Better Call Daddy

Happy International Podcast Day! To celebrate, Reena Friedman Watts sits down with a fellow podcaster and gifted storyteller. Jim Littlefield Dalmares is a storyteller, podcaster, and author (Seeing Ability) who turns his experiences as a father into stories that help other parents feel less alone. On Better Call Daddy, he shares the story behind "A Breath for Sophia" and his journey raising a child with disabilities. Jim talks about the emotional rollercoaster of his daughter's premature birth and what it taught him about acceptance, love, and community. He explains why parents do better when they stop trying to "fix" their child and start supporting their unique path. He also covers sibling dynamics, navigating the medical system, and finding your tribe. Whether you're a new parent facing the unexpected, a caregiver, an advocate, or a podcast fan who loves a great story, this episode offers practical, heartfelt guidance. What You'll Learn Why acceptance matters when raising a child with disabilities The story behind "A Breath for Sophia" How storytelling, writing, and podcasting can build community and change lives How to navigate the medical system and advocate for your child How siblings shape family dynamics How to find community support and "your tribe" How to build resilience and adaptability in your child Timestamps 00:00: Meet Jim Littlefield Dalmares, dad, storyteller, podcaster, and author 05:15: The emotional impact of a premature birth 15:30: Shifting from "fixing" to accepting your child 25:00: Navigating the medical system as a parent 35:45: The role of siblings in the family 45:00: Building a supportive community and finding your voice Memorable Quotes "Your life will change when you stop trying to fix your child and start accepting them for who they are." "There are communities out there to support you, and you're not alone in this journey." About Jim Littlefield Dalmares Jim is a storyteller, podcaster, and author. He hosts the Seeing Ability podcast, where he shares stories and insights from parents and professionals in the disability community, and he wrote the book Seeing Ability. Connect with Jim: seeingability.com  https://a.co/d/0iHc0x4T About Better Call Daddy Better Call Daddy is hosted by Reena Friedman Watts with Big Daddy Wayne Friedman. Connect: bettercalldaddy.com | LinkedIn | Instagram: @reenafriedmanwatts @bettercalldaddypodcast Related Episodes David Hirsch Special Fathers Network https://bettercalldaddy.podbean.com/e/pedaling-through-parenthood-special-fathers-network-david-hirsch/ Florence Ann Romano https://www.podparadise.com/episodes/16095321/ Keywords: International Podcast Day, A Breath for Sophia, Seeing Ability book, Jim Littlefield Dalmares, storyteller, podcaster, author, fatherhood, parenting a child with disabilities, special needs, premature birth, disability advocacy, acceptance, sibling relationships, navigating the medical system, disability community, Seeing Ability podcast, Better Call Daddy, Reena Friedman Watts

Former FBI intelligence analyst John Petrozzelli, host of the Done With Dating podcast, shares advice on dating after divorce, co-parenting, and what the Boston Marathon bombing investigation taught him about people. Reena Friedman Watts and Big Daddy Wayne Friedman sit down with John to talk about life after the Bureau, fatherhood, and dating as a divorced parent. John worked on high-profile cases, including the Boston Marathon bombing investigation, and explains how that work shaped the way he reads people and relationships. He also talks about raising kids while working in law enforcement, why honesty guided his parenting, and why co-parenting after divorce has to put the kids first. Then the conversation turns to dating today, especially for single parents. John explains how he uses his investigative skills to match people on Done With Dating and why he tells listeners to do the inner work before looking for a partner. Listen if you're dating after divorce, curious about a career in law enforcement, or looking for honest perspective on parenting and relationships. What You'll Learn How John went from FBI intelligence analyst to matchmaker What the Boston Marathon bombing investigation taught him about human behavior How to balance a demanding career with being a dad Why co-parenting works best when the kids come first How to approach dating after divorce Why self-reflection has to come before finding a partner How to build trust and rapport in a new relationship Timestamps 00:00 – Meet John Petrozzelli, former FBI intelligence analyst 05:15 – Balancing an FBI career with fatherhood 15:30 – Lessons from the Boston Marathon bombing case 25:00 – Why dating as a parent is different 35:45 – Using investigative skills in matchmaking 45:00 – Why self-reflection comes before love Quotes from John "Truth and honesty are the cornerstones of everything I do, both in my career and as a father." "I believe in love, and I want others to have hope that their person is out there waiting for them." About John Petrozzelli John Petrozzelli is a former FBI intelligence analyst and the host of the Done With Dating podcast. He combines his investigative background with his understanding of human behavior to help people find lasting relationships. Connect with John: donewithdating.co  About Better Call Daddy Better Call Daddy is hosted by Reena Friedman Watts, with Big Daddy Wayne Friedman Connect with Reena: bettercalldaddy.com | LinkedIn | Instagram: @reenafriedmanwatts Keywords: ex-FBI analyst, dating after divorce, dating as a single parent, co-parenting advice, John Petrozzelli, Boston Marathon bombing investigation, matchmaking podcast, Done With Dating, Better Call Daddy, Reena Friedman Watts, Big Daddy Wayne Friedman

In this episode of Better Call Daddy, host Reena Friedman Watts sits down with Roberto Vela III, a former oil field worker turned SpaceX aerospace technician, to talk career reinvention, military discipline, and fatherhood. Roberto shares how he answered Elon Musk's open call for talent and landed a job at SpaceX, describing the chaotic, high energy experience of interviewing alongside hundreds of other hopefuls. He talks candidly about the pressure of working in the aerospace industry, where every launch carries massive stakes and the margin for error is razor thin. The conversation traces Roberto's path from military paratrooper to aerospace technician, and how his time in the service built the resilience, composure, and work ethic that prepared him for a career at one of the most demanding companies in the world. He recounts witnessing rocket launches and explosions firsthand, the tight camaraderie among people working at the edge of what is possible, and even lighter perks of the job, like SpaceX providing food for employees during long shifts. Roberto also opens up about fatherhood, sharing how becoming a young dad reshaped how he thinks about legacy, purpose, and the values he wants to pass on to his children. He talks about the importance of work ethic, adaptability, and staying curious in a fast changing world, from his unconventional career path to teaching himself photography. Whether you're interested in entrepreneurship, career changes, military to civilian transitions, the space industry, or raising kids with strong values, this episode has something for you. What's In This Episode Roberto Vela’s career journey from oil fields to SpaceX What it's really like interviewing for a job at SpaceX How military service as a paratrooper shaped his career Witnessing rocket launches and rocket failures up close Life inside SpaceX, including everyday perks like on site food for employees Why family and legacy drive everything he builds Lessons from a non-linear, unconventional career path The role of mentorship and community in career growth How to embrace change and pursue new passions Why work ethic matters most when building a legacy Teaching himself photography as a creative outlet Memorable Quotes From Roberto Vela  "The military taught me to look cool under pressure, even when I didn't know what I was doing." "Everything I'm building is for my children. I want them to have the tools to succeed." "If I can learn something that's very hard, then I think other people can." "I want them to have the generational work ethic." From Reena Friedman Watts "You're creating that legacy one call at a time." From Big Daddy Wayne Friedman "It's always worthwhile to be on the Better Call Daddy show."   Timestamps (00:00) Introduction to Roberto Vela III and his background (05:15) The experience of interviewing at SpaceX (15:30) Insights from military service and its impact on his career (25:00) Witnessing rocket launches and the culture at SpaceX (35:45) The joys and challenges of being a young dad (45:00) Building a legacy and instilling values in his children About Roberto Vela III Roberto Vela III is a former oil field worker turned aerospace technician who has worked with SpaceX and Stoke Space. A dedicated father and passionate photographer, he is focused on learning new skills and building a lasting legacy for his family. Connect with Roberto Vela III Roberto Vela III, Co-Founder & CTO, Starport Space https://robertvelaiii.com LinkedIn: Roberto Vela III Instagram: Roberto Vela III X (formerly Twitter): Roberto Vela III Connect with Reena Friedman Watts Website: bettercalldaddy.com LinkedIn: Reena Friedman Watts Instagram: @reenafriedmanwatts Keywords: Roberto Vela III, SpaceX employee, aerospace industry career, military to civilian transition, paratrooper, career reinvention, fatherhood and legacy, entrepreneurship podcast, Better Call Daddy podcast, Stoke Space

In this episode of Better Call Daddy, host Reena Friedman Watts welcomes Jenny Wuckert, a dynamic musician from Winnipeg, Manitoba, who wears many hats as a punk band member, airline employee, and freelance marriage commissioner. Jenny shares her journey from being a shy kid to rocking the stage with her band, Toaster Bath, and opens up about the transformative power of music in her life. The conversation delves into Jenny's experiences in the local music scene, her love for punk rock, and the cathartic release she finds in performing. She offers valuable advice for young musicians, emphasizing the importance of finding comfort in collaboration and the joy of playing music with friends. As they explore the challenges of being a woman in the punk scene, Jenny recounts the hurdles she faced from gender biases to the importance of authenticity in a world that often rewards performance over honesty. She reflects on her evolution as an artist and the significance of creativity in navigating life's ups and downs. Jenny also candidly discusses her health challenges, including her battle with endometriosis, and the importance of self-advocacy and community support. Her heartfelt stories about caring for her grandmother and the lessons learned from her parents add depth to this engaging episode. If you're interested in music, personal growth, or the punk rock scene, this episode is packed with insights and inspiration. 🎙️ What's In This Episode Jenny Wuckert's journey from a shy kid to a punk rocker The transformative power of music and self-expression Advice for young musicians on collaboration and comfort Challenges of being a woman in the punk music scene The importance of authenticity in the age of social media Health challenges and the significance of self-advocacy Heartwarming stories about family and community support Exploring the evolution of music technology and culture The role of creativity in personal growth and well-being 💭 Memorable Quotes from Jenny Wuckert "Music is a way to express yourself and overcome fear." "Find people you're comfortable with to play music; it makes everything flow more naturally." "If there's anything that I could share with today's youth is that there are so many different ways that you can go about learning something new." "You might go in totally different directions than what you thought." 🗣️ Quotes from Big Daddy Wayne Friedman "You can be shy, you can have idiosyncrasies, but trying to live life to the fullest and to try to be creative at what you're doing, that's what life's all about." ⏱️ Timestamps Time Segment 00:00 Introduction to Jenny Wuckert, punk band member and marriage commissioner 05:15 Jenny's journey from shyness to punk rock 15:30 The importance of collaboration in music 25:00 Challenges of being a woman in the punk scene 35:45 Navigating health challenges and self-advocacy 45:00 Family dynamics and the role of creativity in life 👤 About Jenny Wuckert Jenny Wuckert is a multi-talented musician and freelance marriage commissioner based in Winnipeg, Manitoba. A member of the punk band Toaster Bath, she has been an active participant in the local music scene for years, using her voice to advocate for authenticity and creativity while navigating personal challenges. Thank you Jon Waldman for the intro Check out his episode too 🔗 Connect with Jenny Wuckert Instagram: Jen E. Talia Weddings: J. Harmony Matrimonial 🔗 Connect with Reena Friedman Watts Website: bettercalldaddy.com LinkedIn: Reena Friedman Watts Instagram: @reenafriedmanwatts Keywords: Jenny Wuckert, punk rock, Toaster Bath, Winnipeg music scene, endometriosis, self-advocacy, women in music, creativity, Better Call Daddy podcast

In this milestone 500th episode of Better Call Daddy, host Reena Friedman Watts sits down with Will McKee, Jiu Jitsu black belt and founder of Asylum Jiu Jitsu in Aledo, Texas. Will shares his transformative journey from a 255-pound medical operations manager to a confident, mission-driven Jiu Jitsu practitioner shedding 60 pounds and rebuilding his mental health along the way. Will opens up about the physical and mental transformation he's experienced through Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ), emphasizing self-confidence, resilience, and discipline. He explains how he coaches kids to embrace competition without pressure, creating a gym culture where every student child or adult can grow, learn, and overcome real obstacles. The conversation dives into Jiu Jitsu culture at large: the balance between competition and personal growth, the importance of a safe training environment, and the darker sides of martial arts culture that Asylum Jiu Jitsu was built to push back against. Despite its name, Will explains, Asylum isn't a cage it's a place of refuge, structure, and freedom, closer to a monastery than an asylum in the traditional sense. Will also reflects on his own mental health struggles and how Jiu Jitsu became his sanctuary during the hardest chapters of his life. He shares stories of student progress, his approach to mentorship, and his mission to be the coach he wished he'd had growing up — shaped in part by his relationship with his own father. If you're interested in martial arts, BJJ, mental health, fitness transformation, or raising resilient kids, this milestone episode of Better Call Daddy delivers all of it. 🎙️ What's In This Episode Will McKee's journey from medical operations manager to Jiu Jitsu black belt His 60-pound weight loss transformation through BJJ How Jiu Jitsu improved his mental health and self-confidence Coaching kids in competition without pressure or fear of failure Building Asylum Jiu Jitsu as a safe, supportive training environment The balance between competition and personal growth in martial arts Confronting the darker side of Jiu Jitsu culture Why Asylum Jiu Jitsu is a space for freedom, not confinement Community, mentorship, and student success stories Lessons from his relationship with his father 💭 Memorable Quotes from Will McKee "Jiu Jitsu is about helping people. I want to create a safe place for everyone to train." "It's not about winning or losing — it's about learning and growing from every experience." ⏱️ Timestamps (00:00) Introducing Will McKee, Jiu Jitsu black belt and founder of Asylum Jiu Jitsu (05:15) His 60-pound weight loss journey through BJJ (15:30) Building confidence in kids through martial arts (25:00) Community and mentorship at Asylum Jiu Jitsu (35:45) Competition vs. personal growth on the mats (45:00) Mental health, resilience, and finding freedom through Jiu Jitsu 👤 About Will McKee / Asylum Jiu Jitsu Will McKee is a Jiu Jitsu black belt and founder of Asylum Jiu Jitsu, based in Aledo, Texas. After a career in medical operations, Will transformed his own life through Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and has since built a gym culture centered on safety, mentorship, and personal growth for students of all ages. His mission: prove that Asylum isn't a cage — it's a space for freedom, discipline, and community. Keywords: Asylum Jiu Jitsu, Will McKee, BJJ, Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, Aledo Texas, martial arts mental health, Jiu Jitsu weight loss, Better Call Daddy podcast 🔗 Connect with Will McKee / Asylum Jiu Jitsu Instagram: Asylum Jiu Jitsu | Will McKee, BJJ 🔗 Connect with Reena Friedman Watts Website: bettercalldaddy.com | LinkedIn: Reena Friedman Watts | Instagram: @reenafriedmanwatts   Thank you Podcast in a Box!!! TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@podcast.in.a.box Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/podcastboxio YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@podcastboxio Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/podcastboxio X — https://x.com/podcastboxio Signup page: https://launch.podcastbox.io