Within Reason Podcast

Today, we’re talking about something our souls crave but the world often misunderstands—true love. Not the kind built on conditions or feelings, but the kind that starts with God.Because real love begins in Him—it’s patient, sacrificial, and unwavering. And to truly know that love, we have to do something bold: surrender. Let go of control, let go of fear, and trust that the One who created us also knows how to love us best.So wherever you are—heartbroken, hopeful, or just searching—this episode is for you. Let’s lean in and discover what it really means to be fully known, fully loved, and fully surrendered to God.

This week I’ve received a word that I’ve questioned over and over again. What if what you want isn’t what God wants for you? The story of Jacob, Leah and Rachel will be discussed. My personal relevance to it as well. Let’s jump in..

At a certain point when we’ve taken too much we reach a point of exhaustion, we need peace, we need peace, we need separation. Let’s talk about it.

The **Refiner’s fire** is a powerful image of how God uses trials and pain to **purify and strengthen** us. Just as a metalworker uses intense heat to burn away impurities from gold or silver, God allows us to walk through difficult seasons—not to destroy us, but to **refine us**. In the fire, our pride, fear, and false comforts are stripped away, revealing a deeper faith and a more authentic character. Growth through pain isn’t easy, but it's often where the most transformation happens. It’s in the crushing that new strength is born, and in the breaking that God shapes us into who we’re truly meant to be. The process may hurt, but the purpose is holy.

Intro to season 4- Going into 2025 refreshed and rest e for more stretching with God at my center I’m going to just catch you up on where I’m at.

Are You Missing the Signs from God?Have you ever wondered if God is trying to speak to you but aren’t sure how to recognize His voice? In this episode, we dive deep into the ways God communicates with us—through scripture, circumstances, people, and even that quiet nudge in your spirit. We’ll explore questions like: *What do signs from God look like? How do I know if it's truly Him or just coincidence?* Join us as we unpack practical ways to discern His guidance and find peace in knowing He’s walking alongside you. Whether you're seeking direction, comfort, or reassurance, this conversation will help you tune in to God’s presence in your daily life. Don’t miss this inspiring discussion on recognizing the divine signs that may already be around you!

Surrendering to the art of letting go is a transformative journey that invites us to release what no longer serves us, whether it's unfulfilling relationships, outdated beliefs, or lingering regrets. Embracing this process reveals a profound beauty in moving on, as it creates space for new opportunities and growth. Each release is an act of courage, allowing us to reclaim our energy and focus on what truly matters. So, take a moment to reflect: what are you holding on to that’s due for release?

Isaiah 41:10 is one of my favorite verses and through everything I’ve been through God has kept his promise. In this episode understanding that God has you once you give in and let it so go. Remove the control, get rid of the independence and embrace community. His character, wisdom and his love is waiting on you.

Obedience is important because it helps maintain order and safety in society. By following rules and guidelines, people contribute to a stable environment, whether at home, school, or work. It also supports learning and cooperation, ensuring that communities function smoothly and effectively. I will talk about what I’ve learned and my experiences with disobedience.

I’m going to delve into the complex realm of pride. From its subtle manifestations to its profound impact. Understanding how it plays apart in us. Giving you a bit of homework. But how does pride benefit you? How does pride hurt you? Come along let’s talk…

Letting go and surrendering to God involves trusting in God's plan for your life, even when the future is uncertain. It means relinquishing your own wants, rights, and expectations, and relying on God's power.

Let’s talk about healing and rebuilding, the stages, difficulty and outdone.

Narcissism as a word has become so popular, seen however I believe we bypass it. We analyze some of the symptoms in the ones we love and that’s about it. The effects of narcissism can carry a very long way. Let’s talk about it.

Season 2: episode 15- talking about communication in relationships and what stops us from communicating with our friends, partner or family. I’m going to dive into the learned behavior of communication, from childhood and speak on how that played out in my life.

Come with us as we talk about faith in conversation. A few women who talk through their experiences.

**please excuse all the distractions/noise ** We listen to Elisha speak on faith. As well have a brief conversation in regards to our experiences. Faith Part 2 coming up next week.

In this episode I’m going to dive into individuals who seize an opportunity at any cost. Some see opportunistic people as driven and ambitious, while others view them as manipulative and morally questionable. I’m going to talk about the dark side

This episode I am sharing some poetry with you. Sharing a part of what I used to do to cope with feeling like there was no one to talk to that would understand. I used to write, poetry stories and notes. Some times a little spoken word. So just enjoy….

The progression from pain to purpose… We will talk about it.

The truth is that love transcends control, so relationships are not always as solid as we initially believe. Feelings and emotions are fluid, and they are not always easy to discern. That means that there is always the possibility that we may not feel the way we think we do, and that these feelings can easily change and evolve into something else over time. Love is boundless, if there is any control, then it's attachment vs connection and that's what we are going to talk about today.