Dating Made Simple on The It's Just Dinner Podcast
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Are you exhausted with dysfunctional dating and endless swiping on dating apps? Are you on the verge of giving up on dating altogether? WAIT—don’t do anything drastic! Join hosts, Tom and Bob, as they dive into the challenges plaguing the dating scene—fear of rejection, lack of confidence, loneliness, and plain ol' failure–and then give you tips, ideas, recommendations, and oh-so-much advice that is sure to transform your dating experience. Tune in every week to see how simple dating can be by going out to dinner and having a nice conversation. And remember, it's not a date, It's Just Dinner!
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Get ready for this exciting episode featuring successful dating coach, podcaster, and creator of the groundbreaking online course "Foundations of Modern
Dating," Loni Harmon. Listen as Loni reveals the secrets of how to develop meaningful connections and help you unlock your true dating potential. She also shares how, if you change your approach to dating, you can have more fun, more exciting, and more meaningful dating experiences. With Loni's incredible dating tips and relationship tools, you'll effortlessly navigate the obstacles of your dating life. Don't miss this riveting podcast that will leave you buzzing with excitement and ready to conquer the world of modern dating! Find out more about Loni on her website at https://thedatingcounselor.com/ and be sure to follow her on her Instagram @thedatingcounselor and listen to her podcast, "The Dating Counselor Podcast" on all of the major podcasting sites.
In this episode, we’re back with Special Guest Ali for Part 2 of answering your questions from our Crispy Cones event! We dive into the world of dating, tackling big questions like: Is a movie a good idea for a first date? How long should you wait to date after a breakup? What if your date isn’t funny? Plus, we discuss the best ways to turn someone down and how to handle rejection like a pro. Get ready for laughs, insights, and some brutally honest advice. Don’t miss this fun and candid conversation!#DatingAdvice #FirstDateTips #BreakupRecovery #HandlingRejection #DatingQandA #RelationshipAdvice #DatingFails #DatingTips #DatingEtiquette
Get ready for a wild ride in this episode as we’re joined by our special guest, Ali, who’s reading off questions from fans who pulled up to our live event at Crispy Cones—Provo’s legendary ice cream shop serving European-inspired cones that are as tasty as they are unique. We're answering questions like: “How do I get into dating if I don’t want a boyfriend?”, “What do you guys want instead of flowers?”, and the all-time favorite, “How can I riz up a shawty?” Plus, plenty more laughs, chaos, and hot takes. Trust us—you do not want to miss this one!Check out Crispy Cones at thecrispycones.com and on Instagram @crispycones#CrispyConesEvent #FanQuestions #DatingAdvice #RizzUpAShawty #NoBoyfriendNoProblem #AliOnTheMic #ProvoDating #DatingTips #ProperRizz #PodcastLaughs #EuropeanConeMagic
This week, we hit the jackpot with the incredible Julie Spira—an award-winning dating coach, online dating expert, and internationally bestselling author! If you’re in the dating game (or thinking about jumping in), Julie’s got the insider scoop you NEED—from do’s and don’ts to pro tips that’ll help you swipe smarter. Oh, and did we mention? She loves online dating! Don’t miss this one—it’s packed with advice, laughs, and maybe even a little love magic. Find Julie at cyberdatingexpert.com or follow her on Instagram & TikTok @juliespira! ❤️Hit play now—you’re gonna love this one!#DatingTips #OnlineDating #DatingApps #SwipeRight #DatingCoach #DatingExpert #DatingAdvice #CyberDating #JulieSpira
Kristen Metzger from Latter-Day Matchmaker joins us to share her expertise on the art of matchmaking and dating. With years of experience, she offers practical advice on how to confidently ask someone out, what to wear, where to go, and how to make a great impression. Her insightful tips will help you navigate the dating world with ease, whether you're reentering the scene or simply looking to refine your approach. This engaging and informative episode will leave you feeling prepared, confident, and excited to enjoy meaningful connections and wonderful dinner dates. Don't miss this opportunity to elevate your dating experience!#DatingOver40 #DatingCoach #ConfidentDating #DatingAdvice #LoveAfter40 #ModernRomance #DatingConfidence #FirstDateTips #DatingSuccess #RomanceAtAnyAge
Join us for an engaging discussion on dating etiquette and proper behavior with special guest, etiquette expert Candilyn Newell. Navigating the rules and expectations of dating can be challenging, but Candilyn is here to guide you through it all. She’ll share expert insights on what to say on a date, the proper way to get into a car, how to open doors, where to sit at a restaurant, and even dining etiquette. Plus, she’ll reveal one key piece of advice that can solve all your dating etiquette dilemmas. Tune in and elevate your dating game with confidence and class!#DatingEtiquette #DatingManners #FirstDateTips #EtiquetteExpert #DatingDosAndDonts #DatingTips #DatingCoach #Candilyn Newell #ItsJustDinner
Macie, Amanda, and Jenna spent three months hosting epic group dates to bring people together and make dating fun again! From a Wimbledon-themed pickleball night to a chaotic murder mystery, gingerbread house showdowns, and wholesome apple picking, they created unforgettable memories. But just wait until you hear about the infamous “gaslighting date” (trust us, it’s not what you think!). Tune in as they share the highs, the surprises, and the pure joy of connecting people in creative ways. Whether you're single, dating, or just love a good story, this episode is packed with laughs, heart, and inspiration!#MakingDatingFunAgain #Pickleball #MurderMysteryDate#GingerbreadHouse #Gaslighting #DatingTips #DatingCoach #CreativeDating#Friendship #MakeDatingFun
In this episode, Sam Whitney, author of How to Date Authentically: End the Dating Game and Find Lasting Love, explores the shift from dating to impress to dating for genuine connection. Sam shares insights from his book, highlighting the importance of moving away from the pressure of "getting it right" and instead focusing on being authentically engaged with others. He discusses how authentic dating leads to deeper, more fulfilling connections and how true happiness in relationships comes from being genuinely interested in people rather than playing games. Tune in for a refreshing take on modern dating and love.
Get Sam’s book on Amazon at
https://www.amazon.com/How-Date-Authentically-Dating-Lasting/dp/1940498392
#AuthenticDating #DatingCoach #DatingAdvice #FindLastingLove #GenuineConnection #EndTheDatingGame #RelationshipGoals #DatingAuthentically #TrueConnection
#HealthyRelationships #DatingTips #AuthenticLove #RealRelationships #DatingWithPurpose
In this episode, we’re joined by matchmaker Becca Sargls to
discuss how self-love and acceptance are essential for both feeling and being attractive. Becca shares insights on reframing rejection, celebrating the bravery of dating, and embracing the unique traits that make us who we are. She breaks down how hobbies, habits, and community can transform your confidence and dating life. Becca also challenges the idea of dating as a search for "the one" but instead encourages listeners to view it as a journey of discovery. Plus, she shares why the mindset of “it’s just dinner” can open doors to new connections.
Find Becca on Instagram @datingwithbecca
#SelfLove #DatingConfidence #BeccaSargla #DatingAdvice #ReframeRejection #JustDinnerMindset #FallInLoveWithYourself #HealthyHabits #BuildYourCommunity #AttractionStartsWithin#DatingAdvice #DatingTips #DatingCoach
In this episode, matchmaker and award-winning TV host Michelle G. joins us to discuss the concept of “cuffing season.” This time of year, between fall and spring, often leads us to seek out a partner to hold hands or snuggle up with. But before jumping into a relationship, Michelle reminds us to pay attention to red flags and ask important questions, like "Is this person present?" and "What do they bring out in me?" She also shares the top dating trends for 2025, including slow dating, avoiding premature intimacy, and why men are seeking more dating advice.
Find Michelle G at discoverincrediblelove.com or on Instagram @lovebymichelleg
#CuffingSeason #DatingAdvice #MichelleG #SlowDating #RedFlags #ModernDating #DatingTrends2025#RelationshipTips #DatingCoach #DatingTips#MeaningfulConnections #MatchmakerAdvice
"Your dating profile is your first impression—make it count! In this episode, we dive into crafting a standout profile that truly reflects who you are. Learn tips for great photos, engaging bios, and showcasing your personality to attract meaningful connections. Love starts with a swipe—let’s make it unforgettable!"
One of our all-time favorite guests, Rita Goodroe, shared some of the most amazing dating insights that we've had on our show, so we just had to play this episode again! We quote her and talk about her experiences all the time, so I promise you’ll love this episode.
Rita is a business manager, motivational speaker, and dating expert who talks about her unique “35 dates in 35 days” experience, where she blogged about everything she learned about herself, dating, and her life. Filled with wisdom, practical tips, and real talk, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the dating scene. For more, visit RitaMadeMeDoIt.com.
#DatingTips #DatingAdvice #DatingCoach #OnlineDating
#DatingApps #Dating #RitaGoodroe #RitaMadeMeDoIt #BestDatinAdvice
In this episode, fitness expert Andrea Allen shares her inspiring journey from depression to empowerment. What began as a simple walk evolved into a life-changing fitness journey, a degree in health, and a thriving business. Andrea firmly believes that physical activity isn’t just about looking good; it’s a mental boost that can help you improve yourself mentally, physically, and spiritually, and it can also help you build self-confidence. She emphasizes the importance of self-care as a foundation for genuinely serving and loving others. Andrea also advises listeners to approach social media cautiously, as it often showcases only highlights. Her ultimate message: be happy with who you are. Find out all about Andrea at deliciouslyfitnhealthy.com/links
In the Season 5 premiere, Tom and Bob reflect on some of
Season 4’s standout moments, including their insightful conversation with Utah Governor Spencer Cox and First Lady Abby Cox. The couple shares their love story while shedding light on the loneliness epidemic and its alarming health risks. Tom and Bob also dive into the origin story of their podcast, explaining their mission to inspire listeners each week with compelling stories, valuable tips, and engaging guests to get out of their apartments and ask someone to dinner. And never fear; they will always have episodes of the fans' favorite—"Bad Date Stories."
#datingtips #datingadvice #datingcoach #firstdates #dating #baddatestories #govenor #firstlady #spencercox #abbycox #itsjustdinner
In this episode, we explore the topic of passionate love versus compassionate love with the help of our guest Salem Valiuis. When people only believe love to be passionate they tend to "fall out of love" when the passion fades. Salem argues that compassionate love, which involves mutual care, understanding, and respect, is the key to a lasting, healthy relationship. If you're curious about the different types of love and how to cultivate a deeper, more meaningful connection with your partner, tune in to this episode for an insightful conversation with Salem Valiuis.
One of our all-time favorite guests, Rita Goodroe, shared some of the most amazing insights on dating that we've had on our show, and we just had to play this episode again! We quote her and talk about her experiences all the time, so I promise you’re going to love this episode.
Rita is a business manager, motivational speaker, and dating expert who talks about her unique “35 dates in 35 days” experience, where she blogged about everything she learned about herself, dating, and her life. Filled with wisdom, practical tips, and real talk, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating the dating scene. For more, visit
RitaMadeMeDoIt.com.
#DatingTips #DatingAdvice #DatingCoach #OnlineDating #DatingApps #Dating #RitaGoodroe #RitaMadeMeDoIt #BestDatinAdvice
Join successful Instagram creator Kade Peterson and his best friend Lewis Johnson in this exciting episode as they dive into the importance of stepping out of your comfort zone. They candidly discuss embracing life’s challenges, tackling rejection, and finding humor and joy in dating. Kade offers a sneak peek into his 7 Tips for Wellness, sharing strategies to boost your mental and physical health. Whether you’re looking for inspiration or just a good laugh, this episode is packed with the realness you need to take chances and enjoy every moment! Follow Kade on Instagram @Kade_Peterson
#kadepeterson #datingtips #datingadvice #fundates
#firstdates #selfconfidence #confidence #beyourself #dinnerdates #hangingout
In this hilarious episode, Tom and Macie hang out with Blain Fowler, ESPN and NBC sports analyst and the face of BYU sports. Blain had us in stitches as we tackled the wild world of dating. From being friends with the people you date to finding the guts to ask someone out and surviving epic rejections—we cover it all. And get this: Blain’s wife dumped him in college! He’s got the ultimate comeback story. Join us for laughs, awkward moments, and Blain’s priceless tips on turning those dating fumbles into touchdowns.
#DatingTips #DatingAdvice #SportsAndDating #DatingFails #DatingConfidence #SelfConfidence #RejectionStories #CollegeDating #BlainFowler #BYU #BYUSports
In this episode, we hang out with Utah's Governor Spencer
Cox and First Lady Abby Cox. They kick things off by sharing their dating and courtship story and then shift to more serious topics, like the loneliness epidemic and the health risks associated with being alone. They discuss the effects that phones and social media have on human interaction, emphasizing the importance of getting out and connecting with people. They stress that true happiness comes from having positive relationships. And, in a thrilling endorsement – yes, you read that right, they express their support for this podcast! Tune in for an insightful discussion, and practical advice on building meaningful connections.
#DatingTips #DatingAdvice #DatingCoach #LonelinessEpidemic #PositiveRelationships #RealConnections #SocialMediaImpact #HealthyRelationships #GovernorSpencer Cox #FirstLadyAbbyCox
In this episode, we have a candid conversation with two
college gymnasts, Sophia and Alilah, who share their personal experiences in the modern dating culture. They shed light on how high expectations often overshadow genuine connections. Then we discuss the article “17 Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore According to Therapists,” like love bombing, labeling all exes as 'crazy,' misrepresenting yourself in your dating profiles, and when your friends don’t want to hang out with your partner. So, listen in as we share our personal anecdotes, expert advice, and practical tips to navigate today's dating scene while maintaining healthy, authentic relationships.
#DatingCulture #DatingRedFlags #LoveBombing #CrazyExes #DatingProfiles #ModernDating #RelationshipAdvice #DatingAdvice #DatingTips #HealthyRelationships #DatingDrama
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