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Recruiting Conversations
Author: Richard Milligan, Recruiting Coach
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Welcome to the Recruiting Conversations Podcast, a conversation designed to help Recruiting Leaders who manage a team as well as recruit. Richard Milligan is a speaker, author, strategist, and recruiting coach who built 21 teams as a Recruiting Leader.
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The market is shifting. Again. Technology's evolving, buyer behavior is different, and if you're leading the same way you were even two years ago, you're likely behind. Innovation isn't optional anymore. It's the job. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I'll break down what innovation actually looks like for a recruiting leader, and how to make it part of your weekly rhythm, not just an abstract idea. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The market will keep changing. Your job is to stay relevant in how you lead, recruit, and build [01:00] Innovation Isn't About Being Trendy – It's about staying adaptable and asking better questions [01:30] The Best Leaders Are Curious – They're learners, observers, and pattern spotters. They don't assume what worked last year will work this year [02:00] 5 Ways to Stay Innovative Stay Close to the Pain – Talk to your team, your recruits, your producers. Innovation starts where the friction is Don't Protect Outdated Systems – What got you here won't get you there. Reevaluate your systems, your onboarding, your follow-up Use Vision as Your Filter – Know what you're building. Let it guide what you change and what you keep Learn Out Loud – Share what you're learning with your team. When they see you growing, they feel safe to do the same Build a Rhythm for Experimentation – Innovation shouldn't be spontaneous. It should be structured. Run small tests. Audit your process. Pilot something new [04:00] Real-World Example – A leader struggling with social content ran one small test: short-form video with a tight script. It worked. Now it's a core part of their recruiting system [05:00] Final Word – Innovation doesn't mean reinvention. It means curiosity, clarity, and courage to adapt Key Takeaways Innovation Is a Discipline, Not a Spark – The best leaders block time to audit, reflect, and experiment Curiosity Beats Control – You don't have to know everything. You just have to be open and responsive Vision Helps You Say No – When you know where you're going, you can say no to trends that don't serve the mission You Win With Small Experiments, Not Big Overhauls – Pilot something. Measure it. Refine it. That's the rhythm The Market Is Always Changing, And That's Your Edge – Most leaders resist change. Great leaders adapt to it The future will keep evolving. The question is: will you evolve with it? The leaders who stay curious, stay close to the pain, and stay grounded in vision are the ones who will win 2026.
Comp plans are easy to talk about. Culture, leadership, growth? Not so much. And yet, it's the non-financial value that actually moves the needle when it comes to attracting aligned, long-term hires. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I give you a clear, five-part framework to define, communicate, and personalize your non-financial value, so you can win recruits who care about more than just the paycheck. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Setup – Why this question matters more than ever: "How do we communicate non-financial value effectively?" [01:00] Step 1: Define What Sets You Apart – You can't communicate what you haven't clearly named Leadership style Support and growth systems Culture behaviors Flexibility, autonomy, mentorship, development [02:00] Step 2: Get Specific – Vague phrases like "we care about our people" don't land. Say what support actually looks like 30/60/90 onboarding? Weekly 1-on-1s? Leadership development tracks? [03:00] Step 3: Lead With It Early – Don't wait for someone to ask about comp before you start talking about culture "Most of the people who join our team do it because of how we lead and help people grow" [04:00] Step 4: Use Storytelling to Bring It to Life Tell the story of a team member who overcame something with your support Share how someone grew into a leadership role Let the recruit feel what it's like to be on your team [05:00] Step 5: Personalize the Conversation – Ask questions like: What's missing in your current environment? What kind of leader brings out your best? Then connect what you offer directly to what they care about [06:00] Bonus Step: Show, Don't Just Tell Invite recruits to team meetings Share a behind-the-scenes video Let them talk to a current team member Create a simple tour of your onboarding process Key Takeaways Vague Language Doesn't Attract Top Talent – Define your values, support systems, and culture in specific, shareable language Recruits Don't Buy Features. They Buy Feelings – Use story to make the value real and relatable Don't Wait for the Comp Question to Show Value – Lead with your differentiators Personalization Wins Trust – Listen first, then highlight what matters to them Experience Builds Belief – Let them see and feel your culture before they say yes Your team's culture and leadership style may be the best-kept secret in your recruiting strategy. Let's change that. Lead with the value that actually keeps people, and you'll attract the right ones every time.
You've worked hard to build a strong culture. But now you're growing, and the real challenge begins: How do you protect what you've built while expanding across markets, teams, or time zones? In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I share the strategy for attracting and evaluating leaders who don't just fit your culture… they scale it. If you're recruiting high performers, future regionals, or anyone who will lead others, this is the playbook you need. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Intro – What happens when one leadership hire changes everything? Why protecting culture during growth is mission-critical [01:00] Culture Is Behavior, Not Perks – It's not happy hours or branding, it's how people show up, lead, solve problems, and handle pressure [02:00] You're Not Hiring People. You're Scaling Behavior – That means recruiting needs to go beyond numbers and resumes [02:30] The Big Mistake Most Leaders Make – They focus on what someone has done, not how they did it [03:00] Step 1: Define Your Culture Clearly – Vague language can't be scaled. What do you value, protect, reward, and not tolerate? [03:30] Step 2: Ask Culture-Based Questions How do you handle behavior issues? What kind of leadership brings out your best? How do you navigate conflict and accountability? What do you do with someone producing well but behaving poorly? [04:00] Step 3: Watch How They Talk About Their Past Teams – Look for humility, ownership, and values-driven language [04:30] Step 4: Attract the Right People With Vision – High-level leaders don't move for perks or comp, they move for alignment and purpose [05:00] Step 5: Show What Growth Looks Like on Your Team – Not just volume growth, but people growth. Development. Mentorship. Room to lead [05:30] Step 6: Remember You Only Need a Few – You don't need dozens. Just a handful of aligned leaders who carry vision and culture wherever they go [06:00] Final Recap Get clear on your culture in words and actions Go deeper in your questions to uncover alignment Make your brand and conversations reflect your values and vision Key Takeaways Culture Is Scaled Through People, Not Posters – You need leaders who live what you believe Values Are More Important Than Volume – Great numbers with the wrong behavior will erode everything you've built Vague Culture Can't Be Recruited For – Define it. Speak it. Use it as a filter Ask Better Questions Early – Don't just vet performance. Vet alignment Vision Attracts Culture Carriers – When your brand communicates purpose and growth, the right people show up If you want to scale what you've built, start recruiting people who already carry it.
Every year, leaders set big goals. Grow the team. Double production. Scale. But without structure, those goals fade by February. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk you through the exact system I teach leaders across real estate, mortgage, insurance, and agency sales, a system that turns your production target into a tangible, trackable recruiting rhythm. This is how you make growth inevitable. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Why Most Growth Plans Fail – Leaders set production goals with no math, no cadence, and no plan to execute [00:45] What the Math-to-Momentum Playbook Solves – Clarity, cadence, and a calendar-based system for recruiting [01:30] Step 1: Set a Real, Measurable Production Target for 2026 – Units, volume, revenue, just make it real [01:50] Step 2: Estimate Your Organic Growth – Most healthy teams grow 8–10% organically. Anything more needs new hires [02:20] Step 3: Define the Recruiting Gap – What portion of your 2026 goal requires new producers? [02:40] Step 4: Break It Down by Avatar – How many LOs do you need to hit that number? What do your ideal recruits produce per month? [03:00] Step 5: Build a Quarterly Hiring Cadence – Think in sprints. What hires do you need in Q1 to hit your target by Q4? [03:30] Step 6: Match Your Outreach Rhythm to Your Hiring Cadence 10–12 recruiting convos per week Use your channels: calls, DMs, video, text, voice notes Block it on your calendar [04:00] Step 7: Scorecard It Weekly – Conversations, follow-ups, second meetings, offers, hires [04:30] The Shift This Creates – You stop saying "I want to grow" and start saying "I need 4 LOs at X volume, with one in Q1" [05:00] Recruiting Stops Feeling Random – You're no longer guessing. You're leading from a system [05:30] Final Word – If you're tired of setting the same goals year after year without traction, this is how you fix it Key Takeaways Vision Alone Isn't Enough – Your growth goals need math, momentum, and a measurable plan Organic Growth Has a Ceiling – If you want to break through, recruiting must become your growth engine Reverse Engineer From the Outcome – Start with your production goal, then back into how many hires and conversations you need Track Weekly, Not Monthly – Momentum is lost when you wait too long to adjust You're Not Just Recruiting. You're Running a System – When your calendar reflects your goal, traction follows The leaders who win in 2026 won't be the loudest. They'll be the most structured. They'll know their numbers, block their time, and recruit with clarity.
Every leader hits this moment. You're in a great conversation with a recruit, and then they say it: "I'm also talking to another leader… someone with a big name." If you've ever felt like you were up against someone else's brand, you're not alone, and you're not powerless. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk you through how to stop playing defense and start leading with the one thing no other brand can replicate: your unique value. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – When you're up against a leader with more visibility, more experience, or a stronger reputation [01:00] Don't Let Comparison Kill Your Confidence – Your value isn't in your resume or following, it's in how you lead and what you believe [01:45] Branding Creates Awareness. Alignment Creates Movement – Just because someone is well known doesn't mean they're the right fit [02:30] You Don't Need to Be the Loudest. You Need to Be the Clearest – Recruits follow leaders who know where they're going [03:00] Start With Your Leadership DNA – What makes you different? How do people grow under your leadership? What do you care deeply about? [04:00] Brand Is the Public Expression of Your Private Values – When your content, conversations, and follow-up reflect the real you, you create trust [04:30] Ask a Better Question – Instead of "How do I compete?" ask "What kind of leader am I uniquely qualified to be, and how can I make that visible?" [05:00] Show Up With Integrity, Not Imitation – Tell your story, share your team culture, and let your vision be seen [06:00] Recruits Aren't Comparing Jobs. They're Comparing Futures – Paint a clear picture of where you're going and why it matters [06:45] Your Brand Isn't Flashy. It's Familiar – When the version of you people see online matches who they meet in real life, trust multiplies [07:10] Final Word – You don't need to chase someone else's reputation. Build your leadership presence. That's what truly attracts the right people Key Takeaways Your Leadership Style Is the Asset – Own it, articulate it, and build your brand around it You Don't Need More Volume. You Need More Clarity – Recruits follow leaders who know who they are and where they're going Brand Integrity > Brand Visibility – What builds trust is consistency between your message and your actions You Can't Fake Alignment – The right people will be drawn to your real voice, not someone else's strategy Stop Trying to Win by Comparison. Win Through Conviction – A clear, consistent brand that reflects who you are will outperform reputation alone In a crowded market, the loudest leader doesn't win. The clearest one does. Stop trying to compete with someone else's voice, start amplifying your own.
"Extravagant value" might sound over the top, but in recruiting, it's the secret to cutting through noise, skepticism, and shallow outreach. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I unpack what extravagant value really means, why it works, and how to build it into your recruiting system. Because if you want to win top-tier talent, your follow-up can't feel average. It has to feel unforgettable. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why "some value" isn't enough anymore [01:00] What Extravagant Value Really Means – It's not flashy or manipulative. It's thoughtful, personal, and intentional [01:30] The Litmus Test – If your value costs you time, attention, or creativity, it's probably extravagant [02:00] Real Examples – Sharing a custom content resource Sending a podcast that solves a problem Following up with a personal video or handwritten note [03:00] The Power of Being Rare – In a transactional world, generosity and personalization feel extravagant [03:30] What It's NOT – Gimmicks, bribes, or manipulative "gifts" don't build trust, they destroy it [04:00] Operationalizing It – Build a "value vault" of tools, templates, and resources to share at scale [04:30] Automate the Follow-Up – Use your CRM to document personal details and create reminders to deliver value [05:00] Final Challenge – Look at your last five recruiting convos: Did you surprise them? Did you serve them? If not, start now Key Takeaways Value That Feels Personal Will Always Win – Recruits want to be seen, not sold to Extravagant Doesn't Mean Expensive – It means thoughtful, relevant, and intentional Surprise Builds Belief – Small, unexpected moments create massive differentiation Systemize the Generosity – Build tools and rhythms that make high-value touches repeatable You Don't Need More Pitches. You Need More Contrast – When people feel served instead of sold, recruiting shifts from pressure to pull Top talent won't remember your comp plan. But they will remember how you made them feel. Make that moment extravagant.
We're just days away from a brand new year, and there's one leadership skill that will define your momentum in 2026: turning vision into structure. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk you through how to go beyond inspiring language and build a vision your team and your recruits can actually believe in. If you've ever felt like your vision gets lost or fades after January, this will show you how to make it stick; with structure, ownership, and real action steps. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Welcome & Setup – It's almost New Year's Eve, which means you're probably reflecting on what you built and casting vision for what's next [01:00] Why Most Vision Fades – Leaders share big ideas in December, but they don't connect it to structure, behavior, or execution [02:00] Step 1: Define the Destination – What would be true by the end of 2026 if your vision came to life? Culture, structure, experience, leadership [02:45] Step 2: Break It Into Pillars – Group your goals into clear themes: leadership development, recruiting, systems, team structure, brand, etc. [03:00] Step 3: Start Small and Assign Ownership – What's one thing you can move forward in January? Assign a name and a timeline [03:45] Step 4: Communicate Often – The biggest mistake is thinking people will remember your vision after hearing it once. Repetition builds belief [04:30] Step 5: Connect Systems to Your Story – Don't just post wins or numbers. Let your systems and your social content reflect where you're going [05:00] Final Challenge – Do this before midnight on New Year's Eve: Write down your 2026 vision Name 3 pillars that support it Identify 1 action step for the first week of January [05:30] The Real Goal – Your vision doesn't need to be perfect. It needs to be anchored in what matters to you and repeated with consistency [06:00] Wrap-Up – When your team knows where you're going and how you're getting there, recruiting becomes magnetic. Happy New Year Key Takeaways Vision Without Structure Fades – Most leaders talk about the future but don't build a roadmap to get there Start With the End in Mind – Get crystal clear on what success actually looks like 12 months from now Use Pillars to Organize the Chaos – Categorizing your goals helps you make progress in focused areas Assign Ownership and Set Timelines – Even the smallest next step brings your vision to life Repetition Builds Belief – Say your vision often enough that your team starts to echo it back to you This isn't about perfection. It's about clarity, consistency, and commitment. When your vision becomes a roadmap, people don't just hear it. They believe it. And when they believe it, they follow you into 2026 with trust.
It's Christmas week, and the perfect time to reflect on your future as a leader. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I'm answering one of the biggest questions I've been hearing to close out the year: How do I cast a bold, inspiring vision for 2026 without overcommitting or losing trust when I can't deliver it all at once? If you've ever wrestled with that tension, this episode will help you lead with both clarity and confidence. I walk you through how to cast a magnetic vision and pair it with grounded execution, so people believe in both your future and your follow-through. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Merry Christmas & Setup – A holiday message and the big question: how do I balance big vision with realistic execution [01:00] The Tension Every Leader Feels – You're dreaming big for 2026, but also wearing 5 hats and carrying the weight of everything you already do [01:30] Vision and Execution Are Not Opposites – You can lead both, if you hold them in tension with transparency [02:00] Vision Should Stretch You – If your "vision" only covers the next 30 days, it's not vision. It's a task list [02:45] Execution Builds Trust – Your actions must reinforce your words. Belief comes from consistency, not hype [03:10] Real-World Example – Casting a boutique leadership vision even when you're just starting solo, and grounding it with small Q1 steps [03:45] Avoid the Extremes – Some cast vision with no follow-through. Others get stuck in the day-to-day and stop casting vision entirely [04:30] What Great Leaders Will Do in 2026 – Inspire people with clarity, then walk them there step by step [05:00] Brand and Content Must Reflect the Balance – Be honest about where you're going and what you're doing now [05:15] Your Vision Will Evolve – That doesn't mean you were wrong. It means you're leading in real time [05:40] Final Challenge for Year-End Write your 2026 vision (team, culture, impact) Identify 2–3 steps you'll take in January Decide how to communicate that to your current team and future recruits Key Takeaways You Don't Have to Choose Between Big Vision and Real Execution – You just need to lead both with clarity and consistency Vision Without Steps Creates Skepticism. Steps Without Vision Create Stagnation – You need both to build belief Let People See the Journey – Share the North Star, but also the next two steps toward it Your Leadership Brand Should Reflect Both Your Belief and Your Process – That's how trust compounds It's Okay if Your Vision Evolves – Stay rooted in your values, and you'll always find alignment People don't need you to be perfect. They need you to be honest, bold, and grounded. Cast the vision. Show your work. Invite others to build it with you. Want help crafting a vision-based recruiting strategy that attracts and builds trust? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a call at bookrichardnow.com. Merry Christmas, and here's to a 2026 worth building.
Your personal brand is already speaking. The question is, does it say the right thing? In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I talk about the one brand shift every leader needs to make in 2026: letting your vision do the talking. Because today's recruits don't just want a better comp plan or a bigger opportunity. They want to follow someone with clarity, belief, and a future they can see themselves in. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Your brand is already talking. The question is: what story is it telling? [01:00] Why Vision Is Your Brand's Most Valuable Asset – It's not about numbers or rankings. It's about where you're going and who you're inviting to help build it [01:40] Vision Is Not a Mission Statement – It's not corporate jargon. It's a real, human story that paints a future others want to be part of [02:30] What Your Brand Should Do – Your content should make people say, "I see it. I feel it. I believe in it." [03:00] Production Doesn't Inspire Loyalty – Vision does. Recruits don't follow W-2s. They follow clarity, direction, and purpose. [03:30] How to Shift Your Content Strategy From "Here's what I did" to "Here's where we're going" From celebrating production to celebrating progress From stats to stories [04:00] Clarity Compounds – Saying your vision once inspires. Saying it often builds belief [04:30] The Three Layers of a Magnetic Brand Leadership – What you consistently do Belief – What you carry and communicate Vision – What you cast and invite people into [05:00] 5 Reflective Questions to Audit Your Brand Does my content reflect where I'm going or just where I've been? Am I sharing stories that reveal our values and culture? Would a stranger know what I stand for just by following me for a week? Have I shown people why our team exists, not just what we do? Do people feel invited into a future that matters? [06:00] Final Challenge – Don't keep your vision locked in your head. Make it public, consistent, and magnetic Key Takeaways Your Brand Is Already Talking. Make Sure It's Saying the Right Thing – Silence is still a message. Make yours intentional. Recruits Don't Follow Production. They Follow Vision – Show them what you're building and why it matters. Clarity Wins Attention. Consistency Builds Belief – Let your audience see your vision often enough that it becomes part of their story. Your Brand Should Reflect Leadership, Belief, and Vision – When those three align, recruiting gets easier. The Future You Share Will Decide Who Joins You – Don't sell a job. Share a direction people want to be part of. Your vision is the most underused recruiting tool you have. Let it speak. Let it lead. Let it magnetize the right people to your team. Want help crafting a brand strategy that reflects your leadership and vision? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a 1-on-1 session at bookrichardnow.com. Let me know if you'd like a personal brand audit template or weekly content guide to start showing up with clarity and consistency.
Most recruiting conversations stay surface-level. We talk roles, titles, numbers. But the best leaders know how to go deeper. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I share the single most powerful question I ask in nearly every recruiting conversation: "What's your long-term professional dream? And what's your personal dream outside of work for the next 10 years?" That one question changes everything. It moves the conversation from transactional to transformational. It shows people you don't just want to hire them, you want to help them become who they're meant to be. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why most recruiting conversations fall flat: they focus on what's now, not what's next [00:45] The Dream Question – Ask both: What's your long-term professional dream? And what's your personal dream outside of work for the next 10 years? [01:15] Why It Works – Most people never get asked about their 10-year vision. When you create that space, you become more than a recruiter, you become a trusted partner [01:30] Examples of Answers Professional: "I want to lead a team," "I want to grow to $100M," "I want to move into strategy" Personal: "I want to coach my daughter's soccer team," "I want to work remote," "I want to write a book" [02:20] What to Do With Their Answer – Write it down. Label it. Let it shape your future follow-up. Anchor your conversations to their dream, not your offer [02:45] Managers Close. Leaders Connect. – Great recruiters don't sell, they align. They co-create futures [03:00] Final Challenge – In your next recruiting call, ask the deeper question. Then shut up, listen, and take notes. Follow up with belief, not pressure Key Takeaways Ask About the Dream, Not the Deal – When you ask about their 10-year vision, you become unforgettable Two Questions That Unlock Trust – What's your long-term professional dream? And what's your personal dream outside of work? Lead With Belief, Not Benefits – People are drawn to leaders who see their future clearly Follow Up With Purpose – Every message, call, or invite should tie back to the life they told you they want The Best Recruiters Are Dream Builders – They don't pitch jobs. They invite people into a better version of their own story This one question will change your recruiting forever. Ask it. Capture it. Follow up on it. It's how you go from recruiter to trusted guide. Want help building a recruiting system rooted in purpose and connection? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a coaching session at bookrichardnow.com. Let me know if you'd like a printable guide to "dream-based recruiting" questions. I'll send it your way.
Most recruiting playbooks are either too vague to matter or too corporate to inspire. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I break down how to create a magnetic recruiting playbook; one that does more than document steps. It attracts the right talent, builds deep community, and creates retention that scales. We'll cover three powerful pillars: marketing that feels human, community that creates belonging, and retention that builds belief. This isn't theory. It's a rhythm that reinforces your leadership at every level. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why most playbooks fail and how to build one that magnetizes people to your team [01:00] What a Playbook Really Is – Not a document, but a lived rhythm that reflects the culture of your team [02:00] Part 1: Marketing That Connects Define your content pillars: What should you be known for? Build a cadence: Weekly posts, monthly updates, quarterly events Show your leadership: Let the market feel what it's like to be led by you Involve your team: Shared wins and team content multiply your message [03:30] Marketing Is Not About Going Viral – It's about being consistently visible with real value [04:30] Part 2: Community That Retains Outline rhythms of connection: Weekly calls, celebrations, shout-outs Systematize belonging: Notes, gifts, personal coaching Teach peer-to-peer support: Real community isn't top down, it's side to side [05:30] Community Has to Be Structured to Scale – Templates, calendars, and shared docs bring this to life [06:00] Part 3: Retention That Lasts Four keys: Clear expectations, consistent coaching, visible progress, emotional connection Define onboarding rhythms Track growth, give feedback, build relationship Retention isn't about comp or ops, it's about belief [07:00] The Gift of Documenting the Gaps – Writing your playbook reveals where you're winging it, and that's how you get better [07:30] Final Challenge Create three sections: Marketing, Community, Retention List five things you already do and five you want to start doing Build templates, assign owners, and create checklists over the next 30 days Key Takeaways A Playbook Isn't a PDF. It's a System That Lives and Breathes – Build rhythms, not just resources Marketing Should Be Personal and Predictable – Stop trying to go viral. Start being visible Community Doesn't Happen By Chance – It happens by design and weekly repetition Retention Is Built, Not Hoped For – It requires coaching, celebration, and belief Your Playbook Makes You Scalable – It moves your leadership from your head into the hands of others You don't need to build something flashy. You need to build something real, something that grows with you, attracts the right people, and keeps your team aligned. Want help building your own magnetic recruiting playbook? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a session at bookrichardnow.com. Let's turn your leadership into a system that multiplies.
When a candidate pushes back on pricing or comp, they're rarely asking about math. They're asking if your model is worth believing in. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk through the mindset, scripting, and strategic timing for leading high-trust conversations around pricing and compensation. This isn't about defending numbers. It's about reframing the value of your system and building belief that shifts the conversation from fear to vision. Episode Breakdown [00:00] The Real Question – Pricing and comp objections aren't about spreadsheets. They're about trust and perceived value [01:00] Step 1: Reframe the Mindset – Don't debate. Reframe. Pricing is emotional, not just logical [02:00] Step 2: Acknowledge the Emotion – "It makes sense that pricing matters. You want to protect your pipeline." Validation opens the door [02:30] Step 3: Ask Performance-Based Questions – How often are you being shopped? What's your lock pull-through rate? Do you feel like you're chasing rate, or controlling the conversation? [03:30] Step 4: Offer a Vision of Relief – "What if you didn't have to win on rate? What if trust, process, and speed helped you win instead?" [04:00] Step 5: Shift the Comp Conversation – "Let's walk through how your comp translates to actual support, systems, and scale." [05:00] Step 6: Move From Numbers to Outcomes – What would two more loans per month mean? What's the impact of three extra hours per week? What happens when your team actually helps you scale? [06:00] Step 7: Sell Alignment, Not Comp – Culture, coaching, leadership, and belief win long-term loyalty [06:30] Step 8: Use Stories, Not Stats – Real before-and-after stories build more belief than spreadsheets [07:00] Step 9: Invite Skepticism, Don't Resist It – "What do you need to feel confident? What are you comparing this to?" Curiosity disarms fear [08:00] Step 10: Anticipate Objections With Tools – Pricing overview Comp comparison Cost of delay analysis Follow-up story sequences [08:30] Final Challenge – Create your comp narrative. Document three stories. Re-engage three recruits who stalled on price Key Takeaways Objections Around Price Are Really About Belief – Your job is to shift the conversation to value and alignment Recruits Don't Just Want Numbers. They Want Outcomes – Clarity, support, and vision create more loyalty than a higher comp Use Empathy, Then Lead With Questions – Start by validating their concern. Then help them see a bigger picture Stories Win More Than Spreadsheets – Share real-world before-and-after examples of people who made the move Be Proactive With Tools – Don't wait for objections. Anticipate them with documents, stories, and confident messaging Recruits don't stay because of comp. They stay because of coaching, clarity, culture, and belief. Your job isn't to outbid. It's to out-value.
What if you've already talked to every LO in your market? What if the pool feels saturated, picked over, or just plain stuck? In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I'll show you how to shift your mindset, redefine your opportunity, and build a rhythm that creates traction—even when your list is short. Whether you're in a small town or a crowded metro, this strategy will help you go deeper, not just wider. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – When your market feels small, what do you do? The answer isn't volume. It's clarity [01:00] You're Not Stuck. You're Just Defining Opportunity Too Narrowly – Most leaders assume the list is exhausted when they've only made one or two touches [02:00] Depth Over Breadth – Build a rhythm that stays in front of your market: Monthly value-adds Personal video check-ins Team stories and culture clips Consistent follow-up [03:00] Value Isn't a Job Posting – Real value is insight, encouragement, and strategy. It positions you as a thought partner, not a pitch person [04:00] Saturation Isn't the Issue – Most top LOs don't move from one pitch. They move from trust built over time [05:00] Rejection Is Not the End – It's just timing. Stay in the conversation so you're the one they call when it's time [06:00] Expand Your Definition of Opportunity Junior LOs Loan partners or processors Career-adjacent talent Agents considering a switch to lending [07:00] Build a Visibility Calendar – 50+ high-touch moments per year for every LO in your market. That's how you stay top of mind [08:00] Local Referrals Are Everything – In tight markets, relationships create recruiting momentum. Build influence with agents and community leaders [08:30] If You've Stopped Believing, Nothing Else Works – Mindset is your real ceiling. The market isn't too small. You've just stopped seeing it clearly [09:00] Weekly Challenge Audit your recruiting list Re-engage cold contacts Share one valuable resource Make one strategic referral ask Post something that shows what your leadership feels like Key Takeaways You're Not Out of Leads. You're Out of Rhythm – Consistency, not volume, is what moves the needle In Small Markets, Reputation Scales Faster Than Ads – People talk. Your brand is built on how you show up Don't Just Build a Pipeline. Build Familiarity – Value, visibility, and repetition make you unforgettable Redefine What Counts as a "Good Lead" – Great hires often come from places others overlook You Don't Need Everyone. You Just Need a Few Aligned People to Believe – That's how real growth starts Your market might be small, but your impact doesn't have to be. Build your system. Stay visible. Lead with value. You'll win with depth. Want help creating a recruiting rhythm that works—even in limited markets? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a strategy session at bookrichardnow.com. Let's help you recruit with clarity and consistency.
What if your entire market has fewer than 100 LOs? Is hiring a recruiter still worth it? In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk through the exact framework for determining whether a recruiter is the right move in a small market. I cover the systems, mindset, math, and sequencing that make it work, and share a real-world story of one leader who turned 85 LOs into 9 hires in 12 months. This isn't about headcount. It's about mastery, clarity, and building a system that multiplies your time. Episode Breakdown [00:00] The Question – Is it worth hiring a recruiter if I only have 70 to 100 loan officers in my area? [01:00] Why Market Size Is the Wrong Lens – It's not how many LOs exist, it's how many are aligned and how strong your system is [02:00] Visibility vs. True Recruiting – Reaching out once is not recruiting. You need consistent, structured engagement [02:30] Real Story: Midwest Leader With 85 LOs – After mapping the market, he realized very few LOs had received consistent value or follow-up [03:30] Question 1: Is Recruiting a Top 3 Priority? – If not, a recruiter becomes an admin, not a multiplier [04:00] Question 2: Do You Have a System? – CRM, avatar, cadence, scripting, follow-up, all must be in place before hiring [04:45] Question 3: Are You Recruiting for Fit or Volume? – In small markets, alignment is more important than raw production [05:20] Question 4: Can You Tell a Clear Story? – If your recruiter can't communicate your value clearly, you'll lose to comp-focused competitors [06:00] The Math That Makes It Work 3 key hires = $60K/month revenue $720K annually More than enough to justify the hire [06:30] What a Recruiter Should Be – Not a cold caller, but a connector who runs value plays and books warm calls [07:00] When to Delay the Hire – If your system is messy or undefined, wait. Build first. Then hire [07:30] Real Results – The Midwest leader built a system first, hired a recruiter second, and scaled to 9 hires in a "too small" market [08:00] Action Steps Build a clean LO list Document your recruiting message Create a 90-day value-add follow-up plan Prove it works Hire a recruiter to run the top of funnel [09:30] Closing Thought – You don't need more market. You need more mastery. Strategy wins, not size Key Takeaways It's Not About Market Size. It's About Market Mastery – A recruiter in a small market works if the system is already built Recruiting Must Be a Top Priority – No hire can replace your ownership of the vision Build First, Hire Second – Document your message, process, and rhythms before bringing someone in Focus on Alignment Over Volume – In a small market, values and vision matter more than raw numbers Your Story Wins the Game – When your message is clear, your recruiter becomes a magnet, not a salesperson A small market doesn't limit your impact. Lack of clarity does. Build the system. Then scale it with the right partner. Want help building your recruiting system so a recruiter can multiply it? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a strategy session at bookrichardnow.com. Let's help you win in any market no matter if it's big or small.
You've been there. The recruit is engaged, the vision is aligned, and then silence. Or worse, hesitation that comes from a spouse, a current manager, or a friend. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I unpack one of the most common and misunderstood challenges in recruiting: how to lead when someone else is influencing your recruit behind the scenes. This is the framework I teach leaders to help them stay calm, coach through fear, and win trust without becoming defensive or pushy. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The silent deal-breaker: recruits influenced by voices you can't see [01:00] Recognize the Pattern – Recruits often consult with a spouse, friend, mentor, or current manager during decision-making. This is normal, not a red flag [02:00] Outside Voices Are Often Uninformed – They offer opinions without context. They bring emotion, not strategy. You must equip your recruit to lead those conversations [03:00] Step 1: Bring It Up Before It Happens – Set the expectation early that these voices may show up, and offer your support when they do [04:00] Step 2: Normalize the Moment – Tell them it's okay to feel pulled. Then offer to talk through anything they're hearing, without judgment or pressure [05:00] Step 3: Ask Better Questions – What exactly did they say? What concern do you think is behind that? What part of it resonates with you? [06:00] Step 4: Validate the Emotion – Instead of debating, say, "That makes sense." Recruits need safety before they can process clearly [06:30] Step 5: Offer to Include the Outside Voice – "Would it help if we brought your spouse or mentor into a call—not to pitch, just to answer questions?" That move alone often builds trust [07:00] Step 6: Equip Them With Language – Give the recruit specific, value-based reasons for the move so they're not fumbling through the conversation at home [08:00] Personal Story – Richard shares how a recruit nearly walked away after a buddy's advice, until one key moment helped him realize he was borrowing someone else's fear [09:00] Final Challenge – Think about one stalled recruit. Reach out this week, invite the conversation, and be the calm voice in the noise Key Takeaways Outside Influence Is Inevitable – But when you're proactive, it doesn't have to be a deal-breaker Don't Argue. Equip – Help your recruit navigate those conversations with clarity, not confusion Invite the Inner Circle In – Offering to speak with spouses or mentors shows transparency and builds credibility Fear Grows in the Dark – The best recruiters name concerns early, normalize hesitation, and help people process wisely You're Recruiting More Than the Candidate – You're recruiting their household, their belief system, and their circle of trust In a world full of loud opinions, the leaders who slow down, listen well, and guide with clarity are the ones people choose to follow. Want help building a recruiting system that equips you to lead high-trust, high-emotion conversations like this? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a coaching session at bookrichardnow.com.
Ever had a recruiting conversation stall, not because of your offer, but because the recruit says, "I don't know"? In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I break down the exact framework I use to move people from fog to clarity. You'll learn how to coach through indecision, lead with belief, and help recruits see a future they can say yes to. Because the best recruiters aren't just closers. They're clarity coaches. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The most common stall in recruiting isn't about money. It's about uncertainty [01:00] Why Recruits Say "I Don't Know" – Most are tired, reactive, and surviving in someone else's system [02:00] Mindset Shift – Their lack of clarity isn't a red flag. It's an opportunity to coach [02:30] Framework Step 1: Values-Based Questions What kind of leadership brings out your best? What kind of culture do you want? What would make this next chapter meaningful? [03:30] Framework Step 2: Explore Frustrations What's not working? Where are you stuck? What are you tolerating? [04:00] Framework Step 3: Cast Personal Vision What would success feel like a year from now? What do you want more of, and less of? What kind of team would energize you? [04:30] Framework Step 4: Reflect Back Their Answers "You value freedom. You want a leader who sees you. You're ready to grow, but only if it aligns with your life." This creates connection and belief [05:00] Framework Step 5: Build a Decision-Making Framework What matters most in this decision? What fears are coming up? What would give you peace about moving forward? [06:00] Framework Step 6: Create Forward Momentum – "Take this week to reflect. Let's meet next Wednesday. I'll walk you through what life on our team looks like." [07:00] The Power of Slowing Down – Most recruiters talk at people. Elite leaders guide them to clarity [07:30] Real Story Example – One coaching client helped a stuck LO find clarity through one simple question: "If nothing changes this year, how will that feel?" The LO said, "I'd regret it." That changed everything [08:00] Final Challenge – Pick one stalled recruit this week. Slow down. Ask better questions. Reflect back what you hear. Help them believe change is possible Key Takeaways Clarity Creates Certainty – Most people aren't unsure because of the opportunity. They're unsure because they've never been coached through the fog Stop Pitching. Start Reflecting – Recruits don't want features. They want alignment Your Questions Matter More Than Your Pitch – The right conversation can unlock belief faster than any presentation Slowing Down Builds Trust – When you become the first person to truly listen, you become the leader they trust The Best Recruiters Are Coaches First – Your job isn't just to close the aligned. It's to help people find their alignment Want to coach through clarity at scale? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com, or book a session at bookrichardnow.com. Let's help you build trust before you ever talk about the job.
Telling recruits what your team is like isn't enough anymore. You have to show them. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk through how to build a content and conversation strategy that gives prospective hires a window into your team, before they ever commit to a call. When done right, this approach creates trust, builds belief, and positions you as the kind of leader worth following. I break it down step by step. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why trust has to be felt, not just pitched [01:00] Visibility and Believability – The new standard in recruiting is showing up consistently and showing up real [02:00] What Content Actually Connects – Capture leadership moments, team energy, voice notes, and authentic wins [03:30] Real Examples of Effective Content Coaching clips Voice memo takeaways Win stories framed with leadership language [05:00] Turning Conversations Into Recruiting Tools Swap pitches for stories Lead with empathy, not features Ask vision-based questions, then respond with stories [07:00] Connecting Content With Conversation Follow up with a clip that proves what you just shared Use visual proof instead of repeating the same pitch [08:00] Build a Content Vault Save coaching moments, culture quotes, team celebration clips Use them to drip belief, not blast benefits [09:00] Be Willing to Be Vulnerable Share your truth, your challenges, your why Recruits want to follow someone human, not perfect [10:00] Final Challenge – Capture one moment, turn it into one post, use it in one follow-up this week Key Takeaways Words Don't Win Trust. Experiences Do – Let people see what it feels like to be led by you Capture the Real, Not the Polished – The best content comes from coaching, calls, and everyday leadership Your Stories Are More Believable Than Your Pitch – Real success stories are more powerful than claims Follow Up With Proof, Not Pressure – A simple clip or post can build more belief than another call You're Already Leading. Now Let People See It – Don't build something great in silence Recruits want more than a better offer. They want a better experience. Show them what that looks like before they ever say yes. Want help turning your leadership into a recruiting magnet? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a strategy session at bookrichardnow.com. Let's help your leadership go public.
Most recruiters are showing up with features, hype, and opportunity. But what burned out producers actually need is relief. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I break down how to lead with empathy instead of solutions, how to identify real burnout, and how to open up high-trust conversations with people who are struggling. If you've ever felt like you're talking to a wall when someone is clearly checked out or exhausted, this episode will help you connect instead of convince. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – Why this isn't just a recruiting question, it's a leadership one [01:00] Understand the Burnout Pattern – High volume turned into high stress. Then low volume turned into fear. Now they're stuck in survival mode [02:00] Step 1: Lead With Empathy, Not Solutions – Don't pitch. Connect. Ask real questions like: How have you been holding up? What's been the hardest part of this market for you? Are you energized or worn down right now? [03:00] Step 2: Normalize What They're Feeling – You're not weak. You're human. This is a hard season. Let them feel seen [04:00] Step 3: Ask Vision Questions – Once they feel safe, ask what they wish life looked like What would freedom look like? What kind of support would change everything? What kind of pace would be sustainable? [05:00] Step 4: Tell the Story, Not the Solution – Share your burnout story or someone else's. Let them hear possibility, not pitch [06:00] Step 5: Invite, Don't Close – Don't push for commitment. Say: "Not sure if this is the right fit, but I'd love to show you what's possible" [07:00] Step 6: Follow Up With Care, Not Chase – Send a text, share a podcast, drop a Loom. Rebuild trust slowly [08:00] Final Challenge – Reach out to three people who are tired. No pitch. Just care Key Takeaways Burnout Isn't a Sales Problem – It's a human problem. Slow down and lead with empathy Don't Solve, See Them – Validation builds more trust than solutions ever will Help Them See Possibility Again – Ask questions that paint a new future Your Story Is More Powerful Than Your Pitch – Share your own rhythm shift Trust Scales – The leaders who show up with care will win when others push You don't need a perfect answer to recruit the burned out. You just need presence, empathy, and a rhythm of care. That's how you become the leader they trust when they're ready for something different. Want to build a recruiting system that speaks to the real pain in today's market? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com, or book a call at bookrichardnow.com. Let's help you recruit through trust.
You've built from the ground up. You've onboarded rookies, coached them, created a strong culture. But now you're ready to level up. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk you through the shift from building internally to attracting experienced Loan Officers—and how to do it without sacrificing the heart of your leadership. This isn't just a strategy change. It's an identity shift. And done right, it can unlock faster growth, deeper impact, and a higher-performing team. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The moment many leaders face: is it time to pivot from rookies to experienced LOs? [01:00] Why Make the Shift? Rookies take time and energy to develop Experienced LOs bring speed, diversity, and leverage [02:30] Three Reasons to Recruit Experienced Talent Speed to scale Pipeline diversification Leadership leverage [03:30] Step 1: Reposition Your Brand Audit your LinkedIn, content, testimonials, and language Shift from "we build new LOs" to "we help producers scale" [04:30] Step 2: Reframe Your Value Proposition Speak to the pain points of seasoned LOs Emphasize efficiency, clarity, autonomy, and support [05:30] Script Example – Use language that shows understanding, not hype: "We help producers remove friction and scale sustainably." [06:00] Step 3: Reinforce With Social Proof Share success stories from experienced LOs who joined and thrived Video testimonials and before-after stories are key [07:00] Step 4: Shift How You Lead Move from teaching to partnering Let go of control and lead peers, not students Provide clarity without micromanagement [08:00] Step 5: Audit Your Infrastructure Onboarding, comp plans, CRM, support systems Experienced LOs won't tolerate friction—clean it up first [09:00] Final Challenge Reevaluate your brand message Update your scripts and digital presence Start one new conversation with a seasoned producer this week Key Takeaways You Don't Have to Choose Between Rookies and Veterans – A healthy pipeline has both Experienced LOs Are Looking for Leadership, Not Management – Speak to their need for autonomy, not instruction Reposition Your Messaging – If your brand only speaks to rookies, experienced talent won't even consider you Systems Win Trust – If your operations aren't tight, you won't keep top producers You're Ready for This – You've built something real. Now it's time to invite others to run with you Attracting experienced talent doesn't require hype or flash. It requires maturity, clarity, and a leadership brand that speaks to their reality. Want help repositioning your recruiting system to attract experienced producers? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com, or book a strategy session at bookrichardnow.com. Let's help you scale the right way.
You don't need more ideas. You just need to capture the ones you're already saying. In this episode of Recruiting Conversations, I walk through how to turn transcripts, meeting notes, and Zoom recordings into usable content, coaching tools, and recruiting systems. If you're already leading, already coaching, already solving problems—your best recruiting content is already being created. This episode gives you the step-by-step process for turning those raw conversations into repeatable resources that scale. Episode Breakdown [00:00] Introduction – The question: How do I convert Zoom transcripts or meeting notes into something that actually helps me recruit? [01:00] Step 1: Record Your Best Thinking – Capture Zoom calls, save transcripts, jot down notes when clarity happens. [02:00] Step 2: Mine the Gold – Look for "content moments" where you shared a framework, told a story, explained a system, or answered a tough question. [03:00] Step 3: Clip and Save – Grab a paragraph or two from the transcript. These become social posts, slides, scripts, or onboarding docs. [04:00] Step 4: Organize by Theme – Tag and store clips by category: objections, onboarding, comp, time management, retention, etc. [04:30] Step 5: Build the Playbook – Use real answers from real conversations to build your recruiting system and coaching tools. [05:30] Step 6: Multiply Your Message – A single moment becomes a LinkedIn post, a drip email, a recruiting script, a video. [06:30] Step 7: Create a Simple System – Use a Google Doc, CRM, or virtual assistant to track and tag your content moments weekly. [07:30] Final Challenge – Skim one transcript this week. Find a clear, helpful moment. Polish it. Post it. Save it. Start building your content vault. Key Takeaways You're Already Saying Great Stuff – Your Zoom calls and meetings are full of coaching gold. Start capturing it. Content Moments Are Everywhere – A repeatable answer, story, or framework is the seed for great content. Don't Start From Scratch – Build your recruiting assets from what you've already done well. Organize by Theme – Tag moments so they're searchable and usable across coaching, recruiting, onboarding, and social. Scale Through Consistency – One transcript a week becomes a full library in 90 days. You don't need a content team. You need a system. Your leadership already exists. Now it's time to multiply it. Want help building a playbook from your own transcripts or Zoom notes? Subscribe to my weekly email at 4crecruiting.com or book a strategy session at bookrichardnow.com. Let's scale your message, your influence, and your recruiting.























