The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad

Why do successful, self-aware women keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners?In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Josh sits down with trauma-informed relationship coach Lauren Venables to break down how unresolved trauma, nervous system dysregulation, and attachment patterns impact dating, intimacy, and emotional safety in modern relationships.We explore the difference between chemistry and compatibility, why you might confuse intensity with connection, and how childhood experiences can influence partner selection later in life. Lauren shares practical tools for building emotional self-trust, setting healthy boundaries, and understanding masculine and feminine energy dynamics to create safer, more fulfilling relationships.If you struggle with anxious attachment, avoidant partners, fear of vulnerability, or repeating toxic relationship patterns, this conversation offers actionable strategies for healing relationship trauma and developing secure attachment in dating and long-term partnerships.Learn how to:Stop attracting emotionally unavailable partnersRecognize trauma bonding vs real intimacyBuild emotional safety in relationshipsSet boundaries without losing connectionUnderstand attachment styles in datingCreate secure, healthy long-term relationships👉 Subscribe for more conversations on modern dating, emotional intelligence, and relationship psychology.

Astrologer and comedian Atheana Richie joins Joshua Jones to break down what your birth chart might be saying about your dating habits, relationship patterns, and emotional blind spots.From astrological compatibility to personality clashes, they explore how understanding different signs can shift the way you approach attraction, conflict, and connection. Atheana shares how she blends comedy with astrology to decode human behavior, stay authentic online, and handle criticism in a world where everyone has an opinion.If you’ve ever wondered whether your dating struggles are written in the stars—or just in your patterns—this one’s for you.Instagram

Burnout isn’t a badge of honor — it’s a warning sign. In this episode, Joshua Jones sits down with hormone health expert Chelsea McLeod to expose how hustle culture quietly wrecks women’s bodies. From bloating and fatigue to hormonal imbalance and burnout, Chelsea breaks down what’s actually going on — and how to rebuild your health with systems rooted in self-care, not punishment. If you’ve ever felt “off” but been told it’s normal, this one’s for you.TikTok: Josh ChelseaYouTube

In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Josh sits down with Lisa Johnson for an unfiltered conversation about the hidden realities of high-conflict divorce. Together, they unpack legal abuse, parental alienation, and the emotional and financial fallout that often goes unspoken. Lisa shares her personal experience navigating a contentious divorce, shedding light on how the legal system can be weaponized—and what parents can do to protect themselves and their children. This episode explores the psychological impact on families, the importance of clear communication, and practical strategies for building resilience, setting boundaries, and breaking toxic cycles during and after divorce.👉 If you’re navigating divorce, co-parenting conflict, or high-stakes relationship breakdowns, hit subscribe, share this episode with someone who needs it, and listen to the full conversation wherever you get your podcasts.

Modern dating isn’t just messy — it can be dangerous. Josh sits down with Justin Smith, founder of Cray, to unpack dating red flags, online dating risks, and why self-awareness and boundaries matter more than ever.Listen through to hear how to spot red flags before you get attached.

Josh sits down with tantric and holistic relationship coach Emma Galland to explore what real intimacy looks like beyond performance, pressure, and swipe-culture expectations.They break down why presence matters more than technique, how men unknowingly block connection, and what tantric principles can teach us about confidence, desire, and lasting attraction—inside and outside the bedroom. Emma challenges modern myths around masculinity, sexual performance, and emotional connection, offering a more grounded, intentional approach to love and intimacy.If you’re ready to rethink sex, relationships, and what it means to show up fully—this episode is for you.JoshEmma

In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Josh is joined by clinical sexologist Dr. Claudia Six to unpack what really fuels desire, intimacy, and long-term connection. From why talking about sex feels so damn hard to how culture shapes our turn-ons and shame, they get real about boundaries, mismatched libidos, and keeping attraction alive over time. If you’ve ever wondered why passion fades—or how to reignite it—this episode delivers the truth without the fluff.Dr. Six Counseling

In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Joshua Jones sits down with Jeremy Nelson, creator of Marrying America, to unpack what’s actually going wrong in modern dating. They break down swipe culture, the illusion of endless options, and why having “more choices” has made commitment harder—not easier. This candid conversation explores how intentional dating is making a comeback, what people are really looking for beneath the apps, and how to build meaningful connections in a culture addicted to convenience. If you’re tired of situationships, burnout dating, or feeling replaceable, this episode might change how you approach love entirely.

Most people don’t struggle with dating — they struggle with settling. In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Joshua Jones breaks down the “F Yeah Method” with Ian from PurposeU to show how to choose a partner with both chemistry and real compatibility.Ian shares personal stories and actionable insights on dating with clarity, discipline, and intention, helping you avoid settling and choose partners who truly align with your values and needs. If you’re navigating dating in your 30s, 40s, or beyond — and want meaningful, healthy relationships instead of mixed signals — this conversation challenges conventional dating advice and delivers real tools that work.

In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Joshua Jones sits down with dating coach Shelley Badayos to unpack the messy, magnetic world of modern romance. Shelley shares how she traded scrubs for coaching and why confidence, intention, and real self-awareness matter way more than perfectly crafted dating “performances.” They dive into the biggest pitfalls singles fall into, why genuine curiosity beats game-playing every time, and whether men and women can actually stay just friends. Plus, they explore what sustainable growth looks like when you’re tired of pretending and ready for something real.

In this episode, Joshua Jones dives in with clinical hypnotherapist Michelle Walters to unpack how rewiring your mind can change your habits, your healing… and maybe even your love life. Michelle shares how she went from a high-powered marketing career to helping people transform from the inside out, opening up about grief, self-compassion, and the real science behind hypnosis (spoiler: it’s not what the movies show). They break down the biggest myths, why personalized hypnotherapy hits different, and how tech is reshaping therapy. TNSB - YTMichelle - IG YT

This week on The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Josh sits down with comedian and relationship coach Paul Roseberry to talk about the messy, hilarious truth behind modern dating. From why “nice guys” struggle to the real meaning of masculinity and vulnerability, they dive deep into attraction, confidence, and connection — with plenty of laughs along the way.If you’ve ever wondered how to balance humor, honesty, and heart in your love life… this one’s for you.🎙️ Listen, laugh, and rethink what it means to date in 2025

In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Joshua Jones sits down with therapist and author Kate Mageau to explore why we fall for the wrong people—and how to finally break the cycle. Kate opens up about her own journey from surviving an abusive relationship to helping others heal and rediscover self-worth. Together, they unpack how reality TV and modern dating distort love, how to spot red flags early, and why emotional safety and independence are essential for lasting relationships. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a toxic pattern or questioned your value in love, this episode is your sign to start healing and reclaim your power. Connect: Josh: IG TikTok YouTube Kate: IG TikTok

In this episode of The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Joshua Jones sits down with Lauren Salaun to unpack the dance between masculine and feminine energy — and how finding balance can change the way we love, lead, and live. Lauren opens up about her journey through burnout, healing, and rediscovering authenticity. Together, they explore what it really means to date with intention, set boundaries, and attract relationships that feel aligned, not forced.Josh IGLauren IG

This week on The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, we’re mastering the art of adulting with a healthy dose of chaos. Join Josh and Liv (a fan favorite and dear friend) for tequila-fueled confessions, awkward first dates, and the hilarious comeback of our segment ‘⁠Couldn’t Be Me⁠.’From wild relationship stories to those ‘did-that-really-happen?’ moments, this episode is your reminder that life’s a beautiful mess—and that’s what makes it fun. Tap play, laugh with us, and share the love.

This week on The Not So Bad Bachelor Pad, Josh sits down with Ash Fox — the Picasso of proposals. She’s the mastermind behind thousands of unforgettable “yes” moments, and she’s here to spill the tea on what makes a proposal magical (and what can totally ruin it).If you’ve ever wondered how to make your proposal unforgettable — or just want to hear some proposal horror stories — this one’s for you.Josh: IG TikTokAsh: TikTok Pintrest Proposals

Is love really just luck — or can it be calculated? In this episode, Joshua Jones sits down with Zoey Charif, author of Love Can, In Fact, Be Calculated, to uncover the formula behind attraction, compatibility, and modern dating. From commitment phobia and dating apps to self-worth and social media’s influence, Zoey reveals how understanding the math of love can help you spot red flags, build healthier connections, and finally stop leaving relationships to chance.https://www.instagram.com/thenotsobadpod/#https://www.instagram.com/zoeycharif/#https://www.tiktok.com/@thenotsobadhttps://www.tiktok.com/@zoeycharif

Joshua and Nikki Corbett (The Scarlet Edit) get raw about affairs, divorce, shame, and the beauty of starting over. From infidelity to self-discovery, tech’s impact on dating to finding love when you least expect it—this convo proves authenticity changes everything.thenotsobadpod nikki-corbett.com thescarlet.edit

This week Josh sits down with counselor Rob Kancler strip down men’s sex lives. From shame and stigma to breathwork that makes intimacy hotter, we dive into why guys feel disconnected from their bodies—and how to change it. Think cultural scripts, missing rites of passage, and the secrets men aren’t saying out loud. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s your permission slip to turn mechanical sex into something magnetic.Josh: TikTok YouTube

This week inside the Bachelor Pad, we have Miriam Katz from the Ex Appeal podcast. Miriam is calling every single one of her exes back — from a 5th grade crush to a stripper, a rabbi, and even a celebrity. We dive into the chaos, closure, and temptation of her podcast, and why sometimes the second breakup is the one you really need.Josh: YouTube TikTokMiriam: YouTube TikTok