2HotWives - A Girl's Guide to Unconventional Sex

No matter how gorgeous, sexy and confident a woman is, most of us have a tough time asking for what we want in bed.  For those of us in long term, committed relationships, it is easy to rely on subtle cues to get our points across, like an ass wiggle or a little moan.  But our partners are not mind-readers, and if we want to explore new things in the bedroom, like a new sex toy, role play, restraints or even another partner, communication is key! So the Wives are on a mission to help women find ways to figure out what their deepest sexual desires and make them come true through honest, direct discussions with their partners.

The 2HotWives know how to start a swinging relationship off on the right foot. In this episode, Ams & Kat dish about their early experiences in the lifestyle dating scene and share killer first date advice so you can avoid newbie mistakes. You only get one chance to make a first impression!

The 2HotWives head to their local adult boutique for some sexy retail therapy where they purchase the latest in clitoral stimulators.  Every hot wife needs at least one of these in her bedside table. 

It’s play time! Ams and Kat share intimate details about their recent separate play encounters and go back in time to dish about their early experiences with couples play dates. They also share the perspectives of some of their closest friends in open marriages.  You’ll learn everything you need to know to get ready for a couples play date, from grooming tips to setting boundaries. Learn how to establish and follow the rules...and when to throw those rules out the window and have some fucking fun!

Do you want to have better sex? Keep it playful, and a fantastic way to keep sex playful is by improving your “dress up” game.  Whether you want to spice things up with your partner, look amazing (and be comfortable!) on a double date, or slay at a sexy lifestyle event, the 2 Hot Wives share tips and tricks on how to dress sexy and confidently. First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Poison Apple (perfect for Fall!).  Then things get steamy when Ams newbie whispers and Kat has steamy fun in the hot tub! Next, the 2HotWives dive into the details of dress-up.  Kats shares advice on dressing sexy and confident every day and dishes on her favorite date night outfits.  The Wives discuss last year’s off-the-hook sex-positive Halloween party (hint: you can never show too much ass!) and then Ams dares Kat to set up a sexy role play experience: naughty school girl?  Dominatrix?  One night stand?  We are all dying to find out! Finally, the Wives chat with their friend, Noelle who plays a sexy dress up game with her husband.  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your sexy role play experience.  Ladies only, please! Featured on this episode: Game of Lifestyle   How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

The 2HotWives take sexy dress up to a whole new level with some good old-fashioned role play! If you want to mix things up with your partner and explore some of your craziest sexual fantasies in a low-risk, low-stakes way, there is nothing better than setting up a role play.  First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Pumpkin Pie Smash…it’s so good, the wives got a wee bit tipsy during their recording, so be warned! Then, Kat takes advantage of an empty house to indulge in a little self-loving (how do you spell Sybian anyway?) and Ams uses “Just the Tips” from Episode 5 for a sexy, seamless playdate with an experienced couple (Hint: thigh-high tights are the MUST-HAVE accessory for any fall play date).  Next, the wives report back on the results of their racy homework assignment: role play! Ams gets caught red handed with contraband at the airport and Kat is a naughty, naughty nurse. Is there such a thing as too much preparation?  Do you need the perfect costume to have the perfect experience? Tune in to find out! Finally, we hear from our sexy listeners!  Our new friend Maria shares her experience with a hot gentleman stranger…blindfolds and torturing little touches and kisses?  Don’t mind if we do!  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your sexy vacation experience.  Ladies only, please! Featured on this episode: Sybian Swinging Down Under Looking for sexy role play ideas? Check out these additional resources: https://bestlifeonline.com/role-play-ideas/ https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a12013129/role-play-ideas/ https://www.yourtango.com/2014207426/sex-love-valentines-day-30-role-playing-ideas-couples How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

Are you curious about swinger House Parties? House parties are smallish private gatherings where sexy play time is welcomed, but not mandatory. A House Party may seem like the perfect, “Goldilocks” option between a couple’s date and a huge swinger-event, but navigating these smaller group, casual settings can be tricky.  In this episode, the Wives discuss their sexy experiences at House Parties and give their Just the Tips so you can show up and show off with confidence.  First, mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Naughty Hot Chocolate…the weather outside might be frightful, but with a cup of this holiday cheer, you and your partner will stay nice and warm between the sheets. Then, Kat dishes about her first experience at a sex club, while Ams keeps things sizzling at home with Mr. Ams in the notorious playroom.  Next, Kat checks out the coolest pool party with a sexy cabana playroom. Ams’ chimes in with a less than positive experience, where the hosts of a house party aren’t great commuting party rules. So, the Wives decide to host their own house party...and the result is the Accidental Orgy.  Listen and learn about ways to avoid feeling pressured into play experiences that you aren’t down for.  And finally, we have our first listener spotlight!  Our new friend Sam shares the key to success with any house party experience.  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your favorite erotica books and movies.  Ladies only, please! Featured on this episode: Vant Panels Hitachi Wand Swingfessions Sapphic Swingers Sex Bench   Looking for advice on hosting a house party? Check out:  https://swingershelp.com/hosting-swinger-parties/    How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

2020 wasn’t the year that any of us expected or wanted: we all watched our grand plans for vacations, family gatherings and sex parties get cancelled one by one. But even though large get-togethers and vacations may not be an option right now, that doesn’t mean that you can’t make connections and have amazing sex. And, let’s face it, we need real, authentic connections now more than ever.   The Wives reflect back on their experiences from 2020 and how they focused on building closer, deeper, sexier connections, including with each other.     We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and tell us all about your favorite erotica books and movies.  Ladies only, please! Featured on this episode: Sapphic Swingers Swingfessions Trapeze Bliss Cruises Luxury Lifestyle Charters   How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

Are you dreaming of a sexy vacation in 2021?  Take a tip from the 2HotWives and plan your own Sex Vacation! The Wives turned a cancelled trip to Desire All-Inclusive Resorts into the perfect opportunity to create their own sexy vacation: a relaxing, steamy, six-day sex romp in St. Thomas!  Before you start the episode, don’t forget to mix up this episode’s specialty cocktail: the Pineapple Hottie. Then listen in while Kat shares a hot tale from Sex Day where she and Mr. Ams get busy in the pool room. Then Ams shares a tale from the last day of their Sex Vacation where she has sweet, cuddly morning sex with Mr. Ams followed by hot shower sex with Mr. Kat, all before her morning cup of coffee.   Next, the Wives discuss how a vacation can take your sex life to a whole new level. When their foursome trip to Desire had to be cancelled due to COVID, the Wives made a spectacular pivot to create their own hot vacation, complete with a luxury villa, private massages and a chartered boat.  The result was six solid days of mind-blowing sex.      The holidays are over and we are all dreaming of hot, sexy tropical vacations.  If 2020 put a monkey wrench in your vacation plans, now is the perfect time to plan your very own Sex Vacation.

Read any good books lately??? If not, you are missing out!  Erotica is a great way to explore your fantasies and get into a sexy-mind set.  You will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Rosy Gin Fizz, when listening to this episode’s supercharged Hot Tales! First, Kat and Mr. Kat play with a new couple who are excited to test their soft-swap boundaries. Next, Ams shares a very special day in any Swinger-girl’s life...her first unicorn experience (...unicorns truly are magical).  Next, the Wives discuss the many pleasures of reading and listening to erotica. Kat goes back to the roots of her sexual journey, where Mr. Kat would read her sexy stories to get into the mood and test the waters on new sexual experiences, including voyeurism, exhibitionism and, of course, swinging.  After all, it was through erotica that they found the words to discuss opening up their marriage. Ams discusses how erotica can help women switch gears and embrace a sex-mind set, even when sex might be the furthest thing from our minds.  The Wives also deep dive into an awesome new discovery: Experiential Erotica through the Wylde in Bed Podcast.  Imagine the sexy love child of audio erotic fiction and guided meditation.  It’s a great tool for anyone who needs to turn off their busy brain before they can really get into the mood.   Finally, the Wives interview erotica author Jaimee Bell about her debut book: All the Dirty Little Things.  Whether you are  a bad ass swinger or just tapping in to your sexual potential, erotica is a great way to take sexual exploration to a new level.  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! please! Featured on this episode: Wylde in Bed Wylde Desires Jaimee Bell All the Dirty Little Things XConfessions My Secret Garden Hitachi Wand

There is a lot of fear and misconceptions about impact play: mainly, that it’s all about pain and humiliation. In reality, impact play isn’t one-size fits all. The Wives tackle this issue, top and bottom, discussing some impact play basics and interviewing Kink Expert and professional dominatrix Kimi Inch.  First, does the idea of a little slap and tickle give you the chills? Well, start by mixing up this episode’s specialty cocktail, the Salted Caramel Coffee.  And because good impact play requires a warm up, the Wives get things started with some extra steamy Hot Tales: Kat finds out that a sexy shower experience with Mr. Ams leads to an idea for a genius invention (Shark Tank, here we come!) and Ams gushes over her special birthday surprise: a six-handed massage, followed up by an MFM threesome.  Next, the Wives discuss some impact play basics: safe words, safe zones and warm up. And, for those of you wondering whether Ams and Kat ever play together, you can hear all about the first time Kat got spanked...by Ams!  Finally, the Wives interview Kink Expert Kimi Inch. Kink expert Kimi Inch (aka Mistress Nina Payne) has been involved in the BDSM lifestyle as a professional Dominatrix since 2002. She was hired by New York’s top dungeons to develop training programs for their new employees. This eventually led her to bringing her kink knowledge to the mainstream by holding public workshops as a way to teach and empower curious individuals and couples on how to enhance their sex lives through kink and fantasy exploration.  Alongside her classes, Kimi is trained at the Institute of Core Energetics and holds somatic therapy sessions which are focused around intimacy, relationship help, and sexual healing.  With over 325,000 followers on her social media platforms - Kimi Inch has lectured at Princeton University, The Embodiment Conference, and The One World Tantra Festival. In addition to this, she has been featured in several media outlets like The Wall Street Journal, Cosmo magazine, and New York Post. Plus also has made numerous television appearances, having been featured on ABC’s 20/20, ABC’s Nightline, and The Oprah Winfrey Network’s Our America with Lisa Ling. We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show! please! Featured on this episode: Kimi Inch  How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

We interrupt our regularly scheduled program to bring you a very special episode of...the 2HotWives.   Sex can trigger all sorts of physical and emotional responses in the body.  Your heart rate might increase, skin might flush, toes might curl...and all of that can be mind-blowingly wonderful.  But sometimes sex, especially really intense sex, can bring up negative thoughts and emotions. Sex can even trigger memories of negative past events that can really through you for a loop.  In Episode 11, the Wives set themselves a little homework assignment: set up an Impact Play experience. But when Kat creates a MFM scene and directs the guys to be a little rough, it brought up some strong negative emotions for her.  So, the Wives sit down and talk through the issue like best friends do.  And Kat shares how a past experience with domestic violence has shaped some of her attitudes toward sex and starts working through the process of exorcising those demons.  We know this isn’t the typical upbeat, sexy topic that you expect to hear from the 2HotWives, but, you know what? Sex is complicated and shit happens, so we decided to go with honesty and authenticity over format (sorry Mr. Ams!)  And, trust us, we will be back next episode with more fun, sexy shenanigans! We used many resources to prepare for this episode, but found the 2010 National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey to be exceptionally helpful.  Everyone deserves a relationship free of abuse. If you or someone you love is in an abusive relationship, please seek out help.  Below is a list of resources: Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233) Join the Love (Helping Loved Ones Who May be in Abusive Relationships) Safe Horizon: 800-621-HOPE (4673) And, if you are the survivor of an abusive relationship, looking for resources to reclaim your sexuality, check out the following resources.    Reclaiming Your Sexual Self After Trauma   Sexual Healing After Trauma   How to Enjoy Sex Again if You’ve Experience Sexual Assault   We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show!  How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

Women spend hundreds of dollars on potions and pills to feel and look better, when all we really need to do is masturbate and wear sunscreen! We put the fun in fundamentals with a deep dive into the topic of female masturbation. Masturbation is a way to tap into your desires or get excited for some partnered play. Plus, it is the ultimate in self-care!   First, you will definitely want to mix up our specialty cocktail, the Menage a Moi when listening to this episode’s Hot Tales! First, Kat and Mr. Kat are hosting a sexy playdate when an unwanted visitor shows up. Next, Ams reports back on her Impact Play homework with a super-hot night on the spanking bench.  Next, the Wives discuss the benefits of masturbation...everything from improving partnered sex to clearing up your complexion!  Ams set a goal of masturbating without using toys and Kat decides to flick-the-bean in public.   Finally, the Wives interview journalist and essayist Haley Swanson about the Six Benefits to Masturbation That Will Convince You to Do it More.  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show!  Featured on this episode: Podcast A Palooza Front Porch Swingers Haley Swanson The Six Benefits of Masturbation Wylde in Bed Wylde Desires  Hitachi Wand How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

It’s the episode you’ve all been waiting for.  Threesomes are the most common sex fantasy of all time. 85% of men and 75% of women fantasize about threesomes but only about 18% of us have had them.  In this episode the Wives discuss MFM threesomes. Why? Because our goal is to help women maximize their pleasure in the bedroom and MFM is all about two sexy guys intent on making their female play partner feel amazing.   To get in the mood, mix up tonight’s cocktail, the Pom Paloma (or...try the spicy habanero infused tequila version...if you dare), while Ams discusses a little afternoon delight with Mr. Kat.  Kat, on the other hand, goes reverse “Pretty Woman”, taking Mr. Ams on a shopping trip to improve his date wardrobe.  Next the Wives discuss a topic near and dear to their...hearts, the MFM Threesome. Hear about the Round Robin Threesome, where the Wives and their hubbies take turns sitting out a play experience so that everyone gets their chance at a threesome.   While it’s hard to beat the Round Robin Threesome, Kat and Ams take it up a notch with their sexy homework: finding a single guy for MFM play.  Then the Wives give Just the Tip(s) on exploring the threesome fantasy, including communication with your partner, tips for single guys about their profiles, and some alternatives if you or your partner aren’t quite ready to jump on this bandwagon.  And finally, we talk to Cate from Wanderlust Swingers Podcast about her MFM threesome experiences and advice.  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show!  Featured on this episode: Podcast A Palooza Wanderlust Swingers Podcast That Couple Next Door Learn more about Threesomes:  https://www.masterclass.com/articles/how-to-have-a-threesome https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/11/threesomes-men-women-sex-psychology https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/news/a50969/what-its-really-like-to-have-a-threesome/ https://www.elitedaily.com/p/what-a-threesome-is-like-20-things-to-know-before-you-try-one-8439131  How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

The Wives record bonus content while taking a little time off in Mexico!  Hear about their (mostly) vanilla vacation to Cancun, answers to hot topic listener questions and drop-in interviews with the sexy Ladies of PCAP! First, the Wives give a big shout out to Lauren from Room77 Podcast, who lined up an amazing villa and activities for their vacation.  Check out www.room77life.com for details on Lauren’s travel agent skills.  Next, the Wives tackle a very tricky listener question: would you ever tell the kids about your open marriage? You might be surprised by their answers! Finally, the Wives interview three content creators who are joining them at Podcast a Palooza: the incomparable Mrs. Jones from We Gotta Thing; the sunny, sexy Belle from Black & Kinky, and the hot-mess-in-the-best-possible-way Belle from Swinging Outside the Lines.   Join us at Podcast Palooza this May!  Rooms are almost gone so book now!    We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show!  Featured on this episode: Podcast A Palooza Room77 Podcast Bliss Cruise Sapphic Swingers We Gotta Thing Black & Kinky Swinging Outside the Lines How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

So much for a break! In this second installment of bonus content, the Wives share Hot Tales, answer a listener question and interview the smart and sexy Mallory from Casual Swinger.  First, the Wives each share a close-to-home Hot Tale that involves some impromptu restraints.  Next, the Wives answer a listener question all about attraction. How old is too old for sexy play? How attractive are people in the lifestyle?  What are some ways to work with what you’ve got and up your flirt game?    Finally, the Wives sit down with Mallory of Casual Swinger, and come away with a very big girl crush!

In this final bonus episode before the Wives launch Season 2, we have a little PCAP RECAP, complete with Hot Tales and all the deets on their live seminar: Just the Tips!  Five Tips for a Woman to Turbocharge her pleasure on a playdate.  First, Hot Tales, Podcast a Palooza edition: Ams and Mr. Ams make a new connection at the topless pool party, while Kat and Mr. Kat heat up the penthouse with some naughty Jenga.  Next, the Wives share some of the highlights of the best lifestyle event of 2021: hear all about the topless pool parties, hilarious seminars by other content creators, and theme night parties.     Finally, the Wives give insider tips to help any woman feel comfortable, confident and sexy on a playdate.  Learn how to get your head in the game by identifying breaks and accelerators, how to pack the perfect swinger bag, and use your mother fucking words,  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show!  Featured on this episode: Podcast A Palooza Unique Condoms Black N Kinky Podcast Sapphic Swingers Expansive Connections Torrid Souls Come As You Are Ultimate Guide to Seduction and ForePlay FCK Yes How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter 2HotWives Hot List (Spotify)

We want to share our adventures in the exciting world of unconventional sex. We are both deeply committed wives and mothers.  We are also homeowners, business owners, SUV owners, pet owners.. Your typical suburbanite MILFS.  But go behind closed doors, you'll discover we are both in open marriages.

Are you curious about anal play but too afraid to explore it?  Never fear, the 2HotWives are ready to dive into all of those questions about “butt stuff” that you were too scared to ask.  Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the the Basil Cherry Smash, while Ams shares her hot tale, a house party reboot (take two and three).  Next the Wives shine some light on having sex where the sun don’t shine. They share their first experiences with anal play and what they hope to explore as part of their sexy homework.    And finally, the Wives talk to April Lampert and Amy Baldwin from the Shameless Sex Podcast who share fantastic tips and tricks for anyone who wants to explore anal play.  About our Sexy Mentors: Amy Baldwin is a Sex and Relationship Coach trained in both the Somatica® and Hakomi Method, Certified Sex Educator, lead educator for Uberlube, as well as co-owner of a mother-daughter owned online pleasure boutique called Pure Pleasure Shop. Amy has a passion for promoting shame-free, pleasure-focused sexuality education while emphasizing the deep emotional and energetic forces behind great sex and intimate connection, offering everything from private sessions to how-to workshops to erotic empowerment retreats. April Lampert has been educating people about sexual pleasure, health and wellness, and pleasure products at a global scale since 2008. She travels internationally as VP of Hot Octopuss, an innovative pleasure product company. April was voted Woman of the Year in the adult industry in 2016, and has dedicated her life to the business of sex and pleasure Together, Amy and April combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy. Shameless Sex is unabashed real talk about sexuality with a playful twist. Amy and April are not afraid to tell it like it is and invite you to join the SHAMELESS SEX REVOLUTION! To learn more listen to Shameless Sex Podcast on your favorite podcast app or visit shameless.com Join Us at Podcast-A-Palooza!  Listeners who book through 2HotWives will get a special swag bag, plus access to a private event.   Featured on this episode: Aneros prostate massager: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/products/aneros-mgx-trident?_pos=1&_sid=ced0590cf&_ss=r Uberlube silicone lube: https://www.uberlube.com/ Fun Factory Bootie Plugs: https://www.purepleasureshop.com/search?q=fun%20factory%20bootie%20plug*   Learn more about Anal Play: https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips/a6574/buttplay-for-the-wary/ https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/anal-play-for-women/ https://bawdybookworms.com/beginner-basics-anal-play/   How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter

Ams and Kat recap their experiences with Anal Play.   Let’s start by mixing up tonight’s cocktail, the Cherry Mule, while Kat let’s her dominatrix side run wild in this episode’s hot tale.  Next Ams shares the ups and downs of fitting ass training into a suburban MILF’s busy schedule (Ams, did you wear a butt plug to book club???) but after a false start, anal sex leads to “a whole new world” of pleasure.  Then Kat shares her experience of giving anal sex another try.  After a second attempt at anal sex leads to more discomfort than pleasure, Kat hits the sex toy shop and finds the perfect fit for anal play.     And finally, the Wives share Just the Tips to help you and your partner have better anal sex right now! Featured on this episode: Shameless Sex Desire RM Bliss Cruise CalExotics - Silicone Double Rider Learn more about Anal Play: https://www.them.us/story/guide-to-bottoming-part-2  https://www.advocate.com/sexy-beast/2016/5/25/17-tips-happier-healthier-bottoming#media-gallery-media-4  https://www.bvibe.com/anal-play-101/anal-play-for-women/ https://bawdybookworms.com/beginner-basics-anal-play/ Check out our events page: https://www.2hotwives.com/events  We love our listeners and we want to hear from you!  Call the 2HotWives voicemail at 571-310-3829 and share your favorite hot tales and sexy stories. Or ask us questions.  We may feature you on the show!  How to find the 2HotWives: Website Instagram Twitter