The New Rules Podcast

What if the thing you're chasing… is the thing that will expose you? In a world obsessed with visibility, scale, and opportunity, we rarely stop to ask a better question: Are we actually ready for what we're asking for? This episode explores the idea of "little rooms"—the unseen, often overlooked seasons where real formation happens. Before the spotlight. Before the platform. Before the moment. There's a process. And most people try to skip it.     In this conversation, we unpack: Why the spotlight doesn't build you—it reveals you The danger of chasing exposure without formation How constraints actually unlock creativity Why small, unseen seasons matter more than big moments The tension between scaling and staying authentic What it really means to become before you perform     This isn't just about leadership. It's about identity. Because the real question isn't: "How do I get there faster?" It's: "Who am I becoming on the way?"     Whether you're leading, building, creating, or simply trying to stay grounded in a fast-moving world—this conversation is for you.   More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: www.youtube.com/@WriteNewRules  To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn:  / adriancrawford-nrc  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writenewrules/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@writenewrules 00:00 – Intro 02:12 – Entering the Creative Zone 03:06 – Creativity & Advancing Humanity 06:04 – Introducing "Little Rooms" 08:37 – Why This Chapter Matters 14:15 – Leaving Breadcrumbs for Others 16:22 – The Power of Humble Beginnings 17:46 – Constraints Create Creativity 18:53 – Outkast & "Little Rooms" Origin 22:12 – "Lightning in a Bottle" 24:19 – Regret & Presence 25:01 – Honoring the Process 28:59 – Spotlight Reveals You 30:12 – Skill vs Exposure 31:48 – Discovering Your Strengths 32:08 – Scaling vs Creativity Tension 34:26 – What Happens When You "Make It" 38:06 – Reading: Freedom of the Basement 39:24 – Become vs Perform 40:28 – Being Present in the Process 43:06 – Your Scoreboard Matters 44:41 – Scaling Without Losing Yourself 47:18 – Conviction Through Formation 49:02 – Authenticity vs Opportunity 50:41 – Writing New Rules 52:22 – Building the Next Generation 55:02 – Legacy Over Success 59:03 – Final Charge: Don't Despise the Little Rooms

What if the decisions you're making… aren't actually yours? In this episode, we unpack a question that exposes the hidden forces shaping your life:   👉 "If you failed… what's the one phone call you wouldn't want to make?" Because behind your ambition, hesitation, and even your success…there may be a voice you've never confronted. We explore: Why most people are driven by voices they don't even recognize  How fear disguises itself as ambition, caution, or even humility The story of a CEO whose decisions were being shaped by something deeper Why high performers still feel stuck or paralyzed under pressure How past experiences quietly control present decisions This is a deep dive into: Identity vs. conditioning  Awareness vs. autopilot Truth vs. internal narratives We also unpack: The "echo" inside your mind and how it forms Why self-awareness is the foundation of leadership How to separate your voice from fear, trauma, and expectation The cost of not doing internal work And why clarity starts with asking better questions   🧠 The Exercise Take 10–15 minutes. No distractions. Ask yourself:  👉 "If I failed… who is the one person I wouldn't want to call?" Then go deeper: Why them? What would they think? When did that fear start? How has it shaped my decisions?   This is where the work begins.   Pre-Order the Book This episode continues our journey through Magnum Opus: The Art of Becoming One of One.   Pre-order the book here: http://magnumopusproject.co   If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it. And in the meantime — keep writing new rules.   More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: www.youtube.com/@WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn:  / adriancrawford-nrc  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writenewrules/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@writenewrules   00:00 – The question that exposes everything  00:20 – Intro + Oscars conversation  02:30 – Ambition vs ego  05:30 – Authenticity vs image  08:00 – Discipline behind greatness  11:00 – Enter "The Chisel"  12:00 – The one phone call question  13:30 – The CEO story (breakdown moment)  16:00 – Pressure, identity, and leadership  18:00 – Perfection vs uncertainty  20:00 – The hidden voice behind decisions  22:30 – Most people aren't aware of it  24:00 – Becoming self-aware  26:00 – Fear, shame, and past experiences  27:30 – What's actually shaping you  30:00 – Personal example (father + identity)  31:30 – The "echo" in your mind  33:00 – Why success requires emptying yourself  36:00 – The truth about sacrifice  38:00 – How to separate your voice  40:00 – The exercise explained  43:00 – This isn't about blame  45:00 – Clarity and alignment  47:30 – Final challenge

What if the rise of astrology, "manifestation," and modern spirituality isn't random… but a response to something deeper?  In this episode, we dive into a conversation most people are afraid to have: Why are so many people turning to "magic" right now?  Is it really about spirituality… or something else?  Are we actually searching for identity, control, and purpose in the wrong places? And what's the difference between faith, self-discovery… and subtle forms of control?     This isn't a surface-level conversation. It's raw, honest, and explores the tension between: Faith vs. control  Identity vs. illusion  Truth vs. what feels true We also unpack:  The rise of astrology and "witch culture"  How social media has shaped identity and distorted self-perception Why humans are wired to seek something beyond themselves The tension between curiosity, superstition, and control  And whether we're all, in some way… living under a "spell"    Pre-Order the Book   Pre-order the book here: http://magnumopusproject.co    More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: www.youtube.com/@WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn:  / adriancrawford-nrc  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writenewrules/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@writenewrules   00:00 – Intro & setting the stage 02:40 – "We're building something that doesn't exist yet" 04:40 – How social media reshaped identity 05:30 – Why people are turning to the supernatural 07:10 – Would that make Christians "magicians"? 12:00 – Why people are drawn to astrology 14:00 – It all comes back to control 16:00 – The desire to "become the source" 20:40 – Control, anxiety, and modern habits 25:00 – Superstition, obsession, and faith  35:30 – Faith vs. controlling outcomes  52:00 – Are we living under a "spell"?

Why are you really doing what you're doing? Most people can explain what they do. Some can explain how they do it. Almost nobody can explain their real why. In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian Crawford and Breezy unpack one of the most powerful principles from Magnum Opus — The Scalpel. The practice of asking yourself "why" isn't soft self-help. It's surgical. It cuts through performance, press releases, and public image to expose the origin story underneath. Because here's the truth: The first answer you give is usually a press release. The real answer lives in the basement. We explore: Why most people are terrified of their real motives The difference between curiosity and interrogation How shame blocks self-discovery Why humans compromise themselves just to belong What happens when you disconnect from your origin story Why integration work creates freedom And how asking "why" can literally bring you back to life This conversation is vulnerable, layered, and honest — especially around topics like mission vs. family, superficial desires vs. deeper motives, and the pressure to give socially acceptable answers. If you've ever felt like: You're performing instead of living You're successful but not satisfied You're disconnected from your deeper motives Or you're tired of giving "marketing why" answers This episode is for you. Pre-Order the Book: This episode continues our journey through Magnum Opus: The Art of Becoming One of One. Pre-order the book here: http://magnumopusproject.co     If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it. And in the meantime — keep writing new rules.   More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: www.youtube.com/@WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn:  / adriancrawford-nrc  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writenewrules/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@writenewrules     00:00 – The Question That Sets You Free  01:06 – Why Most People Are Afraid of Their Real "Why" 02:24 – Where the "Why" Practice Came From (Therapy + Five Minutes of Real Time) 03:18 – Is This the Same as Simon Sinek's Start With Why? 04:38 – Poverty, Fear, and the Survival-Driven Career Path 07:16 – Why Asking "Why" Feels So Exposing 11:34 – The Scalpel: Why Is Surgical, Not Soft 17:26 – The Jordan Story: Origin Narratives & Superficial Desires 20:00 – Curiosity vs. Interrogation 23:39 – Overthinking Your Motives 26:13 – Should You Question Other People's Motives? 31:21 – Why We Give Press Release Answers 35:12 – What Happens When You're Disconnected from Your Why 39:40 – Common "Marketing Why" Responses 44:00 – Mission vs. Family (An Honest Conversation) 47:04 – What Happens When You Live Connected to Your Why 48:51 – "I Think I'm Alive Because of the Integration Work" 50:16 – Magnum Opus & The Long Game

We're living in a pivotal time. In a world that rewards performance, platforms, personas, and amplifies approval, it's easy to slowly drift away from who you actually are. In this episode, we explore "The Unbecoming." Not the act of becoming someone new — but the painful process of shedding the character you've been playing.     In This Episode: Why performance culture is exhausting How approval can slowly become a prison The difference between talent and performing for validation Guilt vs. shame ("I did something bad" vs. "I am bad") Why freedom always costs something The power of being able to walk away The question that changes everything: "Where are you?"     Pre-Order the Book This episode continues our journey through Magnum Opus: The Art of Becoming One of One. Pre-order the book here: http://magnumopusproject.co   If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it. And in the meantime — keep writing new rules. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: www.youtube.com/@WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn:  / adriancrawford-nrc  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writenewrules/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@writenewrules     00:00 – We're Living in a Pivotal Time 02:00 – Why Everyone Feels Exhausted 07:00 – The Character You Don't Know You're Playing 10:50 – Everything Is Performative 15:00 – Talent vs Performance 19:40 – Your Backstage Reality Gets Exposed 20:15 – The Lady Gaga "Unbecoming" Moment 23:00 – When You Realize You're Not Being Yourself 25:30 – How Performance Becomes a Prison 28:40 – The Role of Shame 33:40 – Guilt vs Shame 36:00 – Can Unbecoming Destroy Your Life? 38:20 – Changing the Scoreboard 39:50 – Freedom Is Dangerous 41:15 – The Cost of Authenticity 43:40 – Under Pressure, You Get Exposed 49:10 – Where Do You Begin? 55:10 – The Question: Where Are You? 59:10 – How to Start Rebuilding  

Our whole lives we've been told two competing messages: be unique, but also fit in; be original, but make sure you're accepted. So which is it? In this episode, we unpack the tension at the heart of identity—the paradox of being completely one of one while still being made of the same "frozen water" as everyone else.  If these concepts and ideas have inspired you to begin your journey toward becoming one of one, we highly encourage you to pre-order a hardcover copy of Adrian Crawford's Magnum Opus: The Art of Becoming One of One. Purchase the book today!  https://www.newrulescollective.com/product-page/magnum-opus-the-art-of-becoming-one-of-one You are unique, but you're not superior. You're human. And learning to live in that tension may be one of the most important leadership skills of our generation. Authenticity vs performance Belonging vs fitting in Personal growth and self development The difference between finding yourself and becoming yourself Identity in an age of social media Confidence without ego Leadership rooted in humility Purpose, calling, and self awareness Why most people cosplay uniqueness How to stop performing and start becoming   If you've ever struggled with:   Comparison Feeling behind Trying to stand out Trying to fit in Losing yourself in success Chasing approval Wanting deeper meaning and purpose   This episode is for you. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: www.youtube.com/@WriteNewRules   📲 To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn:  / adriancrawford-nrc  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writenewrules/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@writenewrules  

If you feel like the world is shifting faster than you can process… If you're exhausted from performing… If you know there's something deeper in you that hasn't fully come alive yet… This episode is your starting point. This week on The New Rules Podcast, we launch a brand-new season centered around one idea: Magnum Opus: The Art of Becoming One of One — your great work.  But not the kind you put on a résumé. The kind you become. In Episode 107, we unpack what it means to design your internal world instead of letting culture design it for you. As systems destabilize and predictability fades, the question is no longer, "How do I win the game?" — it's "Who am I becoming inside of it?" This conversation explores why so many feel misaligned and stuck in performance although it's exhausting, and how to begin the process of becoming "one of one." We introduce a powerful four-phase framework inspired by Adrian Crawford's powerful new book Magnum Opus: The Art of Becoming One of One. Echo – Discovering the inherited narratives, history, and internal patterns shaping you Chisel – Developing disciplines that bring your real self forward Fire – Integrating your gifts into the world with power and responsibility Work – Evaluating whether your life is producing real impact or just personal gain This episode dives into: How your internal world is being formed — whether you're intentional or not The mental and emotional cost of living disconnected from yourself How modern systems mass-produce performance instead of cultivating originality Why creativity feels rare in today's world The difference between being impressive and being integrated Why great work is formed in "little rooms" before it's seen in big ones How responsibility — not astrology, personality tests, or systems — shapes identity This isn't a "5 steps to success" conversation. It's an invitation. To slow down. To sit with deeper questions. To stop outsourcing your design. To take ownership of who you're becoming. Magnum Opus: The Art of Becoming One of One sets the foundation for a season focused on identity, leadership, creativity, and building something that outlives you. If you're ready to stop performing and start becoming, this episode is for you. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: www.youtube.com/@WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn:  / adriancrawford-nrc  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/writenewrules/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@writenewrules Purchase the book today: https://www.newrulescollective.com/product-page/magnum-opus-the-art-of-becoming-one-of-one

If you're heading into change, feeling the weight of decision-making, or wanting to lead yourself more intentionally, this episode will help you slow down, think critically, and move forward with clarity. This week on The New Rules Podcast, Bri is joined by producer Lauren for a reflective, honest conversation to close out the year. Together, they unpack what it looks like to learn yourself deeply, take responsibility for your internal world, and develop the foresight needed to navigate pressure, transition, and uncertainty. This episode explores why reflection isn't just a year-end exercise, but a lifelong discipline that turns awareness into wisdom. From tracking patterns and managing fear to understanding responsibility, calling, and self-governance, this conversation offers language and perspective for anyone stepping into a new season. We cover: Why reflection is essential for growth, not just insight How to track patterns before they become problems The difference between awareness and responsibility Learning to anticipate pressure instead of reacting to it Self-governance and owning your internal world How commitment shapes maturity over time Using reflection as foresight, not hindsight Why knowing yourself matters more than controlling outcomes This episode is thoughtful, grounding, and deeply practical for anyone committed to becoming wiser, more self-aware, and more intentional in the year ahead. 📲 Connect with Us: We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

This week, we're diving into a skill most people skip but everyone needs: reflection. Not the "wow, that happened" kind. The kind that turns your past into information so you can build foresight, notice patterns, and stop repeating the same cycles in a new year. If you've ever set goals without slowing down long enough to understand what's actually been shaping you, this episode will give you language and a framework to make reflection a muscle, something you practice, not something you do once a year. Reflection takes internal fortitude, but it's how gratitude, correction, and growth become possible. We cover: Why reflection takes internal fortitude and why the moments you want to avoid are often where the lesson is How to "excavate" cringe/embarrassing moments instead of running from them Why we need to reflect on wins too (not just failures) so we can repeat what actually works The paradox: it's often what goes unaddressed that becomes your future The "watch film" framework for reviewing life with a bird's-eye view (good, bad, and everything in between) A practical way to reflect by reviewing what you've created (writing, work, episodes, output) as evidence of who you were How to separate what's you, what's influence, and what's fear because life is layered How to actually find time: silence, closing mental tabs, and making reflection a habit This episode is honest, practical, and gives you a framework to stop drifting so you can build a better future with clarity instead of just hoping things change. 📲 Connect with Us: More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

This week, we're bringing you a special Holiday Q&A Episode, featuring real questions from our listeners about navigating family, old patterns, and emotional pressure during the holidays. This is an episode that helps you lead yourself well and navigate the old patterns and challenging environments that the holidays often resurface. Listen for language, tools, and perspective to stay grounded, lead yourself well, and show up as the healthiest version of you. For your own growth or to be someone that encourages the people around you. We cover: How to stay grounded when you feel reactive or disconnected. Whether irritation means you haven't forgiven someone. How to set boundaries without creating unnecessary conflict. How to be around family members who are estranged from one another. What to do when you've outgrown old friendships back home. How to measure your resilience and self-awareness in real time. How to show up authentically without expecting others to change. How to care for yourself before and after the holiday environment. This episode is honest, practical, and full of wisdom for anyone walking into environments that pull on their history or test their growth. 📲 Connect with Us: We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader!   LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri dive into one of the most overlooked forces shaping our lives: belief. Not blind optimism. Not hype. But the deep, internal conviction that fuels calling, direction, resilience, and identity. Starting with Winston Churchill's outrageous belief at 19 that he would one day save England, the conversation unpacks how belief forms, why it wavers, and how you can build it in your own life. Adrian opens up about his lifelong struggle with self-belief, how ADHD shaped his confidence, and the role others played in helping him see what he couldn't see in himself. They explore: Why belief often looks irrational from the outside. The tension between bold belief and foolishness. How belief anchors identity, especially in seasons of doubt. Why those with strong belief often experience deep lows. How belief in others (kids, spouse, team) shapes their future. Why calling needs both conviction and evidence. The role of time in confirming or correcting your belief. How to choose belief when the evidence isn't there yet. This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply human—helping you understand how belief works and what it will take to become who you're designed to be.   📲 Connect with Us: More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri unpack the truth behind one of the most overused ideas in culture: being "one of one." Everyone says they want to be different, but few are willing to fight the internal war it takes to truly become who they were designed to be. This conversation explores the cost of authenticity, the battle between your past and your future, and what it really means to live as a whole person, not a performance. They discuss: Why most people are chasing uniqueness for the wrong reasons. The real difference between being different and being whole. The war between your past and your future and how to win it. How pain, purpose, and calling are connected. Why becoming 1 of 1 isn't about fame, but transformation. This is a raw and hopeful episode about the fight to be real in a culture of copies. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri sit down with one of their favorite thinkers, Mark Sayers, pastor of Red Church in Melbourne and author of A Non-anxious Presence and Reappearing Church. Known for his insights on faith, culture, and leadership, Mark unpacks what it means to live and lead faithfully in a world defined by uncertainty, disinformation, and rapid technological change. Together, they explore: How AI and cultural instability are reshaping leadership. The hidden spiritual hunger emerging beneath global chaos. The loss of truth, the rise of tribalism, and what authentic hope looks like now. Why the next era of leadership requires depth, humility, and integrity rather than platforms. This is a timely and deeply grounded conversation about faith, formation, and the kind of leadership the future desperately needs. 📲 Connect with Us: More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

MAJOR MILESTONE: 100 EPISODES Today, Bri and Adrian reflect on how the show started, the doubts they had, the lessons learned along the way, and the growth they've seen in themselves and their audience. From filming on Clorox boxes to building a set, from almost quitting to finding their rhythm, this episode is about perseverance, purpose, and the power of just taking the first step. We're talking: The fears and insecurities that almost stopped the podcast early on. How commitment for one year changed everything. The evolution of authenticity and communication. What it means to take risks and be "seen trying." The role of mentorship, feedback, and intergenerational trust. How seasons of uncertainty can still lead to clarity and conviction. Why building something that lasts matters more than going viral. This episode is a thank you to every listener, every share, every message, and every person who's believed in this journey. Here's to the next hundred. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri sit down with innovator, creator, and futurist, Vince Hunt, to talk about AI and the future of leadership. Instead of reacting to technology with fear, this conversation explores how we can lead with curiosity, responsibility, and courage in an era defined by rapid innovation. They unpack: The tension between fear and curiosity in how we approach AI. What AI reveals about human creativity, control, and insecurity. How faith and ethics can guide innovation. Why authentic leaders must embrace, not avoid, technological change. How to stay human while leveraging the power of machines. This is a forward-looking and deeply human conversation about progress, purpose, and the kind of leadership the future demands. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Adrian and Bri dig into one of the most powerful but misunderstood concepts in our culture: authenticity. We hear the word everywhere—but what does it actually mean to live authentically? And why is it so difficult in a world obsessed with image, branding, and performance? Adrian and Bri unpack: The true definition of authenticity (beyond "just being yourself") The hidden costs of living authentically—and the freedom it brings Why vulnerability is essential to authenticity How leaders can model authenticity without oversharing Guardrails that keep authenticity from becoming performance Why authenticity is the key to trust, connection, and real growth This episode is a challenge to stop performing, let go of the need for approval, and step into the wholeness of living authentically. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media.   More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

In this episode of The New Rules Podcast, Bri and Adrian dive into the aftermath of the assassination of Charlie Kirk and wrestle with one of America's most charged conversations: freedom. Is our idea of "freedom" really making society better or is it fueling violence, division, and selfishness? From political hypocrisy to the misuse of Christianity in culture wars, Bri and Adrian ask the tough questions about faith, politics, and power in today's America. They explore: Why America's definition of freedom is unraveling. The political and faith-based reactions to Charlie Kirk's death. The parallels between today's unrest and historical violence. The dangers of weaponizing Christianity in politics. How leaders can choose resilience, responsibility, and restraint in moments of chaos. This is a raw, challenging, and necessary conversation for anyone navigating leadership, faith, or cultural tension in America today. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

In this raw episode, Bri and Adrian take an honest look at what the last few months have been like. From internal battles with fear and shame to external pressures of leadership, parenting, and running a growing company, they open up about the weight they've been carrying. This conversation covers the reality of mental health, the cycles of fear that resurface even with growth, and the paradox of showing up for others while struggling internally. It's an inside look at the cost of leadership, partnership, and authenticity when life feels overwhelming. If you've ever faced seasons where fear, pressure, or self-doubt made you question everything, you're not alone. This episode is a reminder that resilience is forged in the fire, and authenticity often looks like admitting when life feels too heavy. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform: We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

This week on the New Rules Podcast, we flipped the script. Our incredible producer Lauren stepped in front of the mic with full permission to ask Adrian anything with no prep, no rules, no limits. From the lighthearted "What five items would resurrect your ghost?" to the deeply personal balancing calling, insecurity, and vanity, this conversation goes everywhere: marriage, parenting, community, leadership, childhood memories, and even Lauren's obsession with fire. It's unscripted, unfiltered, and unexpectedly vulnerable. If you've ever wondered what Adrian really thinks when he's off the cuff, this is the episode for you. In this episode: Marriage lessons + parenting reflections What he's learned from watching his kids grow up Childhood imagination, courage, and calling Why self-doubt and waiting felt like torture AI, authenticity, and the future of leadership Community as joy and inconvenience Why you can't force someone's growth   📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. Listen to the full conversation on your favorite platform: Listen on Spotify (linked) Listen on Apple Podcasts (linked) Watch on YouTube (linked on lib) We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules  

We often hear, "Don't doubt yourself. Be confident." But what if self-doubt isn't always the enemy? What if it's a tool that, when used wisely, can actually make you sharper, more grounded, and more effective? In this raw and honest conversation, Adrian and Bri explore the pros and cons of self-doubt… when it can hold you back, and when it can actually push you forward. You'll hear: Why too much confidence can be just as dangerous as too little How to recognize healthy vs. unhealthy doubt Stories of leaders and creators who leveraged self-doubt for growth Practical tools to turn insecurity into insight How to balance confidence with humility in real life This episode isn't about pretending you don't have doubts, it's about learning to think differently about them so they fuel your growth instead of your fear. 📲 Connect with Us: Don't forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share your thoughts on how power and fear have played a role in your own leadership experiences. We'd love to hear your thoughts! After listening, don't forget to leave a comment on YouTube, leave a review, and share your favorite takeaways on social media. More of a visual person?  You can WATCH today's episode on our Youtube Channel:  Youtube: youtube.com/WriteNewRules   To stay connected, visit us at the following places to help as a guide for you on your journey to becoming an authentic leader! LinkedIn: Adrian Crawford Instagram: @writenewrules TikTok: @writenewrules