The Hard Or Soft Show

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLLWelcome back Yall! This week Courtney and Loon take on exotic male dancer Messiah as they discuss his intro to exotic dancing, the stigma that comes with it (Good and Bad), sexual comfortablity in relationships, the importance of consent, navigating consent within your relationship and confirming/dispelling the myths of exotic dancing. ENJOY!!!If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.SocialsMessiah@MessiahNYC on InstagramTahoe@Tahoe_TV on Instagram, TikTok, Threads and IGCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Drive BoostGo to VB.Health now and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or Click Here GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!Welcome back guys! Tahoe rejoins the cast as we welcome @YourExGirlfriendTara to talk an interesting threesome Tahoe wants to recreate at The Nut Gala except for the fact that he is practicing Ramadan and cannot masturbate OR Have relations with his fiance. Yesssterday throws him under the bus as he calls out Tahoe for being a Gooner, Tara speaks on her experience as a Sex Ed coach, and Tahoe asks what makes a person good at secks. Courtney tells us about her Valentines day as Tahoe gets offended that she didnt take his advice on what to do for her new boo and then asks Chat Gpt an interesting question...ENJOY!!If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.SocialsTara@YourExGirlfriendTara on InstagramAlso head to www.loveandlust.co & check out their website.Tahoe@Tahoe_TV on Instagram, TikTok, Threads and IGCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week Courtney, Loon and Yesssterday talk being a Gooner, whats in their goon cave, Kinks with the intent on not finishing, how certain kinks reflect where we are with relationships ad social media, and Valentines day plans!! We also get a call from Anisha of Bedroom Kandi who talks about their social affair that Tahoe is hosting in Atlanta on March 31st!! ENJOY!!!If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.SocialsAnisha@PartiesByAnisha on instagramRSVP for the Bedroom Kandi 2026 social affair HERECourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Soaking WetVisit SoakingWet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click HereGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!This week Courtney, Loon and Yesssterday take the stage as they talk low libidos in relationships, whats a healthy amount of knocking boots one should be doing weekly, micro cheating, Old school vs New School corn and Courtney introduces a new segment called the Hard Question Jar...ENJOY!!!If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.SocialsCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LOADBOOSTVisit Loadboost.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click HereGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!This week the crew open up about there love for the boob but Tahoe asks..what do t*tties really do anyway, then we read a few fantasies that people submitted for the March 7th play party, we ask what are some pre-secks things that we do to make the evening super sensual, how to treat the third so they dont feel used, and MORE! Enjoy!f you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.SocialsCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:Drive BoostVisit vb.health and use code HardOrSoft for 10% off or click HEREGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CALLLLLLL!!!!!This week the crew is back and the vibes are here as we talk Tahoe cuffing women that arent his, your mutual friends not telling you that they are dating, ppl not realizing the harsh realities of poly relationships until they are in one, what men really mean when they say "lets just see where it goes", Courtneys newest entry into her p*ssy chronicles, where do men learn how to have good male hygiene and MORE! Such a great episode! ENJOY!If you are coming to the Nut Gala, please send your emails to HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if you have already been vetted requesting the ticket link or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com and fill out the vetting form.If You are waiting for the ticket link please search your email for a response from HardorSoftEvents@gmail.com as it may be in your spam or reach out to us on Instagram or by email for help.SocialsCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:SoakingWetMake every encounter slipperier, sexier, and downright sensational. It’s time to get Soaking Wet and keep those good times coming...literally. And the best part? Soaking Wet is formulated by medical doctors at VB Health. Visit soakingwet.com and use code HARDORSOFT for 10% off or click HEREGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut NAvy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLL!!!!In this special crossover episode of Business of Pleasure x The Hard or Soft Show, Tahoe is joined by Kasha Vanessa and the incomparable Kandi Burruss for a real, funny, and affirming conversation about transitioning from marital life into single womanhood, reclaiming self-love, and using pleasure as both confidence and care. We get into setting intentions for the year ahead and saying yes to ourselves, our pleasure, and our evolution.Kandi opens up about the whether she is ready or thinking about dating in today’s wild outside world, we talk people trying to spin the block, and the importance of true alignment in relationships, friendships, and energy as she steps into this next season with intention.We get into all the fun, toys that get you through transitions, riding it right, confidence in your body, and how pleasure plays a role in healing and empowerment. The conversation expands into the Hard or Soft framework, sharing our Hard/Wet, what turns us on, and our Soft/Dry, what turns us off, along with an honest discussion about ethical non-monogamy versus polyamory. This episode is grown, candid, and exactly the reminder you need to step boldly into your Year of YES. ENJOY!!!Also tune into Tahoe and Kashas new show Unconsciously Competent on all streaming episodes NOW!! or just click here To Go to the Play Party head to HardOrSoftEvents if youve been vetted already or go to TheHardOrSoftShow.com to fill out the vetting formSocialsKandi@Kandi on InstagramKasha@Au_Natural38 on Instagram and TwitterShop Bedroom Kandi products at @BedroomKandi on Instagram or click the link in the bioTune into the @BusinessOfPleasure podcast weekly on Youtube!Tahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!Its 2026 and we are BACK with a hilarious episode to start the new year! ENY Scoot sits with us to talk having bad secks with a good partner, is there such a thing as pulling toys out too early in dating, the idea that ppl look for reasons to not cheat more than they look for reasons to cheat, why men dont just tell the truth, a young man writes us a letter asking for help, and whats something you learned about secks the hard way that you wish you wouldve learned sooner?SocialsCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com or click here and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost products GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week the crew are back to talk.. not gon lie yall I have to be up for work in 3 hours..I'll fill out the description later ..but this episode was GOOD!! ENJOY!

Welcome back to Part Two!Madame Se continues with the mommy wound conversation, being the problem in her previous marraige, having postpartum depression after her pregnancies and feeling like she wouldnt be a good mother for her children, survivng her own depression and attempts to self harm, how to support people who suffer from depression, why Aysha says a woman should leave a guy who is not treating her right two weeks after his mom passes, and if she will ever be 'Ok"...ENJOY!Socials:Madame Sé@MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on InstagramBook Her at AyshaCoachBellamy.comTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week Tahoe sits with Coach Bellamy aka Madame Sé aka The Kinky Oracle to talk her new show on the Hard Or Soft network RAW, starting her show Temple of Euphoria after being secksually assaulted at a play party, which of her kinks are attached to her trauma, graduating therapy, Tahoes fear of therapy, how she deals with being diagnosed with epilepsy, what she loves about the Hard Or Soft Show, wanting to be a Dominatrix, why she tends to sympathize with the male experience, Mommy wounds and so much more! Tune into our patreon to hear the full episode ad free or tune in this friday for Part Two! oh and ENJOY!!Socials:Madame Sé@MrsBellamy.CallMeCoach on InstagramBook Her at AyshaCoachBellamy.comTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLL!!!!Welcome back guys! The crew starts the show asking if they think they are "nice" people, sucking d*ck for 100 million, Freddy from the Southern Pleasure Expo calls in to tell us about it, a poly woman talks about the difficulties dating monogamous people, Tahoe calls a friend to confess something about the past, a woman says to keep the big d*cks away from her, 5 issues men with big d*cks have to deal with and MORE! ENJOY!!Come out to Dallas, TX to the Southern Pleasure Expo Dec 12th-14th! Get Tickets Here!SocialsCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost productsGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!Alexis Jade (@JupiterGrl_) is back to talk Christmas and liking experiences vs receiving gifts, having a child and dating, being single and ready to mingle (kinda), and she teaches Tahoe about the rest of the chakras and what they mean to the body and mind. We ask what exactly is a hoodoo baddie and then we get secksy as she talks about the things that make her hard and the things that make her soft. ENJOY!Socials:Alexis@OfficialAlexisJade on Instagram@Jupitergrl_ on Twitter@DiaryofAlexisJade222 on TiktokTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLL CAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!This week Tahoe gives the crew a week off for the holidays as he speaks with spiritual advisor Alexis Jade about the benefits of tantric secks and even if it could be harmful to do it. Pisces being psychics and people who protect their energy from being stolen by friends and lovers. Then we get into the different chakras of the body and how Alexis became so good at her craft. Tune into part two releasing this friday and ENJOY!!Socials:Alexis@OfficialAlexisJade on Instagram@Jupitergrl_ on Twitter@DiaryofAlexisJade222 on TiktokTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLL CALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week Courtney shares a situation she went thru where a guy told her that her secks was lackluster, a man wants his wife to make up scenarios where she cheats on him and tell them to him while they're having intercourse, improper use of numbing cream, the play party recap and then we are joined by HoodMan who is a pro Bottom for femme dommes who tells us how they became a bottom, what they're into and how they wound up having multiple surgeries after taking their desire for pain a little too far. Then we have an exhibition of sorts as Hoodman teaches Courtney how to top them. ENJOY!!!Socials:HoodmanFetlife: HoodmanTwitter @Hoodman2ndEmail Hoodman87@proton.meCourtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LoadBoostVisit LoadBoost.com and put in code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all LoadBoost productsGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!This week the crew talk the typical men that love bigger women (Yesssterday coded), a guy taking too much time to set up a first date, giving to give vs giving to receive, seeing signs of other people in a person you're datings home, discussing boundaries before going to a swinger party, telling your partner that you want to engage secksually with other people, being in a relationship without adequate communication about your desires, the difference between making love, quickies and f*cking, the different kinks prevalent in each state and MORE! ENJOY!!Socials:Courtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LOADBOOSTVisit LoadBoost.com and add code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off all products!GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLL CAAALLLLLLLLLL!!!!!This week the crew talk uncomfortable situations that happen when involving a third partner in your relationship, when you partner cheats with somebody moore popular than you, how a mans health effects his peen performance, only giving good secks when your partner is used to getting great secks from you, intercourse not being the most pleasurable secksual expereince for women, the proper way to engage with a woman secksually when you dont have a big peen, and the way secks can positively affect your mood. ENJOY!!Socials:Courtney@Courtney_Shav on InstagramLoon@KingLoonthe1st on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLLLLLLLLLLL CAAAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!!!This week we welcome Ash And Logina of SuciaQueer to talk their purpose in building the Sucia Queer community, Ashs transition and how it feels to have the testosterone secks "cravings" (lol), Loginas experience being egytian with parents that are from differing religious backgrounds and finding answers about herself once she discovered the queer community, living in a world where ppl are hateful towards ppl that are different than them, how colonization has informed peoples hate towards kink and gender differences, why people should be educated about the effects of psychedelics and its connection to schizoprenia, which gender Ash loves being more, and Loginas orgasm experience having relations with phantom d*ck! So many gems in this episode. ENJOY!!!!SocialsLogina@Queering_ExistentialismAsh@EatMyAshlee on InstagramEmail Ash about the Queer Nightlife Community Center at Ash.H.Lee@gmail.comJoin the Sucia Queer community at @SuciaQueer and @SuciaNYC pages on InstagramTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LOADBOOSTVisit LoadBoost.com and enter code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the Load Boost, Soaking Wet and/or Drive Boost productsGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLLLL!!!!!!This week we welcome Master Radiant to the show to talk wild asks in the bedroom, choosing a safe domme over being with one that doesnt respect your boundaries, the difference between a Domme and a top and a bottom and a sub, your kinks might coming from your traumas, what a daddy domme is, being married in a polyamorous relationship, feeling empathy for your husband/wife when they go thru a break up with their gf/bf, your wife/husband disresoecting your time with your gf/bf and is there really such a thing as polyamory if you have a primary partner or is that a scam. Great episode Guys! ENJOY!!!Socials:Radiant@Master_Radiant on InstagramCourtney@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and TwitterTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:GetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow

Nut NAvy ROLLLLLLLL CAAAALLLLLLLLL!!!!!This week we welcome Royal Fetishes own King Noire to the show to talk the coochie being the window to happiness and peace, Kings take on Loon not wanting to say a man is attractive, are women naturally nurturing and if so what is a mans natural "thing", would you rather your partner cheat once or flirt with everybody all the time but never cheat, and how King felt growing up pansexual in Jersey and when he finally felt the confidence or awareness to openly identify as pansexual. Great episode guys! ENJOY!!!Head to our website TheHardOrSoftShow.com/vetting-form to get vetted for the play party or email us at HardOrSoftEvents@gmail.com if youve already been vetted in the past and just want to attend!Socials:KingKingNoirexxx.comRoyalFetishxxx.com@TheRealKingNoire on Instagram@KingNoire on TwitterCourtney@Courtney_Shav on Instagram and TwitterTahoe @Tahoe_TV Twitter and InstagramYessssterday@Yesssterday on Instagram and TwitterVisit our Patreon to see All visuals and listen to the show Ad freeVisit www.rockhardgummies.net to purchase the new products for mens pleasure featuring the rock Hard Gummies new products, The JUICE and the Chocolate Thor.Ads:LOADBOOSTVisit LoadBoost.com and enter code HARDORSOFT to get 10% off the Load Boost, Soaking Wet and/or Drive Boost productsGetTheButters Visit GetTheButters.com/thehardorsoftshow to get 10% off your entire order and 1st subscription when you use code HARDORSOFTSHOWVisit our Official Secks Toy Sponsor Erotic Boudoir - @Erotic_boudoirErotic-Boudoir.com (Use Code HARDORSOFT for 10% off)Patreon at www.patreon.com/thehardorsoftshowEmail us at HardorSoftPod@gmail.com and send us messages on Instagram at @theHardOrSoftShow Twitter @HardOrSoftShow