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A healthy lifestyle from a Christian perspective with marriage and family counselor Olen Baker.
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Simply, a human responding to a situation, any situation. Heroes don't just do the big stuff, they do the little things that make a big difference.
Character and destiny are measured by courage, accountability, and faith. Allow God to walk by your side and stay tuned in to what He says. Not just every now and then...always.
Do what is right. With God by your side, you have what's necessary to always respond that way. Turn off the noise of the world and listen to God. He will help you, every time.
It's easier to walk away or ignore a need. You're just too busy, right? Courage is taking time to stop and engage, to help a person in need or address an issue. Showing courage is not easy, but always the right thing to do.
Sure, your schedule is over-booked and your attitude and energy is overwhelmed. We exist to help others, just like Jesus did. Put yourself second in line and do what's most important. You can adjust your schedule.
So, are you a peacemaker, or an agitator? Face it, you're not always right and the other person's opinion and feelings are well worth hearing. It's time to talk less, and listen more. That's a bonding moment.
Did you know that you do yourself a favor when you're kind? It's true. God is the true example of how kindness can change another person's life, and you get the benefits as well. Share a little kindness today, and see what happens.
Just a few words can damage a relationship. Your choice of words, your tone of voice can destroy goodwill. In a bad mood? Take time to visit with God. The spoken words can wait.
One word; accountability. YOU are responsible for YOU. Better choices are not easy and many make the same mistakes over and over. Is that you? Be accountable.
You can't undo a mistake, you can only learn from it. Put your ego away and let God show you how to correct it and move forward.
Making mistakes is unaviodable. Mistakes are forgivable IF they serve as a teaching moment. And yes, God does use your mistakes as teaching moments. Pay attention to His voice and learn from His wisdom and grace.
Maturity happens for most people. Teaching your children that there are consequences for bad behavior is a foundational aspect of helping them mature. Don't make excuses for them, or enable them by deflecting the truth. Help them build that bridge to maturity in a way that also builds integrity.
You've heard it; actions speak louder than words. Your behavior defines who you are, not your words. And for your kids, your behavior is being watched closely by them. Don't tell them, show them HOW life should be done.
Admit it, you have acted irresponsible from time to time. It's okay, IF you understand that accountability isn't always an easy path, but it is always necessary to build character and integrity. It's no different when dealing with your kids. Teach accountability and the rest of life will fall into place for them, in a good way.
You can yell all you want, but one thing will help your child make a change. It's called, "accountability". That one word helps a child build character and self-esteem.
What is it called? Foot in Mouth, speaking before thinking? Any way you wrap it, angry words can get you into a world of trouble. If counting to 10 doesn't work, try taking to God.
Sure, you can sidestep a mistake, but you will most likely make that mistake over and over. Accountability is a tough pill to take. But unless you take accountability for your actions and results, you will never get on a better path. You are you. You will make mistakes.
Excuses, the first line of defense for failure. Instead of opening your mouth, spend time with God and let Him chart a path that brings you to a better place. The truth always works.
Not if, but when. We all experience failure in life, sometimes more than just once. We might not be able to see a reason to get back up, but God does. Don't rely on just your feelings. Allow God to give an assist. He will do that.
Acccountability is tough. You have to look in the mirror and accept what you see. Being accountable is the pathway to integrity and healing. Not an easy task, but always necessary.
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