30, What Now?

If you all follow me on socials, then you will know that I have just returned from a month long vacation, and then decided it was smart to adopt a puppy whilst I was still a little jet lagged. So apologies for the late upload! So, kids right? Not fur babies but actual kids. Do we actually want them or is this a concept that we are told to subscribe to? In today's episode, we will talk to my good friends Leann and Thomas about their desire to not subscribe to the need to populate the earth! If you're on the fence about having kids (because look at the state of the world these days, I don't blame you), maybe this episode will solidify or sway you from that decision - who knows! Let us know your thoughts! FYI: This was recorded in June so we can do another follow up since there's been so much opinion (from men ugh) on why women should be having more kids in an era where there is a decline in the birth rate across the world. So let me know, would you be interested in hearing what we think about that? My socials: Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan TikTok: @melwytan

I don't know about you but I miss travelling in my 20s - all the bad decisions didn't seem like risks but more like adventures. Now? I sometimes feel like I'm travelling too similar to my parents and I'm not even half their age yet! I also know this topic is an overdone topic so if you're keen on hearing my ramblings - listen away!My socials: Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan TikTok: @melwytan

In this episode, we talk to Joey and Hayden, both very bright and have studied at NYU Abu Dhabi and Harvard! In this very very long episode, I apologise in advance to my guests and my listeners cause I got very carried away, we talked about our goals and aspirations (Joey is also a published writer), our experience in Harvard and how are we to take care of our family when we are millions of miles away from them. Just a yap but fun yap indeed so welcome to the start of Melosophy! My socials: Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan TikTok: @melwytan

If you haven't listened to our last episode - TLDR, this is now MY podcast. So if you're wondering how I am feeling (i.e. am I feeling scared/anxious/like a loser/should I continue on with this solo venture), feel free to check out this vulnerable episode. And let me know what you think - I know I speak a lot slower when I am on my own so I am working on it! My socials:Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan

Some of you may have predicted this but this will be Iryan's last episode as a co-host of 30 What Now? It's been a lot of fun so let's have a listen and a walk down memory lane. Our socials:Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiq

Vik and Sonia are back to dive into what life is really like for millennials in Malaysia. You might be surprised to learn which job tops the list here — spoiler: it’s insurance! Tune in to find out why it’s so popular and what it means for today’s workforce.Our socials:Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiqTikTok: @30.what.now

In this episode, Mel sits down with her friends, Sonia and Vik, who’ve been in a long-term relationship for nearly six years! They share the key lessons that have helped them navigate their relationship, offering valuable advice that’s applicable to anyone, whether you're in a long-distance relationship or not. It was such an enlightening conversation for me, and I’m sure you’ll find it just as insightful. Enjoy!Our socials:Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiqTikTok: @30.what.now

What’s green, pink, and red? Duh, it’s the cultural phenomenon of 2025! Join us as we briefly chat about Wicked before diving into our thoughts on whether the RedNote will make a real cultural or even political impact. FYI: This episode was filmed at the start of the year during the TikTok takedown, so it’s a bit of a late topic—but it offers a fascinating look at what might’ve happened if the TikTok world had stuck to its guns.Our socials:Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiqTikTok: @30.what.now

Some people kick off their year as soon as they return from holiday, while others, like us, prefer to start after the Lunar New Year. So, we’re officially welcoming the third season of 30, What Now?!This season, we’re revisiting the idea of New Year’s resolutions—but with a twist. Instead of focusing on goals, we’re diving into something deeper: What’s your New Year’s intention?Sure, we’re a bit behind the usual January rush, but it’s never too late to reset. If you feel like your year hasn’t really started yet, this episode is for you.Join us as we kick things off by chatting about our current obsessions, and then dive into the big question: What’s your New Year’s intention?Our socials:Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiqTikTok: @30.what.now

Join us as we dive headfirst into the world of subscription services to figure out just how much we're really spending each month. From streaming platforms and meal kits to gyms and cloud storage, we're breaking down every recurring charge on our bank statements. Spoiler alert: it adds up faster than you think!In this episode, we'll: Reveal the shocking total we spend on subscriptions (you might want to sit down for this). Debate which services are worth the cash and which ones we're canceling ASAP. Share tips on how to track your subscriptions and avoid "subscription creep.Whether you're a serial subscriber or a budgeting pro, this episode will make you rethink how you spend your money in your 30s. Tune in and find out if you're getting your money's worth—or if it's time to hit "unsubscribe."Also let us know via our socials: What are you subscribed to? In a world where you don't own anything, what do you think is worth "owning"? Our socials:Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiqTikTok: @30.what.now

In this heartfelt episode, Iryan shares his journey visiting animals at various zoos and sanctuaries, connecting with wildlife in ways that uplift and inspire. Meanwhile, Mel takes a much-needed circuit breaker across the ocean to recharge and reflect on the challenges she's faced this year. Join them as they explore the healing power of nature and self-care in their end-of-year reflections.Also yes, we have uploaded this quite late. Our socials: Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiq TikTok: @30.what.now

In this solo episode, Mel dives deep into the complexities of the 2024 presidential race from the perspective of an Australian millennial. As Donald Trump aims for a second term, we reflect on the hopes and ideals that defined the Obama years—when optimism ran high and change seemed possible. What happened to that vision, and how have things shifted in the years since?We explore the "bratification" of Kamala Harris, examining how the vice president's public persona has evolved and the power social media plays in political campaigns. Finally, we take a closer look at how Trump’s presidency are shaping key issues that matter most to millennials: from climate change and healthcare to social justice and economic inequality. Join Mel for a candid conversation about the crossroads facing America in 2024, and what millennials are hoping (or dreading) for in the years to come.Our socials: Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiq TikTok: @30.what.now

In this episode, we explore how travel can spark profound revelations about our lives and sporting aspirations. We share personal stories from our journeys that challenge our perspectives and inspire new ways of thinking. Additionally, we discuss the current state of the economy and its impact on our daily lives and future plans. Join us for an engaging conversation filled with insights and anecdotes that encourage you to reflect on your own experiences and the world around you!!Our socials: Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiq TikTok: @30.what.now

In this short episode, we answered some questions that we received from our viewers!!! Do YOU want your questions answered? Send them to us and I will answer them!!!Our socials: Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiq TikTok: @30.what.now

In this deeply personal episode, Mel takes us through her egg freezing experience, detailing the emotional and physical challenges she faced, the medical procedures involved, and the impact on her life and future plans. Through candid reflections and expert insights, Mel provides a raw look at the process of preserving fertility and navigating the complexities of making such a significant decision.
If you are interested in hearing more about the science behind egg freezing check out this video from Cleo Abram: https://youtu.be/98R8ObXlR1E?si=4_TlYFpgDQNaBcT5
Our socials: Instagram: @30whatnow @mel_wytan @iryanfaiq TikTok: @30.what.now

Did you know there's a pickleball craze sweeping the globe? In this episode, our pickleball expert, Iryan, dives deep into the phenomenon and explores why it's become so popular amongst millennials and Gen Z alike. We might even have cracked the mystery of why it's called pickleball. Tune in to the pod to find out what pickleball is all about!

We welcome Shilpa Bhim, the inspiring founder of Glowreel, on this episode! Shilpa shares her journey of balancing multiple side hustles alongside her full-time job - truly impressive! We also explore how she stayed connected with her parents and friends while living abroad, something we ourselves know is a challenge. This episode is full of warmth and practical advice, you won’t want to miss out! Instagram: @30whatnow @iryanfaiq @mel_wytan Guest: @glowreel_co @shilpa.bhim

Let's talk about loss. It's been awhile since it's just the two of us so we thought we talk about the UK, our near-death experiences and what lessons we can learn as we grieve for the loss of family members and pets. This episode can be triggering for some, but being in our 30s can be like that sometimes, down and sad, so let's talk about it.

On unconventional careers, the future of podcasting and overcoming tall poppy syndrome. In this captivating episode, we dive into the world of unconventional careers through the lens of two 30-year-old stand-up comedians. Both Annie and Mo share candid insights into their journey, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs of carving out a niche in the competitive world of comedy. Mo, who has a very successful podcast called Ho Ho Hong Kong, gives us insights into the rapidly evolving world of podcasting and what the future could be for our little budding podcast. We then cover everything off with a discussion on Australia's tall poppy syndrome and what Annie and Mo did to drown out the noises from those who try to bring us down, a segment you definitely don't want to miss out on. You can catch Annie and Mo at the Melbourne International Comedy Festival from now till 21 April 2024 and at the Sydney Comedy Festival on 2 and 3 May 2024! They’re also looking to put on some shows in Kuala Lumpur and Jakarta in the next few months so follow them on their socials @annielouey and @theothermohammed if you’re in either city and are keen to catch them in action!

In this episode of the Inner Circle, join us for a heartfelt conversation as we delve into the intricacies of adult friendships and how this friendship group came about. Listen in to us navigate through the landscape of faith, discussing how it has shaped our lives from our younger years into our 30s and then parenthood. Then consider our “third spaces” and what they mean to us. Jump in for a heartfelt conversation between three high school friends and Iryan, who felt like he was fourth wheeling every once in awhile.