Peerless Etiquette

We all forget to say please and thank you from time to time. This story reminds children and adults alike about the importance of saying please and thank you to show kindness, garner support, or change your life.

Peerless Etiquette embarks on a fun and engaging etiquette story about the importance of good manners in shared spaces for all ages.

Peerless Etiquette recognizes how hard it can be to embrace your best self especially when others may not support your efforts. In this open letter Mrs. Zakiyyah Shakir-Benjamin hopes to inspire you to not to waste your time trying to live up to the expectations of others but to get clear on what you want and go after it unapologetically.

Every child has issues with telling the truth from time to time. In this story we inspire children to embrace integrity and honesty.

At peerless Etiquette we believe that elegance is a quality that anyone can embrace and cultivate. It's not just about appearance but also about how we carry ourselves, treat others, and the grace and poise we demonstrate in our actions. In this episode we explore the true meaning of elegance and remove doubt that it is only reserved for a select few.

I have been teaching Timothy etiquette since he was 5 years old. Timothy is now in college at Harvard University and he wrote this Poem to say thank you inside of a Gratitude card to me. I wanted to share it on this episode as gratitude in turn.

In this episode, I will answer a tea etiquette conundrum. Which is the proper term for naming a Tea Party? High Tea or Afternoon tea. You can name it whatever you like, but just keep in mind the difference between the two and make your choice to suit you.

In this intimate spoken-word episode, Mrs. Benjamin delivers Law I of the Peerless Laws as a powerful, rhythmic poem: “Extend Unwavering Respect to All—beginning with yourself.”With the pulse of a heartbeat drum and the depth of a low cello, she invites you to:Bow to the woman in the mirror firstTie your boundaries like velvet ropesWear your story as an archive, not an apologyThis is not just poetry;it is a call to self-sovereignty.

At Peerless Etiquette we believe that forgiveness holds the extraordinary power to set us free and cultivate a gracious life. It is the act of releasing the weight of resentment and grudges, granting ourselves the peace to move forward. When we forgive, we acknowledge our humanity and the fact that everyone makes mistakes. It's about letting go of bitterness, healing our own wounds, and finding empathy and understanding. Forgiveness allows us to build bridges instead of walls, fostering stronger connections with others. In embracing forgiveness, we choose to rise above negativity and create a compassionate existence, offering solace to both ourselves and those we forgive. Ultimately, it's a testament to the strength of our hearts and our ability to choose love and kindness over anger and pain, leading us towards a life rich with grace and understanding.

At Peerless Etiquette we know that Encouragement is a powerful catalyst for growth and success. In the intricate journey of life, we all face challenges and uncertainties that can sometimes weigh us down. During these moments, a word of encouragement can serve as a beacon of hope and motivation. It's the gentle nudge that reminds us to keep pushing forward, to believe in ourselves when doubt creeps in, and to see potential where we may see limitations. Encouragement acknowledges effort, celebrates progress, and instills confidence. It's the fuel that propels us towards our dreams, nurturing resilience, determination, and a positive outlook. In a world where negativity can easily overshadow our aspirations, offering and receiving encouragement becomes essential—it uplifts our spirits, inspires perseverance, and ultimately shapes our path to success and fulfillment. Cheers to your Greatness

How many of your neighbors do you know? We can't expect to strengthen our social skill if we don't step out of our comfort zone.

In this episode of Peerless Etiquette, Mrs. Benjamin explores the quiet truth that our emotions often follow the shape of our thoughts. When thinking is rushed, scattered, or fearful, our feelings mirror that chaos. But when our thoughts are intentional, clear, and composed, grace follows.Listeners will learn how to anchor their mindset in dignity, how to shift emotional patterns through refined thought, and how to reclaim presence by choosing what—and how—they think. This is not about suppressing emotion; it is about guiding it with elegance.You Feel How You Think is a gentle invitation to live with more clarity, more composure, and more grace—starting from within.

In this empowering episode of Peerless Etiquette, Mrs. Benjamin speaks directly to young women about cultivating grace and refinement while remaining true to their authentic selves. Listeners will learn actionable practices—such as posture, voice, presence, style, and conversation—that elevate confidence without erasing individuality.Through warm guidance and practical steps, this episode reminds girls that grace is flow without fear and refinement is presence without apology. Authenticity and elegance are not opposites; they are partners. By polishing their natural gifts, girls can shine more clearly, embodying dignity and confidence in every moment.

In this episode of Peerless Etiquette, Mrs. Benjamin invites you to explore the liberating truth that grace is not hesitation—it is flow without fear. Discover how presence becomes effortless when you release resistance, breathe with intention, and recover from missteps with composure. Through warm guidance and practical tips, you’ll learn how to embody grace in conversations, challenges, and celebrations, transforming fear into fluidity and dignity.Listeners will also be reminded of the many Peerless Etiquette resources available to support their journey—from courses for children, teens, adults, and corporations, to the Peerless Etiquette Magazine and our vibrant communities on Facebook, Instagram, and LinkedIn.

This episode of Peerless Etiquette is a message for the broken, the uncertain, and the self‑doubting. Mrs. Benjamin reminds listeners that grace is not weakness—it is power refined. Through words of strength and dignity, she speaks to those who question their worth, showing that refinement is not about perfection but about presence, resilience, and truth. With every story and reflection, listeners are invited to silence the naysayers, rise beyond hesitation, and embrace the highest, grandest version of themselves—without apology. This is an everlasting call to live untouchable in your refinement, unmatched in your dignity, and unwavering in your worth.

In this episode of Peerless Etiquette, Mrs. Benjamin guides listeners through the art of tea etiquette—not the superficial lessons of how to hold a cup, but the deeper, cultured notes that transform tea into a ritual of refinement. From the preparation of fresh water and warmed teapots, to the grace of serving guests first, to the vocabulary that elevates conversation, this journey reveals tea as both practice and metaphor for living beautifully. With cultural insights from Japanese and English traditions, and reflections on patience, presence, and dignity, listeners are invited to pause, savor, and embody refinement. The episode closes with a call to move beyond polish and join the Peerless Circle, where etiquette becomes untouchable in its elegance.

In this soul-stilling episode, Mrs. Benjamin invites you to explore the sacred power of speech. What if every word you spoke shaped your legacy? What if language became a quiet form of devotion? With breath-led pacing and sovereign clarity, this episode reveals how refined women speak with intention, listen with presence, and treat language as a sanctuary. Because etiquette begins in the mouth—and every word is a prayer.

In this empowering episode of Peerless Presence, Zakiyyah Benjamin redefines the polished appearance—not as perfection, but as preparation. She explores how intentional grooming, posture, and attire become tools of quiet power, communicating self-respect and clarity before a word is spoken. With real-life reflections and practical elegance, listeners are guided to embody polish as a form of presence—not performance.

In this soul-stirring episode of Peerless Presence, Zakiyyah Benjamin redefines modesty—not as limitation, but as liberation. Speaking directly to young ladies, she explores how modesty cultivates self-respect, invites deeper connection, and commands quiet authority. From posture to presence, tone to attire, modesty becomes a tool of empowerment that transcends trends and affirms inner worth. With real-life reflections and practical guidance, this episode is a gentle yet powerful invitation to rise with grace, lead with intention, and embody elegance in every moment.

This commemoration is dedicated to the brave first responders who put their lives on the line and showed us all what character and integrity looks like in action.