Unrelenting Pursuit

A mother’s love offers comfort and safety. A father’s love calls a child into courage and resilience.  In this episode, we unpack the powerful role of fathers—how their presence (or absence) shapes the way children view God, handle life’s pressures, and walk out their faith as adults. Blending research, biblical wisdom, and real-life insight, we’ll explore why dads matter more than they often realize, and how carrying the weight of fatherhood is both a challenge and a sacred privilege.Hebrews 11:1 reminds us—faith is the assurance of things hoped for. The calling of fatherhood may feel heavy, but Christ multiplies your strength for the role He’s entrusted to you.⸻As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Let’s be real—what you invest in is what you truly value. In this episode, we share our own resources and dreams, and the faith it takes to speak them out loud. We also want to challenge you: are you pouring more into your lifestyle, hobbies, or comfort than into your marriage? The truth is, God designed marriage to reflect His covenant love, and that kind of love requires sacrifice. If the thought of shifting your investment stings a little, maybe that’s God stirring something in you. Because growth costs something—but the return on a marriage rooted in Him is worth every bit of it.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Join us as we get a chance to share about our son, and what God is doing right now. We serve the same God of power and might who answers prayers and moves TODAYWe also dig into the question: why do we stop short? Whether it’s in our marriage, our faith, our relationships, or boldly sharing Christ—what could happen if we went all in and truly believed in the power of the One we serve? What if we shifted our faith, our life, what we do in our marriage by 2 degrees.Our hope is that this conversation will challenge, encourage, and remind you that Jesus is still in the business of doing the impossible.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In this episode, we’re sharing some powerful lessons God taught us while building a home in Guatemala with Casas por Cristo—and how those same truths apply directly to marriage.From the importance of a firm foundation to learning how to pivot when plans change, we saw firsthand how trust in God transforms everything. We talk about how the Body of Christ works together in unity, the power of perspective, and why the light of Christ must be evident in our homes and relationships.We also get real about how marriage requires adaptability, and the reminder that nothing has power over us when we’re standing on the foundation of Christ. His light drives out darkness—and that light should shine in us…in every area. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In this episode, we dive into the challenges many couples face when communication breaks down—particularly when reactions fall to extremes. Whether it's shutting down and withdrawing or explosive outbursts fueled by anger, both responses can cause long-term damage to your relationship. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger," and James 1:20 teaches us that "Human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires." Remember, healthy conversations are key to a thriving marriage, and even the hardest talks can strengthen your bond if approached with grace.Takeaway Challenges:Reflect on your communication patterns—are you shutting down, or are you prone to explosive anger?If needed, seek professional help or counseling to work through deeper communication struggles.Practice Proverbs 15:1 this week—when you feel anger rising, pause and choose a gentle answer to defuse tension.Remember, honoring your spouse means being willing to have those difficult, yet necessary, conversations without dishonoring yourself or your spouse by withdrawing or explosive outbursts.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Trust and connection in marriage don’t just happen—they require regular reflection and assessment. In this episode, we discuss why honest self-assesement, and assessment of your marriage, is essential for both preventing issues and rebuilding trust after challenges. Join us as we discuss practical ways to assess communication, spiritual growth, and why you can’t skip or stay stuck in this step if you want a thriving, Christ-centered relationship. And don't forget the challenge at the end to help you Assess towards Success!As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In Part 2 of our anniversary special, we’re diving into the second half of the 24 pieces of marriage advice we’ve learned over 24 years together. These are the deeper lessons—about forgiveness, fun, intimacy, and fighting for each other instead of against. If you’ve ever wondered how to stay connected through chaos, how to rebuild trust, or how to let laughter and faith carry you through the darkest nights—this one is for you. Join us for honest stories, practical wisdom, and the hope that your marriage can grow stronger no matter what season you’re in.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

After 24 years of marriage, we’ve gathered a list of 24 pieces of advice that have shaped, challenged, and strengthened our relationship—and in this two-part series, we’re sharing them with you. In this episode, we dive into the first 12 lessons, from the practical to the deeply personal. Whether you’re newly married or decades in, there’s something here for you. Tune in for real talk, hard-earned wisdom, and a few laughs along the way. Part 2 is coming soon—because we’ve got more to say!As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Let’s be honest—offense is heavy. And if we’re not careful, we start carrying things we were never meant to hold. In this episode, we open up a raw, no-judgment conversation about what happens when we live offended—and how it affects our heart, our relationship with God, and our marriage.We talk about how bitterness doesn’t just isolate you—it starts to shape how you see everything. You begin expecting rejection, even when no one’s trying to hurt you. The lens of past pain starts filtering out present love. And before you know it, the very relationships you crave—closeness, connection, real love—are the ones being pushed away.Proverbs 19:11 reminds us: “It’s to one’s glory to overlook an offense.” Not because it didn’t hurt—but because freedom matters more than staying stuck. Forgiveness is never about pretending, and it’s not weakness. It’s about laying down the weight and trusting God to be your healer and defender.If you’ve been feeling distant, guarded, or exhausted from carrying pain you never asked for—this episode is for you. There’s hope, healing, and a way forward.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

This episode hit different—because as we were recording it, God was working on us. What started as a conversation about marriage and trust in dry seasons quickly became a moment of conviction. We had to face the truth: we weren’t trusting God as much as we thought we were.And most importantly we talk about how God uses the desert—yes, even the hard, frustrating parts—to shape something holy in us.It’s not a teaching moment. It’s a real-time surrender. So if you’re struggling to trust God (or each other), you’re not alone—and there’s grace here for you too.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

As moms, it’s far too easy to live under the weight of guilt, comparison, and the constant feeling that we’re not doing enough. In this episode, we’re breaking down the lie of failure that so many of us carry—and replacing it with the truth: this role matters deeply. You are seen by God. He has equipped you for this sacred work and the seeds you are planting in this season matter! Whether you’re in the middle of chaos or calm, this is your reminder that you’re not alone—and that encouragement isn’t a luxury, it’s a lifeline.Happy Mother’s Day (a few days late) to all the moms that make it happen day in and day out. Keep clinging to Jesus through it all.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

What if the most loving thing you could do… was let someone face the full weight of their choices?In this episode, we unpack the hard truth that rescuing isn’t always love. We dive into why stepping in too soon can actually delay growth, how consequences can be the very tool God uses for transformation, and how to release the people we care about to His process — even when it hurts.We’re redefining kindness, challenging our own need to control, and learning how to trust the God who redeems even the messiest situations.This one’s for the fixer, the parent, the spouse, the friend — the one who’s tired of carrying what was never theirs to fix.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

“Be strong and courageous.” (Joshua 1:9)God calls men to be protectors — not to dominate, but to defend with love. Women were created to strengthen, not diminish. In this episode, we break down God’s original design for marriage: where leadership is sacrificial, help is powerful, and true protection honors, covers, and brings life. We reclaim the beauty of these roles—and why stepping into them is the path to freedom, not control.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Ever notice how the little quirks in your partner’s behavior can be endearing, amusing, and quickly shift to irritating? In this episode, we dive into the everyday idiosyncrasies that can sometimes drive us up the wall—like leaving cabinets open, repeating stories, or even being hilariously enthusiastic about dishwasher organization—and uncover how these quirks can actually be the secret ingredients to deeper connection in your marriage.• The Quirk List: We share common, lovable habits that every couple has, and hear some real-life anecdotes that remind us we’re not alone in our quirks.• The Irritant Shift: Discover why those tiny habits can seem annoying over time, especially during moments of stress, and learn how shifting our perspective can transform irritation into affection.• Reframing the Quirks: We’ll discuss practical ways to see these quirks as reflections of what makes your partner unique—and how reframing your perspective can change everything. Join us for a lively conversation that challenges you to appreciate the little things and reminds you that love, in all its quirky glory, is truly worth fighting for. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

What does real love look like? In this episode, we explore the heart of Jesus’ love—the kind that washed Judas’ feet, embraced the outcast, and laid down everything for those who didn’t deserve it. Jesus said the world would know we are His followers by the way we love. That includes our spouses, especially when it’s difficult. Love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a choice, a reflection of Christ. Whether you’re married, single, or struggling to love and serve someone who’s hurt you, this episode will challenge and encourage you to love like Jesus: radically, sacrificially, and without conditions.As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here. linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

The people closest to you have a powerful influence on your character, growth, and life’s direction. Yet, many—especially men—often overlook the importance of investing in this critical area of life. In this episode, we dive into how the people standing beside you shape the person you are inside. We’ll discuss the necessity of building a strong, intentional community, recognizing when relationships need to change, and the courage it takes to make those shifts. Don’t neglect this vital part of your life as God designed us to thrive in connection with others! As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In this episode, we explore how to keep the true heart of connection alive in your marriage and family during the Thanksgiving season. With all the expectations and traditions that come with the holidays, it’s easy to lose sight of what really matters: your connection with God and your spouse. Join us as we discuss how to prioritize love, grace, and mutual respect over perfection, when to let go and when to hold on, and how to create meaningful moments without letting the pressure of tradition take over. Make what matters most, matter most! We are so grateful for each and every one of you and pray that your Thanksgiving is filled gratitude for one another. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

Manipulation often disguises itself in subtle ways, yet it deeply damages relationships and undermines trust. In this episode, we expose common tactics of manipulation, including: • Emotional Blackmail • Gaslighting • Passive Aggression • Victimhood • Control • Withholding Affection Learn how to identify and address these harmful behaviors—whether in yourself or your spouse—and break free from cycles that can hurt you and your marriage. With practical insights and a God-centered perspective, discover how to restore honesty, trust, and healthy communication in your relationships. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In this episode, we explore how true breakthrough often requires a process of breaking, as God calls us to let go of the things that no longer serve His purpose in our lives.  This journey applies to marriage, too, where compromising on Godly standards can feel like a way to avoid discomfort but ultimately leads us toward temporary relief instead of lasting growth.  We’ll discuss how holding firm in challenging moments builds a foundation of trust, strength, and unity, and how allowing God to guide us through the breaking process can lead to deeper transformation in ourselves and our marriages. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit

In this episode, we dive into the subtle, often unnoticed behaviors—micro-rejections—that can slowly create a chasm between you and your spouse.  Join us as we explore what micro-rejections look like, why they’re easy to overlook, and how they can build up over time to erode trust and connection. Learn how to recognize and address these small hurts and ensure you don’t allow this to be an obstacle in your marriage. Tune in to learn practical ways to stop unintentionally pushing each other away and build a stronger, healthier bond. As always, we would love to hear from you! If you need any additional information about our 2 day Marriage Reboots, Coaching, Speaking Events, or Resource click here.  linktr.ee/UnrelentingPursuit