Decide Your Legacy

Are you a leader or business owner considering team or personal coaching but held back by common objections like cost, time, or team buy-in? In this episode of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg dives deep into the nine most frequent objections he hears from leaders about business and leadership coaching.Adam unpacks powerful insights on:The difference between coaching and consulting and why industry knowledge isn't always the keyHow an outside, industry-agnostic perspective can break through company bottlenecksThe power of accountability, clarity, and consistent follow-up for lasting changeWhy investing in coaching is about long-term growth, profitability, and a healthier culture (not just cost)Real-life transformation stories from leaders who nearly said “no” but chose to invest in their teams and themselvesWhether you’re skeptical about coaching or want to kick-start positive change in your organization, this episode will help you weigh not just the investment, but the real cost of staying stuck. Be inspired to face your leadership challenges, spark meaningful conversations, and design a legacy you're proud of. Want to learn more about the Decide Your Legacy approach or try a powerful confidence-building course? Don’t miss Adam Gragg’s practical steps and special offer in the episode!►► GET MY FREE VIDEO & WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leadsMake your mission today to live the life you want to be remembered for, because your legacy depends on it.Subscribe for more actionable leadership and coaching insights from the DYL Podcast!#Leadership #BusinessCoaching #TeamDevelopment #PersonalGrowth #DYLpodcast Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Ready to turn setbacks into your secret weapon? In Episode 185 of the DYL Podcast, Adam Gragg invites you to master "The Long Game" and discover why leaders, and anyone hungry for growth, must think beyond today. From NFL game-day blunders to personal battles with failure, Adam Gragg shows how grit, vulnerability, and vision fuel true success.Get real about your fears, gather lessons from every stumble, and create a bounce-back plan that keeps you moving forward. Whether you’re a parent dreaming big for your kids or an entrepreneur navigating setbacks, these insights will inspire you to play, and WIN, the long game.Tune in now to laugh, learn, and light up your legacy. This episode isn’t just hope, it’s your playbook for lasting impact. Hit subscribe, share with a friend, and get ready to lead with courage!►► GET MY FREE VIDEO & WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE! 7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE https://www.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof_landing_leads►►WATCH THIS EPISODE FOR TIPS ON JOURNALINGhttps://youtu.be/QwJ5LFQ9GhECHAPTERS:00:00 Resilience After Failure05:26 "Parenting: Embrace the Long Game"09:22 "Growth Through Fear and Lessons"10:20 "Embrace Imperfection, Learn, Grow"15:23 "Brian's First Year in Business"17:30 "Letter from Daughter's Heart"20:51 "Take Action and Share" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Step into the arena of tough talks with Episode 184 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and special guest Troy Trussell as they crack the code on "Hard Conversations." Are you tired of walking on eggshells, dodging confrontations, or letting fear keep you silent? Discover the game-changing power of courage over comfort!In this episode, you’ll learn the three decisive moves you need to finally stop avoiding those difficult discussions—at work, at home, and everywhere in between. Uncover why we procrastinate, how planning to listen (not just to talk!) can transform your relationships, and why commitment is the secret sauce to real change. Packed with practical examples, personal stories, and actionable strategies, this episode is your blueprint for turning anxiety into productive action.Most of us know there's a hard conversation we should have, but we keep putting it off. This video addresses the common tendency of conflict avoidance in relationships, whether with coworkers, family, or friends. Learn valuable strategies for navigating difficult conversations, fostering better communication, and enhancing your emotional intelligence for stronger connections.Ready to punch fear in the face and create meaningful change? Listen now and let the DYL Podcast help you tackle the conversations you’ve been putting off. Your legacy starts with one brave step, don’t miss out!►► GET MY FREE VIDEO & WORKSHEET - SHATTERPROOF YOURSELF LITE!7 SMALL STEPS TO A GIANT LEAP IN YOUR CONFIDENCE CHAPTERS:00:00 "Keys to Successful Hard Conversations"05:34 "Dreaming of Family Legacy"08:04 Avoiding Difficult Conversations09:44 Avoiding Discomfort and Its Costs14:22 "Facing Difficult Conversations"17:12 "Listening Over Agenda"22:02 "Parenting and Tough Conversations"24:55 "Commit to Hard Conversations"29:10 "Leveraging Growth for Success"31:28 "Schedule, Commit, and Act"35:55 "Overcoming Avoidance Through Action"36:56 "Decide, Act, and Grow" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Feeling overwhelmed by holiday chaos? Press play on Episode 183 of the DYL Podcast and let stress melt away! Join host Adam Gragg with guest Troy Trussell as they swap real stories, unfiltered advice, and a few laughs about surviving, and thriving, during family gatherings.Discover three game-changing tips for tackling tension, setting healthy boundaries, and finding gratitude (even when your sister has an epic Dutch Bros coffee meltdown!). Learn how to switch from “problem mode” to an opportunity mindset, focus on what you can control, and level up your self-care, all while keeping your cool in the lion’s den of holiday drama.With vulnerable moments, relatable family tales, and practical insights, this episode is your go-to guide for turning dreaded get-togethers into moments of connection and growth. Tune in and unlock the secret to a stress-proof, joy-filled season.Don’t let drama hijack your holidays—listen now and decide your legacy!RESOURCES:Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini CourseShatterproof Yourself helps you break free from anxiety, build lasting confidence, and overcome the fears that hold you back. This video offers powerful insights into using "self reflection" to assess your actions and foster "personal growth". By asking yourself what advice you'd give to others, you cultivate "self awareness" and a stronger "mindset", leading to valuable "life lessons". This simple yet profound exercise in "asking for advice" ensures "positive thinking" and consistency in your principles.3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader7 Benefits of Being Courageous4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation TendencyHow to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life ChoicesCHAPTERS:00:00 "Advice You'd Give Yourself"04:10 "Embracing Positive Family Time"08:24 "Serenity Prayer in Action"12:19 Resolving Conflict Through Communication14:07 "Self-Care and Support Strategies"16:27 "Holiday Tools for Stress Relief"Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy nobody else.#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the magic of meaningful conversation with Episode 182 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he reveals the art of Connecting With People—just in time for holidays, work parties, and real-life interactions that matter.Discover three powerful tools to spark instant connection, even in the most challenging relationships. Learn how courageous conversations, sincere apologies, and adding genuine value can transform your friendships, family dynamics, and professional circles.Feeling anxious about that upcoming get-together? Adam Gragg shares his personal blueprint for overcoming discomfort and building bridges, even when conflict rears its head. Plus, get his four must-ask questions guaranteed to break the ice and deepen relationships at any gathering.Ready to turn awkward small talk into memorable moments? Don’t miss this episode—connection starts with you, and the ripple effect is life-changing.Tune in now and start creating the legacy you want to be remembered for!RESOURCES:Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini CourseCHAPTERS:00:00 "Connecting Through Holiday Interactions"05:49 Healthy Relationships Require Humility08:21 "Intentional Connection Over Avoidance"12:36 "Near-Death Experiences and Childhood Memories"13:28 Openness Leads to Healthier Connections Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the secret to life-changing self-discovery in the latest episode of the DYL Podcast! Join Adam Gragg in Episode 181 as he reveals the three powerful questions that can ignite your mindset, supercharge your confidence, and shatter the harmful beliefs holding you back.Ready to rewrite your story? Adam Gragg will teach you how to ask yourself the questions that the brain simply can’t ignore. This will begin opening doors to personal clarity, bold vision, and deep-rooted self-truth. Whether you’re craving better relationships, unstoppable confidence, or freedom from self-doubt, this episode will give you the tools to step into your most courageous self.Don’t just listen—take action! Tune in now and discover how one small question can spark your greatest transformation. Your legacy starts today!The human brain responds uniquely to questions. Discover how effective "self questioning" can lead to significant "mindset shifts" and foster incredible "personal growth". This video offers practical "life advice" for "self improvement" by using your brain's natural tendencies.RESOURCES:Shatterproof Yourself LITE - *FREE* Mini Coursehttps://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/offers/v6qBFVLU/checkout3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/CHAPTERS:00:00 "Leadership Through Reflection & Gratitude"04:21 "Imagining Unlimited Self-Confidence"07:26 "Defining Actions for Progress"11:47 "Transform Through Truth and Action"Live the life today you want to be remembered for. Decide your legacy—nobody else.#SelfGrowth #Mindset #Coaching #PersonalDevelopment #decideyourlegacy Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the secret to overcoming anger in Episode 179 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg as he dives headfirst into those fiery moments we all face, and turns them into opportunities for growth. Ever felt your blood boil over a holiday drama or at the office? You’re not alone! Discover why anger really shows up, what’s hiding beneath it, and the three powerful actions you can take today to reclaim control.From wild tales of flying pen holders and kitchen knives, to honest confessions about facing fear, this episode is packed with relatable stories, laugh-out-loud insights, and practical tools to help you cool the flames before they burn bridges. Learn how externalizing your anger, digging into your hidden fears, and leaning on your “monkeys", those trusted friends, can set you free.Ready to transform your frustration into confidence, gratitude, and lasting change? Listen now and start living the legacy you want to be remembered for. Don’t miss out—your courage upgrade begins here!Click Here ➡️ Shatterproof Yourself Light CourseTop 5 Most Relatable Blogs:3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader7 Benefits of Being Courageous4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation TendencyHow to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices00:00 "Managing Anger and Expectations"03:35 "Accepting the Uncontrollable"08:20 "Unpacking and Addressing Fears"10:23 "Overcoming Fear and Anger"15:30 "Perspective on Wealth and Life"18:01 "Fighting for Gratitude"20:34 "Overcoming Anger and Legacy"Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with anyone who could use help managing anger!Live the life today that you want to be remembered for 10 years after you’re gone—you decide your legacy! Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the secret superpower behind bold leadership, gratitude! In Episode 179 of the DYL Podcast, host Adam Gragg sits down with purpose-driven business leader Ben Hutton for a refreshingly real, fast-paced journey into the messy, courageous world of thankfulness. Are you tired of stress killing your creativity? Want to break the cycle of negativity and step into abundance? This episode throws open the vault of practical tips, personal stories, and, wait for it, worksheets that can supercharge your mindset and fuel actionable change.Discover the three game-changing decisions every leader needs to make to keep gratitude at the center of life, work, and relationships. Hear how Ben Hutton cracked the code to staying present, transforming team culture, and fighting resistance to positivity, even on the construction site! This conversation doesn’t just make you feel good; it arms you for growth, resilience, and lasting impact.Listen now to spark joy, crush comparison, banish perfectionism, and ignite bolder action. You’ll leave with an actionable plan you can use TODAY. Dare to be the leader who lives—and leaves—a legacy of gratitude. Dive in, and decide your legacy!Contact Ben Hutton and the With Purpose Podcast:https://benhutton.com/withpurpose/Click Here ➡️ 25 Gratitude Questions to Stay PositiveClick Here ➡️ Shatterproof Yourself Light CourseTop 5 Most Relatable Blogs:3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader7 Benefits of Being Courageous4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation TendencyHow to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life ChoicesCHAPTERS:00:00 "Three Key Decisions Discussion"05:41 "Working at Gratitude"08:40 "Schedule Gratitude for Consistency"10:43 Building Connection Through Gratitude14:19 Gratitude and Life's Wake-Up Call19:44 "Gratitude Brings Present Focus"23:17 Practicing Gratitude Through Actions26:19 "Finding Myself in Leadership"27:31 "Leadership Reset and Self-Discovery"32:56 "Choose Greatness Through Agency"34:55 Weekly Planner for Prioritization37:08 "Real Friends Amid Divorce"Don’t forget to subscribe for more conversations on leadership, growth, and living your legacy! Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Ready to leave burnout and chaos behind? Tune in to Episode 178 of the DYL Podcast where host Adam Gragg teams up with Legacy Coaches Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson for a lively, honest, and practical dive into the secret sauce of living a well-balanced life.Discover how purpose adds fuel to your happiness, why surrender is your superpower, and how structure can turn your wild garden of life into a blooming masterpiece. Laugh along with stories of accidental wisdom and honest struggles, get real-life tips for tackling perfectionism, and find out how simple rituals and small tweaks can transform your relationships, energy, and joy, at work and at home.Don’t wait until you’re 80 to figure out what matters! Join the DYL Podcast and start making bold, balanced moves today. Listen now for practical tools, heartfelt stories, and a contagious dose of courage to help you decide, and live, your legacy.Click Here ➡️ Shatterproof Yourself Light CourseTop 5 Most Relatable Blogs:3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader7 Benefits of Being Courageous4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation TendencyHow to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices00:00 "Finding Balance in Life"03:33 Struggling with Balance06:18 "Adding Purpose to Your Life"12:02 "Rigid Thinking and Life Balance"14:29 "You Don't Have to Worry"16:57 Tornado Facts and Clarity19:07 Embracing Life's Shades of Gray22:32 "Set Goals, Find Focus"25:45 "Structuring Life for Balance"28:47 "Lifelong Commitment to Scheduling"32:27 "Decide Your Legacy Today"Like, subscribe, and share. Leave us a review and tell us one action you’ll take for better balance today! Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the secret to fearless decision-making with Episode 177 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they blast through the myths of perfection and hesitation, serving up three sizzling tips to help you make strategic decisions with confidence.Struggling with analysis paralysis? Haunted by the pursuit of the “perfect choice”? Discover why clarity beats certainty, how decisions are really part of dynamic systems (not isolated events!), and why your emotions might just be the secret ingredient to bold leadership. Whether you’re a CEO, a parent, or figuring out your next move in life, this episode shows you how to break free from indecision and lead with courage.Tune in for real stories, practical wisdom, and a dash of humor—a surefire way to make every choice count. Take action, change your mindset, and finally move forward with decisions that build your legacy.Ready to stop second-guessing and start living bravely? Hit play now—your future self will thank you!Shatterproof Yourself Light: Free Mini Coursehttps://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/00:00 Community Leadership and Legacy Insights05:51 Clarity in Decision-Making09:28 Clarity Beats Certainty10:03 Letting Go of Perfection13:45 "Pause After Religious Experiences"16:45 Leadership Reflection and Improvement21:51 Emotion: Friend, Not Master23:58 Mastering Emotions Over Impulses28:22 "Take Action, Share Impact" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the secret superpower of self-reflection with Episode 176 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Nick Bertram, a seasoned leader and four-year journaling enthusiast, as they explore the transformative magic of journaling. Discover how putting pen to paper doesn’t just organize your thoughts, but clears mental clutter, sparks gratitude, and even revitalizes your leadership and relationships.Ever wondered how great leaders cultivate self-awareness and tackle life’s messiness? It’s time to learn their not-so-secret weapon! Whether you’re a journaling newbie or a seasoned scribbler, this episode is packed with honest stories, practical tips, and laugh-out-loud moments that will inspire you to start your own journey—and give yourself some grace along the way.Ready to find clarity, stress less, and reconnect with what matters most? Pop in your earbuds, grab your favorite notebook, and get ready to write your way to a better you. Press play now—your legacy is waiting!This episode shows the impact of leadership and how self improvement can enhance your abilities. Great leaders intentionally practice self awareness and seek feedback through coaching. Developing these leadership skills and undergoing leadership training are crucial components of personal growth.Shatterproof Yourself Light: Free Mini Coursehttps://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/00:00 "Journaling for Leadership Insight"05:43 Journaling to Clarify Emotions06:52 "Journaling: A Lifelong Habit"09:40 Evening Reflections and Simplicity16:31 Organizing for Clarity and Stress Relief19:53 Shift Toward Positive Journaling23:39 "Start Gratitude Journaling"24:41 "Journaling for Problem-Solving"28:44 Journaling Sparks Growth31:27 Reflecting Through Writing34:50 Nick’s Journey: Mean to Friendly Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Ready to reclaim your power and supercharge your leadership? Don’t miss Episode 175 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg gets real about the sneaky ways we give our power away to emotions, fears, and even the outcome of a lobster dinner! Adam breaks down the everyday traps—from that tough conversation you’re avoiding to letting a bad day hijack your mood—and hands you the keys to take your power back.In this episode, you’ll discover:Why your thoughts, emotions, responses, and actions are the real game-changersHow to stop ruminating and start acting with intentionThe simple daily habits that put you back in the driver’s seat of your lifeStrategies to face your fears, crush avoidance, and lead yourself (and others!) with confidencePlus, you’ll laugh, learn, and walk away inspired to tackle whatever you might be giving your power to right now.Listen now and discover the liberating truth: you get to decide your legacy, no one else!Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Healthhttps://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/00:00 "Face Fears, Teach Lessons"05:09 "Beliefs, Power, and Choice"08:17 "Managing Thoughts Through Positivity"12:22 Cycle of Worry and Control15:28 Facing Rejection and Self-Awareness17:17 "Empower Your Mental Health"22:12 "Preparing for Emotional Responses"25:57 "Keep Commitments, No Excuses"28:01 "Building Habits Through Routine"29:44 "Insight vs Action: Take Risks" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Feeling rocked? Struggling with self-doubt? In Episode 174 of the DYL Podcast: Shatterproof Yourself with Seven Steps for Leaders to Rebuild Confidence When Life Knocks You Down, host Adam Gragg and his compelling co-hosts Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson tackle the secrets of bouncing back from insecurity and regaining your confidence!Uncover the seven action-packed steps to rebuild your mojo and become shatterproof, just like the multi-layered glass on a jet! From unleashing your vision to conquering your past, rewriting your perspective, practicing purposeful self-care, and forging rock-solid relationships, Adam and friends break down each tactic with practical stories, humor, and real-life vulnerability.This episode is your invitation to face your fears, ditch perfectionism, and embrace radical authenticity. Whether you’re a leader at work, home, or just leading yourself, learn how to shift from stuck to unstoppable. Find out how to build your “monkey list,” why self-care sometimes means getting out of your own head, and why action—not just insight—is the game-changer for personal growth.Ready to step into confidence and courage? Hit play and let DYL Podcast help you live a legacy worth remembering.Shatterproof Yourselfhttps://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/00:00 Building Confidence with Expert Insights04:45 Build Confidence Through Vision07:00 "Roadmap to Success"10:18 Self-Awareness Unlocks Personal Growth13:34 "Know Your Worth, Be Shatterproof"18:52 "Navigating Emotional Health Trailhead"22:00 "Confidence Through Selfless Action"23:06 "Cutting Distractions, Finding Balance"26:10 "Overcome Insecurity Through Connection"31:11 "Being There When Needed"32:17 "Take Action, Build Confidence" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock your leadership superpower in Episode 173 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they reveal the hidden magic of listening, yes, really listening. Discover why listening is not just a skill but your ultimate advantage in business, relationships, and life!Are your fears and defenses getting in the way of real connection? Adam and Sherman pull back the curtain on how to get past surface-level chatter, tackle your inner critic, and forge deeper bonds at work and at home. Get ready for raw stories, laughter, and transformational insights that will have you tuned in and turning up your listening skills like never before.Stop missing out on the breakthroughs waiting on the other side of silence. Hear how a single courageous conversation can spark growth, boost your confidence, and even turn bad news into new opportunities. Whether you’re leading a team, growing your business, or helping your family thrive, mastering the art of listening is your ticket to lasting impact.Don’t just hear—listen, learn, and lead with purpose. Tune in now and start building the legacy you want to be remembered for!Shatterproof Yourself eCoursehttps://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/00:00 "Fear Undermines Effective Listening"05:15 "Facing Fears for Confidence"06:34 Dreading Asking for Help12:38 "Deep Listening Uncovers Core Issues"13:26 Facing Core Issues Through Listening19:49 "Business Requires Trust and Revenue"22:30 Mastering Sales Objections24:07 Managing Defensive Supervisees Calmly28:04 "Navigating Change and Connection"30:22 "Boost Confidence, Master Listening" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Are your fears standing in the way of your greatness? It’s time to grow a pair and leap into courage with Episode 172 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle the real monsters under your bed—fear of flying, public speaking, awkward conversations, and everything in between.Uncover the secrets of Exposure Therapy and discover why baby steps, bold moves, and even a brush with a tarantula can shatter the chains of anxiety. Laugh along as Adam and Sherman share hilarious (and sometimes harrowing) stories of personal growth, embarrassing moments, and surprising breakthroughs. You’ll hear real-life strategies to crush perfectionism, face discomfort head-on, and finally take action on that ONE thing holding you back.Stop avoiding. Start deciding. Listen now to learn how to embrace your fears, ignore the voice of doubt, and walk away with a game plan for courageous leadership—whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or just conquering your next high school reunion.It’s raw, it’s real, it’s wildly relatable. Hit play and decide your legacy today!Shatterproof Yourself Course (Decide Your Legacy’s free course)https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/00:00 Critique of Mental Health Practices05:48 Facing Fears for Mental Health07:04 Recognizing and Overcoming Triggers12:55 Tackling Leadership Fears Incrementally16:15 Growth Through Intentional Listening17:23 Step-by-Step Parachuting Preparation21:42 "Overcoming Networking Anxiety"25:14 Encouraging Willingness in Children27:00 Facing Fears After Setbacks30:23 "Effective Exposure Therapy Guidance"36:15 "Overcoming Fear Imperfection"37:54 Quick Reactions Hinder Transformation42:31 Overcoming Fear Through Engagement43:47 "Breakthrough Strategy for Team Meetings"48:13 Take Action for Lasting ChangeSUBSCRIBE for more inspiring conversations on leadership and personal growth!Connect with us: https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/ Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the secrets of mastering your day with Episode 171 of the DYL Podcast—Time Management! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle one of life’s most precious gifts: your time. Are you tired of ending your days feeling frazzled, unproductive, or like you’re always running three meetings behind? This episode is your antidote!Discover three powerful, actionable principles that set great leaders apart! Face the hard stuff, play the long game, and own your attention like it’s your superpower. With candid stories, playful banter, and wisdom born from real-life leadership, Adam and Sherman will show you how to turn time from your toughest enemy into your greatest ally.Ready to kick procrastination to the curb, conquer your calendar, and feel the thrill of true accomplishment? Tune in and tap into strategies that make every minute count, so you can live your legacy, not leave it to chance.Don’t let another moment slip away. Listen now and reclaim your most valuable resource! Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Step into the world of courageous leadership with Episode 170 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast! Ever wondered what it’s like to lead the way when you’re the youngest person in the room? Host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Tyler Higgins pull back the curtain on the real-life wins, wobbles, and wisdom of leading at any age, but especially your 20s and 30s.From family businesses to boardroom breakthroughs, Tyler spills on balancing humility with confidence, conquering impostor syndrome, and discovering your unique strengths—even when the veterans joke they “changed your diapers.” Learn how to embrace fear, crush self-doubt, find mentors or become one! And why showing up, making mistakes, and building authentic connections are the superpowers every young—or young at heart—leader needs.Unleash your potential, learn the secrets of self-auditing, and grab practical tips for finding your voice in a world that needs bold, fresh leadership now more than ever.Ready to lead? Press play and get inspired to decide your legacy—no matter your age!Shatterproof Yourself Course:https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/00:00 Young Leaders' Self-Doubt Challenges05:58 Family Business Leadership Challenges12:34 Harnessing Talents with Humility20:52 Intentional Growth Through Mentorship24:13 Internship Success Through Determination27:01 Resilient Leadership Amid Resistance32:17 "Embracing Spiritual and Personal Transformation"37:26 Opportunities Grow with Leadership Visibility46:47 "Secret to Success: Observe Others"49:59 Focus on Progress, Not Problems56:29 Estimating Challenges in Project Bidding01:00:44 "Leadership Qualities Through Youth" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the secret sauce of true leadership with Episode 169 of the DYL Podcast: “Being Courageous as a Leader!” Join host Adam Gragg and his powerhouse guests, Kelsey Torkelson and legacy coach Sherman Orr, as they pull back the curtain on what it really takes to lead with courage, in business, at home, and everywhere in between.Ready to kick fear to the curb? Discover why facing those internal dragons (think: fear of embarrassment, judgment, or failure) is the ultimate game-changer. Sherman gets real about his leap from priesthood to the world of coaching, while Adam shares his own brave moments, and blunders, that paved the way for authentic, gutsy leadership.You’ll learn the three essential benefits of courageous leadership: say goodbye to anxiety, watch your relationships blossom, and crank up your confidence to new heights! Plus, get inspired with practical tips, daily habits, and stories that prove courage isn’t just for superheroes—it’s for everyone, including you.Listen now and get ready to do the scary thing anyway. Your legacy, and your team, are waiting. Decide your legacy, starting today!Shatterproof Yourself Course:https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/ Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Unlock the hidden superpower every great leader needs, curiosity! In Episode 168 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how asking the right questions can instantly dissolve tension, spark meaningful connections, and propel your team toward real transformation.Ever dreaded a tough conversation or felt anxious about feedback? Discover Adam’s game-changing strategy: swap confrontation for curiosity! Learn the art of open-ended, non-judgmental questions that inspire clarity and creativity, without being the “bad guy.” Whether you’re guiding a business or navigating holidays with relatives, Adam’s practical tips will help you lower anxiety, build trust, and bring out the best in others.Ready to connect, create, and lead with heart? Hit play and get inspired to turn curious questions into courageous leadership. Your legacy starts with one question—will you ask it?COURSES:Shatterproof Yourself 3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/CHAPTERS:00:00 Title: "Impact of Great Leadership Questions"05:08 "Transformative Power of Questions"07:32 Nonjudgmental Inquiry for Clarity11:57 Curious Leadership Through Questioning14:12 Curious Conversations for Thanksgiving16:54 Personal Growth and Life Assessment23:13 Curiosity Reduces Anxiety, Deepens Connections25:15 Action is Key to Transformation Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!

Welcome to episode 167 of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, "All Leaders are Afraid, " In this powerful conversation, host Adam Gragg is joined by Tara Jost, owner at Higgins Group, and Kelsey Torkelson, brand relations director at Decide Your Legacy, to tackle a topic every leader faces but few openly discuss: fear. Adam opens up about his own insecurities and explains why vulnerability is not a sign of weakness, but a source of empowerment—especially for leaders.Together, the trio explores how fear manifests in leadership, from avoiding tough conversations to the stress of making decisions that impact others' lives. You'll hear real stories about facing hard moments, why accountability matters at all levels, and how great leaders act despite their fears. Plus, they're sharing three practical tools you can use right away to identify, confront, and move through fear—whether you're leading a business, a family, or your own life.If you've ever struggled with indecision, worried about letting others down, or wondered how to break through a paralyzing fear of failure, this episode is packed with candid insights and actionable advice to help you lead courageously.3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leaderhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/7 Benefits of Being Courageoushttps://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each Onehttps://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendencyhttps://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choiceshttps://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/COURSES:Shatterproof Yourself CHAPTERS:00:00 "Facing Fear Empowers Leadership"03:13 Embracing Balance and Growth07:42 Leaders' Universal Struggles and Fears11:02 Solo Advocate for Accountability13:10 Fear of Conversations and Isolation19:17 Overpowering Fear as a Leader20:44 Empowering Choices Over Negativity25:31 "Effective Conversations Over Email Challenges"28:20 Resistance to Change: Accountability Challenges31:11 "Empowerment and Accountability Strategy"34:25 Overcoming Fear with Accountability37:24 Home Stress and Apology Modeling41:05 "Conquer Fear with Commitment" Be sure to check out Escape Artists Travel and tell them Decide Your Legacy sent you!