Trench Talk

Contact us. We’d love to serve youRequest a stay at a Shepherd’s House LocationGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(00:43) Introducing the Topic: Christian friendship, especially among pastors(2:00) Biblical foundations: Proverbs 17:17, Ecclesiastes 4, Jonathan & David(04:54) Challenges for men in forming close friendships(07:00) Defining friendship—surface vs. deep bonds(10:00) Men’s reluctance to invest in friendships(12:37) Pastors’ relationships: transactional vs. genuine(14:02) Qualities of true friendship: presence, safety, loyalty, emotional connection(22:00) Cultivating friendship: prayer, planning, risk-taking, listening, being present(30:00) Sanctifying influence—“iron sharpens iron”(31:31) Final word and prayer

(01:16) The challenge of mending broken relationships within church communities.(02:47) Scriptural and theological foundation for unity, drawing from both Old and New Testaments.(06:38) Real-life examples and historical anecdotes on church conflicts.(10:00) Causes of relational breakdown: disappointment, neglect, unresolved conflict, political/personal differences.(15:00) Practical ways pastors can foster church unity; preaching, prayer, sacraments.(21:38) The role of “stealthy peacemakers” and intervening in private disputes.(27:27) Congregational responsibility for reconciliation and unity.(31:10) Limits of reconciliation and pastoral wisdom; closing prayer.

(01:00) Pressures Pastors Face in January: Discussion on new year challenges, unique pressures, and planning.(02:12) Biblical Foundations: Proverbs 16 and James 4 applied to planning and reliance on God's guidance.(05:00) Melancholy and Societal Pressure: Addressing the emotional and practical challenges pastors face at the year's start.(10:00) Preaching Pressure: Balancing expectations, routines, and physical/spiritual health.(15:00) Vision Sermons: The purpose and scope of beginning-of-year vision messages.(21:21) Practical Planning: Realistic planning for preaching, events, and finances.(28:13) Financial & Event Planning: Budget, spending, and gradual ramp-up of church activities.(32:40) Final word and prayer

Contact us. We’d love to serve youWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify ResourcesGrow in your ministry preparation through the FREE Practically Trained Pastors Cohort.Give financially to support the work of helping pastors thrive(02:25) Personal Experiences — Both hosts share stories about being young pastors among older leaders and the unique challenges faced.(03:00) Framing the Issue — Discussion on balancing authority and respect as a young pastor.(03:51) Biblical Perspective — Reflection on 1 Timothy 4:12 and examples from Job regarding age, wisdom, and leadership.(09:36) Practical Advice — Emphasis on patience, humility, asking questions, and building relationships with older church members.(12:51) Earning Trust and Respect — Strategies for younger pastors on servant leadership and earning credibility over time.(19:13) Building Relationships — The importance of acknowledging the contributions of older leaders and fostering mutual respect.(33:55) Final words & Prayer

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify ResourcesGrow in your ministry preparation through the FREE Practically Trained Pastors Cohort.(02:00) Pastoral Failings & Faithfulness – Discussion on the burden of pastors’ moral failings and burnout.(03:20) Biblical Foundations – Exploring Proverbs 4:23, 1 Timothy 4:16, and pastoral qualifications.(05:10) Historical vs. Modern Challenges – Impact of technology, social media, and the classic “three G’s” for pastors.(11:00) Theology & Safeguards – The importance and limits of good theology and ecclesiology.(23:00) Practicing Faithfulness – Abiding in Christ, authentic community, marriage, and desire for usefulness.(34:47) Final word & Prayer – Reminders for faithfulness, God’s audience of one, and closing prayer.

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(02:42) Scriptural perspectives on caring about opinions(05:29) Tensions in pastoral reputation—Paul’s examples(06:30) Brian and Jim reflect from personal experience of caring too much and not enough(13:03) Signs of caring too much(19:13) Signs of not caring enough(26:34) Finding balance: practical advice for pastors(32:17) Final words and prayer for pastors

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(00:50) Setting up the topic: Cultivating joy in church communities(02:30) Biblical texts on joy: 2 Corinthians 1, Philippians 1, First Peter(05:15) The relational and gospel roots of joy(08:30) Joy as motivation for perseverance and healthy church culture(12:10) Joy in pastors: Impact on ministry and faithfulness(19:00) Cultivating joy in leadership teams: Balancing challenges and celebrations(26:10) Cultivating congregational joy: Personal approaches and worship practices(32:10) Practical steps: Preventing burnout, purpose in service, and meaningful worship(35:00) Prayer and spiritual encouragement for

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(02:13) Dr. Smith’s Background: Early life, move to Cincinnati, and family influences.(05:07) Ministry Balance: Balancing family commitments and itinerant ministry; racial reconciliation as a key focus.(07:12) Pastoral Experience: Pastoring New Mission Baptist Church, the importance of pastoral care.(09:02) Teaching at Beeson: Teaching homiletics, a Christ-centered approach, and memorable student stories.(14:37) Impact on Students: Mentoring, celebrating ministry milestones, and the joy of seeing students thrive.(18:31) Advice for Young Preachers: The importance of immersing oneself in Scripture and finding your preaching voice.(24:47) Observations on Ministry: Encouragements and concerns in pastoral ministry today.(34:11) Dr. Smith’s Reassignment: Embracing a new season of ministry, faith in God's guidance.(35:04) Final word and prayer for Dr. Smith ongoing ministry.

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(06:14) Setting up the topic(10:29) Fear of hurting church members(15:52) Losing pastoral passion and affection(18:57) Preventing church division(24:04) Practical advice for managing pastoral fears

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(04:05) Setting the Context (07:28) Biblical Foundations (10:42) Internal Pressures on Pastors (13:22) Understanding Congregational Dynamics (18:36) External Pressures (21:14) Rooting Out Fear of Man (28:51) Pastoral Advice for Future Crises (33:24) Practical Approach to Addressing Sensitive Topics (35:12) Closing Prayer

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(02:01) Biblical Foundation for Unity (08:39) Essential Areas of Agreement for Elders Membership and leadership selection First-tier doctrinal issues (deity of Christ, salvation) Issues affecting church unity(16:31)Handling Disagreements directly while avoiding gossip and slander(28:00) Practical Practices for Healthy Eldership (33:05) Final words and prayer

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveFind out more information about the Advancing the Church Conference. Write a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(00:00) Introduction and welcome (01:13) Discussion about Jim's recent theater production (05:00) Setting up the discussion: Church building programs (06:35) Biblical perspective from Luke 14 on counting the cost (09:07) Jim's church history and initial building phases (14:06) Financial considerations for building (17:56) Discussion on church growth and potential solutions (25:00) Financial wisdom in building programs (28:51) Strategies for churches with space constraints (35:00) Closing thoughts on church planting and building

(02:12) Scripture foundation and setting up the topic from Psalm 68 (07:16) Bryce's background in ministry and entrepreneurship(10:00) Discussion on foster care (12:20) Shocking statistic: 80% of foster youth age out in a difficult situation (18:01) How pastors can help and get involved with foster care (25:00) Connection between foster care and human trafficking (27:51) Introduction to Bryce's podcast "Fracture to Flourish" Key Statistics: 20,000 youth age out of foster care annually80% of those who age out are incarcerated, dead, or addicted within 3 yearsLess than 1% of aged-out foster youth go to college60-70% of trafficking victims had contact with foster care systemRecommended Resources: Podcast: "Fracture to Flourish"Organizations: Orphan Care Alliance, Foster the City, Forever HomesContact: Bryce@accessventures.org

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveRegister for the Advancing the Church Conference. Write a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(03:17) Theological and Cultural Struggles (13:06) Costs of Theological Convictions (16:56) Planting Urban Hope Community Church (23:27) Gospel-Centered Ministry Approach (33:02) Grocery Store and Building Acquisition (41:08) Future Vision (43:04) Closing Prayer Requests

(02:29) Background on how Brian and Kyle met Pastor Alton(04:10) Pastor Alton discusses his vision for church planting (07:24) Sharing his initial prayer and vision for the church (12:43) Challenges of the first five years of ministry (16:34) Current church growth and encouragement (24:12) Leadership Initiative details (29:42) Training approach for young men in the Leadership Initiative (37:41) Detoxing from victim mentality and understanding God's sovereignty Main Topics: Visit websites: www.urbanhopecc.com www.manifoldvision.org

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveRegister for the Advancing the Church Conference. Write a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(03:01) Theological Foundations of Hobbies(07:32) Jim's Acting Experience(12:42) Importance of Enjoying Hobbies(18:12) Examples of Personal Hobbies(22:50) Pastoral Challenges with Hobbies(26:11) Practical Advice for Finding Hobbies(32:18) Final word and prayer

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveRegister for the Advancing the Church Conference. Write a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(03:42) Biblical Foundation and setting up the topic(10:00) Tips for getting to know church members(15:26) Book recommendation: David Brooks' "How to Know a Person"(18:58) Being autobiographical in ministry(24:36) Sharing personal details discretely and progressively(29:44) Addressing pastors' hesitations about sharing personal information(35:19) Final word and prayer

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveRegister for the Advancing the Church Conference. Write a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(03:51) Biblical Framework and setting up the topic (08:57) Biographical Background (13:47) Challenges for Modern Pastors (22:58) Time Management and Ministry Responsibilities(30:43) Adapting to Changing Church Cultures (36:20) Generational Differences in Ministry (38:17) Final words and Prayer

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveFind out more information about the Advancing the Church Conference. Write a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(01:30) Biblical Framework and setting up the Topic (10:02) Personal Ministry Experiences (15:11) Preparing for Ministry Challenges (22:27) Dealing with Pastoral Betrayal (28:26) Healing and Moving Forward (34:58) Advice for Senior Pastors (35:45) Final words and prayer

Contact us. We’d love to serve youGive financially to support the work of helping pastors thriveFind out more information about the Advancing the Church Conference. Request a stay at the Shepherd’s HouseWrite a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify Resources(01:19) Defining a blindspot(02:45) Setting up the conversation and biblical foundation (08:55) Blindspot #1: I’m a really good preacher(12:45) Blindspot #2: I relate to people well(15:37) Blindspot #3: I am a clear communicator(18:25) Ways to discover pastoral blindspots(18:50) Prayer(20:19) Self-discovery(22:50) listen to feedback from varying voices(27:39) Final word and prayer