Covenant Army Podcast

In this episode of the Covenant Army Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss the topic of conflict resolution in marriage. They explore the challenges couples face when resolving conflicts and the importance of understanding each other's perspectives. Overall, the episode highlights the importance of communication, understanding, and teamwork in resolving conflicts and strengthening marriages. Takeaways •Conflict arises from differences and misunderstandings in marriage. •Resolving conflicts requires understanding and communication. •Conflict resolvers look for win-win solutions and avoid personal attacks. •Having a common goal and unity in marriage is essential for resolving conflicts. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Mission 00:58 Is Your Marriage a Battlefield? 01:55 Communication Issues and Resolving Conflict 03:17 The Song "Battleships" by Daughtry 05:11 Conflict Arises from Differences and Misunderstandings 07:37 Conflict Resolution and Resolving Conflict 09:31 Conflict Avoidance and Pride 10:58 The Destructive Effects of Unresolved Conflict 12:22 Recognizing the Need for a Timeout 13:44 The Importance of Understanding Each Other 15:17 Conflict Resolvers Look for Win-Win Solutions 17:43 Avoiding Disrespect and Personal Attacks 20:38 Practical Steps for Conflict Resolution 23:29 Having a Common Goal in Marriage 30:00 Recognizing the Power of Unity in Marriage Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss 10 red flags to watch out for before getting married or even dating. They emphasize the importance of being aware of these red flags and addressing them before entering into a marriage.  Takeaways •Be aware of red flags in a potential partner before getting married or even dating. •Address red flags before entering into a marriage. •Some red flags include being too good to be true, consuming vast quantities of something, always having to get their way, worshiping themselves, being a spiritual dud, being tangled in apron strings, having mommy or daddy issues, being a ticking time bomb, having off the chart fears, and not connecting on an emotional level. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 03:19 Red Flag #1: They're Too Good to Be True 08:58 Red Flag #2: They Consume Vast Quantities of Something 10:51 Red Flag #3: They Always Have to Get Their Way 12:47 Red Flag #4: They Worship Themselves 13:45 Red Flag #5: They Are a Spiritual Dud 15:39 Red Flag #6: They Are Tangled in Apron Strings 18:01 Red Flag #7: They Have Mommy or Daddy Issues 20:25 Red Flag #8: They Are a Ticking Time Bomb 22:18 Red Flag #9: They Have Off the Chart Fears 23:48 Red Flag #10: They Don't Connect on an Emotional Level 26:08 Conclusion Article:10 Red-Flag People to Avoid Dating and Marrying https://newlife.com/10-red-flag-people-to-avoid-dating-and-marrying/?gad_source=1&gclid=Cj0KCQiAh8OtBhCQARIsAIkWb694MQHkToCm_KRn27nGDLozFkBCg_JFZ5r788vV36bAkn2UG1-vP_YaAtfBEALw_wcB Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the topic of staying in an unhappy marriage. They emphasize that unhappiness is temporary and that every marriage goes through unhappy times. They encourage couples to seek wise counsel, invite God into the situation, and be kind to one another. They also highlight the importance of communication, forgiveness, and getting to the root of unhappiness. Takeaways Unhappiness in marriage is temporary and every marriage goes through unhappy times. Seeking wise counsel and inviting God into the situation can help turn around an unhappy marriage. Communication, forgiveness, and kindness are key in resolving unhappiness in marriage. Couples have the power to change their marriage and create a happier future. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Defining Unhappiness in Marriage 03:23 Unhappiness is Temporary 06:15 Seeking Resources for Help 08:37 The Power of Repentance and Change 11:48 Unhappiness is Common in Marriage 18:00 The Importance of Communication and Perspective 21:19 The Role of Forgiveness and Moving Forward 25:33 Getting to the Root of Unhappiness 27:29 The Impact of a Happy Wife 29:54 The Importance of Kindness 34:54 Conclusion Article: Should Couples in Unhappy Marriages Stay Together? https://ifstudies.org/blog/should-couples-in-unhappy-marriages-stay-together Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the erosion of modesty in modern society and its impact on marriage & families. They emphasize the importance of parents setting a standard of modesty and teaching their children to honor God and themselves. They also discuss the significance of modesty in identity, community, serving others, and recognizing authority. They encourage parents to stand firm in teaching modesty and to plant seeds of truth in their children's lives. Takeaways Modesty is more than just a matter of clothing; it is about honoring God, ourselves, and others. Parents play a crucial role in teaching and modeling modesty for their children. Modesty is important in maintaining healthy relationships and attracting quality partners. Modesty is about setting oneself apart and reflecting God's holiness. Modesty is not about dressing ugly, but about dressing in a way that is classy and honors one's unique identity as a woman or man. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Weekend Recap 03:24 The Erosion of Modesty 06:16 The Lack of Modesty in Modern Women 10:09 The Impact on Relationships and Finding Good Men 16:30 The Role of Parents in Teaching Modesty 21:21 The Importance of Modesty in Identity and Community 25:47 The Significance of Modesty in Serving Others 29:10 The Authority and Discipline of Modesty 36:24 Conclusion and Encouragement for Parents Article: The Modesty Conversation We Need to Have https://www.thegospelcoalition.org/article/modesty-conversation/ Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

Summary In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss eight signs that indicate falling out of love with a spouse. They emphasize the importance of recognizing these signs early and taking action to address them. Takeaways: •Recognize the signs of falling out of love early and take action to address them. •Nurture your relationship by planning exciting and adventurous activities together. •Be open and vulnerable with your partner, sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings. •Avoid seeking opportunities to avoid your partner and instead prioritize spending quality time together. •Choose open communication over silent contempt and address disagreements in a healthy manner. •Discuss any uncertainties about the future with your partner and seek counseling if needed. •Avoid longing for someone or something else and focus on rekindling love in your current relationship. •Work on being less defensive and seek outside help if necessary. •Replace constant criticism with love, respect, and appreciation for your partner. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:29 Appreciating Listeners and Impact 02:28 Discussing the Topic: Eight Signs That You're Falling Out of Love With Your Spouse 04:19 Chapter 1: Not Excited to Spend Time Together 06:41 Chapter 2: Not Open with Your Partner 08:07 Chapter 3: Seeking Opportunities to Avoid Your Partner 10:05 Chapter 4: Choosing Silent Contempt over Disagreements 11:33 Chapter 5: Feeling Uncertain about the Future with Your Partner 13:25 Chapter 6: Longing for Someone or Something Else 16:10 Chapter 7: Being Overly Defensive 17:33 Chapter 8: Constantly Criticizing Your Partner 20:24 Conclusion and Encouragement Article - 8 Signs You’re Falling Out of Love With Your Partner, According to a Relationship Expert https://www.brides.com/falling-out-love-4150474 Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the power struggle that many couples face in their relationships. They provide practical advice and biblical principles to help couples resolve these power struggles and become a power couple in Christ. Takeaways Power struggles in relationships can be resolved by applying biblical principles and seeking God's guidance. Using reason and avoiding pressure tactics is essential in resolving conflicts. Committing the unreasonable spouse to the Lord in prayer can bring about healing and reconciliation. Reconciling trust issues requires humility, acknowledging faults, and seeking forgiveness. Seeking help from a pastor or counselor can provide guidance and support in resolving power struggles. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Power Struggle in Relationships 02:25 Using Reason and Avoiding Pressure Tactics 03:30 Committing the Unreasonable Spouse to the Lord in Prayer 05:26 Reconciling Trust Issues 07:34 Seeking Forgiveness and Humbling Yourself 09:46 Getting Help from a Pastor or Counselor 13:42 Conclusion Article - Power Struggle in Relationships: Signs & Ways to Deal https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/power-struggle-in-relationships/ Article - Resolving Power Struggles in Your Marriage https://www.covenantkeepers.org/online-articles/42-conflict-resolution/572-resolving-power-struggles-in-your-marriage-3 Click below for all things Covenant Army!! https://linktr.ee/ck4life Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the power struggle that often occurs in relationships. They define power struggle as a dynamic where both partners vie for control, authority, or dominance. They explore the biblical origins of power struggle and how it is a consequence of sin. They also identify common signs of power struggle in relationships, such as consistent arguments, dominance and control, and withholding affection or intimacy. The episode concludes with strategies for resolving power struggles, including dealing with selfishness, fearing God, understanding divine roles, and choosing equality and fairness. Takeaways Power struggle is a common dynamic in relationships, where both partners vie for control, authority, or dominance. Power struggle is a consequence of sin and is rooted in the curse spoken by God in Genesis. Common signs of power struggle include consistent arguments, dominance and control, and withholding affection or intimacy. To resolve power struggles, couples should focus on dealing with selfishness, fearing God, understanding divine roles, and choosing equality and fairness. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:58 Definition of Power Struggle 02:27 The Curse of Power Struggle 03:27 Identifying Power Struggles 05:24 Resolving Power Struggles 08:19 Dealing with Selfishness 10:45 Fearing God 12:13 Recognizing Spiritual Problems 17:53 Understanding Divine Roles 20:33 Choosing Equality and Fairness Article - Power Struggle in Relationships: Signs & Ways to Deal https://www.marriage.com/advice/relationship/power-struggle-in-relationships/ Article - Resolving Power Struggles in Your Marriage https://www.covenantkeepers.org/online-articles/42-conflict-resolution/572-resolving-power-struggles-in-your-marriage-3 Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode of the Covenant Army Podcast, Brent and Lucy discuss six no-nos for husbands when relating to their wives. They emphasize the importance of not telling her how to solve her problems or how to feel, and instead, being sensitive to her feelings and apologizing when necessary. They also highlight the need for husbands to understand that sexual intimacy is not just physical for women, but also emotional, psychological, and spiritual. Additionally, they stress the importance of husbands not neglecting their responsibilities as the spiritual head of the family. Overall, the episode provides valuable insights and advice for husbands to strengthen their relationships with their wives. Takeaways Don't tell your wife how to solve her problems or how to feel; be sensitive and apologize when necessary. Recognize that sexual intimacy is not just physical for women, but also emotional, psychological, and spiritual. Don't neglect your responsibilities as the spiritual head of the family; lead by example and encourage spiritual growth. Be an active and supportive partner in the household chores and childcare responsibilities. Seek resources and tools, such as those provided by Family Life, to strengthen your marriage and family. Chapters 00:00 Introduction 08:01 Chapter 1: Don't Tell Her How to Solve Her Problems 11:29 Chapter 2: Don't Tell Her How to Feel 13:50 Chapter 3: Don't Dismiss Her Hurts 16:44 Chapter 4: Don't Assume She Views Sexual Intimacy the Same Way 18:08 Chapter 5: Don't Think Your Job is Done When You Come Home 22:32 Chapter 6: Don't Ignore Your Responsibility as the Spiritual Head 29:14 Conclusion Family Life article: 6 No-No’s for Relating to Your Woman https://www.familylife.com/articles/topics/marriage/staying-married/husbands/6-nonos-for-relating-to-your-woman/ Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                     Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

Are there some behaviors happening in your relationship that could put you at risk for an affair? In this episode, Brent and Lucy, discuss 7 bad habits that can lead you down the path to adultery.  7 Bad Habits that Can Lead to Adultery Article- XOMarriage https://xomarriage.com/articles/7-bad-habits-that-can-lead-to-adultery/ Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                        Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

Do you take much of what your spouse does for granted or are you appreciative of all you have? In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss behaviors that may be communicating a negative or bad attitude toward your spouse versus having an attitude of gratitude. Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

Why is dating so difficult after marriage? In this episode, Brent & Lucy discuss the pitfalls and hurdles that become excuses for couples not to go on dates after saying "I do", and share a few tips on how to overcome them. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

Is your marriage based on a contract or a covenant?? There has been a huge media buzz about Covenant Marriage in recent days. It all started with the new Speaker of the House, Mike Johnson, and his wife, Kelly Johnson, speaking on having a covenant marriage. In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss what much of this buzz is about, and define the difference between a contract and a covenant marriage. What Is a Covenant Marriage? (New York Times Article) https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/03/style/covenant-marriage-divorce.html What is the difference between a covenant and a contract? https://www.gotquestions.org/difference-covenant-contract.html What is a covenant marriage? https://www.gotquestions.org/covenant-marriage.html Click below for all things Covenant Army!!  https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

To marry or not to marry...that is the question. In this episode, Brent and Lucy have a lively discussion about this generation's perspective on marriage, and 7 reasons why not to get married. Click below for all thigs Covenant Army!! https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent & Lucy discuss how a husband responds in love to his wife even when it goes against popular opinion. Click below for all thigs Covenant Army!! https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss friendships and marriage, and how to identify when friendships cross the line and become a hinderance in marriage. Click below for all thigs Covenant Army!! https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

When it comes to Godly husband leadership, there are many elements that need to be considered. In this episode, Brent & Lucy discuss leadership in the home and how wives may see it playing out effectively. What does leading like Christ really look like? Click below for all thigs Covenant Army!! https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent & Lucy discuss different elements in today's modern culture that weaken & neutralize men's masculinity and diminish their influence in the home & society. Click below for all thigs Covenant Army!! https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the myth that being married is less enjoyable than being single. TMZ Article https://www.tmz.com/2023/09/15/hugh-jackman-wife-deborra-lee-furness-separate-breakup-split/ Institute for Family Studies Article https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-is-happiest-married-mothers-and-fathers-per-the-latest-general-social-survey Click below for all thigs Covenant Army!! https://linktr.ee/ck4life                       Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

In this episode, Brent & Lucy discuss the differences between appreciation and expectation and how each affects relationships. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message

Ever wondered if the devil is real? Have you ever felt you were being attacked from all sides, where it seemed everything and everyone was against you? What if there was something going on beyond what your eyes could see? In this episode, Brent and Lucy discuss the devil and the spiritual war that's going on all around us. Music from #Uppbeat (free for Creators!): https://uppbeat.io/t/mojo/rumble License code: CJFVZPTDYDVIULTQ --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ck4lifemarriageministry/message