Loc(Her)Room

We all have those questions that we only ask ourselves in our head but what if you could get another opinion to help you make a decision? Well, we are starting a new segment in our podcast called "Asking for a friend", that will publish bi-weekly. Our awesome listeners and followers will anonymously send us questions on whatever is on their mind and we will answer them on the show.  Be sure to direct your questions to our Instagram page listed below.  Loc(Her)Room IG podcast page: https://www.instagram.com/loc_her_room_podcast/

It isn't always easy to compromise and hear someone else's point of view when all you can see is red in the heat of the moment.  In this episode of "Fighting Fair in relationships" we discuss what it looks like to fight unfair and way to fight fair. If you're in a relationship or marriage then you're in it for the long haul and finding ways to get through your disagreements will help you in the long run. Listen now and see if the tips given are helpful to your relationship. Rate us on Apple podcast and share your experience in the comments.

When you reflect back on your childhood and lessons you were taught, can you say that every base was covered, or are there things you wish you knew now as an adult, lessons, and advice that would aid in better decision making. Listen in as Telly and I discuss the lesson and advice we wish we had received growing up.

Do you think you are born gay or It's something that just happens when you start to realize you have emotional needs? How about coming out of the closet and bearing yourself to the world that you like the same sex? All of these things happen when you are thinking of being your true authentic self. Listen in as we discuss our own personal journeys of being and becoming lesbians and the lesbian lifestyle.

Sometimes it's difficult to keep the spark in a relationship when you are not connected with your partner. In this episode, we discuss how to recognize the signs of becoming disconnected, and how to get connected again.

As we continue to face injustice from the government, we are also confronted with police brutality that leaves hundreds of families with one less loved one, and now is the time to speak out and say that enough is enough.

Often times life gets in the way of keeping friendships above water, but where do the boundaries of friendship lie? Telly and I have conversed about the types of friends we have and the relationships that come with them. We similar and different views of when a friend no longer is to be considered a friend, but listen in and also leave us comments on your views of friendship and how long you feel you can go without talking to them to still be considered friends. While you're there Subscribe to our podcast, and share it with your friends and we will talk to you in the next episode.

Sometimes we all need a pick me up on the days we are feeling not our best. I have decided to choose a random day of the week to give you all just a short and sweet word of encouragement. I hope that you enjoy this message and until next time, live beautiful.     Blog: www.livinglokee.wordpress.com Podcast on all platforms Instagram: Tenorose Twitter: SunSetBeauty87 Snapchat: Lundon_blu --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support

Motivation Friday: We all know that finding our purpose can be a challenge when you factor in focusing in on your weaknesses. Les Brown said it best that "Practice makes improvement". You don't have to be perfect to make the changes to improve your skills and up that self confidence. Love yourself and know that with each step you are going to get to your destiny.   "I hope that you enjoyed my podcast and that you share it with your friends and family. Also, Head over to Itunes to rate and comment on the show. I would love to read your feedback. Don't forget to complete your task and until next time live beautiful." Track me down on these platforms: Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/tenorose/ Blog: https://livinglokee.wordpress.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support

Hi Family, I am so happy to be sharing my summer reads with you all. Now I know that we all have our own genre of books that we prefer but these are a few gems that I just want to drop in your bucket. Each book is something different and gives you different results, so don't be afraid to pick up what speaks to you. I also love recommendations and two of these are new to my library of authors, so I hope that you find one of these books to be a good read.  Don't forget to complete your task, which is to pick a book and read for at least 30 minutes.  Links to the book is below, and happy reading. Book 1:Girl Stop Apologizing by Rachel Hollis Book 2: The 21 Irrefutable Laws Of Leadership by John C. Maxwell  Book 3:Good Luck With That by Kristan Higgins Book 4:  The Perfect Date By Evelyn Lozado     Head over to iTunes and rate, comment and review my podcast, this is how I know if you are loving or hating my content. All of your feedback is appreciated.  To keep up with me when you are not listening you can find me on these platforms: Instagram: Tenorose Twitter: SunSetBeauty87 Snapchat: Lundon_blu Facebook: KeeKee Whitted --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support

Don’t be afraid to follow your passion. Take chances and make mistakes that will define the existence of your future. You can only obtain success through action, and to do that you have to ACT. Take a step, just move. I present you with 5 steps that will help you to define and begin your success journey, turning your passion into your profession. Head over to iTunes and leave a review on this podcast, I would greatly appreciate it. Follow me on social media: Instagram: @iamsolokee & Tenorose Blog: www.livinglokee.wordpress.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support

There’s never a good time for anything. The idea is to create the moments and make it the right time. Whether you’re ‘Why’ is for financial freedom, mental relief, or advocacy blogging is a great way to reach a lucrative audience. The first step is learning your ‘WHY’. Then get started and boom welcome to the blogosphere. Happy blogging. Discussed in this blog: 1) Why you want to start a blog 2) Choosing your platform 3) Choosing a hosting site 4) Deciding on a domain name 5) Setting up your blog 6) Writing your first blog My Blog: http://www.livinglokee.wordpress.com Instagram: instagram.com/iamsolokee Sites mentioned: •Bluehost: https://www.bluehost.com/track/livinglokee/ -Use this site and start your blog for only $3.95/month •Wordpress Https://www.wordpress.com --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support

Welcome to another episode of Sippin’ Tea With Kee Today I discuss the 8 ways in which I used to declutter my mind and find my happiness again. It is so easy to get into a stinky funk and forget that we have purpose, but what is most important is that we come back to reality and take massive action to reach those goals. Listen in as I tell you exactly how I came from the pits of self-deprivation and into a thought-filled world of possibilities. Books mentioned: T.D. Jakes “Fly” Https://twitter.com/BishopJakes Les Brown “Live your dreams” Https://twitter.com/LesBrown77 Jen Sincero “You are a badass, how to stop doubting your greatness and start living an awesome life” Http://twitter.com/JenSincero Lisa Nichols: Author of “No Matter What” Https://twitter.com/2motivate Jim Rohn Https://www.jimrohn.com Apps mentioned: Netflix: Check out “The Secret” Https://www.netflix.com Where you can find me: LoKee Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/Iamsolokee Blog: “Sippin Tea With Kee”: http://www.livinglokee.wordpress.com YouTube: www.youtube.com/user/VanityAffiar11 --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support

What does it take to create the perfect night life or an unforgettable day time experience. Epiphany, owner of New Era Entertainment and one half of the female duo with Diamond of Diamond Production, says that “in order to create an unforgettable experience with customers, it is paramount to acknowledge their presence, and also provide a safe and entertaining time with a variety of music genres. Diamond and Epiphany who are the newest up and coming in the industry of entertainment and party promotions are currently bringing late nights and early mornings to “the Queen City” of Charlotte, North Carolina. With hospitality being their #1 priority, both Diamond and Epiphany strive to make sure that they are serving more than just the LBGTQ, but every demographic in Charlotte. Diamond who is more experienced in the media department of the business and duo, knows how to get word out to the public and into the building. She “Diamond” is very creative and strategic in her approach and creative style with posting ads, videos that get the crowds ready to buy their next outfit. Epiphany is all about the business. She seals the deals and makes sure that all duties pertaining to the bookings and running of the night are in order. Complete opposites, both Diamond and Epiphany compliment one another as each bring something different to the table. This a great aspect as it allows their creativity juices to flow and also influence their own separate groups of friends and fans. We all want to know more about these two awesome women of entrepreneurship, so listen in as we go more in-depth about New Era Entertainment and Diamond Productions, and also get to the nitty gritty and get personal. Find out the scoop into their everyday lives, tune in now. Here’s a toast to being dedicated, finding and having strength, and persevering. Reaching goals and finding peace and happiness. Catch them on these social media platforms Diamond FB-LINDA RICKENBACKER IG- 757gal & 704_diamond_productions_704 Snapchat-prettyrickey757 Epiphany Snapchat-epiphavy IG- young.manifest @entertainmentnewera FB:Epiphany Woodson You can follow your hostess with the mostess here: Snapchat: Lundon_blu FB: KeeKee Whitted IG: Iamsolokee Tenorose --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support

Keepin it in the family
We all have a dysfunctional family in some way shape or form. The family that argues with one another, that fights each other, and slights another. To say that my family is perfect would be a bold faced lie, sometimes I wonder if we're all really related. I Love them to death but sometimes certain actions that make you question the relationship. When I think of family, the word that comes to mind is 'loyalty'. Having your back, even when you're wrong but telling you in private. Being able to call on them when you're in a rut or just to have someone to talk to. One thing about my family that I enjoyed was being able to get together for Family reunions, cookouts, vacations, everything that screamed family, family ,family and have a genuinely good time.
Now-a-days, it seems impossible to get everyone under one roof, or at least to let everyone know when something is going on. But again, we all suffer from having a dysfunctional family. I have noticed that in many families, they have disputes and go months and years without speaking to one another, to see each other in public and act as if they don't exist. I never understood how this was ever okay! Families, like all other relationships going through their ups and downs but you always end up kissing and making up. At least for the sane folk!
But how can you build or continue building healthy family relationships:
1). Time together: Spend time with your family, and really give them your undivided attention. I know that we all have a life and we like to stay connected, but what is staying glue to your phone or being distracted with minor things to sharing memories and having great conversation. Tomorrow isn't promised, so it's better to stay connected and find ways of reaching out to one another. It's as simple as sending a text "Hope you're having a good day, I love you!" That can change the dynamic of ones relationship to another. It is the absence that speaks distance, make family a priority. It isn't always easy, it can be hard work to meet everyone's needs. There are numerous generations within a family, and it is paramount to lead by example when it comes to the children of the family. They should be able to see what love looks like from within. From their families is where they first experience love, emotions and dysfunction.
2). Separate work and family life: It is so easy to become caught up in a world where you are taking your work home and all you are thinking about is work, work, work. We often forget to switch off from work, and this can even include household chores, caring for a family member, working in an office or organization we don't realize that you have just stepped into another role and it isn't manager, or supervisor. It's mother, husband, wife, whatever your roll may be you need to be available to fulfill it. Sometimes our minds do not shut off when it comes to our jobs, but something that may be helpful is to write it down on a sticky not and worry about tomorrow when you get to work. This leaves more time and attention to give to your family.
3).Show Respect: Set a good example, or better yet treat others the way you would like to be treated. It is easier for people to listen and accept your view when you communicate in a respectful and caring way. Send clear messages and really listen to understand the opposite person. We have to remember that children are watching, and they should be taught the importance of providing respectful responses.
4) Provide support for each other: It is so easy to ignore that phone call or text, and to say I don't feel like talking or assuming that what that person needs isn't important for your time. This may seem like a minimal task but being present and checking in with other family members shows that you are there to provide, comfort, love, and care.
I have just given you 4 keys to building healthy family relationships, follow the link to listen in as I go into more details on how you can build stro --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support

Having healthy relationships means more than posting the good times on social media and celebrating only the anniversaries. Building healthy relationships means starting with a good foundation and learning the person you wish to have in your life. Being effective in communication, compromising, and having healthy boundaries are only a few keys I think that lead to building healthy relationships. check out my podcast and listen in to more of the healthy relationship building keys. Here’s a toast to building happy, healthy and joyous relationships! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/kieyotia-whitted/support