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This week on By the Bi, Bradford spills the tea on a recent Grindr hookup that turned into something way more than just a quick fling. What started as a bit of fun quickly unlocked a whole new kink he didn’t see coming—and now he can’t stop thinking about it.Angela digs into the juicy details as the two unpack what it’s like to unexpectedly discover a new layer of your sexuality, how it feels to lean into the unknown, and why staying curious is one of the sexiest things you can do.Tune in for a spicy, surprising episode that proves the right hookup can do more than just hit the spot—it can change the game.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on By the Bi, we’re coming to you live from the sun-drenched, pleasure-filled playground of Xcape to the Tropics 2025! Join Angela and Bradford as they soak up the vibes, connect with the community, and dive into the sexy, adventurous, and sometimes downright outrageous moments that make this event one of the lifestyle calendar’s most anticipated highlights.From themed parties and poolside flirtation to meaningful conversations and unforgettable play, this episode captures the essence of what it means to explore connection, freedom, and fun in a space built for expression and excitement. Plus, you’ll hear from a few familiar voices and maybe even some new ones as we bring the spirit of Xcape straight to your ears.Whether you were there or wish you had been, this episode is your all-access pass to the energy, intimacy, and joy of Xcape to the Tropics. Tune in, get turned on, and travel with us—no passport required.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hello all… it’s been a minute, but we are back!This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive deep into a topic that underpins everything in the lifestyle — authenticity. Whether you’re navigating polyamory, kink, or just trying to show up as your whole self in everyday life, authenticity can be both empowering and terrifying. So what does it really mean to be authentic? And how do you maintain that honesty with yourself and others when vulnerability feels risky?We unpack our own journeys with embracing authenticity — the struggles, the breakthroughs, and the unexpected freedom that comes with being unapologetically real. From lifestyle events to everyday relationships, we explore how authenticity shapes connection, community, and confidence.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Due to travel schedules, this week’s episode is a rerelease. This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford tackle a topic that’s often shrouded in silence and stigma: sexually transmitted infections (STIs). In this powerful episode, we delve into the realities and misconceptions surrounding STIs, aiming to foster a more understanding and informed conversation.Join us as we discuss the importance of education in STI management. We’ll also share personal stories of the social and emotional aspects of an STI diagnosis, offering insights on coping with stigma and maintaining a healthy sexual life.Tune into By the Bi for this enlightening discussion and remember to subscribe for more episodes that challenge misconceptions and celebrate the diversity of human sexuality.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

From the sugared thighs of Ancient Egypt to the shimmering vajazzles of the 2000s, this solo episode dives deep into the sensual, political, and power-laden history of pubic hair removal. Bradford takes Angela on an intimate journey through time—where grooming rituals weren’t just about beauty, but about gender, class, control, and desire.We trace how hairlessness became sacred, sinful, scandalous, and—eventually—optional. Along the way, we explore sugaring, topiary, pubic contouring, and the commodification of the vulva in porn and pop culture. This is a history of bodies shaped by others—and what it means when we take that shape back.Because hair has never just been hair.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford take you inside their cheeky adventure at Melbourne’s Museum of Desire — an immersive playground of sensuality, art, and introspection. While wandering through this unique space, we found ourselves face-to-face with a Never Have I Ever game built for two. As we reveal our own risqué answers, we also disclose how our experiences compared to the percentages of other museum-goers who had played before us.From surprising admissions to hilarious “of course we have” moments, we break down the questions, the stats, and what these collective confessions say about curiosity, kink, and the universality of desire.Tune in for an intimate yet insightful episode where it’s just the two of us… and a room full of anonymous secrets.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In this solo episode, Angela opens up about the emotional rollercoaster of body image in non-monogamous and kink spaces. From first-party nerves to reclaiming confidence at every age and size, she shares personal stories, practical tips, and empowering insights on navigating body shame and embracing desire without apology. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned player, this is your reminder: your body is worthy of pleasure.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

RERELEASE:Get ready for a thrilling ride on this week’s episode of By the Bi, where Angela turns host for a game of high stakes and high voltage called “By the Bi - I Hope I Don’t Die!” Listen as Bradford and The Gentleman put their sex trivia knowledge to the test, with each correct answer earning them a tantalizing shock from the Neon Wand, and each miss bringing a painful zap.This electrifying game will reveal just how much they know about sex, kink, and everything in between. Angela guides the game with her usual flair, providing laughter, suspense, and a few educational tidbits along the way. Will Bradford and The Gentleman survive the shocks and awe of Angela’s devious quiz?Tune in to By the Bi for this zappy, zany episode and find out who will scream for the right reasons! Subscribe now for more unconventional fun and games with Angela, Bradford, and The Gentleman.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on By the Bi, Angela sits down with a very cheeky Bradford to unpack his latest solo travel adventures—and let’s just say, things got spicy. From spontaneous Sniffies hookups and steamy cruise room encounters to massages that definitely crossed into naughty territory, Bradford’s been making the most of life on the road.Join us for a candid, hilarious, and oh-so-saucy episode as we explore the thrills (and occasional chaos) of solo play, sexual spontaneity while traveling, and the stories you definitely won’t hear on TripAdvisor.Tune in for Bradford’s wild ride—and maybe get inspired for your own next cheeky adventure.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford had one goal: a sexy, well-planned dirty weekend. What actually happened? Well… let’s just say, things didn’t quite go according to plan. From unexpected detours to logistical hiccups (and Bradford going delightfully off the rails more than once), this episode is all about embracing the mess, laughing through the chaos, and finding the fun even when things go sideways.Join us as we reflect on how expectations can shape — and sometimes sabotage — a sexy getaway, why flexibility is key in the lifestyle, and how sometimes the best moments are the ones you didn’t plan for at all.Tune in for laughter, real talk, and the reminder that even imperfect weekends can still be pretty damn hot.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Before streaming, before OnlyFans, before incognito mode — there were blue cinemas. This week, we’re peeling back the curtain on the forgotten world of adult movie theaters: where porn was communal, seats were sticky, and trench coats weren’t just for the weather.We’re talking about how these spaces shaped everything from censorship laws to queer cruising culture, why the U.S. Supreme Court once had to define porn (and totally failed), and how a moody French romance film sparked a legal firestorm. Plus: what’s left today — and how places like Hush in Sydney are keeping the flicker alive in a very modern way.Grab your popcorn (or maybe… don’t) — we’re going in deep.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week on By the Bi, Angela and Bradford dive into a topic that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough—the post-kink and party drop. Whether it’s after an intense BDSM scene, an emotionally charged connection, or a euphoric night at a lifestyle event, the crash that follows can be real, raw, and confusing.In this episode, we explore what “the drop” feels like, why it happens, and how to care for yourself—and your partners—when the high fades. From physical fatigue to emotional vulnerability, Angela and Bradford share their personal experiences, aftercare strategies, and tips to help you come down gently and reconnect with yourself after the play is over.Tune in for an honest, compassionate conversation about the less glamorous—but deeply important—side of kink and party culture. Because pleasure is powerful, but so is the recovery that follows.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Venture beyond the velvet rope with us into a world where fantasy meets reality in grand, public settings. From the anticipation of dressing up to the thrill of stepping into a room buzzing with like-minded adventurers, discover what makes these events a magnet for those curious about or deeply embedded in the kink community.In this episode, Angela and Bradford share their perspectives on the vibrant atmosphere, the community etiquette, and the unforgettable moments they’ve experienced. They’ll delve into the unique features of parties, discuss safety measures, and highlight how these gatherings foster a sense of belonging and exploration among attendees.Whether you’re considering attending your first kink party or just love hearing about the kinky escapades of others, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few tips to make your experience as thrilling as possible. Tune in to By the Bi and subscribe for more real-life stories from the fascinating world of kink and beyond!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We’re back, baby! After a little time away, we’re reconnecting, recharging, and ready to dive back into all things By the Bi. In this episode, we catch you up on where we’ve been, what’s been brewing, and how damn good it feels to be back in your ears.But that’s not all—strap in as we take you inside our latest (and dare we say greatest?) Pendulum Party yet. From sexy surprises to magical moments, this one had it all. Whether you were there and want to relive it, or you’re dreaming of your first swing into the scene, this episode is your invitation to join the ride.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dive deep into the exhilarating world of pegging with our special double feature re-release of Episodes 83 and 84 of By the Bi! In these fan-favorite episodes, Angela and Bradford explore everything you need to know about pegging—from the basics of getting started to advanced tips for those looking to enhance their experience. Discover the joys, challenges, and intimate bonding that pegging can bring to a relationship.Whether you’re curious newcomers or seasoned enthusiasts, these episodes provide valuable insights and advice. Tune in now to rediscover why pegging has become such a beloved topic among our listeners, and don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for more engaging and informative discussions!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Join Angela and Bradford on a vibrant journey in this episode of By the Bi as they recount their exhilarating experience marching with Biconic at the Mardi Gras parade. Immerse yourself in the pulsating beats, vivid colors, and spirited cheers that define one of the most iconic celebrations of LGBTQ+ pride and diversity. From the flurry of feathers and sequins to the powerful messages of love and acceptance, our hosts share their personal highlights and the unforgettable moments that made this event a landmark in their lives.Listen as they dive into the significance of Mardi Gras for the bisexual community, the joyful camaraderie among the marchers, and the broader impact of such public expressions of identity and solidarity. Whether it was the roar of the crowd or the quieter, poignant exchanges behind the scenes, Angela and Bradford bring you the full spectrum of their Mardi Gras experience with Biconic.Tune in and let the spirit of Mardi Gras inspire you. Don’t forget to subscribe to By the Bi for more stories of adventure, activism, and advocacy in the vibrant world of LGBTQ+ celebrations.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we talk about some of our excursions and play we’ve had at Chateau Vino in Gold Cost, an afternoon with The Gentleman, and more!Sit back and enjoy some sexy stories.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Dive into the heart of understanding and intimacy on this episode of By the Bi as Angela and Bradford play “We’re Not Really Strangers” with guests Coby and Judy. This thought-provoking card game is designed to deepen the connections between players through a series of personal and insightful questions. Watch as our hosts and their guests embark on a journey of discovery, revealing hidden facets of their relationships and personal philosophies.From lighthearted banter to profound revelations, this game opens up a unique space for vulnerability and connection. Listen in as Angela, Bradford, Coby, and Judy tackle questions that aim to strip back layers of surface-level interactions and delve into what makes their bonds truly tick.Tune in to experience the highs and lows of this emotional rollercoaster, and maybe even find inspiration to ask the deep questions in your own life. Subscribe to By the Bi for more episodes that explore the complexities of relationships through fun, games, and heartfelt conversations.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Pack your bags and grab your lanyards—Bradford and Angela are setting sail on their first-ever swingers cruise! In this episode of By the Bi, we’re taking you behind the scenes of the ultimate floating lifestyle experience. From the anticipation of stepping aboard to the steamy encounters at sea, we’re sharing it all.Join us as we dive into our expectations, surprises, and lessons learned from this exciting adventure. Did the reality live up to the fantasy? How do you find your groove when you’re surrounded by like-minded, adventurous souls? And what tips do we have for anyone considering their own sexy voyage?Tune in for candid stories, plenty of laughs, and our honest take on the highs and unexpected moments of life on a swingers cruise. Whether you’re a seasoned traveler or just curious, this episode is your ticket to an unforgettable experience!Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Ring in the new year with a heartfelt look back and an eager gaze forward on this episode of By the Bi. Join Angela and Bradford as they revisit the hopes and goals they set at the stroke of last New Year’s Eve, exploring the victories, the challenges, and everything in-between. From personal milestones to podcast achievements, get an intimate look at how the year unfolded for your favorite hosts.In the spirit of renewal and growth, they won’t just stop at reviewing the past year. Angela and Bradford will also lay out their aspirations and resolutions for the upcoming year. Expect a mix of personal, professional, and playful goals as they set their sights on what they hope to accomplish both in and out of the studio.Tune in for an episode filled with honesty, laughter, and motivation. Whether you’re looking to get inspired for your own New Year’s resolutions or just want to hear how others are planning to tackle their dreams, this discussion is sure to resonate and inspire. Subscribe to By the Bi for more reflections, revelations, and resolutions as Angela and Bradford take on the new year with zest and zeal.Want to help us out? Sure you do!!!Help us out on Patreon and join our Discord chat hereFind us on social media!!!On Twitter @BytheBiPodcastOn Facebook BytheBiPodcastOn Instagram @BytheBiPodcastOr email us herePlease donate to Bi+ Visibility by clicking the link here!Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.