New Views with Ariel Niu

Techniques and examples for you to be sharp, with confidence and balance. DOWNLOAD SCENARIO APP FOR FREE: https://scenario.app.link/itqPCuK1FJb Scripts + visualizations to help you prep for upcoming social interactions.   BOOK 1:1 COACHING WITH ME: https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu   0:00 When does Sharpness backfire? 0:32 Superior vs Inferior vs Balanced 1:42 How to be Definitive 3:21 Detached Sharpness 3:54 Speak from 'I' 5:23 App for Social Scripts 7:17 Regulation Technique 9:46 Balancing Tonality 10:57 Power of Trust 11:43 Feel-Good Nonchalance 12:48 More Resources   CONNECT: Book 1:1 Coaching - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiu  Workplace Boundaries Scripts - https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #communicationskills #selfdevelopment #lifehacks #podcasts #selfexpression #socialskills #socialdynamics #assertivecommunication #confidence #peoplepleaser #selfmastery #communicationtips #relationships #socialanxiety #niuviews  

This is how you do it from the inside out. LEARN A NEW LANGUAGE WITH LINGODA: Get a 7-day free trial + 20% off your first month - https://try.lingoda.com/Ariel   JOIN MY SOCIALIZING WORKSHOPS: https://beacons.ai/niu.views BOOK 1:1 COACHING: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu    0:00 People-Pleasing vs Kindness 1:57 Genuine Compliments 3:19 Know Your Wants / Needs 4:04 Decisive / Definitive Communication 7:41 Sharp / Soft Dynamics 8:40 Body Language 9:37 Facial Expressions 10:20 Authenticity vs Strategy 11:05 More Resources   CONNECT: Book 1:1 Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu  Workplace Boundaries Scripts - https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Partnerships/Media - arielniu@viralnationtalent.com Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com    ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #confidence #peoplepleaser #socialskills #selfmastery #communicationtips #lifehacks #emotionalintelligence #communicationskills #relationships #socialanxiety #niuviews

You are attached to nobody.   GET THE WORKPLACE BOUNDARIES SCRIPTS + GUIDE: https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts   BOOK 1:1 COACHING: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu   Study Notes: - TENSION with BOUNDARIES: When we are UNCLEAR/INSECURE about our own INTENTIONS. - REACTIVENESS happens when we ATTACH our worth, needs, standards, liberation to others. - To resolve CONFUSION: Go to the ROOT, re-plant your TRUE INTENTIONS. - To resolve INSECURITY: KNOW and BE, not need, your standards and limits. - Conflict with others happen when we have SUPERIORITY or INFERIORITY within. - All expressions (Sharp, Soft, Playful) are okay when we practice EYE-LEVEL BALANCE.   0:00 Introduction 0:39 Tension with Boundaries 3:54 Superiority vs Inferiority 5:59 Imbalanced vs Balanced Boundaries 9:19 Inner Emotions 10:03 More Resources   CONNECT: Book Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Get an Energy Reading - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/energyreadingfromarielniu Workplace Boundaries Scripts - https://bit.ly/workplaceboundariesscripts Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Partnerships/Media - arielniu@viralnationtalent.com Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com    ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #boundaries #lifehacks #peoplepleaser #confidence #boundaries101 #selfmastery #emotionalintelligence #communicationskills #relationships #socialanxiety #niuviews

Confidence leans towards self - my presence, speech, delivery. Charisma leans towards others - flow, dynamics, engagement with others. BOOK COACHING: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu  Improve your social presence, delivery, and influences on others.   Study Notes: - INDIVIDUAL-GROUP FLOW: start a conversation with 1 individual in group (e.g. 'any upcoming trips planned Sarah?'), while having moments dropping questions and small statements to the rest of the group throughout (e.g. 'Honolulu? Amazing! Have you guys been?' 'Check out North Shore Sarah...guys, this place is beautiful. Sarah, I'll give you all the recommendations.') - Mastery is seamless flow from talking to the individual, to group, back to individual while maintaining full presence and ease with everyone. - QUESTIONS/PLAYFUL STATEMENTS: end your point/story with a question or a playful statement back to the group to reduce awkward silences. - SIDE COMMENTS: if you don't want full spotlight but want to be involved, be fully present in the conversations and confidently add reassuring or cheeky comments to others' stories. - UTILIZE SILENCE: instead of fearing or thinking about the silence, utilize it. Use silent moments to breathe and regulate, come back within yourself fully. This practice will allow new thoughts and flow to naturally arise.   0:00 Individual-Group Flow 2:02 Questions/Playful Statements 3:32 Reassuring/Cheeky Comments 7:19 Utilizing Silence 10:29 Confidence/Charisma Balance 11:26 More Resources   CONNECT: Book Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Get an Energy Reading - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/energyreadingfromarielniu WORKPLACE BOUNDARIES SCRIPTS drops APRIL 2024 - https://beacons.ai/niu.views/email Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Partnerships/Inquiries - arielniu@viralnationtalent.com   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu. I share views and guidance on social dynamics and human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, and energy. I also share concepts on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #charisma #confidence #networking #selfmastery #emotionalintelligence #communicationskills #relationships #lifehacks #socialskills #socialanxiety #niuviews

You are the presenter, and the initiator and alchemist of the energy in the room.   *BOOK COACHING:* https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu  Improve your social presence, delivery, interactions and influences on others.   *Study Notes* - Break the fourth wall with the audience before the presentation (casual chitchat). - Have a confident base that is sustainable - honed authenticity with nonchalance. - Honed authenticity = 'being real with a secret' kind of energy. - Nonchalance = I am aware of it all and it's always all good. - It's ok to ask for context, we need context to give thorough, useful responses. E.g. 'Interesting, tell me more about x' 'I think what you are trying to say is this, am I following correctly?' 'Give me more details on this aspect' - Approach unexpected questions with curiousity, see them as opportunities. - Hone in on the individual asking the question, treat it like a conversation. - Approach follow-ups with confidence and excitement if necessary. E.g. 'I'm excited to add this to my research, I'll have it as a point in our follow-up email.' - Avoid inferiority (shame/victimizing) or superiority (masking confidence) with mistakes, I like to admit to it in the moment with nonchalance and get right back into it. E.g. 'Ok, I just made up that word, what I meant is this :)' - Catch the initial anxiety, breathe and relax into lightness and nonchalance. - Curiousity translates into confidence, which translates into the ability to connect the dots. - It's within our control whether we approach unexpected moments with anxiety/shame/rigidness or curiousity/nonchalance/lightness, and that energy will be felt by all.   0:00 Introduction + Examples 0:33 Prepare a Confident Base 2:01 Observe your Audience 5:15 Unexpected Questions 7:29 Unresolved Questions 9:22 Mess-ups 9:53 Your Presence + Reactions 11:20 Power of Curiousity 14:35 More Resources   *CONNECT:* Book Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Get an Energy Reading - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/energyreadingfromarielniu WORKPLACE BOUNDARIES SCRIPTS drops APRIL 2024 - https://beacons.ai/niu.views/email Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Partnerships/Inquiries - arielniu@viralnationtalent.com   *ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on social dynamics and human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #publicspeaking   #selfmastery #emotionalintelligence #communicationskills #conversationalskills #networking #relationships #lifehacks #confidence #socialskills #socialanxiety #niuviews

  Know the difference between being SHARP / SOFT vs being SUPERIOR / INFERIOR. GET A 1-MONTH FREE TRIAL WITH SKILLSHARE: https://skl.sh/newviewswitharielniu03241 The SkillShare Learning Path I am taking is called 'ChatGPT for Creatives', join me :) Tips: - Understand and accept your natural expressions - Notice the differences between your natural expressions vs reactive expressions - Remove reactiveness from initial sharp / soft responses - Active Breathing, remember your Intention, eye-level Balance - Less what you say, more how you say it (energy + delivery) - Use ChatGPT for starting scripts - Practice Nonchalance - Regulate live thoughts / emotions - Remember your live thoughts / emotions influence everything   *CONNECT:* Book Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Get an Energy Reading - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/energyreadingfromarielniu Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Partnerships/Inquiries - arielniu@viralnationtalent.com   *ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #communicationskills #emotionalintelligence #selfmastery #relationships #lifehacks #confidence #socialskills #publicspeaking #socialanxiety #niuviews  

  When I’m in my element socially, my words and presence come naturally and attractively to both others and myself. However, I used to catch then LOSE this flow all the time. When I lose it in the moment, things become awkward in an instant. I’ve realized the trick for me to hold attention with ease and flow is to dynamically shift between certain extremes. SHARP/SOFT, FAST/SLOW, SINCERE/FUNNY, OPEN/INTIMATE, etc. ..always with active breathing.   *CONNECT:* Book 1-on-1 Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Get an Energy Reading - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyReadingfromArielNiu Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Spotify Podcast - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB Apple Podcast - https://apple.co/3K4olPe Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Partnerships - arielniu@viralnationtalent.com Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com   0:00 Introduction 0:53 Sharp/Soft 2:41 Fast/Slow 3:46 Tones/Pitches 6:09 Practice to Flow 6:42 Motion/Stillness 7:40 Emotional Dynamics 10:32 Intimacy Dynamics 11:52 Intention/Breathing/Balance 14:59 Resources   *ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I share views and guidance on human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, energy, and the interconnectedness between all. I love exploring human dynamics, and I am grateful to help those who resonate with my messages.   #charisma #confidence #publicspeaking #communicationtips #magnetism #selfmastery #lifehacks #confidence #socialskills #socialanxiety #niuviews

Nonchalance as a self-mastery technique, is not about caring or not caring. It’s about feeling light and good, inside and out, as often as possible, so every interaction we face can be experienced at its highest potential, with the least amount of energy needed. Balanced nonchalance flows between soft + sharp without going to the extremes.   *CONNECT:* Book Coaching - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/produc... Get an Energy Reading - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/produc... MediVibe playlist - https://spoti.fi/3Teaxtp Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews Spotify Podcast - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB Apple Podcast - https://apple.co/3K4olPe Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/... Partnerships/Inquiries - arielniu@viralnationtalent.com   *ABOUT:* My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.

How can we collectively become comfortable being nonchalantly honest AND confidently kind? Piercing the social matrix starts with each of us, in knowing eye-level balance in live moments.   CONNECT: Personal Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews Spotify Podcast - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB Apple Podcast - https://apple.co/3K4olPe Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Partnerships/Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #communicationskills #emotionalintelligence #relationships #lifehacks #confidence #consciousness #lifecoach #socialanxiety #popculture #niuviews

To be intentional = we do less and achieve more, we exude natural confidence, and every moment can be guided with ease and grace. TIPS: - Good intentions are balanced in Sharp / Soft: - SHARP: clear, decisive, committed to the vision. - SOFT: open, curious, flexible on the how. - apply this for personal intentions + intentions during interactions with others. - Your ultimate self (Him/Her/They) is your north star in moment-by-moment intentions. - Ask yourself, ‘what would He/She/They do?’, How would He/She/They respond?’ - Review the root of WHY before actions. - Energy we embody when setting intentions will manifest in the results. - When involving others, the best intentions for all is easiest. - Breathe, come back to the Intention, Balance (eye-level in thoughts/emotions/actions). - Checkpoints when unexpected circumstances happen - ‘is this really what I want?’ ‘could this be happening in a better, unexpected way?’ ‘how can I flow?’ ‘should we take a break?’ - When we're honest and open = eye-level is easier, diffusion is easier. It is what it is.   Intention is 1/3 of the trifecta practice of Intention, Balancing, and Breathing. The way of actualizing all desires and resolving all conflict. Stay tuned for the next episode on Balance.   0:00 Be Him/Her/They Now 1:19 Example - Work Relationship 1:36 Imbalanced Emotions 2:14 Highest Potential Intentions 3:53 Eye-Level Outcomes 6:51 Example - Personal Relationship 7:07 Clarifying Intentions 7:57 How to Communicate Intentions 9:11 Checkpoint Reminders 10:11 Resources   CONNECT: Personal Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram (join my channel) - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok (join my lives) - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews Spotify Podcast - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB Apple Podcast - https://apple.co/3K4olPe Livestream Replays - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Partnerships/Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on conscious human interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share ideas on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own inner state to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #selfmastery #emotionalintelligence #relationships #lifehacks #communicationskills #lifecoach #careeradvice #lifehacks #niuviews  

It's not about REPEATING, it's about FEELING. You must strategically trigger the precise thoughts/emotions of your intentions. BOOK COACHING: https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/coaching-with-energy-reading SOCIAL INTERACTIONS HANDBOOK: https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/the-social-interactions-handbook   What we think, feel, speak - we are and we become. It’s about thinking, feeling, and speaking like that Him/Her/They NOW.   Tips for Mantras: - Have clear intentions for your mantras - Keep them short + in the style you talk - Use words that feel good to you, enjoyable to say, aligns you back to your intention - Use active, present tense - Make the words and sayings very personal, defined for what you’re precisely going through - Experiment for a period, play with different words, before setting the program   My 2024 Mantras: Intentions - Expansion, Sustainability 'I go all in and all out with what I intend (with ease and flow)' 'It’s only getting better and easier' 'I trust my flow is a go (aka glow)' My 2023 Mantras: Intentions - Being, Self-Actualization 'I make life work for me' 'I accept myself to advance myself' 'I trust my intuition'   0:00 Potency of Words 0:19 Programming with Mantras 1:23 2023 Mantras + Results 1:43 'I make life for me' 3:48 'I accept myself to advance myself' 4:51 'I trust my intuition' 5:41 2024 Mantras + Intentions 6:13 'I go all in and all out with what I intend' 7:21 'It's only getting better and easier' 8:17 'I trust my flow is a go' 9:15 Tips + Tricks 10:13 Exercise + Resources   CONNECT: Human Energy + Social Interactions Handbook - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/the-social-interactions-handbook Energy Coaching - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/coaching-with-energy-reading Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews Weekly Q&As - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/pages/memberships Partnerships/Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages. #mindblowing #lifehacks #selfactualization #expressionsqueen #howto #mantras #2024 #speech #affirmation #selfmastery #niuviews  

I guarantee results in days, if you use every moment in your day as practice. It's easy. BOOK COACHING: https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/coaching-with-energy-reading SOCIAL INTERACTIONS HANDBOOK: https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/the-social-interactions-handbook   TIPS: BE INTENTIONAL BE DEFINITIVE SLOW DOWN, BREATHE, PAUSE REDUCE FILLER WORDS/PHRASES e.g. ‘like’ ‘just’ ‘so’ ‘um/uh’ ‘you know’ LIVE ACKNOWLEDGEMENT e.g. ask ‘scenario’ questions e.g. address needs, traits, demographics REPHRASE "I" PHRASES “I think this is good” 🠒 “this is good” “I think we should” 🠒 “why don’t we try…” “I need your help” 🠒 “I’m thankful for your support” “I will make it” 🠒 “I am making it” “I deserve more” 🠒 “I’m getting more” “I hope you’ve been well” 🠒 “I trust you’ve been well” “I hope they are…” 🠒 “I trust they are…” “He should know…” 🠒 “I trust he knows...” 0:00 Be Intentional 0:36 Be Definitive 1:39 Breathe, Slow Down, Pause 2:59 Reduce Filler Words/Phrases 4:34 Live Acknowledgement 6:46 Rephrase "I" Phrases 8:29 Be Him/Her/They Now 9:28 More Resources   CONNECT: Human Energy + Social Interactions Handbook - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/the-social-interactions-handbook Energy Coaching - https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/coaching-with-energy-reading Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews  Partnerships/Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #speech #selfexpression #publicspeaking #presentationskills #flow #selfmastery #smalltalk #interviewpreparation #communicationskills #lifecoach #interpersonalskills #niuviews

Save your energy, smile without laughter-padding, and BE REAL. Get Coaching with an Energy Reading from me: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu   TIPS: Start with slow and soft energy Share only what you want to share Be calm and concise in honesty Soften honesty with gratitude Instead of conforming, do nothing Instead of conforming, get curious Be light and nonchalant Observe and refine without emotion (aka meditate and cry/vent later lol) Know how you ideally want to socialize (if you’re like me - you want to be able to be both chill and playful, take jokes and make jokes. Find your balance.) Flow with your natural expressions (sharp and/or soft)   CONNECT: Energy Coaching - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu  Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews Partnerships/Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #socialskills #socialanxiety #emotionalintelligence #communicationskills #energyreading #relationships #confidence #personaldevelopment #niuviews

No inferiority, no superiority (they can feel what you feel on the inside), keep it eye-level.   GET ENERGY COACHING FROM ME: https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/EnergyCoachingwithArielNiu      TIPS: Soft and Sharp responses are only negatively experienced when imbalanced Imbalances = feeling INFERIOR or SUPERIOR INFERIORITY symptoms: people-pleasing, laughter-padding, white lies SUPERIORITY symptoms: reactiveness, judgement over observation, attachment YOUR ENERGY: what you embody inside and out - facial expressions, body language, tone, pitch, pace, words, intention, thoughts, emotions... How to be SOFT and BALANCED: Be intentional Breathe Be eye-level with others Speak slower Lift/lighten your tone Ground your energy How to be SHARP and BALANCED: Be intentional Breathe Be eye-level with others Be honest Be definitive and open at the same time Stay present and conscious See my Instagram and TikTok for more examples on balanced Sharp vs Soft responses.   0:00 Introduction 0:35 Inferiority vs Superiority 2:39 Embodying Energy 3:45 How to be BALANCED SOFT 6:45 How to be BALANCED SHARP 11:23 Conclusion   CONNECT: Coaching with Energy Reading (RECORDED VIDEO) - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingVideoArielNiu Coaching with Energy Reading (BOOK A CALL) - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoaching1on1ArielNiu Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews Partnerships/Inquiries - contact@arielniuviews.com   ABOUT: My name is Ariel Niu, I create content on self and social interactions. I give examples on social cues and techniques, and I share stories on how everything and everyone is connected. Since 2018, I have been practicing using my own energy to change outer experiences and people. I love creating content about human connections, and I am grateful and excited to help those who resonate with my messages.   #energy #socialanxiety #emotionalintelligence #communicationskills #socialskills #relationships #confidence #balance #niuviews

My recent experiences have been about balance, contradictions, and integration periods.   EXTENDED VERSION WITH Q&A (60min): https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal PRODUCTS I USE (Canada-only for now): Save 30% on Neurodose microdosing products with code: ARIEL30 Save 15% on Stellar Edibles cannabis-infused treats with code: NIUVIEWS Save 15% on DayTrip Canada psilocybin-infused products online/in-store (Toronto) with code: NIUVIEWS   DISCLAIMER: This video has been created for educational, informational, and harm-reduction purposes. We do not provide or encourage psychoactive or controlled substance use, nor are we licensed medical professionals. Any information received are to educate and not to be misconstrued as medical or legal advice. This video abides by the community safety guidelines and is eligible for monetization. Thank you and enjoy.   CONNECT: Content Subscriptions - https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal Get an Energy Reading from me - https://bit.ly/bookenergyreading Instagram - https://instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews 'New Views with Ariel Niu' Podcast via Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB 'New Views with Ariel Niu' Podcast via Apple - https://apple.co/3K4olPe Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views   ABOUT NIUVIEWS: My name is Ariel Niu, I am a creator and speaker (@niu.views). I explore human connections through self, social, and spiritual views. I share stories and examples on the connections between everyone and everything. The vision is to inspire the utility, power, and love in consciousness. We are all playing an inner game.   0:00 Introductions 1:11 How my journey began 3:33 My first awakening on LSD 6:33 Universal laws of Oneness 10:17 Contradicting self-love practices 12:11 Integration periods 17:16 How to set intentions 18:25 Unexpected experiences and crazy visions 20:33 Balance and breaks 21:51 Visions coming true 24:13 Living moment-by-moment 26:03 Q&A preview  

Life-changing tips when setting big goals in life! Extended Version: https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal KEY TIPS: Vague Goals = INSECURITIES. Clear Goals = CONFIDENCE Vague Goals = when a person is not fully intentional and committed to their goals + does not fully believe their goals can happen Everything intentional we experience are all technically goals fulfilled. The easy ones come easy only because we matter-of-fact KNOW, zero doubt, that of course it's happening. Be more intentional in your everyday. Set intentions and visualize them happening when you wake up in the morning. Try intentions where you put in effort, and try intentions where they will just happen for you. Sweet spot is in balancing between Knowing and Flowing after we set our intentions. Our purpose waits in our natural interests and curiousities Formulate your Ultimate Vision in life, then work backwards Blend your interests when creating your ultimate vision Ultimate Vision: one big life moment including EVERYTHING you want, to have and to be and to experience EXTENDED VERSION for remaining tips: https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal   0:00 Introduction 1:19 Clarifying Goals 3:47 Practice Daily Intentions 5:58 Your Ultimate Vision   ↓ BECOME A MEMBER ↓ https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal Exploring human dynamics (self, social, spiritual) with Ariel Niu   CONNECT: Content Memberships - https://bit.ly/niuviewsportal Instagram - https://instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Apple - https://apple.co/3K4olPe The NiuViews Shop - https://shop.arielniuviews.com Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views   ABOUT ARIEL NIU @niu.views: My name is Ariel Niu, I am a creator and speaker with a million in my online community. I help people see the unseen connections between people, in consciousness, and within our mind-body-spirit (through self, social, spiritual development).   #goalsetting #successmindset #selfmastery #lifehacks #niuviews #personaldevelopment #visionboard #manifestation101 #consciousentrepreneur #consciouswaystoconnect #careeradvice  

  6 steps to solve mixed emotions: Analyze each emotion/option individually Decide CLEARLY the END GOAL Is there a way to address BOTH? ACCEPT, then DETACH, from ALL OUTCOMES BELIEVE and THINK and FEEL the BEST OUTCOME REMEMBER we have untangled and broken the loop   ↓ SEE MY TIKTOK/REEL ABOUT CONFLICTING EMOTIONS ↓ https://www.instagram.com/p/CqB7FMtAMXo/  https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views/video/7212779280760048901    ↓ SIGN UP FOR MY EMAILS ↓ https://beacons.ai/niu.views The Consciously Developing community is coming Spring 2023. A space to experience true connection with yourself and others. Self and Social mastery to be in love with life.   ↓ GET THE THOUGHT MANIFESTATION GUIDE ↓ https://bit.ly/ThinkingArielNiu   ↓ SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL ↓ https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews   CONNECT: Instagram - https://instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Apple - https://apple.co/3K4olPe The NiuViews Shop - https://shop.arielniuviews.com Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views   ABOUT ME: My name is Ariel Niu, I am a creator and speaker with a million in our online community. I share stories and examples on how to live and connect consciously (self, social, spiritual development). The vision is to inspire the utility, power, and connection in consciousness. We are all playing an inner game.   0:00 Beginning 0:29 Step 1 1:55 Step 2 2:43 Step 3 4:46 Step 4 5:56 Step 5 7:16 Step 6 8:33 Ending   #selfhelp #lifehacks #selfmastery #socialskills #selflovejourney #lifehack #selfdevelopment #love #selfactualization #relationshipgoals #NiuViews #consciousness  

  Be the energy of true love to experience it. To be, we must first understand, learn, and believe it. And not just any love energy, true love energy.   ↓ GET AN ENERGY READING ↓ https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/birth-chart-energy-reading   ↓ SIGN UP FOR MY EMAILS ↓ https://beacons.ai/niu.views The Consciously Developing community is launching Spring 2023. A space where I show you how to connect with yourself and others and be in Love with life.   ↓ GET THE THOUGHT MANIFESTATION GUIDE ↓ https://bit.ly/ThinkingArielNiu   ↓ SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL ↓ https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews   CONNECT: Instagram - https://instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Apple - https://apple.co/3K4olPe The NiuViews Shop - https://shop.arielniuviews.com Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views   ABOUT ME: My name is Ariel Niu, I am a creator and speaker with a million in our online community. I share stories and examples on how to live and connect consciously (self, social, spiritual development). The vision is to inspire the utility, power, and connection in consciousness. We are all playing an inner game.   ➟ subscribe for the Views of Niu: https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews   #truelove #relationships #selflove #selflovejourney #lifehacks #consciousness #love #selfhelp #relationshipgoals #NiuViews #selfmastery   

When do we use a lot of words to present a thought or idea? When we have a lack of clarity on the end goal of the interaction, and a lack of belief in ourselves. This 4-minute video explains HOW TO SAY LESS WITH MORE CONFIDENCE.   See an example of this in 15 seconds on my TikTok, Instagram, or YouTube shorts.   ↓ BOOK A VIDEO CONVERSATION WITH ME ↓ https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/a-conversation-with-ariel-niu   ↓ GET THE THOUGHT MANIFESTATION GUIDE ↓ https://bit.ly/ThinkingArielNiu   ↓ SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL ↓ https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews   ↓ SIGN UP FOR MY EMAILS ↓ https://beacons.ai/niu.views 'Consciously Developing' community coming soon   CONNECT: Instagram - https://instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Apple - https://apple.co/3K4olPe The NiuViews Shop - https://shop.arielniuviews.com Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views   ABOUT NIUVIEWS: My name is Ariel Niu, I am a creator and speaker with close to a million in our online community. I created NiuViews to provide inspiration and resources on understanding and developing our consciousness. I share stories and examples on how to live and connect consciously (through self, social, spiritual development). The vision is to inspire the utility, power, and love in consciousness. We are all playing an inner game. ➟ subscribe for the Views of Niu: https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews   #confidence #selfmastery #communicationskills #socialskills #lifehacks #consciousness #psychologytips #selfhelp #relationships #NiuViews #communicationtips

5 steps to untangle any unwanted emotion: 1) PAUSE and BREATHE until reactiveness dies 2) FEEL the emotion to understand it 3) Remember everyone and everything is a MIRROR and REFLECTION of what is going on within us (thoughts and emotions) 4) Decide CLEARLY what you WANT 5A) Let it go, do nothing external, shift the internal OR 5B) Let the emotion go, take intentional and inspired actions with lightness   ↓ BOOK A VIDEO CONVERSATION WITH ME ↓ https://shop.arielniuviews.com/products/a-conversation-with-ariel-niu   ↓ GET THE THOUGHT MANIFESTATION BOOK ↓ https://bit.ly/ThinkingArielNiu   ↓ SUBSCRIBE TO MY CHANNEL ↓ https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews   ↓ SIGN UP FOR MY EMAILS ↓ https://beacons.ai/niu.views 'Consciously Developing' community coming soon   CONNECT: Instagram - https://instagram.com/niu.views TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.views 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Spotify - https://spoti.fi/3DhqyoB 'Views of Niu' Podcast via Apple - https://apple.co/3K4olPe The NiuViews Shop - https://shop.arielniuviews.com Website - https://beacons.ai/niu.views   ABOUT NIUVIEWS: My name is Ariel Niu, I am a creator and speaker with close to a million in our online community. I created NiuViews to provide inspiration and resources on understanding and developing our consciousness. I share stories and examples on how to live and connect consciously (through self, social, spiritual development). The vision is to inspire the utility, power, and love in consciousness. We are all playing an inner game. ➟ subscribe for the Views of Niu: https://www.youtube.com/c/NiuViews   00:00 Intro 00:15 5 steps to diffuse any emotion 07:28 Outro   #selfmastery #communicationskills #socialskills #lifehacks #consciousness #psychologytips #selfhelp #relationships #NiuViews #communicationtips #relationshipadvice