So I Married A Sexologist

On this inaugural episode of So I Married A Sexologist, MikaL and Kristine talk about their origin story as a couple. They explore how online dating was the catalyst that brought them together. This episode explores why people choose to date online, how COVID-19 has changed the way we date and this week's 'Modern Mating' segment includes listener's dating horror stories! Kristine gives her expert dating tips and how to make the dating process more successful. We hope you're ready to laugh, explore your sexuality and normalize a conversation about sex and relationships!Follow us on Instagram to see what next episode's 'Modern Mating' question is so you can submit your reply and get your email read on the podcast! @soimarriedasexologist or email us at soimarriedpodcast@gmail.com!Follow, like and subscribe! We would love your help spreading sex positivity!

MikaL and Kristine explore the science of attraction, brain chemistry and how it influences choosing a partner. Modern mating: When have you been surprised by attraction and how to keep that spark alive in your LTR.

There are so many benefits to sex fantasies, MikaL and I explore the different ways to fantasize, how to utilize them and why they're so important to you individually and as a couple. In an attempt to normalize sexually fantasizing, we share our own fantasies and a few of our listeners as well. We even give you our sexual fantasy starter kit!

MikaL and Kristine talk about why it's important to continue maintaining a level of novelty in your relationship through romance and dating each other. They provide tips and a clear path for those that struggle with getting creative and planning special experiences for their partner.

In this episode we explore the importance of alone time, especially when you're in a relationship. How can prioritizing personal time benefit your relationship? With our creative suggestions and using the suggestions during Modern Mating, you will learn inspiring ways of getting more alone time that allow you coming back to your partner a more interesting person to be with!

"Not Tonight, Honey" Does this phrase sound familiar? Either you've heard it or said it a bunch when communicating with your partner. Uneven levels of desire is a common struggle for couples which is why we're exploring this important topic in two parts: emotional intimacy first then physical connection will follow in episode 7. MikaL and I will give you actionable steps towards bringing balance into this area of your relationship. Enjoy!

In part 2, MikaL and Kristine continue exploring the topic of uneven levels of desire. They talk about ways to bring balance into your physical intimacy with a partner, improving the overall quality of your relationship. You won't want to miss 'Just The Tip' for this episode's action step!

What does it mean to be kinky? How can your relationship benefit from exploring kink? How in the hell would you even bring that up to a partner? We explore all of this and so much more in this episode! After listening you'll be well equipped to step outside your comfort zone and explore some kink!

We're talking about ways to improve your relationship by evaluating commitments and promises we make. What's the difference between promises and commitment? How can annual evaluation of commitments be beneficial to your relationship? In this episode you'll learn how to create your own annual love resolution exercise and use it every year to continue creating a relationship you love.

Join us in a discussion about sex toys! We cover the where, why's and how's! We may even provide a promo code (or two or three!) For a discount as deep as you can take it! Come with us, there's pleasure to be discovered!

Join us as we get personal about our own porn usage, how it affects our relationship and all the ways it can affect you....the good the bad and ugly.

In this Q&A episode we answer all your questions and even threw in a lightening round at the end! How much masturbation is too much? Can all women ejaculate? How often do we have sex? All of these get answered and so much more!

How can eating cannabis increase your sexual experiences? Where do you even start to make sure you're gonna have a good time? MikaL and Kristine share many laughs during this episode. Enjoy!

What is the sex ed gap? How can lack of comprehensive sex ed affect your sex life? Kristine and MikaL explore resources to help learn more about raising your kids, guiding teens towards pleasure-based sex and we heard from you, the listener! You're never too old (or young) to learn about your body and sexuality!

Let's normalize masturbation and explore self pleasure! There's how many benefits to masturbating?! Modern Mating: What would you tell your younger-self about masturbation? Our conversation will enlighten, education and motivate you to explore more self pleasure!

In episode one of a two-part series, we're exploring oral sex for vagina owners. How is MikaL so good at giving head? He shares his secrets to unlocking cunnilingus perfection! If you're a receiver OR giver of oral pleasure for vulvas/vaginas you don't want to miss this one!

In part 2 of our oral sex series, it's all about blow jobs. How to feel more comfortable giving and receiving BJ's. What makes a good blow job and Kristine provides you with her THREE tips for giving good head!

What's left to discuss with our series on oral sex?! Well, butt stuff of course! Whether you're wanting to explore or already experienced in the art of anallingous this episode will inform you, make you laugh and hopefully be more open to conversations about all types of pleasure with your partner(s)!

If you're in a relationship or been in one before you've probably found yourself in the initiation situation where one of you initiates sex more often than your partner. In this episode we talk about why and how that develops into a pattern and what you can do to break it!

What's the most common concern I hear from my clients? The feeling of being distracted during sex. In this episode we go off our usual format and just chat about this important topic. Give it a listen if you or your partner get distracted easily during sex, we just have a few tips for you!