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I Love You Keep Going with George Haas
I Love You Keep Going with George Haas
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Welcome to I Love You Keep Going the Podcast with George Haas. Each episode will explore the connections between ancient Buddhist meditation techniques and modern psychological attachment theory. Learn more at mettagroup.org
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Exploring how insecure attachment drives self-editing in relationships, and how meditation supports brave authenticity.Join us in Meditation x Attachment Level One to get to the root issues, and craft a life that feels resourced, fulfilling and balanced. Know yourself more fully. Develop skills to stay emotionally balanced and regulated (through the highs and lows of life). Have a partnership, friendships and relationships that feel nourishing (not draining).This is your time to live a meaningful life. We’ll give you the blueprint, which lives at the intersection of meditation and attachment theory. Our next cohort of Level One runs March 7, 14 , 21. Secure your spot today: https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-attachment-level-one
Exploring how anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment dynamics play out on a cultural scale, from tribalism and misinformation to the craving for certainty.Join us in Meditation x Attachment Level One to get to the root issues, and craft a life that feels resourced, fulfilling and balanced. Know yourself more fully. Develop skills to stay emotionally balanced and regulated (through the highs and lows of life). Have a partnership, friendships and relationships that feel nourishing (not draining).This is your time to live a meaningful life. We’ll give you the blueprint, which lives at the intersection of meditation and attachment theory. Our next cohort of Level One runs March 7, 14 , 21. Secure your spot today: https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-attachment-level-one
In this episode George fields some requests from the group.Join us in Meditation x Attachment Level One to get to the root issues, and craft a life that feels resourced, fulfilling and balanced. Know yourself more fully. Develop skills to stay emotionally balanced and regulated (through the highs and lows of life). Have a partnership, friendships and relationships that feel nourishing (not draining).This is your time to live a meaningful life. We’ll give you the blueprint, which lives at the intersection of meditation and attachment theory. Our next cohort of Level One runs March 7, 14 , 21. Secure your spot today: https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-attachment-level-one
How can we orient toward New Year's resolutions, so that we can show ourselves more compassion, flexibility and patience? What can we anchor into instead? How does this time of year support (or impede upon) our capacity to live a meaningful life?If you want greater balance in your relationships, clearer awareness, and more secure functioning overall, then keep reading. Here's what improves across your whole life when you go through the Meditation x Attachment Level Two program (which begins Feb 20th): https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-attachment-level-two👉🏼Emotional Regulation✨Better handling of intense emotions: Use thinking to regulate when feelings exceed capacity, distinguishing raw present-moment sensing from past-conditioned meanings.✨Reduced reactivity: Evaluate meaning accuracy (e.g., "snake" vs. rope), avoiding procedural autopilot (fight/flight/freeze) and habitual responses.✨Embodied emotional awareness: Turn on conscious feelings (esp. for dismissing types), restoring empathy and spontaneity without over-monitoring.👉🏼Relationships and Communication✨Mutual understanding: Transliterate experiences into others' terms (cherries/raspberries/mangoes metaphor) for collaborative exchanges; elicit how they need care.✨Predictability and reliability: Consistent responses (less chaotic flashing between patterns in disorganized attachment); others trust you more.✨Fewer conflicts/repairs: Track self-other effects, adjust in real-time, bridge gaps (e.g., preoccupied with dismissive sibling), sustain hope instead of repeated fixes.✨Secure functioning: Automatic spontaneity with monitoring; care for each other without burdening one side.Ready to heal your attachment disturbances and live with security? Your relationships, your sense of self, your career, your WHOLE life will transform. Link in bio to sign up and we’ll see you Feb 20th for our first virtual class with George Haas.
Explore how secure functioning develops through the capacity to remain present with emotional intensity (your own and others’). Learn meditative techniques for widening your window of tolerance, so vulnerability becomes a gateway to connection rather than shutdown.Meditation x Addiction Level One is open for enrollment! This is our 3 Week Meditation-Based Virtual Group Program Led by George Haas, Founding Teacher of MettagroupDates: February 14, 21 and 28, 2026Embark on an addiction recovery path that’s designed to give you a sustainable, meaningful life. End the relapse cycle, and heal the root issues that fuel your addiction.Sign up now at: https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-addiction-level-one
How do we discern when it's time to end the romantic relationship (vs. when it's appropriate to repair or reconnect)? Is here a rubric for navigating this, or is it case-by-case? And how do attachment strategies play into this discernment process? Meditation x Addiction Level One is open for enrollment! This is our 3 Week Meditation-Based Virtual Group Program Led by George Haas, Founding Teacher of MettagroupDates: February 14, 21 and 28, 2026Embark on an addiction recovery path that’s designed to give you a sustainable, meaningful life. End the relapse cycle, and heal the root issues that fuel your addiction.Sign up now at: https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-addiction-level-one
This episode looks at how early attachment experiences shape our ability to let in love. How does Metta practice and other techniques help re-teach the body that connection is safe, and to open to share/receive love? Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
What does it mean to set boundaries without cutting people off? What can we learn from Buddhist non-attachment and healthy relational boundaries, in navigating relationships and getting our needs met? Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
We explore the Buddhist wisdom of grounding and establishing inner safety in order to walk the insight meditation path, and how this parallels attachment repair. True awareness only blossoms when the body feels safe.✨ Just a few days left to join ✨Meditation x Attachment Level One (https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-attachment-level-one)👉🏼 January New Year Cohort (begins January 10th!)If you’ve been feeling stuck in repeating dysfunctional patterns, chronic dissatisfaction, or emotional loops that don’t seem to shift… this program was created for you.This experiential offering is for adults of all meditation levels who are ready for a new approach to attachment healing, emotional regulation, and building healthier relationships: at home, at work, and within themselves. Move past the sticky blocks and embrace your meaningful life.🗓 Program Dates:Jan 10, 17 & 24(3 Saturdays | Live Virtual Group Training with George Haas)There’s no better time than the start of a new year to build a foundation of clarity, direction, and healing.If you’re ready to leave parts of 2025 behind and step into a more authentic chapter, we begin January 10th.What’s included when you join:👉🏼 Three Live Immersive Virtual Group SessionsEach session blends learning, meditation practice, and real connection. You’ll explore the psychological and meditative framework of attachment healing, receive live guided meditations, and integrate the work in community with facilitator support. We’ll work with IPF (Idealized Parent Figure Protocol) and other core techniques in real time.👉🏼 Attachment Repair: Basic Meditation LibraryA foundational set of guided meditations designed to help you build the specific skills needed for lasting attachment repair. Even if you’ve meditated before, these techniques are unique, and starting at the beginning helps set you up for success.🔔 Register today! space is limited (Link in bio to secure your spot)🗓 We begin January 10thSign up here: https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-attachment-level-one
How do we look back at the past year with honesty, compassion, and non-judgment? This episode explores mindful reflection practices and an approach on auditing that help release shame and create space for growth.✨ Just a few days left to join ✨ Meditation x Attachment Level One👉🏼 January New Year Cohort (begins January 10th!)If you’ve been feeling stuck in repeating dysfunctional patterns, chronic dissatisfaction, or emotional loops that don’t seem to shift… this program was created for you.This experiential offering is for adults of all meditation levels who are ready for a new approach to attachment healing, emotional regulation, and building healthier relationships: at home, at work, and within themselves. Move past the sticky blocks and embrace your meaningful life.🗓 Program Dates: Jan 10, 17 & 24 (3 Saturdays | Live Virtual Group Training with George Haas)There’s no better time than the start of a new year to build a foundation of clarity, direction, and healing.If you’re ready to leave parts of 2025 behind and step into a more authentic chapter, we begin January 10th.https://www.mettagroup.org/meditation-x-attachment-level-one
Why traditional goal-setting often fails for those with attachment wounds, and how to set intentions that align with your nervous system, values, and capacity. How do we approach intention-setting and a new year without the shame and guilt bogging us down? ✨ Just a few days left to join ✨ Meditation x Attachment Level One👉🏼 January New Year Cohort (begins January 10th!)If you’ve been feeling stuck in repeating dysfunctional patterns, chronic dissatisfaction, or emotional loops that don’t seem to shift… this program was created for you.This experiential offering is for adults of all meditation levels who are ready for a new approach to attachment healing, emotional regulation, and building healthier relationships: at home, at work, and within themselves. Move past the sticky blocks and embrace your meaningful life.🗓 Program Dates: Jan 10, 17 & 24 (3 Saturdays | Live Virtual Group Training with George Haas)There’s no better time than the start of a new year to build a foundation of clarity, direction, and healing.If you’re ready to leave parts of 2025 behind and step into a more authentic chapter, we begin January 10th.
How repairing your own attachment affects the way you show up for children or those you nurture.👉🏼 Join us LIVE for our Family Archaeology Half-Day retreat Home for the Holidays from the Attachment PerspectiveWhen: Saturday, Nov. 15th | 9AM-1PM PT / 12PM-4PM EThttps://www.mettagroup.org/retreat-family-archaeologyTry our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
How people sometimes use meditation to avoid intimacy, and how to re-engage relationally while maintaining practice.Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
What qualities define this attachment style (helplessness, etc) and how does this impede on your ability to play and have fun? What's the greater impact on your life? What's the path for healing, and how does play factor into this?👉🏼 Join us LIVE for our Family Archaeology Half-Day retreat Home for the Holidays from the Attachment PerspectiveWhen: Saturday, Nov. 15th | 9AM-1PM PT / 12PM-4PM EThttps://www.mettagroup.org/retreat-family-archaeologyTry our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
How does Metta practice support attachment repair? How does this fit within the greater Mettagroup Method approach?Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
Why attachment wounds heal best in safe relational contexts (mentorship, IPF, romantic, community), not in isolation and how it plays out. Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
How do different Attachment strategies go about getting their needs met?Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
We continue our series on Abandonment Terror and focus on Disorganized People experience it. Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
We continue our series on Abandonment Terror and focus on Preoccupied People experience it. Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.
What is this common phenomenon? How does each attachment strategy orient toward abandonment terror? How should you approach overcoming it, based on your attachment strategy? Try our free video resource "The Main Signs of Attachment Disturbance " and learn how to identify core attachment disturbances, move beyond the challenges and live a truly meaningful life. Get it now at mettagroup.org/start-hereMettagroup was founded by George Haas in 2003 and named the ‘Best Online Buddhist Meditation’ by Los Angeles Magazine in 2011, Mettagroup uses Vipassana, or Insight meditation, as a way to help students live a meaningful life. Drawing from 2500-year-old Buddhist teachings and John Bowlby's Attachment Theory, the Mettagroup techniques serve as a model of how to connect with other people, and how to be completely yourself in relationships with others and with work.More info at mettagroup.org.




