The Self Love Podcast

In this episode we explore codependent relationships and how being in the identity and role of the 'giver' allows the takers to take more. There will be a part 2 as I talk about the greater impact it can have in your life, and how to create real and lasting changes. If this resonated, and you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theselflove_therapist⁠ You can also find out more about me and info on working with me 1:1 on my website ⁠www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

In this episode we explore how lack of self trust, anxiety and the need for immediate certainty; how social media, AI and really ANY external dependency is hooking you into the anxious cycles that you may think they help you escape from. If this resonated, and you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠theselflove_therapist You can also find out more about me and info on working with me 1:1 on my website www.elainedenton.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

I am BACK after an unintentional long break!In this episode we explore how aesthetic viral trends are damaging your self worth, and how social media is hooking you into the fear of not being enough, by providing the certainty of buying something 'popular' to be 'popular' and how the mind hooks into this and creates anxious cycles. If this resonated, and you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠the_psychospiritualtherapist⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

In this episode we explore the power and truth about vulnerability, and how fear of it may be holding you back in relationships; causing unnecessary stress, struggle and conflict whilst trying to protect yourself and how this fear will get in the way of empathy, intimacy and deeper connection. You can watch the Brene Brown ted talk hereIf you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thetrueselftherapist⁠At the start of the episode, I mention vulnerability within abusive dynamics, you can get more advice here:https://www.nationaldahelpline.org.uk/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional. 

In this third episode of a 3 part podcast, I talk about how we can create REAL and LASTING change to the 'good girl' childhood blueprint that once kept us safe, through reframing shame, removing self blame and reparenting the inner child to create compassion, courage and the confidence to be YOU. If you want to connect with 'you' (and me) on a deeper level, you can⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠click here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be part the weekly 'Self Love' email community, ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠read my blog or find out more about me, and you can also find me on instagram as ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠thetrueselftherapistHere are some charities that offer help:⁠https://www.mind.org.uk/⁠⁠https://www.thecalmzone.net/international-mental-health-charities⁠You can also consult a registered mental health organisation in your local area if you need further help. ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Thanks so much for being here and don't forget to like, follow, subscribe, comment and review!Note: this podcast is not intended as, nor should be taken as, 'therapy' or personal advice. It is something that can help you raise curiosity about your relationship with 'you', and how everyday challenges or past experiences may relate to that, and how you may be able to help yourself to create change either through self help or via a certified professional.