Cheating on Fear

Ted Lasso is THE flagship show on AppleTV+, and there are several reasons for that! This episode, Beatrice and Dante pull the series apart and discuss how, on the surface, it appears to just be a show about a soccer team, but in reality, it is a roadmap for life.Ted Lasso Trailer Ted Lasso Inspo on InstagramMary Poppins - Amazon.com, Amazon.caNanny McPhee - Amazon.com, Amazon.caGrogu Saying “Yes”Homer Disappears Into a HedgeTed Lasso’s Shortbread RecipeCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

One of the best parts of Beatrice and Dante's recent trip to Miami were the seminars and workshops run by Taylor Sparks, Sex Goddess. Taylor was kind enough to tell us her origin story, as well as the ins and outs (see what we did there?) of lifestyle events. Taylor (a.k.a Mariposa) Sparks is a passionate erotic educator and sex goddess, certified in both holistic aromatherapy and human behaviour. With over twenty years of experience in the natural skin care/cosmetics industry, Ms. Sparks launched OrganicLoven.com, one of the largest BIPOC owned online intimacy shops.  For more than 15 years before, she was a highly sought-after corporate trainer with a proficiency in the areas of: Communications, Negotiations, Leadership and Business Management skills, Customer Service and Team Building with a specialty in DISC Personality Assessments.  While traveling around the globe, Taylor has become renowned in the adult travel industry and is a powerful public speaker both nationally and internationally. Coaching couples, singles in both the ethically monogamous and ethically non-monogamous communities.Personally, she has two adult children, a 25-year marriage that was both ethically monogamous/ethically non-monogamous (12/13 years respectively) and has identified as ethically non-monogamous for more than 15 years. Taylor lives a plant-based life, socially and environmentally conscious and a strong supporter of all things organic, natural and eco-friendly...including Love. You can find Taylor on Instagram, Facebook and Twitter @organicloven.You should also visit organicloven.com and use the coupon code CHEATING20 for 20% off your order (until July 5th, 2023).An African-American Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy by Taylor K. Sparks - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSpanking for Lovers by Janet W. Hardy - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Beatrice and Dante are back from attending a hotel takeover event in Miami... and they have thoughts.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Honesty and communication are key to any healthy relationship. It's the reason that we are able to enjoy the type of relationship that we have. Ahead of our first foray into a Lifestyle take-over event, Beatrice and Dante dive into some sordid secrets that spouses keep from each other.Benny Hill trailer (in case you weren’t born in the last century!)Billy Madison thinks peeing your pants is the coolest.No one wants to play finger bang with Meg.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Our love lives and sex lives have been co-opted by dating app corporations and reality TV. What does this mean for the post-COVID world of love, sex and relationships?Love is Blind Season 4 trailer.Perfect Match trailer.This is why French’s Mustard is the best!Farming for Love casting call.Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

There seems to be a rise in the number of men who consider themselves "nice guys", and then promptly show you they are anything but nice if you don't do or say exactly what they want. This week Beatrice and Dante take a look at some examples of self-professed "nice guys" and see that there is a big difference between being a "nice guy" and an actual good guy. Deadpool - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBorat - Amazon.com, Amazon.caDeadpool celebrates International Women’s DayPoliceman vs. FiremanBig Demitri EnergyCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Dante recently went back and watched This is 40 and wondered if we are we all doomed to fall apart after 40? Turns out, it all depends on the choices you make. This is 40 - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThor: Love and Thunder - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAdam Driver in Marriage Story - Amazon.com, Amazon.caLost - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Break-Up - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAmal Clooney’s Speech to George ClooneyThe Ambiguously Gay DuoFlorida Mother Barred from SchoolCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

We had to succumb to the lure of "The White Lotus" and it didn’t disappoint! This week Beatrice and Dante chat about what they got right and what they got wrong about non-monogamy, jealousy and relationships.The White Lotus - Season 1 (Trailer) - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe White Lotus - Season 2 (Trailer)The Time Traveller’s Wife - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Time Traveller’s Wife TV Series - Amazon.com, Amazon.caDune - Part 1 - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSeven Years in Tibet - Amazon.com, Amazon.caStewie Has Pink EyeIt Wasn’t Me by ShaggyPaul Rudd - Hey, Look at UsCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's been awhile Brave Ones! We're back and discuss what's up with Adam Levine, Dante's travel to a Blue Zone, and the #1 indicator on the potential success of a relationship.CNBC article Here’s the No. 1 thing that makes relationships successful, say psychologists who studied 40,000 couples by Drs. John and Julie Schwartz GottmanCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

How much resemblance does love on reality tv shows have compared to real life? This week Beatrice and Dante discuss relationship reality shows like 90 Day Fiancé, Love Island and The Ultimatum. What can we learn from these shows, and what do the shows get right or wrong?Love Island trailerBorat - Amazon.com, Amazon.caWho Is America trailer - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThor: Love and Thunder - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMaking Nice with Naughty by Dr. Tom Murray - Amazon.com, Amazon.caFboy Island USA trailer The Ultimatum trailerAndrew Tate scoffing at “Women!”Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

We're taking a little break to celebrate the lovely Beatrice's birthday, but we'll be back in a few weeks! In the meantime, enjoy another banger from Drake that was everywhere on this trip.Massive by DrakeCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

After a brief hiatus, we discuss the delightful Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (MASSIVE spoiler alert!). In this wonderful gem of a movie, Emma Thompson plays a retired school teacher hiring a sex worker to help her fulfil a sex life never lived, and showed sexy and enthusiastic consent, first orgasms in your sixties, and why the the proper way to open a bottle of champagne should sound like a nun's fart.Good Luck to You, Leo Grande (trailer) - Hulu.com, Amazon.caSame Time Next Year - Amazon.com, Amazon.caNanny McPhee - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

A surprise international trip put Leo Grande on hold, but we’ll be back in 2 weeks with that episode. In the meantime, enjoy a classic German nursery rhyme turned 90’s club hit!Eins, Zwei, Polizei by Mo-doCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's been a rough couple of weeks, so Beatrice and Dante have constructed a sh!t sandwich for you! Beatrice's first Pride parade, legal reactions to Roe vs. Wade being overturned, and what constitutes unladylike behaviour.Beatrice and Dante’s favourite anti-smoking image!Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

It's been a long wait for the second installment of the Top Gun story. The conservative right are claiming it as their own, but is it? This week Beatrice and Dante talk about Top Gun Maverick, the surprising emotional depth of the characters, the incredible visuals, and how it just might be what we all need right now.Top Gun Maverick trailer.Avengers: Infinity War - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAvengers: Endgame - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCareer Opportunities - Amazon.com, Amazon.caEyes Wide Shut - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHonest Trailer Top GunMaz Kanata, a.k.a. Ed Harris in Top Gun Maverick.Jane Lynch dares you to acknowledge her gender.I Ain’t Worried by One RepublicCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Have you ever been so into someone, and then they do something seemingly innocuous and you are so disgusted and can't come back from it? You've got the ick. It's different for everyone but is it real, or is it post-pandemic dating sabotage? Beatrice and Dante unpack the social and evolutionary purposes for disgust and share some ick-worthy experiences from their past.Inside Out - Amazon.com, Amazon.caTrevor Noah helps you figure out what you can eats.Monica and Young Ethan.More than Words by ExtremeCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Yay, we're finally returning to normal! Unfortunately, along with a return to normal comes a spike in STI infections and declining condom use. What's going on? Beatrice and Dante discuss safer sex practices, condom use objections, and how to get just the right fit.Tom Segura recommends you don’t pull out next time. We Are the Earth by Lil DickyThe Experiment Podcast The Resurgence of the Abortion Underground Obi-Wan Kenobi trailerCheck out Lucky Bloke and their assorted size condom sampler pack!Cheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

We all have our favourite movies, cult favourites and classics. But, in an age of rapid and dramatic social change, how do they hold up?Fight Club - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAmerican History X - Amazon.com, Amazon.caPrimal Fear - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSnatch - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Sixth Sense - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHitch - Amazon.com, Amazon.caHow to Lose a Guy in 10 Days - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMy Best Friend’s Girl - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBeauty and the Beast - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBeastly - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Hangover Trilogy - Amazon.com, Amazon.caRevenge of the Nerds - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAnimal House - Amazon.com, Amazon.caMary Poppins - Amazon.com, Amazon.caNanny McPhee - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Breakfast Club - Amazon.com, Amazon.caShe’s All That - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Notebook - Amazon.com, Amazon.caLove Actually - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Holiday - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Nutty Professor - Amazon.com, Amazon.caSixteen Candles - Amazon.com, Amazon.caAmerican Beauty - Amazon.com, Amazon.caGrease - Amazon.com, Amazon.caFlight of the Navigator - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Last Starfighter - Amazon.com, Amazon.caPretty Woman - Amazon.com, Amazon.caThe Movies That Made Us trailerThe Princess Bride - Amazon.com, Amazon.caCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

After 2 long years, Beatrice and Dante dusted off their passports and headed to South Beach for a much needed long weekend away. Hear about their adventures, recommendations and even a playlist for you!Beatrice’s Miami Vibes playlist on Spotify.Kimpton Angler’s Hotel (@anglershotel; website)Pura Vida Miami (@puravidamiami; website)Call Me Gaby (@callmegabymb; website)Havana Vieja (@havanavieja_southbeach; website)World War Z - Amazon.com, Amazon.caIndependence Day - Amazon.com, Amazon.caBallers - Amazon.com, Amazon.caPeru - Fireboy DML & Ed SheeranFirst Class - Jack HarlowMove to Miami - Enrique Iglesias feat. PitbullCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear

Beatrice and Dante are working on something special that’s not quite ready yet. In the meantime, enjoy some Pitbull!Culo - Pitbull feat. Lil JonCheating on Fear has partnered with Café Hacienda Real to get this amazing coffee in your next cup. Visit GoldenBean.net and be sure to use the promo code CHR2023 for 10% off your order!Motivate, and smarten, your ass with SmartAss Undies. Click the link to support the podcast, and don’t forget to use the code CHEATINGONFEAR10 for 10% off your order!www.cheatingonfear.cominfo@cheatingonfear.comInstagram & Twitter: @cheatingonfearwww.patreon.com/cheatingonfear