Spanko! Podcast

The Texas All-State Spanking Party is Back is in Dallas, Texas coming up on June 6-9, 2024 Join Princess Kelley May, TASSP Host and YouTuber extraordinaire, as she tells us about everything we can expect at TASSP this year! Brats Littles Multiple Male Events GNC (gender non-conforming) and BIPOC (black, indigenous, and people of color) events a Dark Party an elven princess and much, much more! We hope to see you there!  

How do you go from doing make-up, to three months later being a professional dominatrix attending a spanking party? The thought blew our minds as well!!  But when Miss Katherine stopped by our hotel room at Lone Star and said “boy, do I have a story for you,” we just had to hear about it! Join us as Miss Katherine and her protege, Miss Layla, share this fascinating journey with us! How does Miss Layla like the BDSM community? Is it too much for her? What kind of activities has she gotten into? How does she feel about spanking and spanking parties? And how do you handle a seemingly vanilla client opening doors and inviting you into an entirely new world? Once you’re down this rabbit hole, you may never want to leave!  

While she may be firm, it’s for your own good! Join us as we sit down with Miss Iceni, London’s Premier Disciplinarian! *gulp* Actually, she was sweeter with us than she may be with you. But that’s the point! Get to know a bit of Miss Iceni’s background, how she got into the spanking scene, how the COVID lockdown sparked her desire to take a new path in life, and so much more! We’re honored to sit down for a casual conversation to share a side of her that her clients may not get to see. Once you’ve seen her videos, which you absolutely should, you’ll be amazed this amazingly strict disciplinarian is the same sweet woman talking with us!  

Sky and Eric were traveling home from a small house party and decided to record a discussion about the necessity of communicating while at parties. And yes, of course this all stemmed from Karina and some of her antics. It can be difficult to ask for what you want, but it’s important to be able to use your words. And since people communicate differently at parties than they may at home, we’ll give you some personal examples as to why good communication is important.  

Warning: This episode contains important safety information, but also references to physical assault, sexual assault, kidnapping, human trafficking, and the trafficking of children.  If these topics are triggering for you, please join us in another episode. A very special episode of SpankoPodcast: How to identify Red Flags in the community and what to watch for. This is a heavier episode of SpankoPodcast than our usual fare. As you know we put an emphasis on safety, and in discussing Red Flags and what to watch for, we couldn’t shy away from the harsh realities of the real world. We did our best to keep the conversation going and not scare our listeners too much.  We invited our friend D, an expert on these subjects, to help make us all aware of the dangers in our community and to help teach us all what to watch for, how to identify and mitigate Red Flags from potential partners, and how to stay safe and vigilant against the predators out there.  

Join us as we talk to the Lovely Lady Luxe: a woman of multiple outfits, and personas to match! Her personality sparkles like a diamond, and like a diamond she has many facets to explore. She’s a Top: a gorgeous, sexy goddess who commands a space. She’s a Bottom: a playful, bratty babygirl who enjoys a warm bottom. She’s a sadist, a masochist, a middle, a little, a big, and a puppy-cat all in one. Lady Luxe tells us of some of her adventures, the importance of self-advocacy, and a terrible acronym to remember what to negotiate in a scene. Listen as the ladies swoon over the sexiness of a good belt spanking, have serious discussions about red flags from predators, setting boundaries in the scene, and so much more. You never know what you may hear on this podcast! You self-spanked with what???? I know we often say “don’t try this at home,” but like, really, DON’T!!

Miss Shaylah, Sarah (from Canada), and Mr. Ben are back! This time we’re talk about communication: how to, when to, why to, and how to be sure you are staying within your bubble?…whatever that means.  We dive into important topics like practicing your bratting skills, bratting within limits, knowing and enforcing your limits, the importance of knowing your Top’s limits and methods to communicate those subtly. This helps keep bratting fun for everyone, just as it should be! Hmmmm I don’t think Mr. Ben ever dealt with that language from Sky… but there’s still time ;)      Additionally we discuss Mr. Ben’s uniform, Brat Spice, and Occupational Hazards for Tops….. THAT discussion our Bottom listeners won’t want to miss!!  

Shaylah, sorry, MISS Shaylah, is back and she brought some friends along to discuss Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service.  Miss Shaylah briefly touched on offering this service on a previous episode, but we wanted to know more. Mr. Ben and Sarah (from Canada) have partaken in this special service, and they wanted to share their thoughts as well.  Not only is this a very special and unique service offered by a wonderfully skilled member of our community, her patrons speak about the glowing results! We hear from both a Top (Mr. Ben) and a Bottom (Sarah) about what this service was like for them. It’s not just corner time, it’s so much more! It’s a whole experience, especially tailored just for you! Parties can be overwhelming, sometimes you just need a time out. Come hear how Miss Shaylah offers this service to provide the headspace you need to relax and respect yourself! If this sounds like something you need, reach out and inquire about Miss Shaylah’s Time-Out Service.  We had a great time hanging out with these wonderful people, and we hope you do too! Come and listen to Sarah squirm with embarrassment… even before her next session!  

If you’ve never heard of Miss Bernadette, where have you been? The world-renowned professional disciplinarian joins the Spanko! Podcast and she shares with us her spanko journey.  Karina asks some privy questions, which Miss Bernadette gladly shares some personal answers just for you!  Happy new year 2024! May your year be filled with as much fun as Miss Bernadette has!  And, of course, thank you for all your support as we continue with our spanking adventures.  

Imagine hanging around the botanical garden, drinking,  and meeting not one,  not two,  but three Krampuses!  Though we hear there are at least ten of them in our area! The Spanko!Podcast women (and Eric) hung out with the vanillas and delighted in meeting Krampus at a local event. Join us in this episode as we share our mischievous holiday adventure.  …don’t worry, the vanillas cheer us on.

Are you an AASS munch?  *GASP* No, not shock and awe, but the GeorgiA Spanking Party is early next year and it’s going to be a blast! Join us as we sit down with organizers Listener and NotSoKnotty as they tell us everything they’ve been working on for the past 14 months to make this party happen! They’ve put in a ton of work already, and they’re ready to share some EXCLUSIVE INFORMATION with our listeners!  “You heard it here first, folks!” (I’ve always wanted to say that!) Come under the sea with us to Atlantis.  Spanking fun for everyone in an inclusive environment! FUN school immersion role play event with Cheeky Spankos! Also fantastic panels about spanking! Classes about rope, spanking therapy (with Miss Chris) and other topics! Vendor fair, gender specific events, and a chance to hang out with all your spanko friends.  Time is running out to get your tickets at a reasonable price. Hurry, this is an event you won’t want to miss!  

Do you have a favorite kinky song? You’d be surprised how many are out there! We take a listen to some of our favorite kink-adjascent tunes, and some new ones, and let you know our thoughts and how they tie in to this special interest of ours. Some of them are super obvious, and some are classics you may not have considered.  Are there songs we haven’t covered? Let us know. Maybe we’ll check them out in a future episode. What’s on your kinky playlist? We’ve barely scratched the surface on ours.  

Karina and Sunny sit down with return guest, MotownCouple to discuss the fundamentals of balancing a vanilla relationship with being a Top in the spanking community. Hear some very personal details about a very functional relationship that strikes this unique balance.  Find out what it takes to have the best of both worlds, and get some tips on how one might accomplish this with openness, honesty, and communication.  

Happy Halloween! Pranks have been a Halloween tradition going back generations. When you think about Halloween and Pranks occurring in movies, obviously the first thing that comes to mind is… Meet Me in St. Louis. Right? No? Just us? Well, there’s a scene in that movie that inspired us to make an adult spanking parody. Don’t worry, all the characters are of age in our version.  We decided to do something a little different as a Halloween treat this year. So tune in your old-fashioned radio, fire up your imagination, and join the Spanko! Podcast Players in this episode entitled: Beat Me in St. Louis!   If you like this format, or if you don’t, let us know! Your feedback helps us make the kind of episodes you want to hear! No trolley cars or dresses were harmed in the making of this recording.  

Whether you’ve been to a hotel party or not, we’ve got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It’s always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you’ve never been, welcome to the world of regional and national parties.  When you arrive at a hotel party, remember to be nice to the vanillas that are around - don’t feel like you’re on a mission to convert people. The host would very much like to keep the space  they found for ALL OF US.  Attend classes and participate in small events, Introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Meet lifelong friends from all over the nation, from across the ocean, maybe from up north or even down south.  Regional or National Parties are still a private event. If you don’t follow the rules, you will be banned and may be banned from others’ as well.  Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!  

Whether you’ve been to a house party or not, we’ve got some tips, pointers, and pieces of advice on what you can expect and how you should behave. It’s always good to brush up on some essentials, after all. If you’ve never been, welcome to the world of House Parties! When you arrive at a house party, remember to greet your host, introduce yourself and greet other attendees. Attending a house party may be one of the most exclusive party invites; someone is inviting you over to their home or someone is taking responsibility to get the rental- treat it better than you would treat your own home.  Remember, a house party is just that, a private event. Only the cool kids get invited! You could also host your own and invite your friends.  Remember to be respectful, but also, have a great time!

When you began your spanko journey - did you reach out to people and were disappointed because it felt like everyone else was having all the fun and no one engaged with you? Do you still feel this way?  Join the SpankoPodcast Podcasters and hear some tips about what doesn’t work for them and most importantly about what works for building life-long spanking relationships.  If you have a clue, or if you have successful friendships, you know, kindness and politeness go a long way. Also, you know, respecting others’ boundaries.  

Please tell Karina She’s not the only one who celebrated birthday spankings at summer camp with “Order of the Broom”  Find out how close to your birthday is a good time to get a birthday spanking! We also discuss other birthday spanking traditions around the world! These podcasters seem to celebrate their birthdays together quite often. Join in to listen about some intense feelings regarding a particular birthday or two.  And as always, listen in on advice!  

Bonnie is a bundle of energy!  She’s a little, a passionate roleplayer, an enthusiastic spanko, and a foundational member of one of the premiere spanking parties in the US. You’re going to love getting to know Bonnie! In this conclusion of our interview, Bonnie tells us about some of her adventures as a little, how she discovered a new community after retiring from Crimson Moon, and about starting over. Bonnie even breaks into song! A great song by one of her friends! Be sure to check it out on SoundCloud! Don’t forget to listen to part one, also. Bonnie has so much energy, it couldn’t be contained in just one episode!

Bonnie is a bundle of energy!  She’s a little, a passionate roleplayer, an enthusiastic spanko, and a foundational member of one of the premiere spanking parties in the US. You’re going to love getting to know Bonnie! In this first part of our interview, you’ll hear about some of her first spanking adventures, receive some of her spanko wisdom, some great advice for newbies and spanko veterans alike, and hear about some history of the scene! But wait, there’s lots more to come! Stay tuned for part two. Bonnie has so much energy it couldn’t be contained in just one episode!