Oh Lawd, Here We Go Again!

In the United States, over 200 mass shootings have already occurred in 2022. Of those, 22 have been in schools. Two of the most recent and notable shootings occurred in a Buffalo supermarket and a Texas elementary school. This week the ladies tackle the topic of gun control and what can be done, if anything, to change things. They also give history and context for the 2nd amendment that some Americans hold so dear. Some attempt to frame the idea of gun control as an all or nothing endeavor. Listen as they discuss ways that the government could take immediate action and how citizens can hold politicians feet to the fire. This week's Bible Breakdown is Genesis, 34. Take revenge for their sister and things get messy. Instagram and Twitter @ohlawdpodcast

This week, the ladies discuss the current job market and the effects the pandemic has had on it. Our mentalities were being forced into a direction that a lot of people probably would not have gone in. Hundreds of thousands, if not millions, of us realized that we could either survive off of being a one income household, start our own business, or we deserve much more from our employers.  Everywhere you go, no matter where you live, there is a "now hiring" sign. Nichole and Sherene dive deep on why they think this is happening and what this could mean for the future. This week's Bible Breakdown is Genesis, Chapter 33. Jacob and Esau reunite. Can you feel the love? Instagram and Twitter @ohlawdpodcast Email: ohlawdpodcast@gmail.com

Roe v. Wade is at risk of being overturned by the Supreme Court. Currently, the landmark decision allows for  "Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment to the U.S. Constitution provides a fundamental 'right to privacy' that protects a pregnant woman's liberty to choose whether to have an abortion." It allows states to balance between rights of the women and the rights of the fetus. Some states will ban all forms of abortion if this is overturned since the right to choice is not a law. This week, Sherene and Nichole discuss the ramifications of the loss of body autonomy and women's right to choose. Bible breakdown for this week is Genesis 32. Jacob heads home but is terrified of what will happen as his brother Esau heads his way with 400 soldiers.

This week we have a solo episode with Nichole and she discusses Jacob heading home in Genesis, Chapter 31.

This week, Sherene and Nichole break down the difference between "Class privilege" and "White privilege". They aren't the same despite the results appearing to be so. Having white privilege and recognizing it does not make a person racist. Class privilege is not limited to whites, but due to systemic issues it tends to mostly be whites.  Both types of privilege exist because of historic, enduring racism and systemic biases. In general, white privilege does not suggest that white people do not, or have never, struggled. Just as class privilege doesn't mean that person cannot end up poor. However, white privilege and class privilege should be viewed as built-in advantages, separate from one’s level of effort. For our purposes, white privilege is defined as having greater access to power and resources than people of color in the same situation. And class privilege is defined as the tangible or intangible unearned advantages enjoyed by someone of higher class status. By the end of the episode, you will hopefully see that recognizing privilege is the first step in using it to help others who do not have it. For more information about white privilege, the following article was a good read: https://www.learningforjustice.org/magazine/fall-2018/what-is-white-privilege-really This week's Bible Breakdown is Genesis, 30. 

This week, Sherene and Nichole discuss the five love languages. Not everyone receives and expresses love in the same way. Knowing your partners love language can lead to a more engaging and bonded relationship. Five love languages: 1)Words of affirmation: desire spoken affection, praise, and compliments. Criticism and discouraging words hurt you more than others. 2)Acts of service: desires a partner who willingly eases their workload. For example, a partner who does the dishes before you get to it or makes you breakfast in bed. But laziness and broken promises can make you feel uncared for.  3)Receiving gifts: desires thoughtful gift rather than generic gifts. This love language isn’t necessarily materialistic. It could be as simple as a person getting you your favorite snack. 4)Quality time: desires undivided attention. A person who is actively listening and truly present rather than looking at their phone. You feel unloved without one-on-one time. 5)Physical touch: kisses, hand holding, hugs, and other touches show love. Lack of touch doesn't allow for this person to feel a sense of safety or warmth in the relationship. Follow us on all socials @ohlawdpodcast

This week the ladies discuss "colorism". It is a topic that is avoided in the black community but if we can't discuss or admit it exists, then we can't fix it. Have you experienced colorism? In school, in your family, noticed it in the media? The idea that lighter skin is better has been a thorn in the world's side. Sherene and Nichole cover everything from their experiences with catcalling by skin tone to the paper bag test. Yes, it is the colonizers fault. Colorism is a world wide phenomena. So, being aware of it's existence can lead to fixing the problem. This weeks's Bible Breakdown is Genesis, 29.

We always talk about red flags when going on dates or trying to find a partner but what about red flags in friendships? This week the ladies chat about red flags they have experienced with friends or people they meet that could have possibly become a friendship but the warning signs were all there. Let us not forget that you may be a walking red flag too! It's okay, we all have work to do.  This week's Bible Breakdown is Genesis 28. Instagram and Twitter @ohlawdpodcast

This week, Sherene and Nichole talk about the supreme court hearing of Ketanji Brown Jackson. Judge Jackson has been subjected to a barrage of conservative grandstanding as they try to paint a picture of bias that doesn't exist in Judge Jackson's impeccable record. When confirmed, Judge Jackson will be the most qualified Supreme Court Judge to survive as a Justice. And oh boy are they pissed that the most qualified Justice will be a black women. It isn't the first time that a black woman had to be beyond outstanding to gain the same recognition as her average white counterparts. In this episode, the ladies give more examples of female black excellence and how it is constantly tainted by racism and hatred. In 2002, Halle Berry famously became the first (and only) black female actor to win lead actress Oscar for the movie "Monsters Ball". A movie in which she had an explicit sex scene with a white man. Despite her talent and the longevity of her acting career, her nudity was credit for success in the public eye. Only 8 black women have ever won supporting actress Oscars. Do we really think that's because black women just aren't talented enough, or maybe the hashtag "Oscars so white" began for a reason. Michelle Obama went to Princeton and Harvard. And before becoming First Lady, she was also a lawyer. Yet as First Lady, she endured comments about her needing to loose a few pounds, weighing too much, strikingly ungracious, doesn't look like a first lady, that she is actually a man, an ape in heels, a poor gorilla, and President Obama's baby mama. Yet, Melania Trump who had 1 year in college and who's claim to fame was modeling (including nudes), was treated like royalty for no other reason than her skin tone. How do you know it wasn't political party affiliation, you may ask. Condolezza Rice, a Republican, first female African-American National Security Advisor (2001) and Secretary of State (2005) was depicted has a "house nigga".  This week's Bible Breakdown is Genesis 27. Hear how the mother and son duo plot to trick Isaac and steal a brother's blessings. Instagram and Twitter @ohlawdpodcast

TGIF, Blockbuster, drinking water from a hose...this week the ladies are taking you back to your childhood. There were things that used to be done in the 90s that would never be able to fly now or would simply be looked at as crazy. Sherene and Nichole are about to unlock memories that may make you cringe, but let us all admit, we had so much fun while experiencing them. Instagram @ohlawdpodcast

This week, Sherene and Nichole discuss what everyone is talking about, Kim Kardashian letting everyone know that women don't want to work these days. The ladies have two different perspectives on the now famous clip going viral. Have you watched The Bachelor this season? Is it the most dramatic yet? Sherene is a huge fan of the show and Nichole will watch a few minutes of an episode every now and again. Hear what the two have to say about fantasy suites night. Lastly, if you have been watching Love is Blind, then you have definitely seen the preview for the new show coming out, The Ultimatum. Would you go on a show with your partner if one of you wants to be married but the other isn't ready and the whole point is to explore other potential relationships? This week's Bible breakdown is Genesis 26.

Have you ever thought about what the American education system is preparing our children for? In this week's episode, the ladies discuss how kindergarten through 12th grade isn't geared towards truly educating children. The school system has become a corporate training facility. They discuss how students no longer learn life skills (cooking, banking, entrepreneurship). They also discuss how classrooms are structured like corporations.          -masses do work (students)          -take orders from supervisor(teachers)          -who reports to hire management(principles) Join them as they cover the acceptance of the capitalist class system, the dismissal of those who need additional assistance, and how testing (aka. the ability to regurgitate standardized information) is stifling free thought. Unfortunately, there is no Bible breakdown this week due to technical issues.

In this week's episode, the ladies tackle the "gay agenda." This is a religious right term that tries to make the idea of inclusion and representation of the LGBT community a negative thing. Things like gay representation in music, television, and movies is something that we need more of in this country. Everyone deserves to feel seen and heard.The ladies also discuss the new Florida "Don't say gay" bill. This bill is masked as parents trying to have a say in their children's education, but it allows parents to sue school districts for having conversations about sexuality and sexual orientation. It also would force teachers to report any students to their parents if they come out as a part of the LGBTQIA+.Join the ladies as they discuss some of the ramifications of what both issues mean in our society.

The only thing that is 100% guaranteed in life is that at some point there will be death. This week, the ladies  bring light to a topic that most people see as nothing but darkness. They manage to lighten the heavy topic of death, the fear of dying, and whether or not there is an afterlife. Learn the truth about what happens when loved ones pass without having prepared things like wills. If you are triggered by the topic surrounding death, skip to 41:46 where the Bible Breakdown starts.This week's Bible Breakdown for Genesis 24, wedding bells are in the air thanks to some crafty thinking by a wise servant.

This week is a very special episode! First the ladies talk about the big news that Rihanna dropped on everyone and gives their two cents on Nick Cannon. The very first guest makes an appearance on this week's episode. The ladies have Sharifa Colquhoun, who is a woman of many talents, on to take a deep dive into real estate. Sharifa talks about how she got in to real estate, the REAL process for first time home buyers, making sure you have a realtor that cares about your needs and so much more. This is a great episode to listen to if you are even slightly interested in the home buying side or becoming a real estate agent. Sharifa's InformationPodcast Instagram: gotmeinmypodcastReal Estate Instagram: sharifa_themomfuelReal Estate Website: sharifacolquhoun.exprealty.com

The ladies start this episode by discussing the investigation currently going on at BYU and give their opinions on choosing a religious school while trying to make changes happen there.They then move in to discuss this week's topic, the power of the hoe phase. What is it? Should everyone go through this? Why are people judgmental about it? What are the different types of things one can do for it to be considered a hoe phase? Listen to the ladies own experience on their hoe phases!This week's Bible breakdown is Genesis, Chapter 23.

Watching a documentary on Netflix called "Pray Away" inspired the ladies to discuss conversion therapy. What exactly is this and why would people try it out? Nichole gives you a little insight on her own struggle on her journey on how it felt to try and "pray the gay away." This week's bible breakdown is Genesis, Chapter 22.

Nichole and Sherene are back and ready to make 2022 a year to remember. This week's episode is all about creating a digital vision board and the ladies discuss goals they have for the new year. Maybe seeing these goals everyday will motivate them more than before. This week's bible breakdown is Genesis, Chapter 21. 

Soo...have you guys watched Bridgerton on Netflix? Even if you don't think you would like a show like that just watch it, we promise it is THAT good!It is difficult to navigate life as is with trying to balance work and your sanity, so finding time to make friends sounds like a mission. This week, Sherene and Nichole discuss past friendships and reasons why things may have fizzled out, and then trying to make new friends especially as an adult. There are people out there who are like minded and finding your tribe may feel challenging at times, but it will all be worth it.This week's bible breakdown is Genesis, Chapter 20.

Welcome to 2021! Happy New Year!The ladies are back and starting off the new year with reflecting on 2020. They share what they learned and how they were able to grow through it all. Moving into 2021, they go over their expectations and hopeful revelations for the year and future selves.This week's Bible breakdown has incest, attempted rape, murder, and destruction. The Bible is no joke y'all...these people get cray.Finally, they end with Sherene being a jerk and Nichole being whiny about the historical fact of the week!