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Author: Penda N'diaye

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Unveil stigmas and taboos in this confessional series with Pro Hoe host, Penda N’diaye to explore topics on sexual desire, pleasure, and using sex and taboo as social equity. Break down social, religious and racial constructs that some of us have been taught to uphold and how they have stifled sexual liberation in communities of color.


Listen in as anonymous callers ask questions regarding to sex and relationships while Penda re-invents sex talk in communities of color in a candid, fun, “pillow-talk’ manner. When Penda’s mom gave her her first vibrator, it sparked the conversation that there’s a lack of sexual dialogue within communities of color and in return, outside conversations have shaped the Black sexual experience.


The series will tackle cliches which have permeated popular culture and commentary, leaving a gap in the scholarship of Black sexual identities. Questions surrounding black sexuality are central to how we’ve been perceived and we perceive ourselves and this podcast will bring these questions, answers and discussions to light!


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Wujj Origin Story

Wujj Origin Story

2025-05-1924:18

Wow, I can't believe Kissi is finally here!! Shop now at https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/wujj/kissi. Listen to this episode to discover our origin story, what inspired the idea, the problem we aimed to solve, and how we envisioned bringing something new into the world of pleasure and wellness. Www.wujjpleasure.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Ahead of new upcoming episodes covering sex on the African continent, let's revisit this episode with Kenyan Sex Educator, and Host of 'The Spread' podcast, Kaz Lucas, record a special crossover episode to discuss sexuality on the African continent and abroad, as well as answer questions from their communities. Follow 'The Spread' podcast and Kaz: @thespreadpod and @kazkarenlucas. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sex Toy Updates

Sex Toy Updates

2023-05-0322:00

w/ Pro Hoe Founder, Penda Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Release into Pleasure

Release into Pleasure

2023-04-2630:15

Confronting thinness and performative sex w/ Kendra Austin Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On this episode of the Pro Hoe podcast, Sexpert and host Penda N'diaye speaks with Dr. Donna Oriowo on how to get "Free, Fucked, and Fabulous" by choosing yourself first, doing the work in therapy, and releasing indoctrinated desirability politics that often hold back Black women from reaching sexual liberation. Find out more about Dr. Donna here: https://www.donnaoriowo.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
With Sexologist Megan Stubbs Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
How Touch can Heal and Allow Space for Pleasure with Somatic Healer Casia Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Join Pro Hoe host Penda N'diaye and Medicine Woman Charlotte James as they discuss mushrooms, psychedelics, the Sacred Hoe, and how plant medicine can unleash our divine selves. Can mushrooms enhance pleasure? Or do they simply open up a world to explore and heal past traumas, ultimately leading to sexual freedom? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On this episode, join Penda and Luis Cortes, co-founder of Sucia NYC, a liberating sex party experience that centers pleasure, community, and exploration. Listen in as he shares how Sucia can open your mind and body, and how he and his partner are navigating opening up their polyamorous relationship for the first time. Find more about Sucia NYC here: https://www.instagram.com/sucianyc/?hl=en Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Cannabis + Sex

Cannabis + Sex

2023-03-1528:40

On this season of the Pro Hoe podcast, join Sexpert Penda N'diaye and guest experts ranging from AI to psychedelics to understand how women can have BIGGER, better, orgasms. We are closing the orgasm gap once and for all! As Penda gears up to launch her own sex toy brand, she's curious to know, "What Really Turns Us On??Please support Victoria and Black Girls Smoke here: https://www.blackgirlssmoke.com/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Pro Hoe Founder and Host Penda N'diaye recaps her article in VICE on how to find a sex-positive therapist and the growing sex therapy industry that unfortunately includes therapists who falsely market themselves as being kink and polyamory informed, but in reality are ill-equipped to assess clients with these sexual identities. Full article here: https://www.vice.com/en_us/article/wxqza5/how-to-find-a-kink-sex-positive-therapistKink Guidelines for Therapists: https://www.kinkguidelines.com/Kink and Poly aware professionals directory: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
A throwback episode from September 2019 featuring Peyton Dix, who ferociously slays social and special events at InStyle Magazine, and Pro Hoe Founder Penda N'diaye. They speak about the intersectionality of being Black and Queer, online dating, and navigating conversations on sexuality while coming of age under the roof of Black parents. They also answer anonymous questions about consent, and how to tell your close friends that you’re in a polyamorous relationship. Follow Penda on social: @pendajai, @improhoeFollow Peyton on social: @peytondix Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Pro Hoe Host Penda N'diaye shares what she would tell her seventeen-year-old self about sex if she could go back in time... Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Shadeen Francis, LMFT (Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist) specializing in sex therapy and social justice, joins the Pro Hoe Podcast to talk about what it means to be safe in your body, finding small amounts of peace, and identifying the systems in place that decide who, and when we deserve pleasure and joy.Follow Shadeen on IG: @shadeenfrancislmft Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Whiteness Ain't Rightness

Whiteness Ain't Rightness

2020-06-2401:19:10

Pro Hoe Founder Penda N'diaye is joined by Tracie Gilbert, PhD that dives into the complex and often polarizing relationship between "Blackness is Sexiness" and "Whiteness is Rightness." Tracie's expert knowledge paves the way for a conversation highlighting heterosexism, homophobia, culture vultures, pleasure, our suppressed sexual liberties and more. Don't miss this conversation. LISTEN TO BLACK WOMEN. Follow Tracie on social media: @thembianaiya Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Boundaries Are Sexy

Boundaries Are Sexy

2020-06-1749:43

Jimanekia, Sex educator and Trauma Specialist joins Pro Hoe Founder Penda N'diaye to discuss how Boundaries are sexy, commodification of Black voices on social media, interracial relationships and more. Plus, Jimanekia address unlearning sexual shame, and her advocacy for kink and BDSM as a means of finding community and releasing fear of judgment. Follow Jimanekia on social: @jimanekiaSupport her retreat, Tending the Garden here: https://ifundwomen.com/projects/tending-the-garden Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Don't Yuck My Yum

Don't Yuck My Yum

2020-06-1001:04:51

Renelle E. Nelson, LMFT joins Pro Hoe Founder Penda N'diaye to discuss infidelity, trauma healing for Black women, and grounding practices to address sexual shame. Follow Renelle on IG: @noirsxtherapist Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Pro Hoe Founder, Penda N'diaye has a frank conversation with Sinikiwe Dhliwayo, Founder of Naaya, about the Wellness industry's fetishization of Black Bodies for the sake of consumption, all while refusing to hire Black employees and teachers. They discuss Black Lives Matter, George Floyd, and demand that White companies to put their money where their mouths are. You can find out more about Penda N'diaye here: @pendajai@improhoeimprohoe.comvenmo: @pendajaiAnd Sinikiwe Dhliwayo:@sinikiwe.stephanie@naaya.wellnessnaayawellness.comCashapp: naayawellness Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Penda is back with part 2 of Whats Your Fantasy? This episode she dives into three different sexual fantasies, and tries to uncover how they relate to her real life sexual relations, personal history and everyday personas. Follow Penda: @pendajai and Pro Hoe: @improhoe Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Pro Hoe Founder Penda N’diaye discusses where our fantasies come from and if we're often too hesitant to let our imaginations explore sexual behaviors that are rooted in shame and stigma. Part 1 focuses primarily on what influences our fantasies, and part 2 will dive deeper into Penda's personal fantasies and what they mean. Plus we discuss Demon Time, fetishization, and answer an anonymous sex question. Follow us on IG: @improhoe and @pendajai Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Shelly Nyawira

what are your social media handles ?

Aug 28th
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