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What we have been doing for the past 30 days during our Self Quarantine.
We returned home from the Tom’s Trips Ms No Swim Suit contest that’s held at Hedonism II in Jamaica every year on March 8th and we had no clue what we would be coming home to.
Imagine that you are out of the country and you come home to a whole new world where you can’t find the every day needed items like Hamburger, Toilet paper and Cleaning supplies! It was a scary feeling and some were saying it was a hoax, others were so fearful they were wearing full on bio hazard suits and people are yelling at others who get too close, we talk about all this and some of the things we have been doing to keep a positive attitude on this very scary and very real pandemic. Click this link to see our series of fun photos on “How we deal with the Corornavirus Pandemic” We invite you to Follow and subscribe to our Social media to see our daily fun photos we post to our Instagram, Twitter , Facebook page and YouTube to bring a little smile to the people in our lives, click any of the links and follow us to automatically receive notifications when we post new photos!
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what we do during a pandemic with Tom and Bunny
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Email from a couple who went to a swingers club
We received an email that a couple went to their local swingers club and they did not hook up, now one of them feel that it was a waste of money and doesn’t want to go back. This episode we discuss different view points of what we would do..
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We remind people why they initially met their spouses!
We are always asked how to talk a spouse into the Swingers Lifestyle because they have a sexless marriage or relationship. In this podcast we discuss our opinions on trying to convince
your Spouse or S/O into Swinging when you are already in a Sexless marriage.
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We are always asked how we meet people in the swinging lifestyle and today’s podcast we discuss different methods
Many new couples fantasize about the prospects of meeting and engaging other Couples and Singles both Men and Women for sex, but have no idea that there is a vast network of ways to meet these couples. Listen to our podcast and start meeting people today!
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Start meeting Couples and Singles today!
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We answer your questions and we were asked what we personally look for in a swingers club. Note: This podcast is based off a video we did for our Vlogs on our website
We travel all over the nation for Tom’s Trips, your Leader in Adult Lifestyle Travel and one of the greatest part of our job is that we get to attend some of the most amazing Consensual Non Monogamy Swingers Lifestyle Clubs and the clubs that stand out from the rest we like to capture on video to give our audience a look inside these amazing clubs before they attend their events. Recently we were asked what we personally look for in a lifestyle club when we attend as a guest and we thought, what a great question! We don’t review clubs, but we can tell people what appeals to us personally when we want to go out for a night or weekend. We hope you enjoy this podcast.
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Start meeting Couples and Singles today!
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How Tom and Bunny got into the swingers lifestyle part 4 of 4
The Story of TomandBunny: How They Got Into the Swingers Lifestyle!
Ever wondered how TomandBunny got started in the swingers’ lifestyle? In this video, we dive into their journey—from curiosity to becoming trusted voices in the community. They share their experiences, lessons learned, and how they built a platform to help others explore safely and confidently.
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How Tom and Bunny got into the swingers lifestyle part 3 of 4
The Story of TomandBunny: How They Got Into the Swingers Lifestyle!
Ever wondered how TomandBunny got started in the swingers’ lifestyle? In this video, we dive into their journey—from curiosity to becoming trusted voices in the community. They share their experiences, lessons learned, and how they built a platform to help others explore safely and confidently.
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How Tom and Bunny got into the swingers lifestyle part 2 of 4
The Story of TomandBunny: How They Got Into the Swingers Lifestyle!
Ever wondered how TomandBunny got started in the swingers’ lifestyle? In this video, we dive into their journey—from curiosity to becoming trusted voices in the community. They share their experiences, lessons learned, and how they built a platform to help others explore safely and confidently.
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How Tom and Bunny got into the swingers lifestyle part 1 of 4
The Story of TomandBunny: How They Got Into the Swingers Lifestyle!
Ever wondered how TomandBunny got started in the swingers’ lifestyle? In this video, we dive into their journey—from curiosity to becoming trusted voices in the community. They share their experiences, lessons learned, and how they built a platform to help others explore safely and confidently.
Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more lifestyle content, tips, and behind-the-scenes fun!
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Tips for the Single Men in the Pineapple Lifestyle with Tom and Bunny
On this week’s podcast, brought to you by Tom and Bunny, we discuss the Single male in the Consensual Monogamous Lifestyle and offer advice and suggestions on how to be successful as a single in the swingers lifestyle
It’s a fun, open conversation, and we want to bring you along for the ride. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or just looking to learn, there’s something for everyone!
Listen now and enjoy the show!
Stay tuned for more updates, and we hope to see you in the group soon!
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Dynamics of the Swingers Upside Down Pineapple lifestyle with Tom and Bunny
On this week’s podcast, brought to you by Tom and Bunny, we dive into the dynamics of the Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) lifestyle, better known as the swingers lifestyle! We explore everything from exhibitionism, soft play, full swap, to threesomes—and we even focus on the iconic Upside Down Pineapple .
It’s a fun, open conversation, and we want to bring you along for the ride. Whether you’re curious, experienced, or just looking to learn, there’s something for everyone!
Listen now and enjoy the show!
Stay tuned for more updates, and we hope to see you in the group soon!
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Gen X Pineapple Swingers: Connecting with Like-Minded Folks in the Lifestyle
Hey, everyone! We’re Tom and Bunny, your go-to guides for all things lifestyle-related, working with lifestyle destinations like resorts, events across the U.S., or cruises, we’ve got you covered with fantastic options for adult vacations and more. Want something a bit more specific? Let’s chat and find the perfect fit for you!
But today, we’re diving into an important topic: Aging in the lifestyle. It’s definitely a different ballgame as we get older, and making connections can feel trickier than when we first entered the lifestyle in our late 20s. It’s especially tough when you’re looking for like-minded people in the 40s, 50s, and 60s demographic, where it can sometimes feel like everyone is younger.
That’s why we created Gen X Pineapple Swingers – a new Facebook group specifically designed for our generation, where you can find others who are navigating the lifestyle at this stage of life. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned veteran, we welcome everyone. We’re hoping to create a space where Gen Xers (and others) can connect and have fun without the age gap getting in the way.
We talk about Polly relationships, couples, and the evolving interests in the lifestyle – especially when it comes to meeting singles or finding couples with similar vibes. Not every group is open to all demographics, but we’ve made sure that this one is. We want you to feel comfortable whether you’re just curious or ready to dive into something a little deeper.
The group is fresh and growing – already, we’ve got some members and we’re encouraging everyone to share ideas for fun trips or lifestyle resorts to visit. If you’ve got an RV and want to take a trip like the Bourbon Trail, or if you’re just looking to get out with like-minded folks for a weekend, this is the place for you.
If you’re 40+, ready to meet people who are into the same things, and want to break free from the age barriers that can pop up in this lifestyle, come join us at Gen X Pineapple Swingers! We’re all about fun, inclusivity, and finding new ways to connect.
Stay tuned for more updates, and we hope to see you in the group soon!
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Join Tom and Bunny (aka TomandBunny) as we invite you into our world, filled with fun, laughter, and unforgettable adventures! We’re here to share stories from our daily lives, give you a peek behind the scenes, and take you along on our exciting travel escapades.
From exploring exotic destinations like Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica, where freedom and fun collide in a tropical paradise, to the sensual and adventurous atmosphere at Desire Resort in Cancun, we’ll give you an insider’s view of these unique getaways. Whether we’re relaxing at the luxurious resorts or diving into the heart-pounding experiences of the Bliss, Desire, and Temptations Cruises, you’ll feel like you’re right there with us!
These cruises, known for their exciting themes and unforgettable parties, are a haven for “pineapple people”—a community that embraces fun, connection, and adventure. We’ll share everything from wild nights out to the best moments at each destination, plus tips and tricks for making the most of your own travels.
Through it all, you’ll get a peek into our relationship, our passions, and the way we live life to the fullest, embracing everything from relaxation to exciting, bold adventures. Whether you’re interested in travel tips, lifestyle inspiration, or just want to hear some fun and crazy stories from our journeys, we’ve got you covered.
So pack your bags and join us on this incredible ride—we can’t wait to share our world with you!
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Looking to connect with like-minded individuals? Find your people at lifestyle events and make mutual connections that will enrich your experience! Whether you’re looking to network, share passions, or create lasting friendships, these events are the perfect opportunity to meet new people and grow together. Don’t miss out on the chance to be part of a vibrant community!
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Update 2 – Tom broke his penis in Jamaica with Dr Calvert
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We’re back with Update #2 from our original video/podcast where Tom shared his personal experience with a penile injury in Jamaica. This time, we had the privilege of hosting Dr. Joshua Calvert from Urology Associates in Nashville, TN, to help us dive even deeper into what happened and what caused Tom’s implant to break initially.
In this hour-and-a-half conversation, Dr. Calvert breaks down the mechanics behind penile implants, shares insights on implant repairs, and offers expert knowledge on managing and understanding these unique situations.
Whether you’re curious about implants, dealing with erectile dysfunction, or just want to learn more about the realities of urological health, this episode has something for everyone.
? Tune in to learn:
What exactly went wrong with Tom’s implant
Detailed insights on penile implants and their function
Answers to common questions about implant surgery and recovery
Stay tuned for even more follow-up episodes with Dr. Calvert, as we continue exploring these topics to help educate and support our community!
For information on the VED discussed in this podcast / YouTube, please click this link
https://www.timmmedical.com/?rfsn=8381883.fbda90
Please watch our original video at:
https://youtu.be/sVbd4IWns4s
Please watch our Update #1 video at:
https://youtu.be/uyAjnAjpMnA
Please watch our Update #2 video at:
https://youtu.be/sVbd4IWns4s
We hope you enjoy this podcast and hopefully you don’t relate to any of it.
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How to Message people with TomandBunny
We all get those annoying unexpected DM’s and Messages with absolutely no content that are so vagues that you just can’t find yourself responding to! Today we discuss our opinions and offer a few suggestions on how to actually message or DM people.
We hope you enjoy this podcast and hopefully you don’t relate to any of it.
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Smoking – Bad Breath and Body odor with TomandBunny
Today we talk about meeting people who are smokers, have bad breath or body odor and how do we get out of a situation that may become offensive to the other couple. We are a couple in the lifestyle 30 years and Tom is a previous smoker and discusses this in the podcast and while at it we talk about bad breath associated with smoking and body odor also associated with smoking…. or not!
We hope you enjoy this podcast and hopefully you don’t relate to any of it.
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Stop ignoring your spouse at lifestyle events
We see a lot of times where one half of the spouse is so into the lifestyle they forget they have a spouse with them and focus all their attention on the new friends. We want to remind everyone that this can be a very dangerous route and you should never ignore or forget that your spouse is with you.
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Transcript
00:00:00:00 – 00:00:15:22
Tom
Hey, everyone. We’re Tom and Bonnie, and we got Bama here. Bama wants her stuffed animal. Hold on. Right here. Let me get her. If you’re watching this on YouTube, this is Bama. Bama bear right now.
00:00:15:24 – 00:00:18:04
Bunny
She doesn’t know that we have to work.
00:00:18:07 – 00:00:49:11
Tom
So we’re Tom and Bonnie from Tom and Buncombe. And if you are interested in pineapple topics, check us out on YouTube and on podcast on all the major podcast sites. Tom and Bonnie. And if you can, follow us on Twitter, Instagram, Tom and Bonnie and we work for Tom’s troops.com cheerleader and adult lifestyle travel to destinations all around the world with cruises, resorts and events.
00:00:49:14 – 00:01:08:18
Tom
We asked if these videos help you and we’ve done a lot of videos. If these videos help you, please help us by booking any of your trips with Tom’s trips, because this is how we get paid to do these videos. It cost you nothing and oftentimes you save money booking with Tom’s trips. Yes.
00:01:08:23 – 00:01:16:16
Bunny
And even if, you look at and you say, oh, well, they don’t have a group that week, I can still book you. Yes. If it’s available online, I can book it for you.
00:01:16:16 – 00:01:28:21
Tom
Yep. We can book hedonism all year long and we also book Desire and Temptation, as well as The Bluest blessed Desire and Temptation Cruises. Yes. And Nadia Nolan’s.
00:01:28:24 – 00:01:31:13
Bunny
Of course. And now splash parties.
00:01:31:16 – 00:01:37:00
Tom
And splash parties. So today’s topic is.
00:01:37:02 – 00:01:38:21
Bunny
Help you stay out of the doghouse?
00:01:38:21 – 00:01:47:04
Tom
Yeah, stay out of the doghouse because, Bunny, she brought this up a couple weeks ago.
00:01:47:07 – 00:01:54:04
Bunny
I brought it up and several months ago when I was first approached. I mean, we’re approached a lot with different things.
00:01:54:04 – 00:02:01:09
Tom
So let’s give the scenario what you’re up. I mean, what we’re saying is neglect.
00:02:01:11 – 00:02:11:07
Bunny
Yeah. Yeah, it is neglect on your spouse. Yeah. So basically what’s have basically.
00:02:11:09 – 00:02:13:12
Tom
Well what’s what’s written down up here.
00:02:13:12 – 00:02:20:18
Bunny
Let’s just start when you’re getting ready to go on lifetime vacation, to one of the great events.
00:02:20:18 – 00:02:21:05
Tom
The club.
00:02:21:05 – 00:02:36:22
Bunny
Even a club or a night out with another couple or a single, you want to talk about possibilities of scenarios, so you want to know where your partner is in line with you.
00:02:36:22 – 00:02:38:13
Tom
And where your boundaries are.
00:02:38:17 – 00:02:43:01
Bunny
You don’t want to be ten steps ahead of your partner.
00:02:43:03 – 00:02:46:24
Tom
And you got to make sure that you both like without.
00:02:46:24 – 00:02:48:00
Bunny
Your partner knowing.
00:02:48:02 – 00:03:24:21
Tom
Without your partner know. Yeah. Oh, our previous video, we talked about our boundaries and, we started off with a book of rules of what we couldn’t do. And then we created boundaries based on our actual real life experiences and activities because we talked about each scenario. Even still today, 20 some years later, almost 30 years later, we talk about every scenario as if it were a first time scenario.
00:03:24:21 – 00:03:57:15
Tom
And we want to know what we liked about it, what we could have done better. Yeah, to make it even more fun. But and then not a requirement is if there was anything we did not like about the scenario, we would either discuss it out our adopt a boundary about it. One of our boundaries is, is we keep an eye on each other during the whole socializing to play all the time.
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Tom
Not that we’re watching each other like a hawk. We’re watching to make sure that we’re all on the same page. We’re having a good time. If someone’s not having a good time, we can pick up the cues. That goes for either me or me, our buddy. I won’t be here, buddy. So.
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Bunny
And and that even that even goes for the other couple. If if I’m seeing something that, you know, one of them isn’t feeling it or feeling clicky, I will even say, hey, is everything okay?
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Tom
I’ve seen buddy, I’m struggling. And Bonnie’s called the wife over because we we all know each other’s buttons to push. And there are times of emergency where somebody is trying their best, but they’re not just making the grade. And sometimes it’s the spouse that gets them over.
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Bunny
Yeah. Absolutely. And I’ve done it for Tom before many.
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Tom
Many times, many.
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Bunny
Many times I’d be like hold on let me, let me help you here. You know, let let’s get him back to where he needs to be.
00:05:06:19 – 00:05:30:24
Tom
Well, because I like with any new people, they don’t know my buttons and therefore I may not really care for what they’re doing to me. And then finally, I’ll say, hold on, let me show you a couple things. Not that we the whole point of the pineapple lifestyle is to experience different types of, experiences.
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Bunny
Right?
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Tom
And then hopefully we’ll be that, lead off of that and bring it home with us.
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Bunny
But we also know that, that when guys aren’t feeling it, that, it tends to. Deter the, the play situation a little bit. So sometimes you need help.
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Tom
So one thing that buddy’s been getting a lot of comments on, I haven’t gotten on, but they’ve been coming to funny is a lot of frustrations where their spouse is more into to the other person and not caring about their feelings. Are there at the time level? Yes. Of security.
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Bunny
Correct.
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Tom
Or safe space?
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Bunny
Yeah.
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Tom
So like I love using that word.
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Bunny
Now this is and I actually have seen it. Yes, I seen it just recently on, on a chat where, one of the, spouses was texting back and forth too much. And even though he was asked to stop, even though he was asked to stop, he still hasn’t.
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Tom
And that is that the one where they have a group chat?
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Bunny
No.
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Tom
Oh, so I saw one today where they have a four way group chat. Our three way group chat. Because it’s, single female and the husband is they were private messaging at first, and then when they started to make plans to meet up, they then added his wife into a group chat. And so that way she was aware.
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Tom
So that way, when the husband went out on a date, she was aware of all the plans and everything. Then she found out that they were texting the husband and the other girl, still privately and excluding her. Now we would have a major issue. Oh yeah, one of us did that with the other.
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Bunny
And and for me, I mean, for me, that’s just another form of cheating. And I.
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Tom
Well, in our eyes.
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Bunny
Because it’s a mentally. It doesn’t cheating doesn’t have to just be physical.
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Tom
Right.
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Bunny
So and I am seeing the lot in and it’s not people that have been in this life for a long time. It’s most of the people that are just starting because they’re so excited and they’re, they’re jumping in with both feet and they’re forgetting that they have a partner with them.
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Tom
Right.
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Bunny
So they’re like going forward and then they’re like, oh, crap, I pissed off my partner.
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Tom
Well, without saying any names, we we seen it happening at hedonism with a couple where they weren’t even together. The female brought the guy and the guy was just bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam bam. And it kind of created a wedge because she didn’t feel included in any of his stuff. So, I think she brought the wrong person.
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Bunny
Oh, and that happens. That happens. So he’s a.
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Tom
Nice enough guy.
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Bunny
But but but the fact is, is if you’re married or you have a spouse or a partner or anything, you need to include them in your train of thought.
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Tom
Right?
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Bunny
So I always, you know, the best thing is, is to talk about scenarios like, if you’re going out to a club, kind of think about what might could possibly happen.
00:09:06:19 – 00:09:27:14
Tom
I mean, you don’t have to overthink it. No, I always say go to the club with the anticipation of nothing’s going to happen except just you and your wife or you and your husband, depending on who’s watching this video, just going and having a good time with no expectations. And if something happens, be prepared.
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Bunny
But that’s where I’m saying I know you need to discuss those scenarios. You say we’re going to go have a good time, but if this happens, do we want to go forward, right? How far do we want to go? You need to have those already kind
How does TomandBunny Play in the Lifestyle
On this podcast we answer questions from our viewers about how we play in the Pineapple World aka The Lifestyle. Sit back and enjoy as we open ourselves up and give personal details we normally reserve for people we are actually planning to play with!
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Transcript
00:00:00:00 - 00:00:22:25
Tom
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here and I know we're getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos from the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom's trips.com, or give us a call at 1-800-285-0853 and I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.
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Tom
Welcome to Tom and bunny.com. Here is another episode of our Opinions Mean Nothing and Pineapple World. But it might give you some guidance on helping you navigate this. I mean, wide open lifestyle.
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Bunny
It's so completely different than when we started. Yeah, so completely different.
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Tom
Our shameless plug, we are Tom and Bunny. We work for Tom's trips here. Leader and adult lifestyle travel to destinations around the world, including resorts, cruises and events. If you want to book travel, please call us at 802 850853. Our visit Tom's trips.com and let us get you booked today and let us show you a good time.
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Bunny
Of course.
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Tom
That is our motto.
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Bunny
That is, Will you look a little tropical later? I know.
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Tom
I know, our last video I was wearing.
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Bunny
yeah. Ray. Hawaii. You must have gone shopping.
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Tom
We must have gone. So I'm in a medium.
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Bunny
I know, I know a medium. Oh, wow.
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Tom
Don't be a hater.
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Bunny
You've never been a medium.
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Tom
Don't be a hater.
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Bunny
I know, right?
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Tom
I was going into double extra large.
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Bunny
I know, I know you were.
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Tom
I went from 238 pounds to. I'm now about 160. And oh I saw so on notice. Okay. Someone calling you who's calling.
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Bunny
Spam spam.
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Tom
Spam potential spam. So anyway we get we get asked a lot of questions. So this video we're going to focus on one of the questions that we get asked a lot. What is the question.
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Bunny
How do you play.
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Tom
And what's the meaning of that. How do we play.
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Bunny
Well they you know, we give a little more information. All right. So the in this our pineapple world has grown and expanded so much from what it did 20 years ago. Yes. And so many different people are seek other different options. Correct. So they actually asked how how do we approach it. and do we separate room, do we go on dates.
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Bunny
do we go out alone.
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Tom
So we when we first got into the pineapple world and we got into a lot longer a long time ago before the pineapples were even invented in this lifestyle.
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Bunny
Yes.
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Tom
I know some people want to believe that they came out in the 50s and it was a military thing. And we cannot establish that from anybody. That's over the I mean.
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Bunny
Even well into their 70s, 80, 80.
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Tom
90.
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Bunny
Yeah.
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Tom
We can't find anyone.
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Bunny
And yes, we do know people that old that are that had run clubs are still in the lifestyle.
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Tom
So we did a lot of talking when we first got into it. And one of our laundry list of rules that we narrowed down to, we what we do is we create and I will use the word rules, but it's not I don't know what a good word to use here is, but.
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Bunny
boundary.
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Tom
Boundaries. That's a great word. so we, we create boundaries based on previous experiences, meaning we found ourselves because we came into this with.
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Bunny
Page, like a book. you.
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Tom
Can't do this. You can't do that. You can't even look at someone too long. You can't have too much fun. there was just so many things that we were enjoying. Nothing. It was to the point where it wasn't even worth doing because we neither of us were having fun. Because we're too worried about breaking a boundary.
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Bunny
Absolutely.
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Tom
Are offending the other person are hurting the other person. The last thing we want to do is hurt each other.
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Bunny
And, and yes in the beginning we did break boundaries and in the night it didn't end well because we broke boundaries. And guess what. You have to go home. You have to discuss it, you have to talk it over and you got to work through it and either you continue on with that in the pineapple world or you step back.
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Tom
And so we eliminated all of our roles as we called them, back them. And we created boundaries of respect based on prior experiences. So how do we play when we are active with other people? Afterwards we come home. We actually discuss after every encounter. We still discuss every encounter, and we want to know what we liked about it, because the whole point of being in this is because we're having a great time and we we want to enjoy it.
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Tom
but the most important thing and it never is a requirement. But if there was something that we did not like, it didn't sit well. We felt the green eyed monster coming on. We discussed it more, and if it was something that was really, truly an issue, we would create a boundary based on that is go. Nothing else, just that scope.
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Tom
And later on we might even release that boundary because we've grown up.
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Tom
Yeah. And grown past.
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Bunny
That. Yeah.
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Tom
Because yeah everyone gets jealous in this lifestyle. So a couple of our boundaries is we prefer to play with couples.
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Bunny
Yes.
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Tom
We don't prefer to play with couples that only one plays. We want everyone active. We would prefer just to be wingman and friends. We could be friends with everybody. It doesn't matter. Well, not everybody. We who? We haven't.
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Bunny
Come new.
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Tom
We have encountered a few that they tested our limits and we couldn't. We didn't want to hang out with them.
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Bunny
They were way,
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Tom
Different than we were. So, same room. We we have we we've we've tried to separate play, but the whole point of us being in it is for us to have fun together. Now we get it, other people will play separately and everything, and that's perfectly fine. Some people get stage fright or they get, antsy because their spouses watching, or whatever.
00:07:15:05 - 00:07:31:13
Tom
We actually prefer it because Bunny, I mean, knowing my history of Eddie since I was in my 20s, Bunny can cue in and see if I was struggling or not. If she wasn't there, I'd be on my own.
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Bunny
Yeah, yeah. And you're hearing.
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Tom
Am I hearing.
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Bunny
Because, with his hearing aids, he can't do any he doesn't play with his hearing aids. And because of the fact is you put your hands over his head and of course, he's going to start whistling. So he never, never does anything with his hearing aids in, in. Therefore, he was always afraid of hearing the word stop and not being able to hear it right now.
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Tom
I would just tell the female if, if I'm doing something that you don't want or like, or you're not enjoying, don't tell me. Just put your hand on my forehead and push me back. I will take offense to that. No, that's it's called, an unsaid body language.
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Bunny
Well, I have to do it to him.
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Tom
She does it to me.
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Bunny
Yeah, well, it's time to stop.
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Tom
She starts tapping me. Now, another boundary that we have, and we know a lot of couples like doing is the whole holding hands with the opposite person while they're out at dinner, sitting with the with the other person. Me and binding prefer to be together all the way up until any activity starts. We do not want to be part of the other people, because when we're out in public, we want to be seen as Tom and Bonnie.
00:09:02:24 - 00:09:09:12
Tom
it's nothing against anybody. It's just kind of our comfort zone, or at least my comfort zone.
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Bunny
Exactly. So we all, everybody does everything different and, and you know, we have had those couples say, well here Bonnie will sit here and I'm like, no, I won't. I mean, I sit with Tom and you've got it. If somebody does something and you're not on, come. If you're uncomfortable with you, just tell them, hey, no, no, no, no, I'm not going to do that.
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Bunny
Right. you.
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Tom
Don't have to be so abrupt, Pike.
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Bunny
Funny was. I know. Well, I did, I.
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Tom
Know, but you don't have to be that abrupt. You could be polite and just say, well, I would rather preferably sit here.
00:09:47:10 - 00:09:50:1
Ms No Swimsuit – Naughty in Nawlins and Northaven Resort
On this Podcast, we discuss our recent trips to Naughty in Nawlins, the largest upside down pineapple lifestyle swingers convention in the world! While at Naughty in Nawlins, we hosted one of the many parties on Bourbon St on Friday afternoon and promoted our Tom’s Trips Ms No Swimsuit competitions where one sexy lady out of 10 wins a chance to represent Naughty in Nawlins at Hedonism resort in Jamaica during the Tom’s Trips Ms No Swimsuit contest. Attending this event, you are a Judge!
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Transcript
00:00:00:00 – 00:00:23:07
Tom
Hey, everyone. Tom and Bunny here and I know we’re getting ready to watch our next video. And if you find this video useful or some of the videos from the past, please do us a favor by booking your travel through us at Tom’s trips.com, or give us a call at 1-800-285-0853 and I can answer any questions and get you booked on your next lifestyle vacation.
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Tom
Hey everyone, we are Tom and Bunny from Tom and bunny.com. So if you are watching us on YouTube, it’s written right down at the bottom of your screen. And if you are listening to us on podcast, we invite you to come over to our YouTube channel. Because all week I got my dog pushing socks on me. All we do is we take the audio from our YouTubes and then put them over to podcasts.
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Tom
So if you want to see what Bunny is wearing right now, hubba hubba.
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Bunny
It’s new.
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Tom
It’s very new.
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Bunny
It is very new.
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Tom
jump over to our YouTube, all of our social media, everything under the sun. No matter what website we’re on, Cassidy slash SDC, it’s where all Tom and Bunny all spelled out one word.
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Bunny
It keeps it very easy. So we remember who we are right now.
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Tom
We work for Tom’s trips. Hold on. I’m going to put that on the screen.
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Bunny
There you go.
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Tom
You’re your leader in adult lifestyle. Travel to destinations all around the world. We book cruises, resorts and events like Noddy and Northerns. Yeah.
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Bunny
That was fun. We’re going to talk. We’re going to talk about that one this trip.
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Tom
Yeah. So right now we’re going to talk about a couple of events, a previous event not in dollars. And then North Haven. Yes, that’s coming up next week.
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Bunny
So that’s going to be August 2nd and third in Brooklyn, Michigan.
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Tom
Yeah. And we’re going to be we’re going to meet a couple other podcasters up there.
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Bunny
Why we’re there we are. It’s going to be a real fun filled weekend. But you know, one one thing that I want to know, how come everybody invites us out for the Jamaican week?
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Tom
I don’t know.
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Bunny
Do they think we’re just American or.
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Tom
Something? We aren’t American, but maybe because Tom’s Trips is the most booking travel agency. hedonism we saw and number two of the entire island of Jamaica. Mind.
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Bunny
So yes.
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Tom
We are, we are. Our company is well-respected in the travel industry and the Jamaica, region.
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Bunny
We’re quite busy.
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Tom
We are very.
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Bunny
Busy.
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Tom
So we just got back from Nadia and we did.
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Bunny
Oh, my gosh, we haven’t been there since before Covid, so I think the last time we were there was the summer of 2019.
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Tom
Yeah. And we we were excited to go back because our schedules haven’t allowed us to go back because it never coincided with our travel schedule. And we were always booked somewhere else.
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Bunny
So we definitely realized how much fun we had missed out on. Yes, every single time. And every time we go back, it gets bigger and bigger and bigger.
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Tom
It’s packed. I mean, you want to, meet thousands and I, I’m not exaggerating. Thousands of pineapple people in one place. Now they take up all of Bourbon Street. They take up several hotels, but they all wear, lanyards with their event passes on them. So you could spot a pineapple person walking down the street from a mile away.
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Bunny
You know, we we actually we booked very, very late and we did not stay at one of the host hotels. We had to stand and and another one and that’s our dog.
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Bunny
And as we’re walking down in front of the hotel, I looked at Tom and I’m like, hey, there’s some of those freaky people. Yes, they had their lanyards on and they kind of jump back. And I started laughing. I pulled mine out. Don’t worry, I am too. And they’re like, oh, should we not wear these down Burma Street?
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Bunny
I said, you can wear them wherever you want. And they said, certainly no one’s going to know when I’m like, ha ha. Everybody on Bourbon Street now was right when the pineapple people are in town. So sorry. our dog did not get the memo that today was a work day.
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Tom
Today is podcast day. Bama.
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Bunny
And she she.
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Tom
Bring me a sock. So, we absolutely had a blast at Naughty Dollars. more importantly, is one of the main reasons we went there was because Bob was getting married.
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Bunny
Yep. He got remarried, got remarried. It was a beautiful little intimate, setting. And it was really, really nice.
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Tom
Right.
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Bunny
So it was the first time that we got to meet Adrianna.
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Tom
Yes.
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Bunny
So. But it was so, so good to see so many people that we haven’t seen in absolute years. Tom, stop playing with your socks.
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Tom
I know I was trying to grab her because I was going to put her out here. I got her, I was going to put her on camera. This is our Bama.
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Bunny
That’s our troublemaker.
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Tom
She likes to growl down, at our legs. And one video, we did a blooper reel and I called it bunnies Angry Vagina because she kept growling right in Bunny’s crotch.
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Bunny
It’s about what she’s going to start doing now. Luckily, it’s only a sock. Another squeaky toy or one of those honkers, right? So. Oh, funny story on that. She loves these stuffed animals at home and they make all these horrible noises. So I am in the middle of the store and I’m looking at this toy, and I honk it, and it sounded like a fart.
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Bunny
And I did it right as an employee was walking by me turn and he looked at me. Really? Now I start laughing. I said, it’s a toy.
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Tom
For toy, not.
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Bunny
Me.
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Tom
It was a for me. I don’t know what you’re talking about. So I didn’t say take up. I mean, it used to be just the weekends when we would go over there Thursday to get all checked in and the party started on Friday and Saturday. Now people show up on Monday. Yeah, they have a pre-party on Tuesday. Then it really kicks off Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and then everyone goes home Sunday.
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Tom
But they even have an after party on Sunday.
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Bunny
They drag home on Sunday.
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Tom
Yeah. if you are interested and going to not in all ends. There is a link on Tom’s trips.com. Tom’s trips.com. Just go to that web page and scroll down. You’ll see $19 for 2025. Book your room. Book your event. It’s something. Whether you’ve ever been to an event or ever traveled, you can feel comfortable there because you’re not just at a lifestyle only event.
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Tom
It’s everybody under the sun.
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Bunny
And there is something for everybody. I mean, starting at noon every day, you’re going to have two, two parties on Bourbon Street.
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Tom
Usually right across the street from each other.
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Bunny
And then at 3:00 you’ve got two more that spring up. If you’re not a party person, they have a pool party. So they have both pools open during the day, right? They have every seminar that you can possibly imagine.
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Tom
I’m kicking the dog. I think time.
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Bunny
One of the one of the, presenters that I, absolutely fell in love with. And I just thought she was amazing. Was Doctor Stephanie.
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Tom
Oh, she was awesome.
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Bunny
She was. We’ve been always keep missing each other. And it was finally great to finally meet her.
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Tom
And we got to meet Dan and Lacey from the, swinging Nation. the swinger society.
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Bunny
And let’s not forget, we got to reconnect with Jay and Angie from Avid Swingers.
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Tom
Yeah, so it’s been a long time since we’ve seen them. And on Tik Tok, if you ever seen her sexy swinger c



























