DiscoverYour Life
Your Life
Claim Ownership

Your Life

Author: Grander Vision Media

Subscribed: 6Played: 45
Share

Description

Exploring the questions everyone has about life, love, parenting and relationships.

Tony Haire is a independent Certified Coach, Teacher and Speaker with The John Maxwell Team, author and inspirational speaker who lives in Fayetteville, NC. He has a Bachelors Degree in Criminal Justice, a Masters Degree in Pastoral Counseling, and a Doctorate of Philosophy in Christian Counseling.

Dan DeBruler is a Pastor, teacher, and retired US Army communications specialist, and has spent more than 25 years encouraging listeners through Christian radio.
179 Episodes
Reverse
When obedience costs something, how far are you willing to go?In this episode of Your Life, Dan DeBruler and Tony Haire dig into one of Scripture’s most powerful tests of faith—Abraham’s willingness to place Isaac on the altar.  From Genesis 22, they explore what real trust looks like when God asks for what we hold most dear.Together they reveal how Abraham’s experience foreshadows the ultimate sacrifice of God’s own Son—and how the same principle still challenges believers today. What are we clinging to that keeps us from total surrender? Is it time, finances, relationships… or ourselves?Full of relatable insight and down‑to‑earth conversation, this episode calls listeners to deeper trust, practical obedience, and renewed faith in the God who always provides.Key TakeawaysFaith is tested over time: every believer’s trust must be proven and grown.Abraham’s obedience points to the cross—God giving His only Son for us.God provides the sacrifice and the strength to surrender.Modern tests often involve our money, time, relationships, and willingness to give ourselves wholly to God.True obedience isn’t about losing—it’s about discovering how trustworthy God really is.Featured Scripture“Take your son, your only son, whom you love… and sacrifice him…” — Genesis 22:2 (NIV)“For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son…” — John 3:16 (NIV)Quotes:“When obedience is going to cost you something, that’s the real test of faith.” — Tony HaireIt isn’t the storm that destroys the house—it’s the lack of a good foundation.” — Dan DeBrulerYour Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Join Tony and Dan for a conversation about light and purpose based on Mark 4:21-25.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
What do we do when life feels unfair—when those who seem far from God appear to be winning?In this episode of Your Life,Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler dig into Jeremiah 12, where the prophet asks God a question we’ve all wondered: “Why do the wicked prosper?”Through that honest conversation between Jeremiah and God, Tony and Dan remind us that God welcomes our questions—He can handle every doubt and frustration we bring. But His reply to Jeremiah still echoes today: “If you have raced with the footmen and they have worn you out, how can you compete with horses?”It’s God’s gentle way of saying, “Stay focused. Build endurance. The tougher tests are ahead, but I’m with you.”Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Your Life 182-The Way

Your Life 182-The Way

2026-01-2832:12

When life feels uncertain, what does it mean that Jesus is the Way? Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler trace the context around John 14—Judas’ betrayal, Peter’s denial, Thomas’ question—and explain why the “way” isn’t a route but a Person.They model Christlike responses to real-world tensions (customer conflicts, online pushback), talk trust vs. feelings, and urge believers to leverage media to spread hope.The episode ends with a clear invitation to follow Jesus and next steps for new believers.-------Pastor–counselor Dr. Tony Haire and broadcaster–pastor Dan DeBruler unpack John 14:1–6—“I am the way, the truth, and the life”—and show how trusting Jesus shapes everyday responses to conflict, culture, social media, and relationships. From calming troubled hearts to choosing Christlike actions when emotions run hot, this conversation points listeners to salvation, assurance, and practical discipleship you can live out this week.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Many believers talk about God. Fewer truly know Him.This week on Your Life, Dan DeBruler and Dr. Tony Haire dismantle the idea that religion alone equals relationship. Looking at John 7 through fresh eyes, they challenge listeners to trade surface familiarity for deep, personal communion with Jesus.In this episode:John 7 : 25‑31 (NIV) — When the religious crowd couldn’t recognize Christ standing in front of them.Why “knowing about” God isn’t the same as knowing Him.How daily surrender deepens intimacy with Christ.When faith becomes personal — and transforms how we see ourselves and others.Practical steps to cultivate an everyday awareness of His presence.This is honest, Spirit‑led teaching from two voices who bring the Word home — helping us anchor faith not in familiarity, but in fellowship.Key Verse“You both know me and you know where I am from. I am not here on my own authority, but he who sent me is true. You do not know him, but I know him because I am from him and he sent me.”— John 7 : 28‑29 (NIV)Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Joseph didn’t cause the crisis—but it was his assignment; here’s how taking responsibility becomes part of God’s redemption story. Dan and Tony walk through Matthew 1:18–25 to show how Joseph’s obedience reframes responsibility. God breaks 400 years of silence, interrupts Joseph’s plans, and asks him to own an assignment he didn’t cause—to take Mary as his wife, name the child Jesus, and steward a story bigger than his reputation.You’ll hear practical, pastoral counsel for men and families: slowing down to hear God, choosing obedience over optics, and engaging relatives who are far from Christ with questions, presence, and example. It’s a call to take responsibility in our homes, churches, and communities—especially when it’s uncomfortable.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
How to diagnose whether you’re conforming to the culture or being transformed by the renewing of your mind—and what to do next.Today’s question is simple and searching: Am I being conformed or transformed? Romans 12:1–2 says real worship is a whole-life offering, a refusal to copy the patterns of this world, and a mind God keeps renewing. We’ll look at clear signs of conformity, the fruits of true transformation, and a one-week plan to reset your mind and rhythms—so your faith looks like Tuesday afternoon, not just Sunday morning.Conformed: 5 telltales (quick hits)Hurry > Holiness: pace sets your priorities; prayer is an afterthought.Outrage diet: inputs are mostly news, hot takes, and conflict; peace rarely visits.Comparison economics: spending and posting to keep up, not to serve.Compartment faith: spiritual talk at church; different voice online/at work.Feelings as facts: Scripture adjusts to me instead of me adjusting to Scripture.Transformed: 5 fruitsSurrendered body: schedule, sexuality, appetites under Jesus (a “living sacrifice”).Scripture reflex: first frame is the Word; you test impressions by it.Stable joy/peace: not denial—resilience (Phil 4:7) in real pressure.Non-anxious presence: slower speech, quicker listening, gentler answers.Discernment: growing clarity about “good, acceptable, perfect” will in choices.7-Day Renewal Plan (doable, specific)Day 1 — Reset inputs: 24-hour news/social fast. Read Romans 12 & Colossians 3.Day 2 — Present your body: take a 20-minute walk; pray, “All of me, for all of You.”Day 3 — Renew your mind: memorize Romans 12:1–2; write it on a card/phone.Day 4 — Replace patterns: identify one “worldly pattern” (outrage, cynicism, comparison). Swap it with a kingdom habit (gratitude list, blessing someone, silence).Day 5 — Community check: ask a mature believer, “Where do you see conformity in me?” Receive, don’t defend.Day 6 — Generosity rep: give something that costs you—time, money, or spotlight.Day 7 — Discernment hour: device-free hour with Bible + journal: “Lord, what next step proves renewal?” Act on one thing within 48 hours.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler unpack how ordinary believers can actually please God—not by spiritual hustle, but by a daily, dependent relationship with Him. What does it really take to please God?Today wer boil it down to one word: relationship. Pulling from Hebrews 11 and Enoch’s walk with God, they contrast performance-driven religion with simple, stubborn faith that trusts God’s character, obeys His voice, and keeps walking—especially when life is messy. You’ll hear practical handles for cultivating closeness with God: honest prayer, Scripture before screens, quick repentance, and small steps of obedience that add up over time. If you’ve been trying to earn what Jesus already finished, this conversation is a deep breath for your soul—and a nudge to start walking with Him today.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
What if God’s path to your promised land isn’t the fastest, but the safest? In this episode of Your Life, Dan DeBruler and Dr. Tony Hare walk through Exodus 13:17–22 and explore why God sometimes “reroutes” us—protecting us from battles we’re not ready for and preparing us for the ones ahead. From relationships and marriage to church life and calling, they talk about letting go, being led, and finding peace in obedience. You’ll hear:Why shortcuts can sabotage spiritual growthHow God’s detours are mercy, not punishmentWhat it means to stand at the edge of your wildernessPractical ways to follow God’s lead—day or nightScripture: Exodus 13:17–22Key ideas: obedience, patience, discernment, mentorship, spiritual formation, protection vs. preparation. If you’re facing a big decision, don’t despise the longer journey—God may be protecting you from what you can’t see and preparing you for what He’s promised.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Why do we so often long for the past while overlooking the blessings of the present? In this episode, Dr. Tony Hair and Dan De Bruer unpack the biblical tension between had and have. Through the lens of the Israelites’ complaints in the wilderness, they reveal how distorted memories can rob us of gratitude, why grumbling blinds us to God’s provision, and how choosing conversation with God over complaint changes everything. Listeners will discover:The danger of romanticizing the past (Exodus 16, Numbers 11)How complaining distorts reality and blocks gratitudeWhy gratitude is the antidote to discontentHow to replace grumbling with honest conversation with GodIf you’ve ever struggled with discontentment or found yourself missing what was instead of appreciating what is, this discussion will equip you to shift perspective, cultivate gratitude, and honor God with a heart of contentment.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
What are you aiming at in life—success, comfort, recognition, or something greater? In this teaching, we dive into the biblical perspective of living with a clear aim: to please God. Drawing from 2 Corinthians 5 and John 15, we examine how our daily choices reveal where our aim is truly set. You’ll discover:Why Paul’s words about “making it our aim” matter for us todayThe difference between aiming to please self and aiming to please GodHow to keep perspective through the lens of eternity and the judgment seat of ChristThe joy of remaining connected to Jesus as the true source of fulfillmentWhether you’re in a boardroom, at home with family, or facing tough decisions, this conversation will inspire you to re-align your aim with what truly matters.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Your greatest battles may not be against the world around you, but within your own mind.In this episode of Your Life, hosts Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler discuss the power of thoughts, the dangers of defilement from within, and the life-changing call to take every thought captive.Through biblical insight and practical reflection, they reveal how our thought life influences our behavior, relationships, and spiritual growth. From understanding Jesus’ teaching in Mark 7 to applying Paul’s wisdom in 2 Corinthians 10, this conversation challenges you to examine what you think, why you think it, and how to renew your mind through God’s Word.Join us as we uncover how to build a firm foundation for life, resist the negative influences around us, and help others by becoming spiritually strong ourselves. Your thoughts shape your reality—so it’s time to take control of the battle within.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
So often we wonder: “Why don’t people listen to me?”In this teaching, we explore that very question through the lens of Jesus’ first miracle—turning water into wine at Cana. We’ll look at how Jesus earned trust, demonstrated humility, and served others in ways that gave His words lasting weight. You’ll learn:Why trust and consistency are essential to being heardHow humility opens the door for influenceWhy serving others creates space for real communicationWhat Jesus’ miracle reveals about building credibilityWhether at home, work, or church, these lessons help us move from frustration to influence—so that what we say truly matters.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
The Question That Matters: "What does God want to see?"It's not just what others see in us, or even what we want to show.The real question is: What does God desire to see when He looks at your life?Paul gives us the answer in Colossians 1:27 – Christ in you, the hope of glory.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
“You can’t live in the world’s image and fulfill God’s purpose.”In this inspiring and thought-provoking episode of Your Life, Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler dive deep into the question: "Whose image are you living in?" Anchored in Numbers 13–14, they examine the contrast between those who saw themselves through the world's eyes—and Caleb and Joshua, who saw themselves through God's image.They explore how your self-image, when detached from God’s truth, leads to fear, hesitation, and missed opportunities. But when you see yourself the way God sees you, everything changes—from how you walk, to how you witness, to how you lead.Whether you're navigating personal struggles, past failures, or labels others have placed on you, this episode will help you recenter your identity on the unchanging truth of God’s Word.Key ScripturesNumbers 13:1, 25–33; 14:6–9, 24 – Faith vs fear in the Promised LandGenesis 1:26–27 – Created in God’s image and likenessRomans 8:15–17 – Adopted, not abandoned1 Peter 2:9 – You are chosen2 Corinthians 5:17 – A new creation in ChristListen & Connect🎧 Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2:00 PM on Christian 105.7🔁 Listen and subscribe wherever you get podcasts🌐 Learn more at Christian1057.comYour Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
One day. Three choices. A Christ-centered mindset.Choose and display the right attitude (Phil 2:3-8)Determine anc act on important priorities (Eph 5:15-17)Practice and develop good thinking (Prov 4:5-9) Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
In Luke 10 the disciples return thrilled by their victories—then Jesus redirects them: don’t anchor your joy in results, but in the reality that your names are written in heaven (Luke 10:20). In this conversation we unpack how that one truth reframes our emotions, our milestones, and our setbacks. We’ll look at Jesus’ promise of authority amid adversity (Luke 10:19), why wins are wonderful but temporary, and how to practice a daily rhythm of rejoicing that’s rooted in eternal security, not changing circumstances.You’ll walk away with a clear, Scripture-shaped mindset: wake up, preach the gospel to your soul, and remember—“Thank God, my name is written in heaven.” That perspective turns anxiety into prayer, success into worship, and ordinary days into opportunities to rejoice. If you’ve been riding the roller coaster of results, this is your invitation to step onto solid ground.Your Life airs Tuesdays at 2pm Eastern on Christian 105.7 - WCLN-FMConnect and learn more at Christian1057.com
loading
Comments 
loading