Being A Dad...On Purpose

Just saying hello again. It's been awhile and I want to remind you why I have this podcast and what it's about. I hope to have you continue on the journey with me. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

In this episode, Bobby talks about the value of Valentine’s Day. How do we use this opportunity to demonstrate to our kids the value of loving each other and being loved. Grab some chocolates and enjoy the episode. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

In this episode, I have a discussion with Josh Bomba, an independent health coach through OPTIVIA. He shares insight into how we, as dads, can pursue healthier habits and life choices. You can connect with Josh for more information about his program on Facebook or text him personally (909) 461-0477. From my experience, he actually answers the call. Enjoy the episode! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

This is technically a first episode, but it’s not. Our actual first episode will come out at the end of the month. Share away and get people involved in the conversation. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

In this episode I cover what to do when you find out your partner is pregnant. I share some thoughts on how to talk to them, how to help, and how to be supportive. This book, DUDE! You're Gonna Be A Dad! helped me prepare and gave some laughs along the way. Enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

Brandon Jones, the founder of Be Dadly, discovered that his oldest son was struggling with severe behavioral issues that led to his expulsion from kindergarten. After numerous attempts, Brandon realized that his inherited parenting techniques were ineffective and decided to make drastic changes. His new approach yielded better results, and he's now dedicated to helping fathers improve their children's behavior without resorting to yelling, spanking, or anger. Over the last decade, Brandon has studied and implemented the most effective parenting techniques, and he has become a Certified Parent Educator. In this interview, we will discuss the crucial adjustments that Brandon made to assist his misbehaving child, as well as the techniques he teaches to his clients. Connect with Brandon here Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brandonrayjones/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tantraveler Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0YM804Xl92Kn7l41QgV0yT --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

The 5 Love Languages have been used by couples for many years to help with communication and keeping their relationship on solid ground. The reality is, our children have love languages, too. They need us to be aware of what they are and how to respond to them appropriately. In this episode the love languages are covered and what they look like when implemented with our children. Find out more about the 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman and the quiz here. Purchase The 5 Love Languages of Children here. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

This episode is a quick conversation on anger management and how to handle it. This is not a focus on discipline, but reacting with anger. Some people may think spanking is a good form of discipline, some people don't. That is up to each and every parent's own discretion. This is about hitting with anger. Some tips are shared, some thoughts on counseling, and some important steps to take when you are feeling angry with your kids or partner.  There might be some thoughts you don't agree with, and that's okay. Feel free to reach out to discuss: beingadadonpurpose@gmail.com .  For counseling services: Better Help is a great place to start. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

We need to create boundaries for our children. In this episode we talk about why it’s important and what they can look like. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

Take some time this New Year to make some new memories. Not all memories have to be expensive or grand. Board game nights, hiking trips, reading special stories, blanket forts, and much more can be great memories that last forever! Remember, It's not about being the best dad in the world, but being the best dad for our kids right now! Board Game Ideas: Ticket to Ride First Journey Ticket to Ride  Taco vs. Burrito Book Ideas: Book with No Pictures Gregory's Big Move (Yes, this is my book...shameless plug) Lord of the Rings Box Set --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

Twitch is gone. A dad who ended his life too soon. Please seek help if you need it. Email me. Call me. Don’t let go too soon. If you need help call or text 988 on your cell. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

In this episode I speak with Josh Chiado, band director from Grafton, WV and Dan Luigs, host of Journey of a Christian Dad Podcast. We discuss their stories of miscarriage and how they coped with grief with their wives. They are hard stories, but necessary for us to hear as we work through the trial of losing a baby. Grief isn't spoken of enough for men. We need to be able to share our pain and work through it with each other. Being a healthy dad means being emotionally healthy as well. Work through grief.  If you need to talk, reach out to me  Bobby@beingadadonpurpose.com Dan Luigs at the link above. Intro and Outro Music by iEarnFist Music support his music --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

Do you ever give your kids a task to do, but it seems like it takes forever for them to get it done? Or maybe it seems like they can only focus for a short period of time? On this episode, Bobby give some thoughts on the value of explaining your tasks and give the kids an opportunity to understand the "why" behind the request. Questions or topic requests: bobby@beingadadonpurpose.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

This episode I have a conversation with Adam Cheeseman, Superintendent for Doddridge County schools in West Virginia. We discuss trends in causes fro gun violence in schools, how school systems are addressing the issue, and how parents can be more supportive of our school staff. It does take a village and teachers are a part of that village. We need to care for everyone involved in the process of caring for our children.  Join our facebook group here Buy my book and comedy swag here: https://bobbybcomedy.square.site/ My comedy site, if you're interested: bobbybcomedy.com Follow me on tiktok: bobbybcomedy --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

Quality character is essential when it comes to raising our children. We want our kids to grow up carrying our character not defending it. How are we treating others? How are we handling stress? How are we being honest? How are we treating the other parent? There's so much to consider, but if we are wise and work at it, we will have a character that our kids will carry at the end and they don't have to defend it. If you like what you're hearing, subscribe/like/share on social media. It will help get the word out as I continue to develop new episodes. If there's a topic you would like to hear about or listen to me to discuss, email me at beingadadonpurpose@gmail.com Music: iEARN Fist (he's my cousin. Support his music) My Children's Book: Gregory's Big Move --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

This was an interview recorded on June 2nd. There has been some delays in getting this episode uploaded. It is still relevant and necessary. Gun violence is a major issue facing America. Our kids are learning how to hide from active shooters in schools, kids in the inner city are walking on different sides of the street to avoid altercations, and much more. Our children are victims even if they aren't near the shooter. They wonder if their school is next, their friend is next, or their family is next. It's traumatizing and unfair. So, how do we as parents address it? How do we bring comfort? How do we help them understand their value and the value they bring to others?  In this conversation, I am joined by Ray Nelson, Director of Outreach and Soul Care at The House D.C. in Washington, D.C.  This is a hard conversation, but necessary. I hope you can engage and listen to what is said. This is not political. This is just a focus on how to address the issue with our children and how to be a safe space.  MUSIC by iEarn FIST. Support indie music and check out his album.  Link to articles shared in the episode: Gun Violence Archive --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

In this current economic climate we want to be sure we are making wise decisions with our finances, especially when it comes to saving for our kid's education. Jim Uren, Financial Advisor for Phase 3 Advisory Services and Royal Alliance Services joins me to answer some questions about saving and specific funds to consider. Intro music by: IEarn Fist Check out his music and shoot some support his way! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

The tragedy in Uvalde,Texas is weighing heavy on this nation. It’s weighing heavy on my mind and heart. We cannot stay silent and sit back while things like this occur. As parents, dads, we have a responsibility to care for our kids. Those children were our children. My heart goes out to the families who will be looking at toys in the yard this Memorial Day weekend and not celebrating the way many other families will be. It’s hard and heavy. More conversations are coming. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

On this episode I have a great discussion with Alan Smyth, Co-Author of Men! Fight For Me The Role of Authentic Masculinity in Ending Sexual Exploitation and Trafficking. We speak on the importance of standing up and fighting for those who need our voices. Dads have a role to play in speaking and standing up.  Alan shares the 4 pillars of "authentic" manhood: ○ Accepts responsibility; ○ Leads courageously; ○ Lives a life of service; ○ Understands who he is is more important than what he does. You can visit: fightforme.net and/or www.savinginnocence.org for more information. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support

It is so good to be back! I am finally back into the rhythm of life!  In this episode I am talking about maintaining a healthy rhythm, and regaining a rhythm.  If you like what you hear, rate and subscribe! Leave a comment. I would love to connect! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/beingadadonpurpose/support