3 in 30 Takeaways for Moms

Today I have a special treat for you. I am re-airing the audio of a class that my dear friend Miranda Anderson, taught for a group of 3 in 30 listeners back at the end of 2019. Although it was awhile ago, the wisdom that Miranda shares in this class about decluttering our busy schedules is timeless, and I knew we all needed a refresher!  For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/353-busy-schedule Announcement:  Overcoming Overwhelm Masterclass: Don’t forget to sign up for this FREE masterclass I’m teaching live on Zoom the first week in April. If you can’t make it live, I’ll send you a replay!  Episode sponsors: OneSkin: The world's first skin longevity company. Get started today with 15% off using code 3in30 at one skin.co. BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I have received feedback from listeners saying they'd love more insight into the background of 3 in 30: what’s going on behind-the-scenes of the business, what it's like being a working mom, how my family's doing…  all of the ins and outs. And I love sharing! I'm grateful that some of you care. So today, I thought I’d give a little 3 in 30 update. Enjoy!  For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/352-3-in-30-update Announcement:  Connected Mom Life podcast Self-Assured-Motherhood Class Flecks of Gold journal waitlist Overcoming Overwhelm Masterclass   Episode Sponsors: Kneaders: Download the Kneaders app, and use promo code 3in30 to get $2 off a whole pie now through March 30th. Vionic Shoes: Use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order. *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’ll confess that my house is often quite messy. I value order - I feel like I can think better when my house is clean! But with two creative children, a busy husband, a growing business, and an active dog, there is evidence of a lot of living in our home. Thankfully, Carly Thornock is here to help all of us learn ways we can intentionally manage the mess without having it get in the way of those relationships that matter the most to us.  For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/351-carly-thornock Announcement: Overcoming Overwhelm Masterclass: Don’t forget to sign up for this FREE masterclass I’m teaching live on Zoom the first week in April. If you can’t make it live, I’ll send you a replay!  Episode sponsors: BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! Lume: New customers GET $5 OFF a Lume Starter Pack. That equates to over 40% off your Starter Pack when you visit LumeDeodorant.com and use code 3in30 *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

As I hope you know, I’m hosting a free masterclass on Overcoming Overwhelm during the first week of April. I've been preparing for it the past few weeks, which is probably why an interaction with my kids stood out to me a few days ago when I was feeling super overwhelmed and had a lot to do around the house. Something that I have not been great at as a mom is teaching my kids how to contribute around the house, but I've been working on it. Listen in to hear my thoughts about some mindset shifts I’ve been having around chores, my kids, and how I talk to them about it.    For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/350-chores-and-kids   Announcement: My Free Workshop on Overcoming the Overwhelm (Happening the first week of April 2024!)     Episode sponsors:   KiwiCo: Use code 3in30 for 50% off your first month on any crate line! Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order.   *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Decision fatigue is a real thing, friends. I’m sure many of you are like me, running around with too much to do and too many decisions to make. My guest today, Emily P. Freeman, believes that regularly prioritizing time to reflect on the past will actually make our decisions in the present more clear and peaceful. As a natural go-getter and busybody, I am inspired by Emily’s dedication to slowing down and practicing self-reflection. For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/349-decision-fatigue *** Announcements: My Free Workshop on Overcoming the Overwhelm (Happening the first week of April 2024!) Emily P Freeman's new book: How to Walk Into a Room Episode sponsors: PrepDish: Visit for a FREE two-week trial! Kneaders: Download the Kneaders app, and use promo code 3in30 to get $2 off a whole pie now through March 30th. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Meal planning can be so stressful! That’s why I’m so excited to bring you this bonus episode with my friends, Stacie & Meghan, from the podcast Didn't I Just Feed You. I hope you caught my main episode on Monday because I shared the audio recording of my guest appearance on their podcast. Today's bonus episode is the second half of that conversation as these two awesome ladies applied my three takeaways to their experience with feeding their families–specifically, their experience with meal planning. So if meal planning is a challenge for you, like it is for me, I know you are going to relate to this lively conversation between two mom-friends who get it. -Meal Planning for Everyone Audio Course -Didn't I Just Feed You Podcast  "For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/348-meal-planning” Announcements: Handout to walk you through the three-step process on your own. Text the word dinner to 33777 Free meal planning template from Stacie & Meghan Meal Planning for Everyone - Stacie & Meghan’s new audio course  Episode sponsors: Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order. OneSkin: The world's first skin longevity company. Get started today with 15% off using code 3in30 at oneskin.co. *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Making dinner for my family is…not my favorite. If you've been listening to the podcast for very long, you've probably heard me talk about this. It is a constant work in progress for me to figure out how to get dinner on the table, and one of the resources that has been helping me a lot in the last year is the podcast Didn't I Just Feed You. Stacie and Meghan, the hosts of Didn’t I Just Feed You, invited me on their podcast to talk about my journey with feeding my family and how I am learning to declutter the guilt and stress that I feel around this task. I had so much fun being a guest on their podcast, and they graciously agreed to let me air the audio of that conversation today on 3 in 30.  -Meal Planning for Everyone audio course -Didn't I Just Feed You Podcast Announcement: Declutter Your Motherhood - Rachel’s audio course Handout to walk you through the three-step process on your own. Text the word dinner to 33777 or click here Episode sponsors: BetterHelp: Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! Kneaders: Download the Kneaders app, and use promo code 3in30 to get $2 off a whole pie now through March 30th.  "For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/347-making-dinner" Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We've spent the last month talking on this podcast all about nurturing our romantic relationships and learning skills for navigating conflicts, building emotionally mature connections, and communicating about vulnerable topics such as intimacy, sex, and desire. This week's episode is, in a way, a continuation of that same theme…because how much more equipped will our children be for their future romantic relationships if we start talking to them now, in age-appropriate ways, about their bodies, their relationships, and their impact on other people? Conversations about puberty, sexuality, and everything in between can be extremely intimidating for parents, so thankfully, there are people like Rowena in the world to help us with these tricky conversations! For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/346-the-talk Episode sponsors: BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! Fabric: Life insurance designed by parents for parents to help you get a high quality surprisingly affordable term life insurance policy in less than 10 minutes. *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The episode you're about to listen to is a fan favorite that we pulled from the archives. Do you feel frustrated with your partner when they don’t parent the same way you do?  This episode is going to free you from carrying the burden of that dynamic in your home. Enjoy these three takeaways to help you thrive in your parenting and your partnership, even if you don't do everything the same way.  For full show notes, including the three takeaways, click here. Announcement: I also wanted to remind you that as a special February treat, I put together a playlist for you of all of the relationship-focused episodes from the past 6 1/2 years of 3in30. When you sign up, this will be delivered to you as a private podcast feed. Click here to sign up!  Episode sponsors: Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order! BetterHelp: Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! KiwiCo: Use code 3in30 for 50% off your first month on any crate line! *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this brief bonus episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife answers a listener question: What should I do if I need to take an SSRI for my anxiety, but it is dramatically decreasing my libido? Listen in for Dr. Jennifer's answer! Announcement: To hear Dr. Jennifer's first episode on 3 in 30, sign up for our relationships playlist! It's an archive of every relationships-focused episode we've ever had on 3 in 30, delivered to you via an easy private podcast feed. Go to 3and30podcasts.com/playlist to sign up.  Get in touch with our Guest!  Instagram: @finlaysonfife Website: www.finlayson-fife.com  Courses: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/courses *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Have you ever wished for some concrete things you could do to improve your marriage? I know I have. Well, in today's episode, Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife gives us three actionable things that we can do to become better partners and improve our marriages. I know you’ll love this amazing episode.  For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/343-become-a-better-partner Episode Sponsors: Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order PrepDish: Visit prepdish.com/3in30 for a FREE two-week trial!! OneSkin: The world’s first skin longevity company. Get started today with 15% off using code 3in30 at oneskin.co. *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is a continuation of the discussion we had last week with therapist Eli Harwood. Eli and I dive deeper into what to do when there's trouble in your relationship when you desperately want a secure attachment, but it feels like it's a long way off for you and your partner. How do you work to build your connection with them while also holding onto your connection with yourself?   For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/ 342-communicating-to-partner Episode Sponsors: Vionic Shoes: Go to vionicshoes.com and use code 3IN30 for 15% off your order BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! Fabric: Life insurance designed by parents for parents to help you get a high quality surprisingly affordable term life insurance policy in less than 10 minutes. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In Monday's episode, we talked with therapist Eli Harwood about How to Be a Safe Place for Your Spouse, and one of her takeaways was that it's important to light up about the things that our partner lights up about. Sometimes our spouse’s differences don't feel very loveable to us, and their interests might even feel scary or threatening to us. I loved Eli’s response to my question about this, and I know you will, too. Episode Sponsors: BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Are you in a secure relationship? We all yearn for secure relationships. We want to be a safe place for our partner and for them to be a safe place for us. Sometimes, though, it can be hard to know how to do this. How can I be that safe person for my sweetheart? How can I encourage him to be that safe person for me? As part of our February celebration of love, I’m interviewing Eli Harwood, a licensed therapist, who gives insightful ideas to help us increase the security of our relationships. I know you’re going to find this conversation incredibly helpful.  For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/340-secure-relationships More Episodes Like This One: 021: Three Easy but Impactful Ways to Deepen Relationships with Others 095: 3 Simple Rituals of Connection for your Marriage // Nate Bagley 221: Making your Marriage a Priority, Even in the Busiest Seasons // Rachel Fordham 106: 3 Ways to Improve Your Marriage TODAY: My Takeaways From a Night with the Gottmans Episode Sponsors: Green Chef: Go to greenchef.com/603in30, and use code 603in30 to get 60% off, plus 20% off your next two months. DockATot: Get 15% off the DockATot Mini Mat with promo code 3in30. *** Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if I told you that in this episode you will learn one secret that can completely change many of the misbehaviors in your home? Would you believe me? I hope so because that is what this conversation with Wendy Bertagnole did for me. Wendy is a special education teacher who is also a mother of three, and she's here to teach us about sensory preferences. For full show notes, including the three takeaways, go to https://3in30podcast.com/339-reason-for-misbehavior Announcement: Wendy put together a guided workbook to help you figure out what works best for your kids. You can find that workbook here. Episode sponsors: BetterHelp: This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy! KiwiCo: Redefine learning with play and explore projects that build confidence and problem-solving skills with Kiwi Co. Use my promo code 3in30 to get 50% off your first month on any great line! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices