCKTALES 20 and use code cocktales20 for a discount + free shipping!Promo Code for 20% off a ticket: TABLESCAPE2025WINE & DESIGNhttps://www.eventbrite.com/e/wine-design-hosted-by-brian-christion-madinah-monroe-112225-tickets-1857609192099?aff=oddtdtcreatorVOLUNTEER WITH MEDINAH 11/20https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSdKwE0pjsr38uX9qlRvCJOdHDxJqey1qAxE4vXBIMNLrYr_Bg/viewform?usp=sharing&ouid=101308055207483565674Contact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird : weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live.Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroePurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!VOLUNTEER WITH MEDINAHContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comLooking for a new podcast home or event space?  Use our referal link and book on PeerSpace.  This space is available there: www.peerspace.com/claim/gr-PPJGdRwxzlJDGGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Try BEDUCATED and use our code COCKTALES69 https://beducate.me/pd2545-cocktalesPour up some champagne and join Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe for a deep, funny, and heartfelt episode featuring K. Micole—celebrity stylist turned image architect and author.They unpack everything from healing and co-parenting to how your image reflects your inner world. K. Micole gets real about building confidence, balancing motherhood and purpose, and learning to forgive yourself without losing your shine.Follow our guest @kmicoleIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparter00:00:00 - Introduction00:00:29 - Discussion on Seasonal Depression00:01:17 - Discussion on Image Architecture00:04:46 - Discussion on Personal Styling00:17:06 - Product Promotion00:19:31 - Continuation of Parenting and Relationships Discussion00:41:16 - Discussion on Self-awareness and Personal Growth00:45:01 - Discussion on Overcoming Adversity00:56:13 - Discussion on the Power of Prayer01:02:14 - Discussion on Authenticity01:06:10 - Listener's Letter and Advice01:17:28 - Discussion on Friendships and Self-reflectionContact Us! Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comLive Show Sponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card GamePurchase Merch And Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel with Kiki! We're going to Curacao March 19-23. Tickets will be live soon, email info@kikisaidso.com with subject "Trip" to receive a reminder when the trip goes live.Travel With Medinah! https://linktr.ee/MedinahMonroePurchase Medinah's Coffee Mug! www.medinahmonroe.comInterested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com today!Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finally choose peace over potential.If you’ve ever felt stuck in something that looked like love but felt like labor, this one’s for you. Tune in for laughs, healing, and a few hard truths about what it really means to stop entertaining the bare minimum.Chapters:00:00:02 - Intro: We’re Tired, Sis00:01:14 - Host Catch-Up00:05:22 - Meet Kamilla Davis00:12:42 - Game Time00:20:09 - Luteal Phase Realness00:31:33 - The Dog Drama00:36:05 - Leftovers and Letdowns00:41:16 - When Love Feels Like Labor00:55:22 - Clean House, Clear Mind01:12:52 - Laugh Through the Pain🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info https://give.lulaslegacyoflovefoundation.org/event/save-the-tatas-2-0/e697283📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast  @kikisaidso @coffeebeandeanFollow Our Guest@kdaviscomedyContact Us!Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: cameron@pleasesurepodcasts.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back for part two of their extended catch-up episode — and this time they’re tackling why so many women are accepting the bare minimum in dating, health, and life. From low vitamin D and unaddressed hormone issues to low-effort men and unrealized self-worth, this episode blends comedy, confession, and a few uncomfortable truths. Plus, the “Weird Sex” story of the week will leave you in disbelief (hint: it involves an ER visit and a butt plug).Detailed Show NotesSubtitle: From Low Vitamin D to Low Standards — Time to Raise BothTopics Covered💆🏽‍♀️ Cupping, Muscle Alignment & Back Pain: Kiki’s wild story about her body going on strike and how therapy (of the physical kind) brought her back.☀️ Low Vitamin D, Hormone Health & Mental Clarity: Medinah opens up about her emotional lows and discovering that her sadness wasn’t just in her head — it was in her bloodwork.💉 Redefining “Normal”: Why “normal” test results don’t always mean healthy, and how systemic biases in medicine impact Black women.💕 Dating Culture & the Bare Minimum Epidemic: The ladies react to a shocking revelation — some women have never been taken on a real date. They discuss how to raise standards, heal from bad patterns, and stop mistaking attention for effort.💬 Community and Connection: From breast cancer awareness walks to social clubs and single-mom dinners, Kiki and Medinah highlight women-centered spaces that foster real sisterhood.😳 Weird Sex Story of the Week: An ER visit turns into an unforgettable discovery when a routine scan reveals a little… extra hardware.✨ Final Thoughts: Taking care of your body, guarding your heart, and demanding better in every area of life — from doctors to dates.🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast  @kikisaidso @coffeebeandeanContact Us!Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: cameron@pleasesurepodcasts.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Kiki Said So and Medinah Monroe are back in the studio catching up on everything from dating guilt to setting boundaries with moms, lovers, and LinkedIn connects. This episode is peak grown woman era — reflective, funny, and real.The ladies talk about embracing the freedom of dating multiple people without shame, learning when to speak up (even to family), and why being “too nice” might just be messing up your love life.You’ll also hear about Medinah’s Meals on Wheels volunteer birthday, her gala honor, and her new Lover Girl Retreat in Thailand — plus Kiki’s new collab, her take on the “Winter Arc” trend, and why LinkedIn just became her new favorite social app.They close it out with reflections on reading more, healing from burnout, and what it means to stay authentic when life gets messy.Cocktail of the Week: Unruly — just champagne, because we’re celebrating making it through another week.🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsIf you’re 21+, try VIIA! For 15% off AND a free gift with your first order head to viia.co/COCKTALES and use code COCKTALES! #viiaparterLinks Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon October “The Landlord” by Brandon Massey  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast  @kikisaidso @coffeebeandeanContact Us!Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird : weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: cameron@pleasesurepodcasts.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.comBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

(00:00:00) Libra Season! Friendships, Rituals & Red Flags (00:00:01) Intro Trailer (00:01:30) LIBRA LEMON DROP RECIPE (00:05:16) ANNOUNCEMENTS (00:07:38) KIKI'S BOOK CLUB (00:11:23) XOMAN PODCAST (00:13:47) HEDONISM WITH WORST BEHAVIOR TOUR STARTING AT $1650 (00:17:26) LIFERX USE CODE COCKTALES (00:22:13) WEIRD SEX (00:44:19) SOAKINGWET.COM USE CODE COCKTALES (00:47:16) DISSAPOINMENTS 7 THE JOY OF SHOWING UP (01:03:15) I'M CURIOUS TO KNOW (01:05:01) advice - send yours advice@cocktalespod.com This week on CockTales: Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah are back with an unfiltered girl chat—no guest, just us! We kick things off with a Libra Lemon Drop cocktail and dive into Libra season vibes, astrology, and friendship dynamics. From growing apart after kids to showing up for friends’ milestones, we get real about what it means to maintain connections through life’s transitions.We also share self-rituals, birthday traditions, and our takes on communication struggles—whether it’s boring conversations, copycat friends, or partners who just won’t open up. Of course, it wouldn’t be CockTales without a wild story, and this week’s birthday cake incident will have you cackling. Plus, Indecisive Diane drops in with advice, and we tackle listener questions about threesomes and friend drama.Pour a drink, press play, and let’s talk friendships, growth, and keeping it spicy.🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsVisit soakingwet.com and use code COCKTALES for 10%off💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188Links Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon September “Tethered Love by Kimberly Brown www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Kiki in Jamaica at Hedonism II with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk Info📲 Follow Us:  Instagram/Threads: @cocktalespodcast @kikisaidso @coffeebeandean Contact Us!Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird Sex: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship/Ads/Paid Collabs: cameron@pleasesurepodcasts.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries: info@cocktalespod.comGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoCheck Out xoMAN Podcast: https://lnk.to/xomancyTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover! & Paradiseandvibe.com✨ Chapters:00:00:00 - Intro Teaser: Growing Apart from Friends00:00:19 - Self Traditions and Rituals00:00:33 - Conversation Control00:00:50 - Growing Apart After Having Kids00:01:12 - Cocktales: Dirty Discussions Introduction00:01:30 - Libra Lemon Drop Cocktail Recipe00:02:04 - Libra Season Discussion00:03:07 - Friends and Astrology Signs00:05:16 - Announcements and Updates00:07:38 - Book Club Meeting00:11:23 - XO Man Podcast00:13:47 - Worst Behavior Tour Trip to Negril, Jamaica00:15:31 - Excitement for the Upcoming Trip to Turkey00:15:58 - Discussing Body Positivity and Self Sex Education00:16:18 - Gift of Experiences00:17:08 - Reflecting on Friendships00:17:26 - LifeRX Segment: Health and Fitness Journey with Life Rx MD00:22:13 - Weird S*x Story: Birthday Cake Incident00:26:27 - Growing Apart from Friends: Perspectives00:31:40 - Speaking Up in Relationships and Friendships00:34:10 - The Elasticity of the Heart00:36:26 - Self Reflection and Personal Growth00:39:53 - Birthday Rituals and Traditions00:40:30 - Appreciation for Massages00:44:19 - Ad: VB Health: Soaking Wet Pills00:46:54 - Soaking Wet Ad00:47:16 - Disappointments in Friendships00:47:54 - The Joy of Showing Up00:50:50 - Surprising Nephew in LA00:52:57 - Supporting Friends' Events00:55:34 - The Importance of Communication00:56:30 - The Struggles of Boring Conversations01:01:38 - The Importance of Hobbies01:02:15 - Dealing with Non-Communicative People01:02:50 - Creating Conversations and Breaking the Silence01:03:15 - Promoting I'm Curious to Know.com01:03:55 - Indecisive Diane01:05:01 - Advice Segment Introduction01:05:43 - Advice: Exploring Threesomes01:11:45 - Advice: Dealing with Copycat FriendsBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.Detailed Show Notes:Marriage, Partnership & Real Love LessonsTopics Covered:How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kidsWhat they believe are the “silent killers” of marriageWhy trust has to be earned but also given with graceThe role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship aliveTheir wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoonAdjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balanceWhy friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriageLessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partnerLinks Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk InfoGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code cocktales at checkout to get 30% off sitewide.  This offer is not available anywhere else.💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanGUESTS: @LOVEANDFLYSHT 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us!Advice:  advice@cocktalespod.comCocktales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comWeird S*x: weirdsex@cocktalespod.comSponsorship: sales@cocktalespod.comGuest Request/ General Inquiries info@cocktalespod.comGet your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover!Interested in sponsoring? Contact sales@cocktalespod.com todayChapters:00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast*04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh27:00 – Do married people miss being single?31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex44:00 – Living together before marriage50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths53:00 – How to choose the right partnerBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form