Having It A.L.L.

Are your relationship beliefs actually creating the connection you want—or quietly sabotaging it? In this honest conversation, Sarah and I unpack the subtle, sneaky beliefs that shape how we show up in love—and often lead to frustration, resentment, and emotional burnout. These are the misconceptions we bought into for years, that quietly crept into our marriage, and that we had to challenge in order to grow individually and as a couple. From the myth that your partner should “complete you,” to the belief that love means putting yourself last, we get into the raw truths behind what actually works in a healthy, passionate, and sustainable relationship. Whether you’re single, married, dating, or somewhere in between, this episode will help you check the beliefs you're bringing into your relationships—and give you permission to create something far more real, powerful, and aligned. GET IN TOUCH WITH MATTHEW [email protected]

What will you regret when your time is up? In this confronting and thought-provoking episode, I explore the five most common regrets people share as they approach the end of their lives—insights captured by palliative care nurse Bronnie Ware after years of supporting individuals in their final days. These reflections aren’t hypothetical or abstract. They are raw truths gathered from real people who were able to reflect on their lives with total clarity. And what they revealed is both sobering and inspiring: most of us are not living in alignment with what truly matters. If you've ever felt like you're drifting through life, holding back from expressing your authentic self, or putting off joy and connection for “someday,” this conversation offers a powerful opportunity to reflect and recalibrate. It’s a reminder that we each have a choice—every single day—to live fully, love boldly, and honor the deepest parts of ourselves. Let this be the moment that wakes you up to what’s possible, before it's too late. Links from the episode: Bronnie's original blog article "Regrets of the Dying" - https://bronnieware.com/blog/regrets-of-the-dying/ GET IN TOUCH WITH MATTHEW [email protected]

How healthy would you say your attachment is with your partner? In today's episode I share an email from a listener who opens up on her relationship attachment. I appreciate her vulnerability and courage in this one because it gives us all a chance to heal and grow. STRUGGLING WITH CONSISTENCY?  Download the free "trust account" app from the YourDay Balance Game, and start building trust with YOURSELF today!  Android: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.balancegame.ydbg iPhone: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/ydbg-watch-play-discover/id1489276659 WANT TO FEEL MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE? Get the "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint", my self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life! https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint GET IN TOUCH WITH MATTHEW [email protected]

How stressed out do you feel right now? Have you dealt with stress earlier today or this week? We all experience stress, it's part of life. But not everybody relates to stress in the same way. You have your own go-to methods for dealing with your stress, and some are more effective than others. Years ago it became a personal mission of mine to get on top of my stress and anxiety, and learn how to deal with it in more healthy ways. Drinking, smoking and pornography were not leading me down the path I wanted, and so I sought out other means of relating to the circumstances in my life. In today's episode I'm sharing with you a massive breakthrough I had that led to me looking at stress in a whole new way. The "7 minutes" breakthrough as I like to call it, has helped me get back into my center when life's stressors have knocked me out of alignment. I'm sharing this with you today with the goal of inspiring you to take a harder look at your triggers and the things that stress you out in life, and to seek out true healing so you can experience the joy you truly desire. Resources from this episode: ⁠Compassionate Inquiry: Diffuse Your Emotional Triggers with Dr. Gabor Mate⁠ ⁠Chronic Stress Puts Your Health At Risk⁠ ⁠Sympathetic vs. Parasympathetic State: How Stress Affects Your Health⁠ Other Having It A.L.L. episodes about stress with action items and takeaways: ⁠How To Coach Yourself Through The Chronic Stresses Of Everyday Life⁠ ⁠A Powerful Method For Changing Your Relationship Towards Stress - How To Learn To Love Stress Through Exercise⁠ ⁠The STOP Method For De-Stressing and Reclaiming Balance In 30 Seconds⁠ ⁠Learn How To Master Your Stress (Instead Of Running From It) So That You Can Be Calm In The Face Of Fire⁠ ⁠A 15 Minute Meditation For Easing Stress, Fear and Anxiety (from Katie Krimitsos of the Women's Meditation Network Podcast)⁠ ⁠The Balance Experts Have Spoken! 10 Expert Tips On Living A Life Of Balance (Plus 15 More You're Really Going To Want To Use In Your Life)⁠ ⁠3 Underlying Reasons Why You Don't Have Balance (And What To Do About Them) DO YOU DESIRE MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE IN YOUR LIFE? The "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint" is a self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life! ⁠https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint⁠ GET IN TOUCH WITH MATTHEW ⁠[email protected]⁠

What does it mean to heal your inner child? The process of growing up into adulthood is filled with many impactful events, some empowering and others not. As children, we are experience life with little to no filter, leaving us open to experience hurts, fears, angers and traumas with an extreme level of intensity and realness. Those "wounds", when not addressed properly, carry into our adulthood and have a profound influence over our lives. In today's episode I'm sharing with you a recent experience where I had the opportunity to look at, talk with and heal my wounded inner child. DO YOU DESIRE MORE CLARITY, CONFIDENCE AND PURPOSE IN YOUR LIFE? The "Having It A.L.L. Blueprint" is a self-paced online program for designing and living your greatest life! https://hia.ck.page/products/blueprint GET IN TOUCH WITH MATTHEW [email protected]