The Ryan Leak Podcast

Every family has that one person who knows exactly how to turn a peaceful holiday dinner into a heated debate. But what if you didn’t have to let the loudest person determine the atmosphere?In week two of our eight-week holiday series, Ryan Leak shares how to steer conversations without controlling people, redirect uncomfortable discussions without creating more conflict, and use three kinds of questions to make your holiday gatherings more meaningful.You’ll learn how to ask questions that make people laugh, remember, and hope, along with practical ways to navigate difficult topics before they take over the table.This week’s challenge: Prepare three great questions before your next family gathering. One that makes people laugh, one that makes people remember, and one that makes people hope.Download the free holiday conversation guide with thirty questions at ryanleak.com/holiday.

The holidays are coming, and so are the complicated family conversations. But what if the biggest problem isn’t what someone said or did? What if it’s the conversation you’ve been avoiding?In the first episode of our eight-week holiday series, Ryan Leak explores why we talk about people instead of talking to them, how venting can become avoidance, and why addressing tension before the holidays might be the best gift you give your relationships.You’ll learn practical ways to start uncomfortable conversations, approach conflict with curiosity, and take responsibility for your part even when the other person doesn’t respond the way you hoped.This week’s challenge: Stop talking about one person and start talking to them. For Ryan’s latest holiday family guides and workbooks, check out ryanleak.com/holiday

What if the biggest opportunities in your life weren't just the result of hard work, but the people who opened doors for you? John Maxwell calls it Who Luck. In this episode, Ryan shares the remarkable chain of relationships that took him from a college student with a camera to stages around the world, including an Instagram Reel that caught Oprah's attention. He also explores how one invitation helped introduce Brené Brown's work to millions. The truth is, nobody gets where they are alone. Behind every success story is someone who took a chance, made an introduction, or saw potential before there was proof. You'll be challenged to thank the people who helped you get where you are and become the person who opens doors for someone else. Because you might not be the person who changes the world, but you might be the person who gives the world access to someone who will.

Negativity is everywhere. In your office, your group chats, your social media feed, and sometimes even your own thoughts. But just because the world has problems doesn't mean you have to be miserable. In this episode, Ryan challenges you to avoid the doom and gloom trap and recognize the difference between being realistic and being relentlessly negative. You'll discover why complaining drains your energy, how to shift from being a complainer to a contributor, and why optimism isn't naive. It's a choice. Life is hard, but you can still decide to enjoy it. And remember, attitude is contagious. Make sure yours is worth catching.

What if the hard thing you've been avoiding is actually the thing that's making you stronger? In this episode, Ryan explores the science behind willpower and why discipline isn't something you're born with. It's something you build. From difficult conversations to daily habits, every decision to do what matters instead of what feels good is an opportunity to grow. You'll discover why comfort can be costly, how discipline creates freedom, and why you don't get to skip hard. You just get to choose your hard. Because the life you want is often on the other side of something you don't feel like doing.