DILF (Dad I'd Like To Friend)

Kevin welcomes new dad and California Congressman Jimmy Gomez to address some common misconceptions surrounding new parents, and how Jimmy balances his busy career with his new role as a parent to his son Hodge. They also discuss ways to build  an equitable relationship with your parenting partner, the critical importance of embracing active fatherhood, and the fight for paid parental leave for both moms and dads...// LINKS:/ To sign the Petition for PAID LEAVE FOR ALL - CLICK HERE!/ More on Congressman Jimmy Gomez - https://gomez.house.gov/ New York Times Article on Fathers and Paid Leave - https://nytimes.com/2021/11/08/opinion/paid-family-leave-fathers.html / For questions, comments, or to learn more, visit our website –> DadIdLikeToFriend.com // Episode PARTNERS:/ PAID LEAVE FOR ALL is the national campaign of organizations leading the fight for paid family and medical leave for all working people. They represent dozens of organizations and millions of dads you'd like to friend, plus parents, caregivers, survivors, small businesses, and advocates. They launched an irreverent public awareness campaign (Get Your Sh*t Together, Baby) and now a new petition in partnership with Glamour, go to PaidLeaveForAll.org to sign // If you were a fan of this episode or this podcast in general, please  consider writing a review: https://ratethispodcast.com/dilf  ...and help us to reach more like-minded parents in need of support!

It's time to fight outdated stereotypes. It's time for parenting culture to invite dads into the conversation... cuz we're already here... and we're not going anywhere.If you agree, check out our latest blog post HERE...// If you're a fan of the podcast, please consider writing a review and helping to spread the word: https://ratethispodcast.com/dilf/ To learn more or submit questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> https://DadIdLikeToFriend.com

In DILF's Season Two Finale, we explore a short list of actions that we can take as parents in order to attempt to access more joy in our lives...// LINKS: / If you have suggestions that you feel are missing from the list, we'd love to hear from you... join us at –> https://Instagram.com/DILFpodcast  / If you were a fan of this episode or this podcast in general, please  consider helping us to spread the word by sharing it or writing a review: https://ratethispodcast.com/dilf  *Episode Art Photo by  Zsuzsi Steiner 

It’s no secret that the world treats men and women very differently… and the same goes for moms and dads; however, truly comprehending what it’s like for the opposite sex is no easy task. Kevin welcomes Nick North, a trans man with the rare experience of living life as both dad and mom. After giving birth to four children, Nick decided that he was tired of living a lie and began his journey transitioning to Dad. His journey is not only fascinating but an eye-opening lesson in the realities of gender bias that most of us face on a daily basis. So much more than a trans story, this is Nick North's tale of bravery — an eye-opening interview that proves that the formula for being an amazing parent is simply living your truth while continuing to show up each and every day... with love.  // LINKS:/ If you know someone who might be struggling with their gender identity - https://wethenorths.com/journal/signs-kid-struggling-with-gender-identity / DILF's Empowerment episode - https://pod.fo/e/f4e64 / THE POWER by Naomi Alderman - https://amzn.to/3IV99Ve // For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> https://Instagram.com/DILFpodcast / / If you were a fan of this episode or this podcast in general, please  consider writing a review: https://ratethispodcast.com/dilf  ...and help us to reach more like-minded parents in need of support! 

Kevin welcomes constant innovator and co-creator of Exploding Kittens, Elan Lee, for a candid conversation on everything from the benefits of creating resource limitations for our children and the importance of charting our own path -- both in life and parenthood… to maintaining a sense of balance with all life throws at us while remaining an actively involved parent and partner. // LINKS:  Elan's talk at EG 10 / Aqua Notes/ For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> https://Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

In this week's DILF Quick Hit, we explore something that happens in homes far too often… and may be one of the biggest ways one can handicap their partner — even with the best of intentions…/ To read the Huffpo article referenced in this episode: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/key-to-success_b_8108014// If you were a fan of this episode or this podcast in general, please consider writing a review: https://ratethispodcast.com/dilf/ For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> https://Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

Have you ever taken on too much without asking for any help and then felt over-burdened? If so, you are not alone. It seems to be a far too common occurrence in many co-parenting relationships. In the latest installment of DILF's CoParenting Series, Kevin welcomes back his partner/co-parent to discuss everything from struggles with martyrdom to the importance of empowering our partners and kids for their own well-being... and our own!// To hear past episodes of DILF’s Co-Parenting Series:s1, ep3: ACKNOWLEDGMENT - https://pod.fo/e/2f5c5s1, ep7: CONNECTION - https://pod.fo/e/20a2as1, ep15: BOUNDARIES - https://pod.fo/e/27fb1s2, ep5: REBUILDING CONNECTIONS - https://pod.fo/e/d6ccb// For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

 In this DILF Quick Hit, Kevin once again digs a bit deeper into a moment from our last episode to explore the obstacles to accessing more joy in our lives. // For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

In today's episode, Kevin welcomes Ari Bloom, Founder and CEO of A-Frame Brands, the company behind Kinlo (Naomi Osaka's new suncare brand), and Proudly (a baby care line for children of color by Dwyane Wade and Gabrielle Union). Ari is also the co-founder of Wise Sons Delicatessen, (and who doesn't love a good deli?!) — so how does this versatile entrepreneur somehow still find the time to make his family a priority? The answer may surprise you...// For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

A hobby is defined as an activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure. However, as a parent, few of us are able to find the time (let alone the energy) for such "selfish" endeavors. But what's selfish about finding a moment for yourself from time to time? What if a task as easy as starting a list of potential hobbies to pursue was the answer to opening your world to more joy, more energy, and more possibilities...// For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

Once known as "the scary dad" in his daughter's pre-school class, top Hollywood screenwriter Dave Callaham (Marvel's groundbreaking Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings) joins Kevin for an intimate discussion on how looks can be deceiving, the ups and downs of his career, how to overcome past trauma to build a brighter future and the importance of being transparent with your feelings — no matter how awkward and scary that may be....// To see this episode's #ContestGiveaway winners, visit: https://www.instagram.com/p/CTkZQHHF6KP// For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

Rejection from a loved one is hard — no matter who the rejection is coming from. In this DILF Quick Hit, Kevin breaks down a recent experience he had with his son and a potential strategy to flip the script.// For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast 

In today's episode, Kevin welcomes Abner Ramirez who with his wife, Amanda Sudano, make up the popular musical duo, Johnnyswim. They also recently became stars of TWO shows on Chip + Joanna Gaines' newly launched Magnolia Network: HOME ON THE ROAD (centered around their life while performing around the world with their three kids in tow) + THE JOHNNYSWIM SHOW (detailing what life is like for a family that has become land-locked after years of adventures traveling the world)... // To learn more about Johnnyswim -> Site :: IG :: Spotify// For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast   

We don't often hear about parenting from the perspective of a dad. And all of those outdated stereotypes and internet memes only work to divide moms and dads, when in reality, we all have a lot more in common than the world often presents. In this DILF REPLAY, we revisit where it all began with an episode celebrating ALL that unites us as parents... if we allow ourselves a moment to see things from a fresh perspective. // For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

Have you ever felt disconnected  from your spouse? Your children? Yourself? True, we may have all been locked up together for over a year, but many of us stopped truly connecting long before there were ever lockdown orders. In this episode, Kevin invites on his wife and co-parent to explore  methods to assist in reconnecting with those who matter most.// To hear past episodes of DILF’s Co-Parenting Series:Ep3: ACKNOWLEDGMENT - https://pod.fo/e/2f5c5Ep7: CONNECTION - https://pod.fo/e/20a2aEp15: BOUNDARIES - https://pod.fo/e/27fb1// DILF Product Referral: if you're open to a phone-cleanse but are concerned about others reaching you in an emergency, check out: OOMA  - its a simple phone system that sets up landline by hooking into your existing interenet connection!// For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast

In celebration of Father's Day, Kevin welcomes a man who epitomizes what this podcast is all about - accessible, vulnerable yet knows how to have some fun, plus a dedicated partner and parent who makes an effort to always put his family first — truly a dad ANY parent would want to… friend. As the force behind viral sensation "Dude Dad," Taylor Calmus makes parents laugh, while showing us how to find the joy in everyday parenthood.// Check out Taylor's new show, SUPER DAD, on the Discovery+ App, as well as the newly launched Magnolia Network //For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast  

Sometimes there are those around us who present as the most positive people in the room, but behind closed doors, it’s a whole different story. Kevin welcomes performer and martial artist, Jaylen Moore for an intimate discussion on modern masculinity,  allowing ourselves to be vulnerable in front of our children, coping with depression as a parent, and moving through grief in order to thrive.Everyone faces challenges in life that can impact their mental health. If you are  feeling like something isn’t quite right, consider taking a mental health screen at www.MHAscreening.org - it’s free, anonymous, and confidential. Once you have your results, MHA (Mental Health America) will provide you with additional information + resources to help you on your journey. And remember, one step at a time... //  For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join the conversation at –> www.Instagram.com/DILFpodcast  //-----*This podcast is independently financed and offers it's content ad-free. Because of fans like you sharing this content, we are proud to announce that we just hit #12 on Feedspot's Top Parenting Podcasts Worldwide! We thank you for your support...

Kevin welcomes Glen Henry (the dad behind Beleaf in Fatherhood & star of Apple TV+’s Dads alongside Will Smith and Neil Patrick Harris) for a vulnerably honest conversation debunking outdated family ideals like "Happy Wife, Happy Life" or "men don't have feelings;" while  exploring how to move forward  when you are simply... all tapped out. //  To learn more about Glen ->  Youtube / IG  / People // For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join the conversation at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast  

Season 2 (launching in line with the start of Mental Health Awareness Month) delves even deeper with a genuine dialogue about the true realities parents face in today’s hectic world with the goal of eliminating much of the stigma and shame surrounding common mental health issues like anxiety and depression that affect parents around the globe.//  For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, join the conversation at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast  //

DAD I’D LIKE TO FRIEND (aka: The DILF Podcast) first gained attention for being a vulnerably honest parenting podcast from the often underestimated perspective of a father. Featured by People Magazine, Season 1 ranked in the top 2% of podcasts worldwide – breaking onto Apple’s Top 50 Parenting Podcast charts in the US, Canada, Australia, Spain, Israel, New Zealand, Mexico, Germany, Denmark, France, and the UK. Departing from the saturated advice-on-child-rearing model, the celebrated podcast has been hailed as a rare forum that speaks inclusively to both dads and moms, providing community for any parent seeking support and camaraderie. Season 2 (launching in line with the start of Mental Health Awareness Month) delves even deeper with a genuine dialogue about the true realities parents face in today’s hectic world. Through these discussions, DILF creator / host Kevin Seldon hopes to eliminate much of the stigma and shame surrounding common mental health issues like anxiety and depression that affect parents around the globe.//  For questions, comments, or future topic suggestions, find us at –> Instagram.com/DILFpodcast  //