Tuff Love with Robert Kandell

In this week’s episode, Rob rants about his experience of the Tuff Love Podcast and the journey it has involved. Rob shares a humorous and poignant story involving bed bugs from his time at One Taste, explores his relationship with his own ego and how it has impacted his work, and how he has developed faith in letting go of things in life in order to allow new chapters to begin. 3:54 – I had a good time 7:50 – A space to express love 10:00 – Committing to changing 12:51 – A story about bedbugs 17:38 – Ego guiding work 20:32 – Surfing the wave of Covid-19 22:32 – Rob’s father wound 25:21 – Ending the podcast 26:46 – Letting go and having faith 28:35 – Having space to reflect 29:07 – Comments from listeners 34:44 – Thank you’s Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Vanya Silverten works internationally as an intuitive energy healer and teacher. With clients and students from over 50 countries, she has a passion to help individuals transform all aspects of their lives. Her greatest joy is to teach people the skills of healing and intuition so that they can master their own lives. Vanya believes healing is an art, and so has refined her gifted intuition through the experience of treating, reading and teaching 10,000+ people – from children to royalty. Vanya is a Master Theta Healer and has taught 150+ courses in six different countries. She has developed the energetic understanding of how the body, mind and soul function through her extensive training and experience. She passes this knowledge on by teaching and qualifying students to become practitioners of Theta Healing® Vanya is a qualified Nutritional Therapist. She has studied and worked extensively with herbs, vitamins, homeopathy and Australian Bush Flower Essences. Vanya is experienced at helping her clients overcome food allergies, hormonal and nervous problems. In 2015, Vanya became a mother to a beautiful daughter. This life-changing experience has deepened her appreciation of the female body temple and it’s potential to reach heightened states of sensual enlightenment. She shares these teachings in her women’s workshops, retreats and online courses. 1:49 – How corrupted love affected Vanya 5:27 – Understanding and transforming our stories 8:26 – Letting go of identities 10:38 – Techniques to help someone let go of their stories 14:04 – How she works with people 16:36 – How she started reading energy 19:44 – Theta healing 21:39 – Changes in Women’s sexuality 24:16 – Techniques for keeping a relationship intimate 28:15 – Understanding how our family lineage impacts us Find Vanya at: www.VanyaSilverten.com As well as her Free Courses: courses.vanyasilverten.com/collections?category=free Her book “Sacred Revolution: A Woman’s Path to Love, Power & Sensual Enlightenment” www.amazon.com/Sacred-Revolution-Womans-Sensual-Enlightenment/dp/198224352X And her Instagram: www.Instagram.com/VanyaSilverten Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Violet Lange is a love, dating, and relationship mentor who helps spiritual, successful women date like a Queen and feel Fabulously Feminine along the way. Violet has her MBA from Harvard, training from Coach Training Alliance, and is a 500 hour registered yoga teacher and Reiki Master. She is passionate about empowered dating, and lasting loving relationships as building blocks of a healthy society and fulfilling life. Violet recently became a mama to a spunky, sweet daughter named Ruby. 1:42 – Violet’s background 5:19 – How she helps women find fulfilling relationships 7:31 – Using feelings as a barometer of relationship success 10:24 – Helping women connect with their desires 12:42 – How long does it take? 15:09 – Being okay with being single 16:28 – Disproving the myth of “Men aren’t interested in women my age” 19:29 – Disproving the myth of “There are no good men out there” 20:54 – Recommended dating apps 22:51 – Tips for using dating apps 24:05 – Continuing exploring “There are no good men out there” 27:05 – Disproving the myth of “I have too much baggage” 29:33 – Sexuality over 50 Find Violet at: VioletLange.com/Talk As well as Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/FreeYourFeminine/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/VioletLoveLange Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Mas Sajady is a world renowned consciousness programmer who, through his unique techniques and meditations, shifts people’s lives to an evolved and advanced frequency level that enables them to achieve success, fulfillment, and happiness from a natural and balanced state. From a very young age, Mas showed signs of higher intuition, and after his second near death experience he acquired highly advanced capabilities for quantum frequency programming. His journey to discover the true meaning of this newfound ability led to his own personal breakthroughs, giving him a new effortless, happy, and fulfilling life. This found knowledge enlightened him with the limitless possibilities in human potential. Today, Mas fulfills his purpose by helping others reprogram and elevate their frequency, to activate their inner force and experience life from a place of confidence, stability, significance, and abundance. As the founder of Xponential Intelligence, Mas facilitates rapid changes through quantum reprogramming, which eliminate old dynamic energy partners. During sessions with Mas, regardless of whether you share your problems with him or not, he will discover and eliminate what has obstructed your life in the past. Mas has counseled tens of thousands of people around the world and has worked with business leaders, influencers, professional athletes, celebrities, royal families, and Fortune 500 executives from companies such as Capital Records, Starbucks, Facebook, Fox, Microsoft, FedEx, and many more. As a philanthropist, Mas donates his time to assist schools, hospitals, special needs organizations, and low income communities. In his spare time, Mas enjoys time with his family, travel, adventures, and various philanthropic activities that elevate the human consciousness. 2:24 – What is Xponential Intelligence? 9:14 – Generating frequencies 17:19 – The limitations of modern mindfulness practices 19:32 – Is Xponential Intelligence God? 22:16 – Connecting to one’s source and love 27:21 – Gender reversals 35:12 – Questions from Facebook 38:49 – Focusing on driving change externally versus internally 41:44 – Details of Das’ Sunday Metahealing sessions Find Mas Sajady at: https://mas-sajady.com As well as Instagram: www.instagram.com/Mas_Sajady Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Adam Gilad is an independent educator, writer and life adventurer, devoted to creating learning programs, films, books and live workshops that awaken, delight, provoke, connect and inspire. The goal of each of his programs and trainings: for each of us to love more fully, laugh more deeply, feel more sensually and live our gifts to awaken ourselves and others into deep engagement and awakening to every precious passing moment of our lives. 2:30 – Adam’s experience of 2020 so far 9:19 – The impact on children 11:23 – Men in Coronavirus 16:35 – A call for balance, Black Lives Matter, and the rise of listening 25:18 – Being in relationships with differences 29:51 – The Bold Life Brotherhood Find Adam at: www.TheBoldLifeBrotherhood.com As well as: Instagram: www.instagram.com/RealAdamGilad And Email: IAmAdamGilad@gmail.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Femininity & Feminine Embodiment Coach Anna Rova is on a mission to help successful women attract and keep masculine men. She runs a powerful group coaching program called “Claimed” that helps women embody their feminine essence fully and get into the best position to attract a partner that will consciously and eagerly play the masculine pole of the polarity spectrum Writer, podcaster, yoga instructor, and location-independent entrepreneur, Anna is the founder of Girlskill – an online coaching company empowering women to connect to their femininity and understand men through various stories of women around the world and personal revelations. Together with her husband, Anna has traveled the world being on the road full-time building her coaching practice, writing her personal blog, recording episodes on Girlskill Podcast, practicing yoga, and spreading love and positivity. In December 2018, Anna gave birth to her first child and is currently residing in Australia continuing to coach women all over the world. 2:09 – Anna’s work and an overview of three lies about female success 4:15 – Recent changes that have led to the current state of being for women 8:18 – Previous gender roles 12:13 – Men not stepping up to the level of empowered women 15:54 – Gender roles in media 22:48 – Evolutionary psychology 28:03 – Monogamy and men’s drive away from it 30:48 – Three lies about female success in-depth 31:17 – Lie 1: Women can and should do it all 35:01 – Lie 2: Feminine power is in independence and strength 37:17 – Lie 3: Femininity is weakness Find Anna at: Home As well as her webinar on How to Start Attracting Committed Masculine Men by Releasing Control & Letting Him Lead: https://girlskill.com/webinar And her Instagram: www.instagram.com/annarova Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

In this week’s episode, Rob rants about the large array of uncertainty across the world and in his own life during this time. Rob explores COVID, Black Lives Matter, the economic and political situation in the USA, as well as his relationship with his father and life partner. He outlines how while it’s okay not to know, it shouldn’t stop you: do the internal work to know yourself and all aspects of your being. 3:23 – My superpowers 6:37 – Things Rob doesn’t have certainty around 8:52 – Black Lives Matter 12:44 – The economic and political situation in the USA 15:07 – Rob’s dad’s death 18:25 – His relationship with Morgan 19:57 – Staying conscious 22:12 – Surrender versus acquiescence: know thyself 23:16 – Being okay with what is Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Lora Cheadle is a transformational thought leader and media personality who empowers women to express themselves fully, find uninhibited joy, and gracefully take the lead in the dance of life despite any external circumstances. She is the author of the bestselling book FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self that is available wherever books are sold. Listen to her podcast or find out more at www.loracheadle.com where you can download your free Bundle of JOY gift pack. 1:47 – Acknowledging the outcries following George Floyd’s death 5:20 – Who is Lora? 8:51 – Life choreographer 13:09 – Fears dictating one’s life 17:01 – Being curious about life’s difficulties 19:36 – Dealing with infidelity 22:13 – Working with Lora: FLAUNT 29:41 – Why “Finding Your Fetish”? 32:36 – Working towards Accepting Unconditionally 36:14 – Undoing false beliefs Find Lora at: LoraCheadle.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/LifeChoreographer/ Instagram: www.instagram.com/LoraCheadle/ Her Bundle of Joy Gift Pack: Bundle of Joy As well as her FLAUNT Flock Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/FlauntFlock/ Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

In this episode, Rob welcomes long-time friend and colleague Arielle Brown to discuss the premise for the workshop that they held on June 17th 2020. Arielle describes the workshop as follows: “The degree of power and influence we have in our life is directly related to the amount of sensation we can hold in our body. Similarly, the level of ability we have to create real, authentic connection in our lives is directly related to our ability to hold polarity within our body. To “hold polarity”, in my definition, means to be able to hold (at least) two perspectives, truths, or belief systems within our awareness that seem to DIRECTLY conflict with each other. The cultivation of holding polarity is a practice in personal mastery, because in a world that has taught us to believe that being “right” is what creates safety, allowing ourselves to consider and hold a perspective that directly challenges our belief systems is a great threat to our (Ego) identity. Robert Kandell and I have built much of our respective bodies of work around intimacy, sexuality, communication, and human relating, on the premise that true safety is based on our ability to be CONNECTED in our relationships, rather than being RIGHT.” 3:09 – The motivation for Rob and Arielle’s workshop 6:43 – Being honest with your partner and yourself 11:23 – Different speeds of evolution in relationships 13:36 – Doing inner work and how it affects relationships 16:48 – What is distortion? 17:56 – Jealousy and polarity 23:24 – Why did Rob start this work? 30:17 – What do men need? 32:53 – Women holding space for men 36:04 – The impact of shifts in relationships on sex 41:19 – Their workshop To get a flavor of what was covered, check out these videos: What Does it Mean When Something Is Polarizing?: What does it mean when something is "polarizing"? What does it mean when something is "polarizing"? Posted by Arielle Brown on Tuesday, May 19, 2020 Polarity Workshop Teaser with Arielle & Rob: Tuff Love: A Teaser for Our Polarity Workshop for Couples w/ Arielle Brown <<THE TEASER FOR THE JUNE-17th 2-HOUR WORKSHOP>>Arielle recently invited me to do a workshop with her around the concept of relationship, polarity, relationship, and communication. I said immediately, I'm IN!The price is $48/person for 12 people. Benefit is that you'll be part of the course. In other words, interactive! Afterwards, we'll post the replay for the cost of an email address.TO REGISTER: SEE THE LINK BELOW IN THE COMMENTSSome questions that will be discussed:>> How do we navigate the dance of opposites in our romantic relationship when your desires and belief systems directly contradict your partner’s?>> How do you honor your inner boundaries while staying curious and receptive to opposing perspectives?COME JOIN US!<teacher Bio>Arielle Brown is a teacher of intimacy energetics and spiritual embodiment, with a focus on erotic intelligence and transparent communication skills. Through her private coaching work, group containers, and online courses, Arielle has cultivated a body of work addressing the increasing need for evolutionary approaches to intimacy, sexuality, and spirituality that facilitate power-WITH (vs. power-OVER) models of relating. Her work emphasizes shadow integration and the unification of polarities in service to self-actualization and somatic awakening.Robert Kandell known as “The Modern Mantor,” is an interpersonal communications and relationship expert, speaker, podcaster and author. His focus lies in navigating and educating the public around the modern man and his many nuances in the modern era. Kandell is the host of a podcast called TuffLove – Your Pragmatic guide to relationships, sex and purpose in the 21st century and author of an Amazon #1 Best Seller – unHIDDEN – A Book for Men and Those Confused By Them. Posted by Robert Kandell on Thursday, May 28, 2020 Find Arielle at: www.ArielleBrown.com Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

While Aimee spent her first two years out of college building a career in corporate Manhattan, it quickly became clear to her that her passion was wilder than that. She packed her apartment and shipped herself all the way across the country to Los Angeles, where everything in her life as she knew it made a complete 180… except her love life. Without a job or an income, she found a home with her friends, hired her first Life Coach, and started building her own business. On paper, her life was shaping up, but she found she was still struggling to feel good in her skin and find romance. When a friend invited her to a transformational course about intimacy and orgasm, she was terrified. But she knew it was the next step for her – she was desperate to learn anything that could turn things around for her sex life. Within six months, her entire life was unrecognizable. Learning to live from her desire absolutely changed her experience of herself. For the first time, she was finally loving her body, living less in her head and feeling more connected to her intuition. She started meeting great men, and having deep, meaningful relationships, AND connected, pleasurable sex. She had to share what she’d learned, and before long, she was sharing the work with all her friends and clients. She learned that her new commitment to living life pleasurably was a professional passion too. In the years since she moved here, she’s coached successful women from entrepreneurs to mothers, artists, C-Suite executives and even other coaches across the country. she’s given talks to major organizations, led retreats internationally, and she’s only just begun. In saying yes, she finally discovered self-development work that wasn’t only focused on her career or other relationships (I had that stuff mastered); there was a whole world to explore around her desire, intimacy, and connection with others. After that initial course, she fully immersed herself in trainings and retreats all centred around sexuality, eroticism, relationships and desire. Today, she wants to find out how she can help you fall in love with yourself and your life as much as she has. Don’t waste another day feeling uncomfortable in your skin, feeling disconnected in your romantic life, or having unfulfilling sex! 4:53 – Her journey 6:56 – Not trusting men 9:59 – Weakened sexuality 12:22 – Being conscious on dating apps 15:25 – Pleasure is not just sex 18:17 – Self-pleasure as a practice 21:59 – Sexual experiences and processing resentment to men 28:20 – Breaking out of the loop of unconscious dating and sexuality 32:14 – Techniques for finding pleasure in everyday life Find Aimee at: www.AimeeBatuski.com As well as her Instagram: www.instagram.com/AimeeBatuski The Turned on Tribe – Desire On Fire Community: www.facebook.com/groups/DesireOnFire Instagram: www.instagram.com/DesireOnFire Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Blake Boles is the founder and director of Unschool Adventures and the author of Why Are You Still Sending Your Kids to School?, The Art of Self-Directed Learning, Better Than College, and College Without High School. He hosts the Off-Trail Learning podcast and has delivered over 75 presentations for education conferences, alternative schools, and parent groups. Blake and his work have appeared on The New York Times, The Christian Science Monitor, BBC Travel, Psychology Today, Fox Business, TEDx, The Huffington Post, USA Today, NPR affiliate radio, and the blogs of Wired and The Wall Street Journal. In 2003 Blake was studying astrophysics at UC Berkeley when he stumbled upon the works of John Taylor Gatto, Grace Llewellyn, and other alternative education pioneers. Deeply inspired by the philosophy of unschooling, Blake custom-designed his final two years of college to focus exclusively on education theory. After graduating he joined the Not Back to School Camp community and began writing and speaking widely on the subject of self-directed learning. In his previous lives, Blake worked as a high-volume cook, delivery truck driver, summer camp director, Aurora Borealis research assistant, math tutor, outdoor science teacher, camp medic, ski resort market researcher, web designer, and windsurfing instructor. His biggest passion is sharing his enthusiasm and experience with young adults who are blazing their own trails through life. He was born in 1982. 2:53 – What is unschooling? 4:21 – Blake’s background 5:30 – Facing biases and assumptions around conventional schooling 8:43 – Parents’ fears 15:31 – Games 18:18 – Alternative ways to develop skills 22:41 – Intrinsic versus external motivation 25:50 – Forcing children to attend school 29:08 – Fear of getting consent from children 31:41 – Considerations for parents Find Blake at: www.BlakeBoles.com As well as his podcast “Off Trail Learning”: www.OffTrailLearning.com/Podcast Facebook: www.facebook.com/Blake.Boles Twitter: www.twitter.com/BlakeBoles Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Rob Kowalski is a self-professed “reformed bad boy” with a riveting personal testimony from living as the biggest stripper in his hometown of Baltimore, Maryland to running the nightlife. He gave up a life of casual sex and addictions and is now the founder of the thriving non-profit, CityFam whose mission is to solve loneliness. Raised by a mother with an eighth-grade education, only fifteen years his elder and no support from his father, he taught himself how to be a man. At 19 he began working for the various entertainment agencies “to get out of the hood” and put himself through college. Oftentimes after he got off work he would go out to the nightclubs with co-workers. Because he was well known he was approached by a club owner and asked to promote a night. It wasn’t long before Rob became known for his ability to bring people together and move crowds. By 1999 he had weekly parties running in Baltimore and DC. But the lifestyle took its toll and at 27 years of age Rob had a life-changing experience and decided to head in a more positive direction. Instantly, with no real plan, Rob did what he describes as “a complete 180”, quitting his jobs and going from popular party boy to homebody. Through his journey, he discovered a major void for anyone looking to make positive changes in their life. Rob became passionate about finding a community of like-minded people, that like him were searching for “fun without regret” as well as wanting to make a positive contribution to society. When he couldn’t find it, because he was good at bringing people together and getting the word out, he created CityFam. Currently, Rob serves as the Chairman of the Board of Directors for CityFam 501(c)3. He is the author of the best-selling book, Why Waiting Works, and has the #1 video in its category worldwide on YouTube with 10 Reasons Not To Have Sex Before Marriage with over 1.5 million views and climbing. In his spare time, Rob also runs a promotion company that puts on some of the largest concerts and events in Baltimore like the Charm City Countdown New Year’s Eve Party. Rob believes in using his ability to promote social events to bring awareness to causes in the community and recruit people that may have never volunteered to serve. Rob believes that if you socialize with the right group and give back to the community, YOU change and become the best version of yourself. Rob is working on opening a coffee bar/live music venue called HOME. It will serve as a meeting place for anyone craving deep, meaningful connections and redefine how people self-actualize. Rob’s story has recently been featured in numerous publications including; Daily Mirror, Chat, Daily Mail, Antena Stars, Trinitas, God TV, and others. 3:05 – Rob’s story 6:43 – Male role models from movies 8:03 – His relationship with his mother 9:40 – Statistics regarding sex and marriage 12:20 – How much does waiting matter? 17:45 – Why not something in the middle? 22:33 – Non-monogamous relationships and communication 29:10 – What about people evolving with time? 31:32 – Men and women in waiting for marriage for sex 35:33 – How do you know you won’t lose connection after having sex in marriage? 36:42 – Cityfam Find Rob at: www.RobbKowalski.com As well as his book “Why Waiting Works”: https://WhyWaitingWorks.net YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/RobbKowalski Instagram: http://instagram.com/RobbKowalski Twitter: Tweets by rbkowalski1 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Taylor Simpson is a sought after Motivational Speaker, a Podcast Host and Online Mindset Coach. Through her methodology of combining Science, Spirituality, and Mysticism, Taylor helps women around the world tap into the Frequency of Money and step into their unique Super Power, allowing them to live the Abundant life they desire – unapologetically. With her unique ability to infuse light frequencies into her work, Taylor guides women through an entire DNA & Soul Upgrade process where they find themselves in a new dimension on the other side. Taylor has been featured in The Washingtonian, Very WellFit, Reader’s Digest and spoken on stages such as EventLuv, Align & Rise, Mary Kay and many others. It is Taylor’s mission to wake women up to their true potential so they can be the magical goddesses they’re meant to be. 3:39 – Taylor’s story 10:25 – 3D, 4D, and 5D living 15:08 – Unschooling ourselves 19:50 – The Law of Attraction 24:53 – Taking responsibility for our state 26:33 – Manifesting experiences in our lives 31:24 – The age of Ascension 35:36 – Living in an age of greater adversity 42:29 – Pragmatic steps for moving into your next level Find Taylor at: www.AbundanceRewired.com As well as her guided Money Meditation: www.AbundanceRewired.com/Meditation Her podcast “A Taylored Adventure To Happiness”: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-taylored-adventure-to-happiness/id1044301397 And Instagram: www.instagram.com/IAmTaylorSimpson Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Harriette is the UK’s Leading Certified Soul, Money and Mindset coach. A serial entrepreneur with 12 years experience and six businesses, Harriette has a global clientele base of creative and spiritual freelancers, fellow entrepreneurs and individuals on the path to self-growth and ascension. Her teaching & coaching stems from principles based in Universal Energy Law, first inspired by the well known ‘Law Of Attraction’ ideology, however, the practical side of business and life coaching takes equal precedence. As the High Priestess of Light, Harriette also applies her energy healing, energy reading, and powerful psychic channel to coaching and mastermind sessions to create a truly life-transforming result. Author of ‘The Knowing’, public speaker, and general Light-bringer-about-town, Harriette is both down to earth and fully tuned in to the Universe, on her mission to bring the true meaning of Abundance back to Planet Earth. 2:30 – What’s going on in the world? 5:09 – Fear 8:40 – The importance of negative emotions 13:50 – What is a high priestess? 19:31 – Connecting to one’s intuition 22:48 – Compassionately dismantling the patriarchy 28:04 – #MeToo and communication 30:56 – Flowing between masculine and feminine 35:24 – Advice for couples 38:26 – The importance of patience with partners Find Harriette at: www.AskHarriette.co.uk As well as her School of Mastery: Waiting List Instagram: www.instagram.com/HarrietteHale Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Johnny is a former special operations U.S. Army Ranger with 4 combat tours between Iraq and Afghanistan. After the military Johnny worked for a private company protecting the U.S. Ambassador to Iraq in Baghdad for 5 years. After spending almost 10 years in and out of the Middle East, Johnny struggled with his transition to the daily life of being back home. Johnny decided that he needed to support other men struggling with similar experiences and in doing so he developed his new purpose. Johnny has seen the field of masculinity from an extremely alpha perspective and knows the trials and tribulations the hardest men deal with. Through his podcast and social media platforms, Johnny has taken his experience to follow a new mission helping men realize they are not alone and through techniques ranging from rewiring their synaptic responses and incorporating internal awareness, they can build a life where they are no longer alone, depressed, and fighting to find purpose. 3:12 – Johnny’s story 7:40 – Relationship to men inside the military 12:07 – Leadership and association 14:07 – Adversity and intimacy 15:38 – The concept behind his work 18:50 – Templates of masculinity 21:34 – His work and what differentiates him 24:44 – The Alpha Male shell 28:41 – Looking at one’s current and desired masculinity 31:58 – The door handle check 34:42 – A success story Find Johnny at: JohnnyElsasser.com As well as his email: Johnny@JohnnyElsasser.com Facebook: www.Facebook.com/The.Johnny.Elsasser And: www.Facebook.com/ArtOfMasculinity Instagram: www.Instagram.com/Johnny.Elsasser Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Megan Lambert is an intimacy expert, specializing in helping couples reignite their sex life, and singles dismantle walls to love in order to find their life partner. She offers 1:1 and couples’ coaching as well as workshops and retreats around the world. She holds a summa cum laude double BA in psychology and neuroscience from the University of Southern California. She spent 4 years as an executive leadership coach and facilitator for Fortune 100 companies before leaving the corporate world to start her own company. She’s a master-level certified relationship & sexuality coach, with 5 years of experience helping hundreds of people experience more connection, intimacy, and love in their lives. She currently lives in Ubud, Bali where she leads workshops along with ecstatic dance and yoga classes. 2:20 – Her journey to where she is today 5:22 – Love and sex during quarantine 8:20 – What is significance? 10:29 – Opening up in her own relationship 12:40 – Bringing both partners’ needs into a relationship 14:32 – Coaching women who think there are no good men 18:04 – Phases of sexuality in her own relationship 20:44 – Working with a couple where one partner is not open 23:52 – Self-exploration practices 26:28 – A success story 28:12 – The comfort of resentment 29:20 – Fem Rising retreats 30:56 – Fear of desire 33:02 – Her big desire Find Megan at: www.MeganDLambert.com As well as Instagram: www.instagram.com/MeganDLambert And LinkedIn: www.LinkedIn.com/in/megandlambert Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

In this week’s episode, following his recent experiences with his partner, Rob rants about movies such as Plandemic and the impact they make on the relationships people have. Rob dives into exploring his own prejudices and judgements, as well as looking at examples of how others have reacted, and how people can overcome the chasms created to reach new levels of connection. 3:07 – What happened 6:59 – Critical thinking resources 8:40 – Watching one’s judgements rise up 11:22 – What it means to be triggered 13:17 – Men and chauvinism 16:09 – Reflecting on his relationship goal 17:39 – Four key belief systems for connection 19:41 – “What I know about what I know” 23:55 – How films like Plandemic are impacting relationships 27:23 – Going forward 32:26 – How things are now Sources mentioned: – Plandemic the Movie – Website taken down. Get a big mug of joe and google Plandemic – London Real – https://londonreal.tv/1000000-fighting-for-freedom/ – Out of Shadows – https://www.outofshadows.org/ – Daniel Pinchbeck ‘s post – https://www.facebook.com/daniel.pinchbeck/posts/10156844763101262 – Roy Piper’s excellent post – https://www.facebook.com/KingOfMilwaukee/posts/10157962376426999 – Aaron Nichols’ post – https://www.facebook.com/aaron.nichols.10000/posts/2886056461480154 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

This infinitely curious, coffee-loving, Brooklyn native had business cards at six and her first product on shelves at 13. After graduating from college, where she played Division 1 soccer, and business school with highest honors, she spent four years on Wall Street, at an investment bank and at a $4 billion alternative asset management fund. She dealt with loss, found her passion, more loss and learned the meaning of post-traumatic growth. She started a coffee company called Caffè Unimatic, with an awe-inspiring story, featured in the Netflix documentary “Coffee For All”. She has gone on to create a line of coffee, give two TEDx talks, co-found an education company to deploy the methodology designed to instill an unshakable sense of confidence and resilience in college-age women and started speaking in the US and abroad. Most recently, she’s combined her passions and become host of Brave Conversations Over Coffee, a workshop series, whose structure is rooted in neuroscience and grounded in the world’s favorite morning ritual, to help us trust ourselves more and become someone that others can trust as well. Her family is still wondering where that shy nine-year-old went… 3:34 – Her coffee business, Unimatic 9:34 – Dealing with moments of doubt 16:22 – The motivation behind brave conversations over coffee 18:31 – What makes a brave conversation? 21:49 – How to listen: B.R.A.V.E. 27:30 – Responses to her work in businesses 30:32 – Isolation 33:18 – Future tripping 34:20 – How Unimatic works Find Elisabeth at: BraveConversationsOverCoffee.com As well as: www.CaffeUnimatic.com Her TEDx Talk: www.youtube.com/watch?v=TPzhFB6ZzNk Instagram: www.instagram.com/CaffeUnimatic Twitter: www.twitter.com/CaffeUnimatic Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

A former Consulting Actuary to Fortune 100 companies – including Sony Music, Chanel, and Exxon – David left his cushy Park Avenue job 20 years ago to build the world’s largest coaching business. He became #1 on Google for “life coaching”, serving an audience of 150,000 coaches, and coaching thousands of hours in 12 countries around the globe. Alongside his clients’ successes, David is no stranger to overcoming challenges himself, having survived a full collapse of his paraglider and a fractured spine, witnessing the death of his sister at age seven, anxiety and depression, and a national Gong Show! He is the author of “Get Paid For Who You Are,” with a foreword by Jack Canfield. He was nominated to the Transformational Leadership Council alongside such thought leaders as Don Miguel Ruiz, John Gray, and Presidential Candidate Marianne Williamson. David believes that the tough conversations we avoid are our doorways to confidence, success, and love. They become the defining moments which shape our careers, our relationships, and our lives. He coaches high performing entrepreneurs, executives and teams – and now prison inmates – to create amazing results and deep connection. One tough conversation at a time. 2:31 – Speaking your truth more 4:04 – Why people do not speak the hard truth 7:01 – Vulnerability 8:28 – Benefits of difficult conversations and an embarrassing story 14:10 – Withholding communication 16:01 – David’s Case Model 16:17 – 1. Clarify 22:21 – 2. Ask permission 25:14 – 3. Share 26:10 – 4. Enquire 27:09 – Importance of brevity in sharing 29:31 – Mediums of communication 31:15 – What if things go bad? 34:44 – Sticking with it through difficulties Find David at: www.PlayForReal.life As well as his free Tough Conversations CARE Model: www.playforreal.life/blueprint And his podcast “Tough Conversation with David Wood: www.podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tough-conversations-with-david-wood/id1485812446 Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/

Marc Wendt began his coaching journey at age 9, working with the children of his parents’ clients, during weekend workshops based on the work of Thomas Harris’ book, “I am Ok You’re Ok” Since then he has gone on to have a professional career in the film industry, and for the last several years as a Personal Coach. Marc has completed formal coaches training programs with Ken Blackman and Alexandra Stockwell in their year-long “Coaching Dojo”, Brig Feltus’ “ReMember Institute Curriculum for Diversity Consciousness”, and Zat Baraka Elias’ “Men’s Wisdom Work Coaches Training”. Additionally, he continues to expand his personal development and integrity through ongoing transformational work with his own personal coaches. In addition to his full-time personal coaching business, he administers a 3500 person Facebook group dedicated to quantum masculine development, leads online workshops dedicated to developing men’s intimacy, EQ, and communication skills, and is a musician, songwriter, and screenplay writer. 2:43 – Marc’s practice of “Less Take Out More Makeout” 6:03 – Getting started 10:22 – Sensuality versus sexuality 11:52 – Outcomes of the practice 16:42 – Recommendations for men who work full time 17:56 – Genders and housework 22:40 – Practical tips for preparing meals 26:10 – Mistakes and war stories 29:57 – His coaching work 34:59 – Listening to the body in business Find Marc at: www.MarcWendtCoaching.com As well as his initiative “Less Take Out More Makeout”: www.LessTakeOutMoreMakeout.com Facebook: www.facebook.com/MarcWendtCoaching Instagram: www.instagram.com/MarcWendtCoaching Twitter: www.twitter.com/MarcWendtCoach LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/marc-wendt-1a6b26/ Don’t forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It’s your easy-to-understand at-home guide to Robert’s living unHidden Framework. Get your copy today by visiting www.robertkandell.com/order OR, grab your free audio section of the book if you want to take it for a spin before you buy. And we promise this is NOT like movie trailers where they grab all the best pieces. Unhidden is pure relationship gold https://robertkandell.com/freeaudio Get More of Robert at: www.RobertKandell.com As well as: www.youtube.com/channel/UCA4BLzufNXxgKGUsLVDTnlQ Follows us at: www.facebook.com/robert.kandell www.instagram.com/robert.kandell/ Join the living unhidden Facebook group www.facebook.com/groups/unhidden/